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DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 05:20 PM
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friends. i do not like male friends at all. what is your two cent??
[ September 16, 2003, 06:40 PM: Message edited by: DJ HUTCH ]
Terry James
09-16-2003, 05:28 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friend. i do not like male friend at all. what is your two cent?? Remember, you are the ALPHA MALE graemlins/cool_shades.gif
daniel
09-16-2003, 05:30 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friend. i do not like male friend at all. what is your two cent?? maybe they want a male friend who knows english.
Sharp Eye Washington
09-16-2003, 05:31 PM
It's all good in my book Hutch because they'll have male friends with or without your approval. If you're strong in your spot it should roll off like water. Besides think of the the females you can have as friends. Peace, I'm going home.
imported_Gman
09-16-2003, 05:32 PM
Originally posted by daniel:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friend. i do not like male friend at all. what is your two cent?? maybe they want a male friend who knows english. </font>[/QUOTE]You and DJ Hutch must be good friends ?
Terry James
09-16-2003, 05:35 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friend. i do not like male friend at all. what is your two cent?? ok, I'll be her friend....gesh... graemlins/1luvu.gif
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friend. i do not like male friend at all. what is your two cent?? Hmm ... do they want male friends after meeting you? biggrinangel.gif
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 05:42 PM
Originally posted by daniel:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friend. i do not like male friend at all. what is your two cent?? maybe they want a male friend who knows english. </font>[/QUOTE]WHO ARE YOU??
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 05:43 PM
Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friend. i do not like male friend at all. what is your two cent?? Hmm ... do they want male friends after meeting you? biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]AND WHO ARE YOU
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friends. i do not like male friends at all. what is your two cent?? Personally, I don't allow it unless they were friends to begin with and it also depends on how friendly they are. If there is any touching and any other googlie sheeyat that should only be done with your bf/husband then that sheeyat has got to go. I'm the boss! Period. graemlins/cool_shades.gif
ahahahahahaha @ who are you.
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
AND WHO ARE YOU Said in loud booming voice:
I AM THAT I AM!
http://www.redmeat.com/redmeat/images/god.gif
graemlins/rofl.gif
*****
Seriously .. let's get back to your issue ... What's up, I'm reading.
Ronnie Ron
09-16-2003, 05:48 PM
The male female friend thing is very complicated. never understood it and never tried. all i know is that i am much more attracted to a woman that has female friends..... it makes for a much more confortable relationship. Im a man and i know MEN........ graemlins/cool_shades.gif
R-R
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 05:52 PM
Originally posted by RonnieRon:
The male female friend thing is very complicated. never understood it and never tried. all i know is that i am much more attracted to a woman that has female friends..... it makes for a much more confortable relationship. Im a man and i know MEN........ graemlins/cool_shades.gif
R-R HEY RON THAT IS WHAT I TALKING ABOUT
[ September 16, 2003, 07:07 PM: Message edited by: DJ HUTCH ]
Now that was funny 6:23, that's 1 of my jokes...
...difficult, but depends on you first I'd imagine.....'they' say: You get your same potential in a mate....
Belief in The Creator, confidence, sincerity, understanding, gentleness and caution.....
Deepends on her depth too....if she's watching
a lot of TV.......you're getting played like a Yatzee I'd venture.
daniel
09-16-2003, 05:56 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by daniel:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friend. i do not like male friend at all. what is your two cent?? maybe they want a male friend who knows english. </font>[/QUOTE]WHO ARE YOU?? </font>[/QUOTE]I Am A Free Man!
http://www.netreach.net/~sixofone/card.jpg
hey man, i was only trying to help. also, if you look to my left, my name is there. that's who i am.
[ September 16, 2003, 06:58 PM: Message edited by: daniel ]
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 05:58 PM
IF YOU DO NOT KNOW ME DO NOT JOKE WITH ME
THANKS
DJ HUTCH
Originally posted by RonnieRon:
Im a man and i know MEN........ graemlins/cool_shades.gif
R-R Could it have been said any better? No. I don't think so. Someone give this man a beer. http://deephousepage.com/smilies/smokin.gif
Ronnie Ron
09-16-2003, 06:05 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by RonnieRon:
The male female friend thing is very complicated. never understood it and never tried. all i know is that i am much more attracted to a woman that has female friends..... it makes for a much more confortable relationship. Im a man and i know MEN........ graemlins/cool_shades.gif
R-R HEY RON THAT IS WHAT I TAKLING ABOUT </font>[/QUOTE]A lot of females say they cant get along with other females. i find that very interesting and and wonder why that is. Whats attractive to me is when a female talks about her girl friends and what they are gonna do and the fun they have, not the other way around.
R-R
Ronnie Ron
09-16-2003, 06:07 PM
Originally posted by Albert Diaz:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by RonnieRon:
Im a man and i know MEN........ graemlins/cool_shades.gif
R-R Could it have been said any better? No. I don't think so. Someone give this man a beer. http://deephousepage.com/smilies/smokin.gif </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/beerchug.gif graemlins/beerchug.gif graemlins/grinyes.gif
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 06:11 PM
Originally posted by RonnieRon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by RonnieRon:
The male female friend thing is very complicated. never understood it and never tried. all i know is that i am much more attracted to a woman that has female friends..... it makes for a much more confortable relationship. Im a man and i know MEN........ graemlins/cool_shades.gif
R-R HEY RON THAT IS WHAT I TAKLING ABOUT </font>[/QUOTE]A lot of females say they cant get along with other females. i find that very interesting and and wonder why that is. Whats attractive to me is when a female talks about her girl friends and what they are gonna do and the fun they have, not the other way around.
R-R </font>[/QUOTE]SO I'M NOT THE ONLY MAN THAT THINK THIS WAY THANKS RON
Originally posted by RonnieRon:
A lot of females say they cant get along with other females. i find that very interesting and and wonder why that is. I wonder about that as well. Sadly I think it has a lot to do with insecurities and getting attention from dudes. The less female friends one has the better. Shame really.
I have tons of female friends and get along well with all (sometimes I do think I have too many especially when one of them is going through an insecure phase and flexing for some dude - Yawn! )- but then again I think I get along with women 'cause I was in all girls boarding school for 6 years .. graemlins/conf44.gif
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Oh snap ... that has nothing to do with Hutch's thread.
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Oh snap, snap I don't have anything else to add to get back on topic.
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Oh snap, snap, snap ... graemlins/rofl.gif
ngeso
09-16-2003, 06:26 PM
jealousy. don't believe in it. one of my three deadly sins (the other two being greed and closedfistedness).
i'm not the jealous type, and i like to get to know my girlfriend's other 'boyfriends'. i make a point of developing good relationships with a girlfriend's ex-boyfriends as well as the new guys in the lives of my ex-girlfriends.
interestingly enough the woman i am with usually seems to turn out supremely jealous of any- and everything female around me every time. and while i used to put up with that sh*t for a long time - to the point that at one stage i was with a partner that left me with not a single however-casual female relationship of sorts - these days i make a serious issue out of keeping relationships with other women outside the relationship. i simply refuse to tolerate that kind of attitude and the limitations that come with it for me. i'm adamant in that way.
peace. ngeso.
(Im)poster
09-16-2003, 06:26 PM
Originally posted by Albert Diaz:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by RonnieRon:
Im a man and i know MEN........ graemlins/cool_shades.gif
R-R Could it have been said any better? No. I don't think so. Someone give this man a beer. http://deephousepage.com/smilies/smokin.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Well, this would presume that your woman is unable to set limits and that maybe you don't trust her in the first place. If you KNOW your mate and trust him or her, friends of the opposite sex really should not be an issue. Maybe insecurity figures into it somehow as well? That's my opinion, but I'm a woman.
don't be so insecure. you can't control what people think, feel or do.
Ronnie Ron
09-16-2003, 06:34 PM
Im reading trust,insecurity and jealousy, i dont think that has anything to do with it unless you have a controlling personality. I dont have the need to control its just my opinion that its more attractive when a woman hangs with the girls and does girly girly things. nothing to do with trust or jealousy not in my case anyway.
R-R
a woman can hang with a man and do girly girly things, just ask albert
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 06:41 PM
A WOMAN IS GOING TO DO WHAT SHE WANTS, BUT IF SHE IS MY LADY THAT MALE FRIENDS SHIT IS OUT
even if they were friends before she started dating you? how is that fair?
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 06:46 PM
FAIR, WHO CARES MALE FRIENDS IS OUT
Ronnie Ron
09-16-2003, 06:47 PM
I really dont think you can get around a female not having male friends. like some of my Male friends and there ladies i would like to say that we are friends, but not friends to where i am taking up time from there man. maybe you can call it Friendly. I have yet to have a woman come at me and explain why she digs hanging around men other than the fact that she cant get along with other woman. maybe if i here somethinng different i can dig it, but 100% of every woman that has ever explained it to me that was the motivation.
Just being real, EVERYBODY WANTS SOMETHING no matter how big or small, be it a free drink, free meal, a chance to be in the presence of a beautiful woman, hanging and having fun with false pretenses If you really dig deep and honest We all want something.
R-R
[ September 16, 2003, 07:51 PM: Message edited by: RonnieRon ]
Keith Blackstone
09-16-2003, 06:47 PM
Originally posted by mhd:
even if they were friends before she started dating you? how is that fair? good point counselor... and yah I sorta have the same comment...
1) What if they were friends before hand
2) How fair is it for you to try and control another person like that.
3) Why the distrust and jealousy?
Huey P. Freeman
09-16-2003, 06:48 PM
Who is right would depend. My girl has one male friend that she has been friends with since they both were children. I'm cool with it. But they don't hang out alone(usually myself and or his wife). And they definately are not all touchy feely. I'm not sure how it would be if he were single but it works out ok.
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
FAIR, WHO CARES MALE FRIENDS IS OUT and what do you do if she disobeys?
Bold Soul
09-16-2003, 06:52 PM
There are FRIENDS and then there are "GUYFRIENDS".
A true friend is friends with the woman AND her man. The bounds of friendship open up to accept the love of another. One of my dearest friends is a lady and now her man is one of my ace boon coons. I was happy for her when they got together and he's been a good friend.
Then there are the "GUYFRIENDS" - those limp muthafukas who act like friends but are:
1. EX-LOVERS WHO COULDN'T LET GO - these cats sit on the bench waiting for another shot but instead wind up being used by your lady for moving help, rides here and there and the general hookup of some sort. This guy will haunt your nightmares because he always gets lunch dates and hugs out in the street because she's guilty for breaking his heart. This guy will probably be fixed up with one of her girlfriends you can't stand and you'll be forced to deal with them both until they break up and he's had enough altogether.
2. PARTY CHUMS - those fifty or sixty muhfukas who have been associated with your lady in one fashion or another through the party scene. None of them know her really, but they all have her pager number. This will drive you nuts, because she'll only return the pages from "Boo" or "Joe Black" when she's spending time with you. Accidentally drop the pager in the toilet or offer to pay her bill for her and get it disconnected.
3. BENCHWARMERS - punks who, for one reason or another, couldn't get the yams but still have some ridiculous hope in scoring so they assert themselves as friends. These are the sissies with waaaaaayyyy too many jokes about you during group outings and who pops up at the wrong time. The deterrent is an ass-kickin' in the parking garage.
4. CO-WORKERS - those hapless bastards with no life who know you by all of the arguements your lady has had with you on the phone in her cubicle. They are the ones who go out to lunch with a gang of secretaries and make them all laugh. They hate their jobs and their lives and their fat wives and girlfriends and they fantasize of embezzeling the company and running off with your lady and the money. This is the guy she speaks about when she comes home from work. You don't have to worry about him - he's probably suicidal.
All of the above types of GUYFRIENDS will slowly dissipate once word spreads that she is with a true man - the cycle will complete in around twelve to eighteen months, after which she will sit around and wonder "Why don't any of my friends call me anymore."
The obvious answer being "That pussy is ON-LOCK! That's why!!!"
[ September 16, 2003, 07:55 PM: Message edited by: Bold Soul ]
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 06:52 PM
I'M OUT, NO TIME FOR CRYING
Ronnie Ron
09-16-2003, 06:52 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
I'M OUT, NO TIME FOR CRYING Dont leave HUTCH debate and also keep an open mind about things as well.
R-R
what is this touchy feely shit. tell me the men on this board don't touch or think about touching other women. you're lying if you say no. i smell a major double standard & a lot of insecurity.
Keith Blackstone
09-16-2003, 06:56 PM
Originally posted by Cosmic_Twin:
what is this touchy feely shit. tell me the men on this board don't touch or think about touching other women. you're lying if you say no. i smell a major double standard & a lot of insecurity. It's a matter of self control... which I have tons of. Do I think it, sometimes... do I act on it... not usually unless appropriate.
Originally posted by RonnieRon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
I'M OUT, NO TIME FOR CRYING Dont leave HUTCH debate and also keep an open mind about things as well.
R-R </font>[/QUOTE]i thought he was answering mhd's question. i didn't think he meant he was out of this thread but i could be wrong.
Originally posted by Bold Soul:
There are FRIENDS and then there are "GUYFRIENDS".
A true friend is friends with the woman AND her man. The bounds of friendship open up to accept the love of another. One of my dearest friends is a lady and now her man is one of my ace boon coons. I was happy for her when they got together and he's been a good friend.
Then there are the "GUYFRIENDS" - those limp muthafukas who act like friends but are:
1. EX-LOVERS WHO COULDN'T LET GO - these cats sit on the bench waiting for another shot but instead wind up being used by your lady for moving help, rides here and there and the general hookup of some sort. This guy will haunt your nightmares because he always gets lunch dates and hugs out in the street because she's guilty for breaking his heart. This guy will probably be fixed up with one of her girlfriends you can't stand and you'll be forced to deal with them both until they break up and he's had enough altogether.
2. PARTY CHUMS - those fifty or sixty muhfukas who have been associated with your lady in one fashion or another through the party scene. None of them know her really, but they all have her pager number. This will drive you nuts, because she'll only return the pages from "Boo" or "Joe Black" when she's spending time with you. Accidentally drop the pager in the toilet or offer to pay her bill for her and get it disconnected.
3. BENCHWARMERS - punks who, for one reason or another, couldn't get the yams but still have some ridiculous hope in scoring so they assert themselves as friends. These are the sissies with waaaaaayyyy too many jokes about you during group outings and who pops up at the wrong time. The deterrent is an ass-kickin' in the parking garage.
4. CO-WORKERS - those hapless bastards with no life who know you by all of the arguements your lady has had with you on the phone in her cubicle. They are the ones who go out to lunch with a gang of secretaries and make them all laugh. They hate their jobs and their lives and their fat wives and girlfriends and they fantasize of embezzeling the company and running off with your lady and the money. This is the guy she speaks about when she comes home from work. You don't have to worry about him - he's probably suicidal.
All of the above types of GUYFRIENDS will slowly dissipate once word spreads that she is with a true man - the cycle will complete in around twelve to eighteen months, after which she will sit around and wonder "Why don't any of my friends call me anymore."
The obvious answer being "That pussy is ON-LOCK! That's why!!!" another bold soul classic! hilarious, almost spilled my lemon grass chicken
Keith Blackstone
09-16-2003, 06:59 PM
If that's the case then it sounds sorta like "Hutch's way or no way"
To each his own I guess... graemlins/conf44.gif
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 07:01 PM
Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by RonnieRon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
I'M OUT, NO TIME FOR CRYING Dont leave HUTCH debate and also keep an open mind about things as well.
R-R </font>[/QUOTE]i thought he was answering mhd's question. i didn't think he meant he was out of this thread but i could be wrong. </font>[/QUOTE]YES THAT IS FOR MHD QUESTION
hutch, is your real name george bates?
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 07:03 PM
Originally posted by Keith Blackstone:
If that's the case then it sounds sorta like "Hutch's way or no way"
To each his own I guess... graemlins/conf44.gif THAT RIGHT KEITH BLACKSTONE THAT IS NOT OPEN FOR DEBATE WITH MY WIFE
Ronnie Ron
09-16-2003, 07:03 PM
Im gonna be honest as hell with everyone.
If a woman is Cute, Fine, Dope ass Body, Nice, Sexy, a good person, takes care of her business, has a GREAT conversation and is a Winner. I cant be friends with something like that because i would be to attracted to her. Saying i was a friend and ONLY a friend would be a damn lie!!!! I would be lying to her and myself, because i know what i would be thinking and thats not fair to her or me.
Keith Blackstone
09-16-2003, 07:04 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Keith Blackstone:
If that's the case then it sounds sorta like "Hutch's way or no way"
To each his own I guess... graemlins/conf44.gif THAT RIGHT KEITH BLACKSTONE THAT IS NOT OPEN FOR DEBATE WITH MY WIFE </font>[/QUOTE]Hmmm, wife changes things a tiny bit... is this a new problem???
Keith Blackstone
09-16-2003, 07:05 PM
Originally posted by RonnieRon:
Im gonna be honest as hell with everyone.
If a woman is Cute, Fine, Dope ass Body, Nice, Sexy, a good person, takes care of her business, has a GREAT conversation and is a Winner. I cant be friends with something like that because i would be to attracted to her. Saying i was a friend and ONLY a friend would be a damn lie!!!! I would be lying to her and myself, because i know what i would be thinking and thats not fair to her or me. Ronnie what if you're friends with 10 women like that... you don't think you'd eventually get used to it, and not be drooling like you were in the beginning... trust me, you get used to it man. They may be fine, but when you have 10+ others just like it... and you hang with em all the time... you get my point.
... plus I seriously need to keep quiet... posting while drinking isn't the best thing, hahahah
[ September 16, 2003, 08:06 PM: Message edited by: Keith Blackstone ]
Originally posted by mhd:
hutch, is your real name george bates? OMG! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif
and like g man said to daniel earlier, you and hutch must be good friends with a joke like that! ahahaha
Ronnie Ron
09-16-2003, 07:14 PM
Originally posted by Keith Blackstone:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by RonnieRon:
Im gonna be honest as hell with everyone.
If a woman is Cute, Fine, Dope ass Body, Nice, Sexy, a good person, takes care of her business, has a GREAT conversation and is a Winner. I cant be friends with something like that because i would be to attracted to her. Saying i was a friend and ONLY a friend would be a damn lie!!!! I would be lying to her and myself, because i know what i would be thinking and thats not fair to her or me. Ronnie what if you're friends with 10 women like that... you don't think you'd eventually get used to it, and not be drooling like you were in the beginning... trust me, you get used to it man. They may be fine, but when you have 10+ others just like it... and you hang with em all the time... you get my point.
... plus I seriously need to keep quiet... posting while drinking isn't the best thing, hahahah </font>[/QUOTE]I feel what your sayin Keith, but i think i am looking at it from a Single Males perspective. If i was hooked up with someone that fulfilled my every need and want, i doubt if i would have time for those types of ladies in my life, i would be to busy making plans with my Honey and anyother extra curicular activities i have within my own space. Dealin with that many fine women would probably cause a problem with the woman im dealing with. Women have strong insecurities hanging with together women like that would most certainly cause a problem within the relationship. just my opinion
R-R
[ September 16, 2003, 08:15 PM: Message edited by: RonnieRon ]
Huey P. Freeman
09-16-2003, 07:17 PM
Originally posted by Bold Soul:
There are FRIENDS and then there are "GUYFRIENDS".
A true friend is friends with the woman AND her man. The bounds of friendship open up to accept the love of another. One of my dearest friends is a lady and now her man is one of my ace boon coons. I was happy for her when they got together and he's been a good friend.
Then there are the "GUYFRIENDS" - those limp muthafukas who act like friends but are:
1. EX-LOVERS WHO COULDN'T LET GO - these cats sit on the bench waiting for another shot but instead wind up being used by your lady for moving help, rides here and there and the general hookup of some sort. This guy will haunt your nightmares because he always gets lunch dates and hugs out in the street because she's guilty for breaking his heart. This guy will probably be fixed up with one of her girlfriends you can't stand and you'll be forced to deal with them both until they break up and he's had enough altogether.
2. PARTY CHUMS - those fifty or sixty muhfukas who have been associated with your lady in one fashion or another through the party scene. None of them know her really, but they all have her pager number. This will drive you nuts, because she'll only return the pages from "Boo" or "Joe Black" when she's spending time with you. Accidentally drop the pager in the toilet or offer to pay her bill for her and get it disconnected.
3. BENCHWARMERS - punks who, for one reason or another, couldn't get the yams but still have some ridiculous hope in scoring so they assert themselves as friends. These are the sissies with waaaaaayyyy too many jokes about you during group outings and who pops up at the wrong time. The deterrent is an ass-kickin' in the parking garage.
4. CO-WORKERS - those hapless bastards with no life who know you by all of the arguements your lady has had with you on the phone in her cubicle. They are the ones who go out to lunch with a gang of secretaries and make them all laugh. They hate their jobs and their lives and their fat wives and girlfriends and they fantasize of embezzeling the company and running off with your lady and the money. This is the guy she speaks about when she comes home from work. You don't have to worry about him - he's probably suicidal.
All of the above types of GUYFRIENDS will slowly dissipate once word spreads that she is with a true man - the cycle will complete in around twelve to eighteen months, after which she will sit around and wonder "Why don't any of my friends call me anymore."
The obvious answer being "That pussy is ON-LOCK! That's why!!!" hail.gif
Originally posted by Keith Blackstone:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Cosmic_Twin:
what is this touchy feely shit. tell me the men on this board don't touch or think about touching other women. you're lying if you say no. i smell a major double standard & a lot of insecurity. It's a matter of self control... which I have tons of. Do I think it, sometimes... do I act on it... not usually unless appropriate. </font>[/QUOTE]at least you're honest about it.
my wife has guy friends she hangs out with. one of them was her ex. we're all buddies & hang out together. we consider them family & invite them to most of our family functions.
Originally posted by mhd:
hutch, is your real name george bates? Deduct one point for the low blow.....JMJ graemlins/nono.gif
Huey P. Freeman
09-16-2003, 07:25 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by mhd:
hutch, is your real name george bates? Deduct one point for the low blow.....JMJ graemlins/nono.gif </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/tongueout.gif
daniel
09-16-2003, 07:28 PM
Originally posted by mhd:
hutch, is your real name george bates? oh my god. mhd is now the coldest cat on the web.
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 07:35 PM
Originally posted by mhd:
hutch, is your real name george bates? WHAT IS THIS FOR, MY NAME IS DJ HUTCH AND WHO ARE YOU?
[ September 16, 2003, 08:54 PM: Message edited by: DJ HUTCH ]
man, i was hoping you would say "who are you?"
Sweetiwluv
09-16-2003, 07:37 PM
Originally posted by Cosmic_Twin:
what is this touchy feely shit. tell me the men on this board don't touch or think about touching other women. you're lying if you say no. i smell a major double standard & a lot of insecurity. Thank you very much Cosmic Twin - for you said what most were thinking and how they act - for some man - finally decided to speak out about how you wouldn't want that - but a woman has to put up with his "women friends!"
Lets face it - if you make your mate feel comfortable in the relationship that you are in you wouldn't have any problems. If you introduce your friends from the onset of your relationship/friendship to your mate - you wouldn't have anything to worry about because you have already put it out there. Now the person you are in the relationship with has the choice to stay or go after meeting your friends!
Its after the fact - that it gets crazy - bec. now you are looking for new "friends/relationships/sex whatever yo!"
graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 07:38 PM
Originally posted by Keith Blackstone:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Keith Blackstone:
If that's the case then it sounds sorta like "Hutch's way or no way"
To each his own I guess... graemlins/conf44.gif THAT RIGHT KEITH BLACKSTONE THAT IS NOT OPEN FOR DEBATE WITH MY WIFE </font>[/QUOTE]Hmmm, wife changes things a tiny bit... is this a new problem??? </font>[/QUOTE]YES,THIS IS THE PROBLEM AND I WILL BE OUT
My name is Bond..... graemlins/bolt.gif
Bold Soul
09-16-2003, 07:59 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Keith Blackstone:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Keith Blackstone:
If that's the case then it sounds sorta like "Hutch's way or no way"
To each his own I guess... graemlins/conf44.gif THAT RIGHT KEITH BLACKSTONE THAT IS NOT OPEN FOR DEBATE WITH MY WIFE </font>[/QUOTE]Hmmm, wife changes things a tiny bit... is this a new problem??? </font>[/QUOTE]YES,THIS IS THE PROBLEM AND I WILL BE OUT </font>[/QUOTE]Hutch - were I in that situation, I would communicate straight up with your wife. If you have concerns or, heaven forbid, suspicions, just ask straight questions and insist on straight answers. Don't accuse, just ask.
i like bold soul's post breaking down the guyfriends...my super-duper male homies are none of those...and you'd better believe that if they adore me as a friend, they'd love my man, too...if they don't, well, poo on them...
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 08:09 PM
[/QUOTE][/QB]Hutch - were I in that situation, I would communicate straight up with your wife. If you have concerns or, heaven forbid, suspicions, just ask straight questions and insist on straight answers. Don't accuse, just ask. [/QB][/QUOTE]
I DID THAT, THE ANSWERS IS MY FRIENDS FIRST NOT ME SO I GOT TO GO AND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARS
[ September 16, 2003, 09:11 PM: Message edited by: DJ HUTCH ]
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
Hutch - were I in that situation, I would communicate straight up with your wife. If you have concerns or, heaven forbid, suspicions, just ask straight questions and insist on straight answers. Don't accuse, just ask. [/QB][/QUOTE]
I DID THAT, THE ANSWERS IS MY FRIENDS FIRST NOT ME SO I GOT TO GO AND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARS [/QB][/QUOTE]
Why did you get married after 11 years??.....JMJ
[ September 16, 2003, 09:19 PM: Message edited by: JMJ ]
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 08:20 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
Hutch - were I in that situation, I would communicate straight up with your wife. If you have concerns or, heaven forbid, suspicions, just ask straight questions and insist on straight answers. Don't accuse, just ask. </font>[/QUOTE]I DID THAT, THE ANSWERS IS MY FRIENDS FIRST NOT ME SO I GOT TO GO AND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARS [/QB][/QUOTE]
Why did you get married after 11 years??.....JMJ [/QB][/QUOTE]WHO KNOWS?
Sweetiwluv
09-16-2003, 08:20 PM
Thats alot of history you got there - don't blow it!
Huey P. Freeman
09-16-2003, 08:21 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
Hutch - were I in that situation, I would communicate straight up with your wife. If you have concerns or, heaven forbid, suspicions, just ask straight questions and insist on straight answers. Don't accuse, just ask. [/QB][/QUOTE]
I DID THAT, THE ANSWERS IS MY FRIENDS FIRST NOT ME SO I GOT TO GO AND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARS [/QB][/QUOTE]
Man I'm sorry to hear that bro. 12 years is a long time. Hopefully you will find someone who will put you first.
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
Hutch - were I in that situation, I would communicate straight up with your wife. If you have concerns or, heaven forbid, suspicions, just ask straight questions and insist on straight answers. Don't accuse, just ask. </font>[/QUOTE]I DID THAT, THE ANSWERS IS MY FRIENDS FIRST NOT ME SO I GOT TO GO AND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARS </font>[/QUOTE]Why did you get married after 11 years??.....JMJ [/QB][/QUOTE]WHO KNOWS? [/QB][/QUOTE]
You know. Now answer the question honestly. I'm guessing this problem DIDN'T exist before you got married??.....JMJ
Bold Soul
09-16-2003, 08:30 PM
Are you certain that's her answer, or are you hearing it that way?
Many times people communicate just to have an effect on the other. Things said out of spite/anger/frustration are loud but the WANT behind the words is silent. You have to listen compassionately in order to hear it. No one is going to open up if they think they're going to be judged.
I understand your point of view (truly), but she has been in your life twelve years. Just open up, be a bit more vulnerable and don't expect the end result to be "I'm giving up everything for you, Hutch."
Just seek to understand before you make your judgement.
[ September 16, 2003, 09:32 PM: Message edited by: Bold Soul ]
Sweetiwluv
09-16-2003, 08:36 PM
BEAUTIFULLY SAID!
DJ Hutch
09-16-2003, 08:40 PM
Originally posted by Bold Soul:
Are you certain that's her answer, or are you hearing it that way?
Many times people communicate just to have an effect on the other. Things said out of spite/anger/frustration are loud but the WANT behind the words is silent. You have to listen compassionately in order to hear it. No one is going to open up if they think they're going to be judged.
I understand your point of view (truly), but she has been in your life twelve years. Just open up, be a bit more vulnerable and don't expect the end result to be "I'm giving up everything for you, Hutch."
Just seek to understand before you make your judgement. WHAT IS IT TO UNDERSTAND SHE DO NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH ME GOING AND I DO NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH GOING TOO.
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
Are you certain that's her answer, or are you hearing it that way?
Many times people communicate just to have an effect on the other. Things said out of spite/anger/frustration are loud but the WANT behind the words is silent. You have to listen compassionately in order to hear it. No one is going to open up if they think they're going to be judged.
I understand your point of view (truly), but she has been in your life twelve years. Just open up, be a bit more vulnerable and don't expect the end result to be "I'm giving up everything for you, Hutch."
Just seek to understand before you make your judgement. WHAT IS IT TO UNDERSTAND SHE DO NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH ME GOING AND I DO NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH GOING TOO. </font>[/QUOTE]so you said, i'm outta here and you were expecting her to stop you and since she didn't, you are willing to throw it all away?
Sweetiwluv
09-16-2003, 08:43 PM
THE PROBLEM WOULD BE THAT WE DO THINGS AS WELL AS SAY THINGS IN HASTE (THATS IS WHAT BOLD SOUL IS SAYING) WE SAY THINGS KNOWING THAT IT WILL HIT YOU RIGHT IN THAT SPOT - THE PISSED OFF SPOT!
DOESN'T NECESSARILY MEAN THAT - THAT IS WHAT I FEEL ITS JUST THAT IS HOW I CAN GET YOU TO THAT POINT!
DON'T EVER ALLOW SOMEONE TO GET YOU TO THAT POINT - TAKE A BREAK BREATHE AND THEN GO BACK AND DISCUSS!
Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
Hutch - were I in that situation, I would communicate straight up with your wife. If you have concerns or, heaven forbid, suspicions, just ask straight questions and insist on straight answers. Don't accuse, just ask. </font>[/QUOTE]I DID THAT, THE ANSWERS IS MY FRIENDS FIRST NOT ME SO I GOT TO GO AND WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARS </font>[/QUOTE]Why did you get married after 11 years??.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]WHO KNOWS? [/QB][/QUOTE]
You know. Now answer the question honestly. I'm guessing this problem DIDN'T exist before you got married??.....JMJ [/QB][/QUOTE]
Thanks for ignoring my question. It's no wonder........JMJ graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
Are you certain that's her answer, or are you hearing it that way?
Many times people communicate just to have an effect on the other. Things said out of spite/anger/frustration are loud but the WANT behind the words is silent. You have to listen compassionately in order to hear it. No one is going to open up if they think they're going to be judged.
I understand your point of view (truly), but she has been in your life twelve years. Just open up, be a bit more vulnerable and don't expect the end result to be "I'm giving up everything for you, Hutch."
Just seek to understand before you make your judgement. WHAT IS IT TO UNDERSTAND SHE DO NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH ME GOING AND I DO NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH GOING TOO. </font>[/QUOTE]well there it is, no problems, congrats to the happy couple, you never had a chance dude
Originally posted by Sweetiwluv:
THE PROBLEM WOULD BE THAT WE DO THINGS AS WELL AS SAY THINGS IN HASTE (THATS IS WHAT BOLD SOUL IS SAYING) WE SAY THINGS KNOWING THAT IT WILL HIT YOU RIGHT IN THAT SPOT - THE PISSED OFF SPOT!
DOESN'T NECESSARILY MEAN THAT - THAT IS WHAT I FEEL ITS JUST THAT IS HOW I CAN GET YOU TO THAT POINT!
DON'T EVER ALLOW SOMEONE TO GET YOU TO THAT POINT - TAKE A BREAK BREATHE AND THEN GO BACK AND DISCUSS! in other words she may be testing your love, your devotion to her. of course she's going to agree with you when you threaten her to leave. what do you expect her to say. there's obviously more to this than you're willing to share.
do you have any children?
Sweetiwluv
09-16-2003, 09:28 PM
Yo, Cosmic Twin can't wait to meet you - when either DJ EARON come there (waiting for that invite) or you come here for Deliverance!
Great minds ask the right questions!
Originally posted by Bold Soul:
There are FRIENDS and then there are "GUYFRIENDS".
A true friend is friends with the woman AND her man. The bounds of friendship open up to accept the love of another. One of my dearest friends is a lady and now her man is one of my ace boon coons. I was happy for her when they got together and he's been a good friend.
Then there are the "GUYFRIENDS" - those limp muthafukas who act like friends but are:
1. EX-LOVERS WHO COULDN'T LET GO - these cats sit on the bench waiting for another shot but instead wind up being used by your lady for moving help, rides here and there and the general hookup of some sort. This guy will haunt your nightmares because he always gets lunch dates and hugs out in the street because she's guilty for breaking his heart. This guy will probably be fixed up with one of her girlfriends you can't stand and you'll be forced to deal with them both until they break up and he's had enough altogether.
2. PARTY CHUMS - those fifty or sixty muhfukas who have been associated with your lady in one fashion or another through the party scene. None of them know her really, but they all have her pager number. This will drive you nuts, because she'll only return the pages from "Boo" or "Joe Black" when she's spending time with you. Accidentally drop the pager in the toilet or offer to pay her bill for her and get it disconnected.
3. BENCHWARMERS - punks who, for one reason or another, couldn't get the yams but still have some ridiculous hope in scoring so they assert themselves as friends. These are the sissies with waaaaaayyyy too many jokes about you during group outings and who pops up at the wrong time. The deterrent is an ass-kickin' in the parking garage.
4. CO-WORKERS - those hapless bastards with no life who know you by all of the arguements your lady has had with you on the phone in her cubicle. They are the ones who go out to lunch with a gang of secretaries and make them all laugh. They hate their jobs and their lives and their fat wives and girlfriends and they fantasize of embezzeling the company and running off with your lady and the money. This is the guy she speaks about when she comes home from work. You don't have to worry about him - he's probably suicidal.
All of the above types of GUYFRIENDS will slowly dissipate once word spreads that she is with a true man - the cycle will complete in around twelve to eighteen months, after which she will sit around and wonder "Why don't any of my friends call me anymore."
The obvious answer being "That pussy is ON-LOCK! That's why!!!" Hail da phuck yeah!! graemlins/grinyes.gif Break it down for 'em Bold!! http://deephousepage.com/smilies/clap.gif When I was married I was sick to death of all the hard-up ass mofos always sniffin' behind my wife. Usually some wannabe player at her job, which by the way was K-Mart! How can you be a playa makin' minimum wage at K-Mart?!? WTF!! Hearing about all their lame-ass come-ons used to get so gotdamn OLD !! Got to the point where I had to tell her that I didn't wanna hear not one more phuckin' story of some guy sweatin' her for the punanny! mad1.gif
And we wonder why the average Joe doesn't want his lady to have male friends?!? Every time a topic like this comes up, someone always has to throw that very much overused word "insecure" in the mix!! AR15firing.gif Why would any guy in his right mind allow his woman to spend "quality" time with another dude?!? Then when we see these fools on the talk shows and their girl is tellin' them, I've been with your best friend, brother, cousin, uncle, father etc, we act all shocked and surprised!! This is the result of naivete and blind faith! Should we not mete out trust with a touch of caution and awareness and perception?
Truth is, its very unwise to trust your better half around a person of the opposite sex... You may have faith in your partner, but how the heck do you know what that other person's REAL agenda is?!? Many guys are friggin' hard-dick, horny-ass, consciousless creeps and the only women they wouldn't lay pipe to are their mothers or sisters!! (Yeah, I said it!) Can we stop slinging the "insecure" label? Is it not understandable that someone may just want to protect what's theirs?
I'm gonna get in trouble for this but, before you've settled down with one person, why not be sure they will meet all your needs? Then there'd be no need for intimate relationships with "friends" of the opposite sex! :rolleyes:
-HML
PS - I never had any female friends when I was married or living with someone...
[ September 16, 2003, 11:29 PM: Message edited by: HML ]
Discogoddess
09-16-2003, 09:58 PM
Originally posted by Bold Soul:
There are FRIENDS and then there are "GUYFRIENDS".
A true friend is friends with the woman AND her man. The bounds of friendship open up to accept the love of another. One of my dearest friends is a lady and now her man is one of my ace boon coons. I was happy for her when they got together and he's been a good friend.
Then there are the "GUYFRIENDS" - those limp muthafukas who act like friends but are:
1. EX-LOVERS WHO COULDN'T LET GO - these cats sit on the bench waiting for another shot but instead wind up being used by your lady for moving help, rides here and there and the general hookup of some sort. This guy will haunt your nightmares because he always gets lunch dates and hugs out in the street because she's guilty for breaking his heart. This guy will probably be fixed up with one of her girlfriends you can't stand and you'll be forced to deal with them both until they break up and he's had enough altogether.
2. PARTY CHUMS - those fifty or sixty muhfukas who have been associated with your lady in one fashion or another through the party scene. None of them know her really, but they all have her pager number. This will drive you nuts, because she'll only return the pages from "Boo" or "Joe Black" when she's spending time with you. Accidentally drop the pager in the toilet or offer to pay her bill for her and get it disconnected.
3. BENCHWARMERS - punks who, for one reason or another, couldn't get the yams but still have some ridiculous hope in scoring so they assert themselves as friends. These are the sissies with waaaaaayyyy too many jokes about you during group outings and who pops up at the wrong time. The deterrent is an ass-kickin' in the parking garage.
4. CO-WORKERS - those hapless bastards with no life who know you by all of the arguements your lady has had with you on the phone in her cubicle. They are the ones who go out to lunch with a gang of secretaries and make them all laugh. They hate their jobs and their lives and their fat wives and girlfriends and they fantasize of embezzeling the company and running off with your lady and the money. This is the guy she speaks about when she comes home from work. You don't have to worry about him - he's probably suicidal.
All of the above types of GUYFRIENDS will slowly dissipate once word spreads that she is with a true man - the cycle will complete in around twelve to eighteen months, after which she will sit around and wonder "Why don't any of my friends call me anymore."
The obvious answer being "That pussy is ON-LOCK! That's why!!!" OMG this is CLASSIC isht right here! I'm guilty of having party chums a' plenty. Off to share this with the hubby... ;) ;) :D icon_rofl.gif
Originally posted by daniel:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by mhd:
hutch, is your real name george bates? oh my god. mhd is now the coldest cat on the web. </font>[/QUOTE]I second that!! Brrrr!!! Feels like winter in these here parts!! Sorry for laughing at this one, but it was a really nice jab...
-HML
Discogoddess
09-16-2003, 10:11 PM
Originally posted by HML:
...And we wonder why the average Joe doesn't want his lady to have male friends?!? Every time a topic like this comes up, someone always has to throw that very much overused word "insecure" in the mix!! AR15firing.gif Why would any guy in his right mind allow his woman to spend "quality" time with another dude?!? Then when we see these fools on the talk shows and their girl is tellin' them, I've been with your best friend, brother, cousin, uncle, father etc, we act all shocked and surprised!! This is the result of naivete and blind faith! Should we not mete out trust with a touch of caution and awareness and perception?
Truth is, its very unwise to trust your better half around a person of the opposite sex... You may have faith in your partner, but how the heck do you know what that other person's REAL agenda is?!? Many guys are friggin' hard-dick, horny-ass, consciousless creeps and the only women they wouldn't lay pipe to are their mothers or sisters!! (Yeah, I said it!) Can we stop slinging the "insecure" label? Is it not understandable that someone may just want to protect what's theirs?
I'm gonna get in trouble for this but, before you've settled down with one person, why not be sure they will meet all your needs? Then there'd be no need for intimate relationships with "friends" of the opposite sex! :rolleyes:
-HML
PS - I never had any female friends when I was married or living with someone... Come on now! If folk want to step out on the relationship, they will do so, with or without the sanctioned opposite-sex friendships (OSFs). People are going to do what (and who) they want to, and there's not one single, solitary thing you can do about it. Oh sure, you can get your panties up in a bunch, "lay down the law" and show them who's "boss" by forbidding or limiting said OSFs, but really, that serves no purpose other than to communicate your distrust of your mate.
Yes, most women KNOW and understand that some, if not many, of our male acquaintances and friends want to fucc us (or have wanted to, at some time). But, WE decide whether the booty switch is flipped on or off, not them. So, if your mate has even one ounce of self-control, respect for herself and you and concern about your well-being, she will keep the hounds at bay. You sweatin her to sever the ties with these men won't do anything but ultimately drive her away. Oh, and the above goes for men with women friends, too.
On the other hand, if you know your mate is all scary about the OSFs, then you have to step back and decide if perhaps you can't adjust your life to reassure them. Maybe don't hang with your OSFs so much, or have them call your cell phone, not the house. Better yet, invite them to get to know your mate. At the end of the day, though, it's not about the OSFs, it usually about something going on in the relationship itself.
[ September 16, 2003, 11:13 PM: Message edited by: Discogoddess ]
Originally posted by Discogoddess:
Come on now! If folk want to step out on the relationship, they will do so, with or without the sanctioned opposite-sex friendships (OSFs). People are going to do what (and who) they want to, and there's not one single, solitary thing you can do about it. Oh sure, you can get your panties up in a bunch, "lay down the law" and show them who's "boss" by forbidding or limiting said OSFs, but really, that serves no purpose other than to communicate your distrust of your mate.
Yes, most women KNOW and understand that some, if not many, of our male acquaintances and friends want to fucc us (or have wanted to, at some time). But, WE decide whether the booty switch is flipped on or off, not them. So, if your mate has even one ounce of self-control, respect for herself and you and concern about your well-being, she will keep the hounds at bay. You sweatin her to sever the ties with these men won't do anything but ultimately drive her away. Oh, and the above goes for men with women friends, too.
On the other hand, if you know your mate is all scary about the OSFs, then you have to step back and decide if perhaps you can't adjust your life to reassure them. Maybe don't hang with your OSFs so much, or have them call your cell phone, not the house. Better yet, invite them to get to know your mate. At the end of the day, though, it's not about the OSFs, it usually about something going on in the relationship itself. I hear you Discogoddess. In response, I have two simple questions... Isn't it unreasonable to expect a guy to be alright with his lady hanging around someone who's flat-out trying to enter the panty zone? Isn't it a bit ridiculous to not realize the anxiety this would cause?
-HML
Originally posted by HML:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
There are FRIENDS and then there are "GUYFRIENDS".
A true friend is friends with the woman AND her man. The bounds of friendship open up to accept the love of another. One of my dearest friends is a lady and now her man is one of my ace boon coons. I was happy for her when they got together and he's been a good friend.
Then there are the "GUYFRIENDS" - those limp muthafukas who act like friends but are:
1. EX-LOVERS WHO COULDN'T LET GO - these cats sit on the bench waiting for another shot but instead wind up being used by your lady for moving help, rides here and there and the general hookup of some sort. This guy will haunt your nightmares because he always gets lunch dates and hugs out in the street because she's guilty for breaking his heart. This guy will probably be fixed up with one of her girlfriends you can't stand and you'll be forced to deal with them both until they break up and he's had enough altogether.
2. PARTY CHUMS - those fifty or sixty muhfukas who have been associated with your lady in one fashion or another through the party scene. None of them know her really, but they all have her pager number. This will drive you nuts, because she'll only return the pages from "Boo" or "Joe Black" when she's spending time with you. Accidentally drop the pager in the toilet or offer to pay her bill for her and get it disconnected.
3. BENCHWARMERS - punks who, for one reason or another, couldn't get the yams but still have some ridiculous hope in scoring so they assert themselves as friends. These are the sissies with waaaaaayyyy too many jokes about you during group outings and who pops up at the wrong time. The deterrent is an ass-kickin' in the parking garage.
4. CO-WORKERS - those hapless bastards with no life who know you by all of the arguements your lady has had with you on the phone in her cubicle. They are the ones who go out to lunch with a gang of secretaries and make them all laugh. They hate their jobs and their lives and their fat wives and girlfriends and they fantasize of embezzeling the company and running off with your lady and the money. This is the guy she speaks about when she comes home from work. You don't have to worry about him - he's probably suicidal.
All of the above types of GUYFRIENDS will slowly dissipate once word spreads that she is with a true man - the cycle will complete in around twelve to eighteen months, after which she will sit around and wonder "Why don't any of my friends call me anymore."
The obvious answer being "That pussy is ON-LOCK! That's why!!!" Hail da phuck yeah!! graemlins/grinyes.gif Break it down for 'em Bold!! http://deephousepage.com/smilies/clap.gif When I was married I was sick to death of all the hard-up ass mofos always sniffin' behind my wife. Usually some wannabe player at her job, which by the way was K-Mart! How can you be a playa makin' minimum wage at K-Mart?!? WTF!! Hearing about all their lame-ass come-ons used to get so gotdamn OLD !! Got to the point where I had to tell her that I didn't wanna here not one more phuckin' story of some guy sweatin' her for the punanny! mad1.gif
And we wonder why the average Joe doesn't want his lady to have male friends?!? Every time a topic like this comes up, someone always has to throw that very much overused word "insecure" in the mix!! AR15firing.gif Why would any guy in his right mind allow his woman to spend "quality" time with another dude?!? Then when we see these fools on the talk shows and their girl is tellin' them, I've been with your best friend, brother, cousin, uncle, father etc, we act all shocked and surprised!! This is the result of naivete and blind faith! Should we not mete out trust with a touch of caution and awareness and perception?
Truth is, its very unwise to trust your better half around a person of the opposite sex... You may have faith in your partner, but how the heck do you know what that other person's REAL agenda is?!? Many guys are friggin' hard-dick, horny-ass, consciousless creeps and the only women they wouldn't lay pipe to are their mothers or sisters!! (Yeah, I said it!) Can we stop slinging the "insecure" label? Is it not understandable that someone may just want to protect what's theirs?
I'm gonna get in trouble for this but, before you've settled down with one person, why not be sure they will meet all your needs? Then there'd be no need for intimate relationships with "friends" of the opposite sex! :rolleyes:
-HML
PS - I never had any female friends when I was married or living with someone... </font>[/QUOTE]What you fail to realize is that WOMEN control the pussy. WOMEN also control the dick, whether we like it or not. Most men either don't understand this, or are in denial. We (MEN) don't control shit. Sad but true. If your woman wants to have male friends, then that's the way it's gonna be, like it or not. The smart man will go along with her wishes, because again, she controls the pussy, and fighting her means you won't be getting any. A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex. Leaving your fragile ego at the door and learning to communicate can prevent this from happening. The caveman approach just doesn't work these days. Unfortunately for us, it's a woman's world. Play smart......JMJ ;)
Discogoddess
09-16-2003, 10:43 PM
Originally posted by HML:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Discogoddess:
Come on now! If folk want to step out on the relationship, they will do so, with or without the sanctioned opposite-sex friendships (OSFs). People are going to do what (and who) they want to, and there's not one single, solitary thing you can do about it. Oh sure, you can get your panties up in a bunch, "lay down the law" and show them who's "boss" by forbidding or limiting said OSFs, but really, that serves no purpose other than to communicate your distrust of your mate.
Yes, most women KNOW and understand that some, if not many, of our male acquaintances and friends want to fucc us (or have wanted to, at some time). But, WE decide whether the booty switch is flipped on or off, not them. So, if your mate has even one ounce of self-control, respect for herself and you and concern about your well-being, she will keep the hounds at bay. You sweatin her to sever the ties with these men won't do anything but ultimately drive her away. Oh, and the above goes for men with women friends, too.
On the other hand, if you know your mate is all scary about the OSFs, then you have to step back and decide if perhaps you can't adjust your life to reassure them. Maybe don't hang with your OSFs so much, or have them call your cell phone, not the house. Better yet, invite them to get to know your mate. At the end of the day, though, it's not about the OSFs, it usually about something going on in the relationship itself. I hear you Discogoddess. In response, I have two simple questions... Isn't it unreasonable to expect a guy to be alright with his lady hanging around someone who's flat-out trying to enter the panty zone? Isn't it a bit ridiculous to not realize the anxiety this would cause?
-HML </font>[/QUOTE]Thanks for hearing me, HML. To answer your questions: 1.) I think that a man who is with a woman who has settled down with him should understand that IF she wanted someone else to hit it (especially men she knew B4 you), she would have let that happen by now. No, you can't control the future, or her actions, so I would suggest enjoying the ride and kissing that isht up to God re: the male friends trying to be on the team.
2.) I understand that there may be anxiety caused, which I thought I spoke to in the last paragraph of my previous message. There is a balance that each couple has to find for THEMSELVES re: anxiety vs. individuality and trust.
Discogoddess
09-16-2003, 10:46 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
...A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex... Amannn, amannn and amannnnnnnnnn again! Why do we cling to this notion that ONE person in the entire universe can and will give us every single thing re: human contact/relationships? I personally think we find bits and pieces of what we need in all kinds of relationships, from our girl/guyfriends to colleagues to the dry cleaner. Our mate is our touchstone, our primary source of love, etc., but they are not, not should they be, the ONLY source. Sets up all kinds of clingyness, power and control issues, IMHO.
Bold Soul
09-16-2003, 11:06 PM
Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
...A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex... Amannn, amannn and amannnnnnnnnn again! Why do we cling to this notion that ONE person in the entire universe can and will give us every single thing re: human contact/relationships? I personally think we find bits and pieces of what we need in all kinds of relationships, from our girl/guyfriends to colleagues to the dry cleaner. Our mate is our touchstone, our primary source of love, etc., but they are not, not should they be, the ONLY source. Sets up all kinds of clingyness, power and control issues, IMHO. </font>[/QUOTE]Now that's classic.
Might I add that there isn't necessarily anything lacking in the relationship when this occurs. It is just human nature. Those who are wise enough to be open to value from all sources are going to be better off, and so will their relationships.
But, might I also add - most muthafukas ain't deep enough to make these types of considerations and therefore IT'S BACK TO THE GUYFRIEND GUIDE!
[ September 17, 2003, 12:10 AM: Message edited by: Bold Soul ]
Discogoddess
09-16-2003, 11:11 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
...A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex...JMJ ;) You know I love you, JMJ, but I havta do this, for all those you've corrected on the DHP before...
It should be "A married woman who seeks male friends..."
;)
Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
...A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex...JMJ ;) You know I love you, JMJ, but I havta do this, for all those you've corrected on the DHP before...
It should be "A married woman who seeks male friends..."
;) </font>[/QUOTE]Suit yourself......JMJ graemlins/sleep2.gif
Discogoddess
09-16-2003, 11:22 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
...A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex...JMJ ;) You know I love you, JMJ, but I havta do this, for all those you've corrected on the DHP before...
It should be "A married woman who seeks male friends..."
;) </font>[/QUOTE]Suit yourself......JMJ graemlins/sleep2.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Ummm, is "Suit yourself" French for: "You're right, Discogoddess"? En anglais, svp...
Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
...A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex...JMJ ;) You know I love you, JMJ, but I havta do this, for all those you've corrected on the DHP before...
It should be "A married woman who seeks male friends..."
;) </font>[/QUOTE]Suit yourself......JMJ graemlins/sleep2.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Ummm, is "Suit yourself" French for: "You're right, Discogoddess"? En anglais, svp... </font>[/QUOTE]It's actually Amish Secret Code for "Kiss My Ass". Just kidding. It's tired and I'm late, so it's time for me to get some sleep. Good night....JMJ graemlins/remybussi.gif
Querck
09-16-2003, 11:59 PM
You are not right! Let people have their friends for God's sake! Why do people feel like they need to control everything? If you even question this then you are not in the right relationship!
Huey P. Freeman
09-17-2003, 08:33 AM
Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by HML:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
There are FRIENDS and then there are "GUYFRIENDS".
A true friend is friends with the woman AND her man. The bounds of friendship open up to accept the love of another. One of my dearest friends is a lady and now her man is one of my ace boon coons. I was happy for her when they got together and he's been a good friend.
Then there are the "GUYFRIENDS" - those limp muthafukas who act like friends but are:
1. EX-LOVERS WHO COULDN'T LET GO - these cats sit on the bench waiting for another shot but instead wind up being used by your lady for moving help, rides here and there and the general hookup of some sort. This guy will haunt your nightmares because he always gets lunch dates and hugs out in the street because she's guilty for breaking his heart. This guy will probably be fixed up with one of her girlfriends you can't stand and you'll be forced to deal with them both until they break up and he's had enough altogether.
2. PARTY CHUMS - those fifty or sixty muhfukas who have been associated with your lady in one fashion or another through the party scene. None of them know her really, but they all have her pager number. This will drive you nuts, because she'll only return the pages from "Boo" or "Joe Black" when she's spending time with you. Accidentally drop the pager in the toilet or offer to pay her bill for her and get it disconnected.
3. BENCHWARMERS - punks who, for one reason or another, couldn't get the yams but still have some ridiculous hope in scoring so they assert themselves as friends. These are the sissies with waaaaaayyyy too many jokes about you during group outings and who pops up at the wrong time. The deterrent is an ass-kickin' in the parking garage.
4. CO-WORKERS - those hapless bastards with no life who know you by all of the arguements your lady has had with you on the phone in her cubicle. They are the ones who go out to lunch with a gang of secretaries and make them all laugh. They hate their jobs and their lives and their fat wives and girlfriends and they fantasize of embezzeling the company and running off with your lady and the money. This is the guy she speaks about when she comes home from work. You don't have to worry about him - he's probably suicidal.
All of the above types of GUYFRIENDS will slowly dissipate once word spreads that she is with a true man - the cycle will complete in around twelve to eighteen months, after which she will sit around and wonder "Why don't any of my friends call me anymore."
The obvious answer being "That pussy is ON-LOCK! That's why!!!" Hail da phuck yeah!! graemlins/grinyes.gif Break it down for 'em Bold!! http://deephousepage.com/smilies/clap.gif When I was married I was sick to death of all the hard-up ass mofos always sniffin' behind my wife. Usually some wannabe player at her job, which by the way was K-Mart! How can you be a playa makin' minimum wage at K-Mart?!? WTF!! Hearing about all their lame-ass come-ons used to get so gotdamn OLD !! Got to the point where I had to tell her that I didn't wanna here not one more phuckin' story of some guy sweatin' her for the punanny! mad1.gif
And we wonder why the average Joe doesn't want his lady to have male friends?!? Every time a topic like this comes up, someone always has to throw that very much overused word "insecure" in the mix!! AR15firing.gif Why would any guy in his right mind allow his woman to spend "quality" time with another dude?!? Then when we see these fools on the talk shows and their girl is tellin' them, I've been with your best friend, brother, cousin, uncle, father etc, we act all shocked and surprised!! This is the result of naivete and blind faith! Should we not mete out trust with a touch of caution and awareness and perception?
Truth is, its very unwise to trust your better half around a person of the opposite sex... You may have faith in your partner, but how the heck do you know what that other person's REAL agenda is?!? Many guys are friggin' hard-dick, horny-ass, consciousless creeps and the only women they wouldn't lay pipe to are their mothers or sisters!! (Yeah, I said it!) Can we stop slinging the "insecure" label? Is it not understandable that someone may just want to protect what's theirs?
I'm gonna get in trouble for this but, before you've settled down with one person, why not be sure they will meet all your needs? Then there'd be no need for intimate relationships with "friends" of the opposite sex! :rolleyes:
-HML
PS - I never had any female friends when I was married or living with someone... </font>[/QUOTE]What you fail to realize is that WOMEN control the pussy. WOMEN also control the dick, whether we like it or not. Most men either don't understand this, or are in denial. We (MEN) don't control shit. Sad but true. If your woman wants to have male friends, then that's the way it's gonna be, like it or not. The smart man will go along with her wishes, because again, she controls the pussy, and fighting her means you won't be getting any. A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex. Leaving your fragile ego at the door and learning to communicate can prevent this from happening. The caveman approach just doesn't work these days. Unfortunately for us, it's a woman's world. Play smart......JMJ ;) </font>[/QUOTE]Very true hail.gif
Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by mhd:
hutch, is your real name george bates? OMG! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif
and like g man said to daniel earlier, you and hutch must be good friends with a joke like that! ahahaha </font>[/QUOTE]I get it too. icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif
Bill Blake
09-17-2003, 08:45 AM
Dude if your blirting all your personal info about your relationship on the web Id say she needs more than just guy 'friends'.
D J 1 3 8
09-17-2003, 08:49 AM
HULK SMASH PUNY HUMAN
Brut by Faberge
09-17-2003, 08:57 AM
Originally posted by DJ 138:
HULK SMASH PUNY HUMAN icon_rofl.gif can i just take a moment to laugh my ass off at the off-color comments/jabs from mhd, 138, and daniel? graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
okay i'm done. no offense to anyone, but that shiz was funny.
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 09:04 AM
Originally posted by DJ 138:
HULK SMASH PUNY HUMAN bwaaaahahahahahahaha...that's the funniest thing you posted...I can't stop laughing.....all I can think of is HULK/HUTCH taking one of those giant leaps, with his turntable under his armpits, after the spat with lady....hahahahahahahahaha....
Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand
09-17-2003, 09:06 AM
Having friends of the opposite sex is okay, your sig other or spouse should know about them. It's almost impossible to have many male friends that don't have a motive in mind. But I have friends that I grew up with and hang out with my hubby. I don't do much hanging out with the male friends alone because I have a husband to hang out with. When we do things, I invite the friends and the wives (girlfriends). As far as going out with them well, I don't know. My hubby has a female friend that he goes out with mainly because I can't right now and kind of lost interest in the party scene. There are other things I like to do but I am not comfortable going out with other men friends. That is why I have a husband, I make him do the stuff I like or we'll stay home and listen to me gripe. graemlins/rofl.gif
Originally posted by THX-1138:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ 138:
HULK SMASH PUNY HUMAN icon_rofl.gif can i just take a moment to laugh my ass off at the off-color comments/jabs from mhd, 138, and daniel? graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
okay i'm done. no offense to anyone, but that shiz was funny. </font>[/QUOTE]all 3 of them killed me on this thread too.
Sharp Eye Washington
09-17-2003, 09:12 AM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ 138:
HULK SMASH PUNY HUMAN bwaaaahahahahahahaha...that's the funniest thing you posted...I can't stop laughing.....all I can think of is HULK/HUTCH taking one of those giant leaps, with his turntable under his armpits, after the spat with lady....hahahahahahahahaha.... </font>[/QUOTE]icon_rofl.gif
HUTCH,
A little late into this but
So while you weren't married it was ok for her to have male friends but now that you are.. its not acceptable??
[ September 17, 2003, 10:20 AM: Message edited by: MYOR ]
Sharp Eye Washington
09-17-2003, 09:27 AM
http://www.2002ties.com/ties/super-heroes/hulk-blue.jpg
DON"T HURT ANYONE!
Originally posted by MYOR:
HUTCH,
A little late into this but
So while you weren't married it was ok for her to have male friends but now that you are.. its not acceptable?? I bet that's not it. The problem that most folks don't realize is that being married to someone is totally, completely, absolutely different than dating that same person.
He's only been married for year. There is a lot of work to be done my friend. Sounds more to me like a pwoer struggle is going on.
But who's to say? We are only outsiders hearing his side of things. After all, there's his version, her version, and then there's the truth.
Peace
TAC
Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
HUTCH,
A little late into this but
So while you weren't married it was ok for her to have male friends but now that you are.. its not acceptable?? I bet that's not it. The problem that most folks don't realize is that being married to someone is totally, completely, absolutely different than dating that same person.
He's only been married for year. There is a lot of work to be done my friend. Sounds more to me like a pwoer struggle is going on.
But who's to say? We are only outsiders hearing his side of things. After all, there's his version, her version, and then there's the truth.
Peace
TAC </font>[/QUOTE]
WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARSHe has been together w/her for 12 years... I don't see why the rules should change now because they are married... If I'm reading correctly the only difference now is a piece of papper..
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 09:39 AM
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
HUTCH,
A little late into this but
So while you weren't married it was ok for her to have male friends but now that you are.. its not acceptable?? I bet that's not it. The problem that most folks don't realize is that being married to someone is totally, completely, absolutely different than dating that same person.
He's only been married for year. There is a lot of work to be done my friend. Sounds more to me like a pwoer struggle is going on.
But who's to say? We are only outsiders hearing his side of things. After all, there's his version, her version, and then there's the truth.
Peace
TAC </font>[/QUOTE]
WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARSHe has been together w/her for 12 years... I don't see why the rules should change now because they are married... If I'm reading correctly the only difference now is a piece of papper.. </font>[/QUOTE]you must not be married(if you are, sorry for the comment).....TAC is right, it is a different mindset....at least for the men.
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
HUTCH,
A little late into this but
So while you weren't married it was ok for her to have male friends but now that you are.. its not acceptable?? I bet that's not it. The problem that most folks don't realize is that being married to someone is totally, completely, absolutely different than dating that same person.
He's only been married for year. There is a lot of work to be done my friend. Sounds more to me like a pwoer struggle is going on.
But who's to say? We are only outsiders hearing his side of things. After all, there's his version, her version, and then there's the truth.
Peace
TAC </font>[/QUOTE]
WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARSHe has been together w/her for 12 years... I don't see why the rules should change now because they are married... If I'm reading correctly the only difference now is a piece of papper.. </font>[/QUOTE]A few words...
Expectations
Dissapointment
Anger
Resentment
These are the differences.
In fact I'll use one word: EXPECTATIONS.
We can start from there. I respectfully disagree Ray, the change in mind set applies to both sides.
Peace
TAC
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
HUTCH,
A little late into this but
So while you weren't married it was ok for her to have male friends but now that you are.. its not acceptable?? I bet that's not it. The problem that most folks don't realize is that being married to someone is totally, completely, absolutely different than dating that same person.
He's only been married for year. There is a lot of work to be done my friend. Sounds more to me like a pwoer struggle is going on.
But who's to say? We are only outsiders hearing his side of things. After all, there's his version, her version, and then there's the truth.
Peace
TAC </font>[/QUOTE]
WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 12 YEARS MARRIED FOR ONE OF THE 12YEARSHe has been together w/her for 12 years... I don't see why the rules should change now because they are married... If I'm reading correctly the only difference now is a piece of papper.. </font>[/QUOTE]you must not be married(if you are, sorry for the comment).....TAC is right, it is a different mindset....at least for the men. </font>[/QUOTE]Actually no I'm not.. But I see that is why so many marriages fail after living together for 10+ years they get married and start putting conditions..... What the hell.. You've been living together so long and now cuz ur married things need to change.... I don't get that.. Please explain.. why a piece of paper does that to some people... ITS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER.
Leslie
09-17-2003, 09:44 AM
HUTCH YOU ARE RIGHT - IN FACT TELL HER TO DUMP ALL HER FRIENDS THAT YOU DON'T APPROVE OF AND ALL FAMILY MEMBERS ON HER SIDE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE.
graemlins/thumbsup.gif
BESIDES, HER HAVING MALE FRIENDS IS A WAY OF IMMASCULATING YOU AND WE CAN'T HAVE THAT NOW CAN WE. NOW GET HER ASS IN THAT KITCHEN AND FIX YOU SOME FOOD!!
Huey P. Freeman
09-17-2003, 09:46 AM
Originally posted by Leslie:
HUTCH YOU ARE RIGHT - IN FACT TELL HER TO DUMP ALL HER FRIENDS THAT YOU DON'T APPROVE OF AND ALL FAMILY MEMBERS ON HER SIDE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE.
graemlins/thumbsup.gif
BESIDES, HER HAVING MALE FRIENDS IS A WAY OF IMMASCULATING YOU AND WE CAN'T HAVE THAT NOW CAN WE. NOW GET HER ASS IN THAT KITCHEN AND FIX YOU SOME FOOD!! Brutal graemlins/spanka.gif
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 10:03 AM
Originally posted by MYOR:
[QUOTE] Actually no I'm not.. But I see that is why so many marriages fail after living together for 10+ years they get married and start putting conditions..... What the hell.. You've been living together so long and now cuz ur married things need to change.... I don't get that.. Please explain.. why a piece of paper does that to some people... ITS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER. I think what it is, is the mindset while you are not married, especially when you each have your own apartment, is that you have in the back of your head that whatever problems come up
you can always leave(even if that is not your intentions). When you are married, if you are serious about it, you just tend to think differently....maybe I shouldn't go out tonite because it may piss her off, etc.....you are right, it shouldn't change anything, but for some reason it does.
I think what it boils down to is trust, communication and respect for your mates feelings. Also, you must have self esteem.
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 10:05 AM
Originally posted by Leslie:
HUTCH YOU ARE RIGHT - IN FACT TELL HER TO DUMP ALL HER FRIENDS THAT YOU DON'T APPROVE OF AND ALL FAMILY MEMBERS ON HER SIDE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE.
graemlins/thumbsup.gif
BESIDES, HER HAVING MALE FRIENDS IS A WAY OF IMMASCULATING YOU AND WE CAN'T HAVE THAT NOW CAN WE. NOW GET HER ASS IN THAT KITCHEN AND FIX YOU SOME FOOD!! HULK ASK WHO ARE YOU?
Jamie 3:26
09-17-2003, 10:08 AM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
HUTCH YOU ARE RIGHT - IN FACT TELL HER TO DUMP ALL HER FRIENDS THAT YOU DON'T APPROVE OF AND ALL FAMILY MEMBERS ON HER SIDE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE.
graemlins/thumbsup.gif
BESIDES, HER HAVING MALE FRIENDS IS A WAY OF IMMASCULATING YOU AND WE CAN'T HAVE THAT NOW CAN WE. NOW GET HER ASS IN THAT KITCHEN AND FIX YOU SOME FOOD!! HULK ASK WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAAA graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
Leslie
09-17-2003, 10:09 AM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
HUTCH YOU ARE RIGHT - IN FACT TELL HER TO DUMP ALL HER FRIENDS THAT YOU DON'T APPROVE OF AND ALL FAMILY MEMBERS ON HER SIDE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE.
graemlins/thumbsup.gif
BESIDES, HER HAVING MALE FRIENDS IS A WAY OF IMMASCULATING YOU AND WE CAN'T HAVE THAT NOW CAN WE. NOW GET HER ASS IN THAT KITCHEN AND FIX YOU SOME FOOD!! HULK ASK WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]JANE.
Sharp Eye Washington
09-17-2003, 10:09 AM
http://www.2002ties.com/ties/super-heroes/hulk-good-day.jpg
Brut by Faberge
09-17-2003, 10:09 AM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
HUTCH YOU ARE RIGHT - IN FACT TELL HER TO DUMP ALL HER FRIENDS THAT YOU DON'T APPROVE OF AND ALL FAMILY MEMBERS ON HER SIDE THAT YOU DON'T LIKE.
graemlins/thumbsup.gif
BESIDES, HER HAVING MALE FRIENDS IS A WAY OF IMMASCULATING YOU AND WE CAN'T HAVE THAT NOW CAN WE. NOW GET HER ASS IN THAT KITCHEN AND FIX YOU SOME FOOD!! HULK ASK WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]STOP!!! graemlins/rofl.gif ya'll are finna get me fired for real!
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 12:09 PM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
Actually no I'm not.. But I see that is why so many marriages fail after living together for 10+ years they get married and start putting conditions..... What the hell.. You've been living together so long and now cuz ur married things need to change.... I don't get that.. Please explain.. why a piece of paper does that to some people... ITS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER. I think what it is, is the mindset while you are not married, especially when you each have your own apartment, is that you have in the back of your head that whatever problems come up
you can always leave(even if that is not your intentions). When you are married, if you are serious about it, you just tend to think differently....maybe I shouldn't go out tonite because it may piss her off, etc.....you are right, it shouldn't change anything, but for some reason it does.
I think what it boils down to is trust, communication and respect for your mates feelings. Also, you must have self esteem. </font>lil ray you are right, for me it come down to respect.
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
Actually no I'm not.. But I see that is why so many marriages fail after living together for 10+ years they get married and start putting conditions..... What the hell.. You've been living together so long and now cuz ur married things need to change.... I don't get that.. Please explain.. why a piece of paper does that to some people... ITS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER. I think what it is, is the mindset while you are not married, especially when you each have your own apartment, is that you have in the back of your head that whatever problems come up
you can always leave(even if that is not your intentions). When you are married, if you are serious about it, you just tend to think differently....maybe I shouldn't go out tonite because it may piss her off, etc.....you are right, it shouldn't change anything, but for some reason it does.
I think what it boils down to is trust, communication and respect for your mates feelings. Also, you must have self esteem. </font>lil ray you are right, for me it come down to respect. </font>[/QUOTE]Respect is a mutual thing... Its my way or highway implies that you have no respect for her.... She is not a child.. She is your wife..
Bold Soul
09-17-2003, 12:48 PM
There is a difference between having a friend and taking up with someone to piss off your husband. In the relationship game, the hole-card is potential "cheating". Some people are compassionate enough not to play it, but most will use it to death. I've seen it way too many times.
I don't know Hutch personally (none of us do), but these overly-liberal responses may not be hitting the mark. As I said before, first seek to UNDERSTAND. Then offer yourself to be understood.
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 12:59 PM
look i run my house not run around it
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
look i run my house not run around it SPOKEN LIKE A NEWLY MARRIED MAN!!!
[ September 17, 2003, 02:05 PM: Message edited by: TAC ]
Sharp Eye Washington
09-17-2003, 01:07 PM
Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
look i run my house not run around it SPOKEN LIKE A NEWLY MARRIED MAN!!! </font>[/QUOTE]WORD!
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 01:12 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
look i run my house not run around it you will be living outside of it with that attitude....
two "c"s to add to the marriage pot....compassion and compromise....you may have to use some heavy tablespoons of compromise many times.
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
look i run my house not run around it Just make sure you don't run it to the ground.. making holes you can't repair.. and kick yourself in the ass later...
BTW.. don't kid yourself with that.. the sooner you realize that it's a not so true the better it will be.. You have just signed the dotted line for a joint venture.... you are now just 1/2 of the picture....
;)
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 01:17 PM
Questions to DJ HUTCH:
Since you don't want her having male friends, are you there, not only as her husband but as her friend? Do you do fun things(not sexual) with her so that she won't want to be around any other males? Have you ask yourself 'why does she need male friends' and 'what can I do to replace her need/dependence on those friends(replace the need not the friends)?
something to think about.
Originally posted by Sweetiwluv:
Yo, Cosmic Twin can't wait to meet you - when either DJ EARON come there (waiting for that invite) or you come here for Deliverance!
Great minds ask the right questions! likewise Sweetiwluv. have a blessed day!!
DOTSmusic
09-17-2003, 01:19 PM
don't be so insecure.
your girl having male friends is completely harmeless. how does she feel about you having female friends? it should be ok on both sides.
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 01:20 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
look i run my house not run around it another question: Is it my house, her house, or our house?
....your answer will either lead you into a long successful marriage or to the divorce court.
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
look i run my house not run around it another question: Is it my house, her house, or our house?
....your answer will either lead you into a long successful marriage or to the divorce court. </font>[/QUOTE]Good question liL Ray graemlins/thumbsup.gif
NubianSista
09-17-2003, 01:23 PM
http://deephousepage.com/smilies/conf45.gifGo get some counseling Hutch! graemlins/rofl.gif
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 01:25 PM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
look i run my house not run around it another question: Is it my house, her house, or our house?
....your answer will either lead you into a long successful marriage or to the divorce court. </font>[/QUOTE]divorce is the answer for me right now, like i said i run my house not around it
Sharp Eye Washington
09-17-2003, 01:28 PM
DJ Hutch,you being a DJ I'm sure you have your share of female friends or fans. How does your spouse feel about that? If she's anything like my ex you better file for divorce now & hope you live to tell! ;)
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 01:30 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
look i run my house not run around it another question: Is it my house, her house, or our house?
....your answer will either lead you into a long successful marriage or to the divorce court. </font>[/QUOTE]divorce is the answer for me right now, like i said i run my house not around it </font>[/QUOTE]this case is closed as far as I'm concern...you are on your own....Do us a favor, when it does hit you that you had a good thing and let it go for senseless bullshit, please don't come on the board and post no "Pray for me" topic....awright?
the sound you hear is 13 years being flush down the drain....and the auctioneer's gavel after the sale has been final on the DJ HUTCH record collection....not meant to be a joke.
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
look i run my house not run around it another question: Is it my house, her house, or our house?
....your answer will either lead you into a long successful marriage or to the divorce court. </font>[/QUOTE]divorce is the answer for me right now, like i said i run my house not around it </font>[/QUOTE]Sorry if this in not accurate(just going by what you are putting out).. But why are you giving up without even trying.... Its not hard to say you'll leave... its the easy way out..
Another question.. What view did you have of marriage that make you have this attitude towards it??
Leslie
09-17-2003, 01:32 PM
A wife is not your chattle.
YUJI-SAN
09-17-2003, 01:32 PM
Originally posted by MYOR:
HUTCH,
A little late into this but
So while you weren't married it was ok for her to have male friends but now that you are.. its not acceptable?? WHO ARE YOU?
Originally posted by YUJI-SAN:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
HUTCH,
A little late into this but
So while you weren't married it was ok for her to have male friends but now that you are.. its not acceptable?? WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/tongueout.gif graemlins/tongueout.gif
YUJI-SAN
09-17-2003, 01:35 PM
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by YUJI-SAN:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
HUTCH,
A little late into this but
So while you weren't married it was ok for her to have male friends but now that you are.. its not acceptable?? WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/tongueout.gif graemlins/tongueout.gif </font>[/QUOTE]:D
Sharp Eye Washington
09-17-2003, 01:36 PM
the sound you hear is 13 years being flush down the drain....and the auctioneer's gavel after the sale has been final on the DJ HUTCH record collection....not meant to be a joke. [/QB][/QUOTE]
Take heed Hutch. The above statement is something all married DJ's should consider when divorce appears to be the only solution.
Originally posted by DiscoLady:
Having friends of the opposite sex is okay, your sig other or spouse should know about them. It's almost impossible to have many male friends that don't have a motive in mind. But I have friends that I grew up with and hang out with my hubby. I don't do much hanging out with the male friends alone because I have a husband to hang out with. When we do things, I invite the friends and the wives (girlfriends). As far as going out with them well, I don't know. My hubby has a female friend that he goes out with mainly because I can't right now and kind of lost interest in the party scene. There are other things I like to do but I am not comfortable going out with other men friends. That is why I have a husband, I make him do the stuff I like or we'll stay home and listen to me gripe. graemlins/rofl.gif Well said DiscoLady!! If you have a male friend, and everything's on the up & up as you explained, then your spouse won't feel the anxiety of wondering "What if?"... You gotta make the "guyfriend" situation palatable to your other half. You don't hang out one on one. You get together as COUPLES, not two people trying to act single! Hey, I realize you can't dictate to another adult what they will and won't do. But, if you're in a relationship you damn sure have every right to demand that your feelings are respected! If you must have the male friends, do it in a way that doesn't cause suspicion.
-HML
Originally posted by Phil Bernard:
the sound you hear is 13 years being flush down the drain....and the auctioneer's gavel after the sale has been final on the DJ HUTCH record collection....not meant to be a joke. Take heed Hutch. The above statement is something all married DJ's should consider when divorce appears to be the only solution. [/QB][/QUOTE]
Oh the thought. I'm shaking in my boots!!!
Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Phil Bernard:
the sound you hear is 13 years being flush down the drain....and the auctioneer's gavel after the sale has been final on the DJ HUTCH record collection....not meant to be a joke. Take heed Hutch. The above statement is something all married DJ's should consider when divorce appears to be the only solution. </font>[/QUOTE]Oh the thought. I'm shaking in my boots!!! [/QB][/QUOTE]
Yeah don't do it cuz you love her do it cuz you love your records.... icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
Jamie 3:26
09-17-2003, 01:42 PM
This has helped keep the peace for years in my relationship.Do not put any kind of rules/restrictions/issues,that you do not want thrown back at cha.
Imagine if she said you could not do a hot ass party given by a female,because of suspicion and insecurites.
Yo ass would be mad.Try my motto..."Don't dish what ya can't take..."
I learned that the hard way.I chased away a damn good woman before thinking and acting like you.
"Me Caveman.....Me dj with rocks."That's how you sound dude.It's 2003 man.Get with the times or be alone man.
D J 1 3 8
09-17-2003, 01:43 PM
It comes down to being reasonable people (both of you) and respecting each other's comfort levels. If you say "you cannot have male friends, ever, period" then she should leave your ass. However, if you are reasonable and put it another way, you may get better results. Like: "I realize you have male friends, but i am not comfortable with you going out with them alone or on semi-dates of any sort. They can hang out with both of us, but unless I know them very well, I'm just not ghonna be cool with it." I don't think that's an unreasonable request. We all make sacrifices in relationships. But you must understand that all things in a relationship cut both ways and this "I'm the man and that's how it is" shit won't wash with any intelligent woman. Nor should it. Having male friends is one thing. Going out on dates late at night without you is another thing altogether. You both need to come to an agreement about what is acceptable to both of you.
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 01:45 PM
Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Phil Bernard:
the sound you hear is 13 years being flush down the drain....and the auctioneer's gavel after the sale has been final on the DJ HUTCH record collection....not meant to be a joke. Take heed Hutch. The above statement is something all married DJ's should consider when divorce appears to be the only solution. </font>[/QUOTE]Oh the thought. I'm shaking in my boots!!! [/QB][/QUOTE]
"It's cheeper to keep her" takes on a whole different meaning when you have to go replace "it ain't no big thing" and all the other hard to get 12inc. Nothing worse than hearing one of these old cats(thanks Mike Johnson) saying at a party "I use to have all Crown amps and double 18s bertha and tons of records"....meanwhile you are working and they can't even think of asking for a gig because they have the skills but lack the hardware.....pathetic.
DJ HUTCH, let us know when the auction is....old fart like you must have some top choice cuts....hahahahaha.
Cheddar
09-17-2003, 01:47 PM
All one needs is about ten good strokes worth of time to get their freak on. You cant watch someone 24/7 and if you do they will find the 25th hour and do what it is that they wish.
Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif Thats just wrong... on so many levels... graemlins/spanka.gif
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 01:50 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]HAHAHAHAHAHAHA....BWAAHAHAHAHAHAH..cough, cough....bwahahahahaha
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 01:50 PM
Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU?
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]damn, like clockwork
Hey Hutch - Why not just club her over the head and reclaim what's yours??.......JMJ
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 01:54 PM
Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif HOW ABOUT YOU DO YOU GET WET AT ALL
Friday
09-17-2003, 01:55 PM
hahahaha to this whole thread, best bed time story I have read in a long time. graemlins/sleep2.gif tad bit delirious right now biggrinangel.gif
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 01:56 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
Hey Hutch - Why not just club her over the head and reclaim what's yours??.......JMJ I beat that Bitch with a bat....
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 01:57 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif HOW ABOUT YOU DO YOU GET WET AT ALL </font>[/QUOTE]$10 to whoever can decipher this....
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif HOW ABOUT YOU DO YOU GET WET AT ALL </font>[/QUOTE]$10 to whoever can decipher this.... </font>[/QUOTE]HULK LIKE WET. No checks please.....JMJ
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 01:59 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif HOW ABOUT YOU DO YOU GET WET AT ALL </font>[/QUOTE]$10 to whoever can decipher this.... </font>[/QUOTE]HULK LIKE WET. No checks please.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]Proove your case....break it down....
D J 1 3 8
09-17-2003, 02:02 PM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif HOW ABOUT YOU DO YOU GET WET AT ALL </font>[/QUOTE]$10 to whoever can decipher this.... </font>[/QUOTE]He meant: "How about you? Do you get wet at all?" Thus implying that TAC was a bitch. Oh Snap! $10 pleez.
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif HOW ABOUT YOU DO YOU GET WET AT ALL </font>[/QUOTE]$10 to whoever can decipher this.... </font>[/QUOTE]HOW ABOUT YOU GET IT WET IF YOU CAN GET IT WET AT ALL..
Do I win.. biggrinangel.gif
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif HOW ABOUT YOU DO YOU GET WET AT ALL </font>[/QUOTE]$10 to whoever can decipher this.... </font>[/QUOTE]HULK LIKE WET. No checks please.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]Proove your case....break it down.... </font>[/QUOTE]HULK LIKE WET. HULK LIKE TAC? TAC GET WET? HULK LIKE WET TAC. Western Union Quick Collect is good......JMJ
D J 1 3 8
09-17-2003, 02:03 PM
BTW, this is the most entertaining thread in WEEKS.
HULK SMASH BORING DHP THREADS
I think some of you are being extremely hard on HUTCH. Why are you so hell bent on forcing your beliefs and opinions on him? Why do you break his balls when he doesn't see it the way YOU want him to? Wouldn't it be more productive to help him understand why he's uncomfortable with his wife having male friends? We could then help him decide if its really worth it to throw in the towel. How about giving HUTCH advice to develop the skills he'll need to reach a compromise with his spouse. The guy is in defense mode now and probably not hearing any of the stuff many of you are saying. Yes, he put his business out there, but some of you have been pretty brutal and uncompassionate. The guy's feelings are real and he genuinely needs help. However, some of us just saw an opportunity to have a laugh, break balls and exalt ourselves as if we have all the answers... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
-HML
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
Hey Hutch - Why not just club her over the head and reclaim what's yours??.......JMJ I beat that Bitch with a bat.... </font>[/QUOTE]meanwhile she's singing why'd ya do it, why'd you spit on my snatch? are we out of love now, is this just a bad patch?
Originally posted by HML:
I think some of you are being extremely hard on HUTCH. Why are you so hell bent on forcing your beliefs and opinions on him? Why do you break his balls when he doesn't see it the way YOU want him to? Wouldn't it be more productive to help him understand why he's uncomfortable with his wife having male friends? We could then help him decide if its really worth it to throw in the towel. How about giving HUTCH advice to develop the skills he'll need to reach a compromise with his spouse. The guy is in defense mode now and probably not hearing any of the stuff many of you are saying. Yes, he put his business out there, but some of you have been pretty brutal and uncompassionate. The guy's feelings are real and he genuinely needs help. However, some of us just saw an opportunity to have a laugh, break balls and exalt ourselves as if we have all the answers... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
-HML he asked a question, but already had the answers. fact is, his wife made a decision and a choice. nothing wrong with that imo
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:07 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif HOW ABOUT YOU DO YOU GET WET AT ALL </font>[/QUOTE]$10 to whoever can decipher this.... </font>[/QUOTE]HULK LIKE WET. No checks please.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]Proove your case....break it down.... </font>[/QUOTE]HULK LIKE WET. HULK LIKE TAC? TAC GET WET? HULK LIKE WET TAC. Western Union Quick Collect is good......JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]in the thinking of HULK, I think we may have a winner....DJ138, we may think logically but HULK does not and for that reasoning, we cannot go with your answer...you are giving HULK too much credit, especially the part of what he is implying TAC to be....MYOR, good try....
D J 1 3 8
09-17-2003, 02:08 PM
Originally posted by HML:
I think some of you are being extremely hard on HUTCH. Why are you so hell bent on forcing your beliefs and opinions on him? Why do you break his balls when he doesn't see it the way YOU want him to? Wouldn't it be more productive to help him understand why he's uncomfortable with his wife having male friends? We could then help him decide if its really worth it to throw in the towel. How about giving HUTCH advice to develop the skills he'll need to reach a compromise with his spouse. The guy is in defense mode now and probably not hearing any of the stuff many of you are saying. Yes, he put his business out there, but some of you have been pretty brutal and uncompassionate. The guy's feelings are real and he genuinely needs help. However, some of us just saw an opportunity to have a laugh, break balls and exalt ourselves as if we have all the answers... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
-HML There has been plenty of good advice in this thread.
D J 1 3 8
09-17-2003, 02:10 PM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
in the thinking of HULK, I think we may have a winner....DJ138, we may think logically but HULK does not and for that reasoning, we cannot go with your answer...you are giving HULK too much credit, especially the part of what he is implying TAC to be....MYOR, good try.... HULK PROTEST
HULK THINK PUNY RAY NEVER INTENDED TO PAY HULK
Sharp Eye Washington
09-17-2003, 02:11 PM
Originally posted by Cosmic_Twin:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
Hey Hutch - Why not just club her over the head and reclaim what's yours??.......JMJ I beat that Bitch with a bat.... </font>[/QUOTE]meanwhile she's singing why'd ya do it, why'd you spit on my snatch? are we out of love now, is this just a bad patch? </font>[/QUOTE]OHHH! I would love to hear Marianne Faithful!
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:12 PM
Originally posted by HML:
I think some of you are being extremely hard on HUTCH. Why are you so hell bent on forcing your beliefs and opinions on him? Why do you break his balls when he doesn't see it the way YOU want him to? Wouldn't it be more productive to help him understand why he's uncomfortable with his wife having male friends? We could then help him decide if its really worth it to throw in the towel. How about giving HUTCH advice to develop the skills he'll need to reach a compromise with his spouse. -HML HELLO!!! where have you been? Go back and read the entire thread and see the amount of advice he has received and rebuffed...many have been productive, many have tried to be helpful, and he still rebuffed us....what more should we do for a person 99% of us don't know....please take the holier than thou attitude and re-read this entire document. After every angle that was taken here and after his "I run my house, my house don't run me" attitude, he gets what he deserves.
answer when you finish reading...sorry for dishing so hard, but you dished it hard to begin with....
Brut by Faberge
09-17-2003, 02:12 PM
Originally posted by HML:
I think some of you are being extremely hard on HUTCH. Why are you so hell bent on forcing your beliefs and opinions on him? Why do you break his balls when he doesn't see it the way YOU want him to? Wouldn't it be more productive to help him understand why he's uncomfortable with his wife having male friends? We could then help him decide if its really worth it to throw in the towel. How about giving HUTCH advice to develop the skills he'll need to reach a compromise with his spouse. The guy is in defense mode now and probably not hearing any of the stuff many of you are saying. Yes, he put his business out there, but some of you have been pretty brutal and uncompassionate. The guy's feelings are real and he genuinely needs help. However, some of us just saw an opportunity to have a laugh, break balls and exalt ourselves as if we have all the answers... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
-HML i hear ya, but the thing is, he posted HERE. on the DHP. full of comedians and ball busters. had he posted on the "bob ross happy little trees" message board, then we could anticipate a bit more compassion. i think for the most part, people were pretty kind.
[ September 17, 2003, 03:13 PM: Message edited by: THX-1138 ]
statuskuo
09-17-2003, 02:14 PM
Originally posted by Leslie:
A wife is not your chattle. what do you know about being a wife?
statuskuo
09-17-2003, 02:15 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]HAHHAHHAHHAHA. HUTCH, your timing is awesome! tell me, where can i buy one of your "t shits"?
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif HOW ABOUT YOU DO YOU GET WET AT ALL </font>[/QUOTE]$10 to whoever can decipher this.... </font>[/QUOTE]HULK LIKE WET. No checks please.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]Proove your case....break it down.... </font>[/QUOTE]HULK LIKE WET. HULK LIKE TAC? TAC GET WET? HULK LIKE WET TAC. Western Union Quick Collect is good......JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]in the thinking of HULK, I think we may have a winner....DJ138, we may think logically but HULK does not and for that reasoning, we cannot go with your answer...you are giving HULK too much credit, especially the part of what he is implying TAC to be....MYOR, good try.... </font>[/QUOTE]HULK THANK ACADEMY. HULK THANK RAY. HULK STILL HATE WIFE. I'm stuck in character.......JMJ ;)
Leslie
09-17-2003, 02:18 PM
Originally posted by HML:
I think some of you are being extremely hard on HUTCH. Why are you so hell bent on forcing your beliefs and opinions on him? Why do you break his balls when he doesn't see it the way YOU want him to? Wouldn't it be more productive to help him understand why he's uncomfortable with his wife having male friends? We could then help him decide if its really worth it to throw in the towel. How about giving HUTCH advice to develop the skills he'll need to reach a compromise with his spouse. The guy is in defense mode now and probably not hearing any of the stuff many of you are saying. Yes, he put his business out there, but some of you have been pretty brutal and uncompassionate. The guy's feelings are real and he genuinely needs help. However, some of us just saw an opportunity to have a laugh, break balls and exalt ourselves as if we have all the answers... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
-HML Please reread the ORIGINAL question:
"why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friends. i do not like male friends at all. what is your two cent??
[ September 16, 2003, 06:40 PM: Message edited by: DJ HUTCH ]
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WWW.DJHUTCH.COM (http://WWW.DJHUTCH.COM)
THEY ASK ME WHY I DID IT, I DID IT FOR LOVE
973-698-2715"
He asked for our 2 cents....again please refer to the "Personal Business" thread and stop chastising people.
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 02:19 PM
Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]HAHHAHHAHHAHA. HUTCH, your timing is awesome! tell me, where can i buy one of your "t shits"? </font>[/QUOTE]SEND ME $10 FIRST AND I WILL SEND YOU A TEE SHIRT
[ September 18, 2003, 05:34 PM: Message edited by: DJ HUTCH ]
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:20 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]HAHHAHHAHHAHA. HUTCH, your timing is awesome! tell me, where can i buy one of your "t shits"? </font>[/QUOTE]SEE ME $10 FIRST AND I WILL SEND YOU A TEE SHIRT </font>[/QUOTE]Classic HULK....bwaaaahahahahahahaha....."See me $10" hahahahaha....cough, cough...whew, whew....hahahahaha....
Leslie
09-17-2003, 02:20 PM
Gman, please stick this one in best of...that last response sealed the deal.
Jamie 3:26
09-17-2003, 02:21 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]HAHHAHHAHHAHA. HUTCH, your timing is awesome! tell me, where can i buy one of your "t shits"? </font>[/QUOTE]SEE ME $10 FIRST AND I WILL SEND YOU A TEE SHIRT HULK NO FOOL </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 02:21 PM
Originally posted by Leslie:
Gman, please stick this one in best of...that last response sealed the deal. WHY?
Originally posted by HML:
I think some of you are being extremely hard on HUTCH. Why are you so hell bent on forcing your beliefs and opinions on him? Why do you break his balls when he doesn't see it the way YOU want him to? Wouldn't it be more productive to help him understand why he's uncomfortable with his wife having male friends? We could then help him decide if its really worth it to throw in the towel. How about giving HUTCH advice to develop the skills he'll need to reach a compromise with his spouse. The guy is in defense mode now and probably not hearing any of the stuff many of you are saying. Yes, he put his business out there, but some of you have been pretty brutal and uncompassionate. The guy's feelings are real and he genuinely needs help. However, some of us just saw an opportunity to have a laugh, break balls and exalt ourselves as if we have all the answers... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
-HML uhh, i think that road is now closed. we tried. he kept coming back beating his chest. he is convinced his way is the only way. maybe he needs to experience this in order to learn important lessons in life. who knows. i think he was looking for some sort of validation rather than advice.
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 02:22 PM
Originally posted by Cosmic_Twin:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by HML:
I think some of you are being extremely hard on HUTCH. Why are you so hell bent on forcing your beliefs and opinions on him? Why do you break his balls when he doesn't see it the way YOU want him to? Wouldn't it be more productive to help him understand why he's uncomfortable with his wife having male friends? We could then help him decide if its really worth it to throw in the towel. How about giving HUTCH advice to develop the skills he'll need to reach a compromise with his spouse. The guy is in defense mode now and probably not hearing any of the stuff many of you are saying. Yes, he put his business out there, but some of you have been pretty brutal and uncompassionate. The guy's feelings are real and he genuinely needs help. However, some of us just saw an opportunity to have a laugh, break balls and exalt ourselves as if we have all the answers... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
-HML uhh, i think that road is now closed. we tried. he kept coming back beating his chest. he is convinced his way is the only way. maybe he needs to experience this in order to learn important lessons in life. who knows. i think he was looking for some sort of validation rather than advice. </font>[/QUOTE]NO JUST YOUR TWO CENTS THAT ALL
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
why do your lady or your wife wants to have male friends. i do not like male friends at all. what is your two cent?? YOU'RE RIGHT!!!
HULK WANT $10. HULK SEND SHIRT. HULK BUY HOUSE......JMJ biggrinangel.gif
Jamie 3:26
09-17-2003, 02:25 PM
Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]HAHHAHHAHHAHA. HUTCH, your timing is awesome! tell me, where can i buy one of your "t shits"? </font>[/QUOTE]SEE ME $10 FIRST AND I WILL SEND YOU A TEE SHIRT HULK NO FOOL </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]This shit is classic...
SEE ME $10 FIRST AND I WILL SEND YOU A TEE SHIRT HULK NO FOOL
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:25 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
[QUOTE] SEE ME $10 FIRST AND I WILL SEND YOU A TEE SHIRT "SEE ME $10"......bwahhahahahahaha....oh my, I can't stop laughing.....hahahahahahahahaha...whew...wheeeeeee ......hahaha
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:26 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
Gman, please stick this one in best of...that last response sealed the deal. WHY? </font>[/QUOTE]hahahaha...
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:26 PM
This topic is more laughs than being on a tab at a party....
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 02:26 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK WANT $10. HULK SEND SHIRT. HULK BUY HOUSE......JMJ biggrinangel.gif THANKS
DJ HUTCH
statuskuo
09-17-2003, 02:26 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK WANT $10. HULK SEND SHIRT. HULK BUY HOUSE......JMJ biggrinangel.gif i ain't falling for that shirt.
HUtch, who designed your site?
btw, i see you had registered on statuskuo.com, come see us sometimes and say hi. don't be shy.
Sharp Eye Washington
09-17-2003, 02:26 PM
This thread is going to get me fired. This is truly a DHP classic!
Brut by Faberge
09-17-2003, 02:26 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
[QUOTE]NO JUST YOUR TWO CENTS THAT ALL hulk has SMASHED the price of "t-shits" from 10 dollars to a mere two cents! :eek:
[ September 17, 2003, 03:28 PM: Message edited by: THX-1138 ]
statuskuo
09-17-2003, 02:27 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK WANT $10. HULK SEND SHIRT. HULK BUY HOUSE......JMJ biggrinangel.gif THANKS
DJ HUTCH </font>[/QUOTE]geez! are you friends with sammyrock?
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 02:28 PM
Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK WANT $10. HULK SEND SHIRT. HULK BUY HOUSE......JMJ biggrinangel.gif i ain't falling for that shirt.
HUtch, who designed your site?
btw, i see you had registered on statuskuo.com, come see us sometimes and say hi. don't be shy. </font>[/QUOTE]OK
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:29 PM
Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK WANT $10. HULK SEND SHIRT. HULK BUY HOUSE......JMJ biggrinangel.gif THANKS
DJ HUTCH </font>[/QUOTE]geez! are you friends with sammyrock? </font>[/QUOTE]WHO ARE YOU?
statuskuo
09-17-2003, 02:29 PM
Hutch, pick up your phone!
Jamie 3:26
09-17-2003, 02:30 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK WANT $10. HULK SEND SHIRT. HULK BUY HOUSE......JMJ biggrinangel.gif THANKS
DJ HUTCH </font>[/QUOTE]I gotta go to the bathroom and laugh.I am done for the day.
Hulk,how much for dc fo sexim?
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 02:31 PM
Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK WANT $10. HULK SEND SHIRT. HULK BUY HOUSE......JMJ biggrinangel.gif THANKS
DJ HUTCH </font>[/QUOTE]geez! are you friends with sammyrock? </font>[/QUOTE]NO WHY DO YOU ASK?
Leslie
09-17-2003, 02:31 PM
HUTCH, I do want to say thanks. You've convinced me to never get married.
Hello Kitty
09-17-2003, 02:31 PM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
This topic is more laughs than being on a tab at a party.... ditto! graemlins/rofl.gif
HUTCH, seriously, man, you need to lay off them gamma rays
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:33 PM
Originally posted by statuskuo:
Hutch, pick up your phone! HUTCH: THIS IS DJ HUTCH
caller: WHO ARE YOU?
DJ HUTCH: DJ HUTCH...WHO ARE YOU?!
********************
Lesson learned: NEVER PUT YOUR PERSONAL CELL PHONE ON THE INTERNET FOR ALL TO SEE. HOOOOooooo!
bwaaaahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Sharp Eye Washington
09-17-2003, 02:34 PM
Originally posted by THX-1138:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
NO JUST YOUR TWO CENTS THAT ALL hulk has SMASHED the price of "t-shits" from 10 dollars to a mere two cents! :eek: </font>HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
HULK SMASH PRICE. HULK SMASH T-SHIT. HULK SMASH WIFE.......JMJ
[ September 17, 2003, 03:37 PM: Message edited by: JMJ ]
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 02:38 PM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by statuskuo:
Hutch, pick up your phone! HUTCH: THIS IS DJ HUTCH
caller: WHO ARE YOU?
DJ HUTCH: DJ HUTCH...WHO ARE YOU?!
********************
Lesson learned: NEVER PUT YOUR PERSONAL CELL PHONE ON THE INTERNET FOR ALL TO SEE. HOOOOooooo!
bwaaaahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha </font>[/QUOTE]GOT 2 CELLPHONE ONE FOR PERSONAL
fred da warrior
09-17-2003, 02:42 PM
Originally posted by THX-1138:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
NO JUST YOUR TWO CENTS THAT ALL hulk has SMASHED the price of "t-shits" from 10 dollars to a mere two cents! :eek: </font>bwahahahahahahhaaaaaa^9999999999, OH SHIT!!!!!!
You muh fuggas are brutal!!!!!
HAHAHHAHAHHAHAH
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 02:44 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK SMASH PRICE. HULK SMASH T-SHIT. HULK SMASH WIFE.......JMJ HULK COMING ............TO CHICAGO SOON
HULK GOT CELLPHONE. HULK TAKE VISA......JMJ
Hello Kitty
09-17-2003, 02:45 PM
You guys have made my afternoon! LOL!
THANK YOU!!!! Hahahahaha!
graemlins/lol.gif
Jamie 3:26
09-17-2003, 02:46 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK SMASH PRICE. HULK SMASH T-SHIT. HULK SMASH WIFE.......JMJ HULK COMING ............TO CHICAGO SOON </font>[/QUOTE]OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH SHIT!!! graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:47 PM
on the serious side HUTCH...put aside your differences/ego/opinion and re-read some of the advice here....take it from this old fart, a good woman who is on your side, and by your side, and willing to see you through thick and thin(there must have been good and bad times in those 13 years)is hard to find, and they certainly don't come around all the time....you're lucky if you get a shot at a gem like that....I got mine....
[ September 17, 2003, 03:47 PM: Message edited by: liL Ray ]
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK SMASH PRICE. HULK SMASH T-SHIT. HULK SMASH WIFE.......JMJ HULK COMING ............TO CHICAGO SOON </font>[/QUOTE]JMJ start graemlins/bolt.gif
statuskuo
09-17-2003, 02:49 PM
HULK will Love you long time on the PERSONAL cell phone for $10.00 and will throw in a tshit for calling.
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:50 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK SMASH PRICE. HULK SMASH T-SHIT. HULK SMASH WIFE.......JMJ HULK COMING ............TO CHICAGO SOON </font>[/QUOTE]HULK SAY HIDE YOUR STRONG MINDED WOMEN>>HULK WILL SMASH THEM>>HULK BRING CELL PHONE AND TEE SHITS WITH HIM>>>
Originally posted by liL Ray:
on the serious side HUTCH...put aside your differences/ego/opinion and re-read some of the advice here....take it from this old fart, a good woman who is on your side, and by your side, and willing to see you through thick and thin(there must have been good and bad times in those 13 years)is hard to find, and they certainly don't come around all the time....you're lucky if you get a shot at a gem like that....I got mine.... well said, brother.
read this over and over and over until it sinks in, hutch. seriously.
[ September 17, 2003, 04:00 PM: Message edited by: JoeB ]
Originally posted by liL Ray:
on the serious side HUTCH...put aside your differences/ego/opinion and re-read some of the advice here....take it from this old fart, a good woman who is on your side, and by your side, and willing to see you through thick and thin(there must have been good and bad times in those 13 years)is hard to find, and they certainly don't come around all the time....you're lucky if you get a shot at a gem like that....I got mine.... Lil Ray for all the crude thing you say .. you are so nice sometimes graemlins/bighug.gif
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 02:51 PM
Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK GOT CELLPHONE. HULK TAKE VISA......JMJ HULK TAKE VISA AND MASTERCARD AND PAY PAL
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 02:52 PM
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
on the serious side HUTCH...put aside your differences/ego/opinion and re-read some of the advice here....take it from this old fart, a good woman who is on your side, and by your side, and willing to see you through thick and thin(there must have been good and bad times in those 13 years)is hard to find, and they certainly don't come around all the time....you're lucky if you get a shot at a gem like that....I got mine.... Lil Ray for all the crude thing you say .. you are so nice sometimes graemlins/bighug.gif </font>[/QUOTE]crude???!!! Hahahahaha...yeah, I know where my priorities are...I think.
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK GOT CELLPHONE. HULK TAKE VISA......JMJ HULK TAKE VISA AND MASTERCARD AND PAY PAL </font>[/QUOTE]HULK NO TAKE AMERICAN EXPRESS.....JMJ
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK SMASH PRICE. HULK SMASH T-SHIT. HULK SMASH WIFE.......JMJ HULK COMING ............TO CHICAGO SOON </font>[/QUOTE]Lovely. Don't forget your club, and bring me a shirt. Size XL. Thanks......JMJ ;)
Bold Soul
09-17-2003, 02:59 PM
Originally posted by Leslie:
HUTCH, I do want to say thanks. You've convinced me to never get married. FINE. HULK TAKE RING BACK TO JEWELER. HULK WAS GONNA MAKE LESLIE HONEST WOMAN.
WAS IT HULK'S SIZE?
[ September 17, 2003, 04:01 PM: Message edited by: Bold Soul ]
darrow
09-17-2003, 03:00 PM
I'm just on this thread to say thank you to everyone for making me literally howl at work! Some of you are very sick (in a good way) and funny people. :D
Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
HUTCH, I do want to say thanks. You've convinced me to never get married. FINE. HULK TAKE RING BACK TO JEWELER. </font>[/QUOTE]HULK NO GIVE NO RING HULK GIVE ROCK OVER HEAD.. HULK JUST TAKE HULK HULK NO ASK
couldn't help it icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
DJ Hutch
09-17-2003, 03:12 PM
Originally posted by Leslie:
HUTCH, I do want to say thanks. You've convinced me to never get married. LESLIE YOU ARE WELCOME
DJ Rockin' Robin
09-17-2003, 03:50 PM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ 138:
HULK SMASH PUNY HUMAN bwaaaahahahahahahaha...that's the funniest thing you posted...I can't stop laughing.....all I can think of is HULK/HUTCH taking one of those giant leaps, with his turntable under his armpits, after the spat with lady....hahahahahahahahaha.... </font>[/QUOTE]^^^^
FUNNIEST SHIT I'VE READ ALL DAY!!
graemlins/rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif
Bold Soul
09-17-2003, 03:56 PM
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK GOT CELLPHONE. HULK TAKE VISA......JMJ HULK TAKE VISA AND MASTERCARD AND PAY PAL </font>[/QUOTE]HULK is a good sport. You're cool peoples in my book Hutch. Me, I would have been clowin' MFs. ;)
Hope you work things out with your ol' lady. Don't throw the baby out with the bath water. smile.gif
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 03:58 PM
Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK GOT CELLPHONE. HULK TAKE VISA......JMJ HULK TAKE VISA AND MASTERCARD AND PAY PAL </font>[/QUOTE]Don't throw the baby out with the bath water. smile.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Too easy...leave it alone JMJ..... :D
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
HULK GOT CELLPHONE. HULK TAKE VISA......JMJ HULK TAKE VISA AND MASTERCARD AND PAY PAL </font>[/QUOTE]Don't throw the baby out with the bath water. smile.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Too easy...leave it alone JMJ..... :D </font>[/QUOTE]I concur. NO CHALLENGE FOR HULK......JMJ
Querck
09-17-2003, 04:12 PM
WHO IS GEORGE BATES?
liL Ray
09-17-2003, 04:13 PM
Originally posted by dannyboy:
WHO IS GEORGE BATES? oh boy..... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
Huey P. Freeman
09-17-2003, 05:56 PM
Originally posted by liL Ray:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by dannyboy:
WHO IS GEORGE BATES? oh boy..... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif </font>[/QUOTE]I should have to pay for comedy like this... You guys are nuts graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
(Im)poster
09-17-2003, 06:19 PM
Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
...A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex...JMJ ;) You know I love you, JMJ, but I havta do this, for all those you've corrected on the DHP before...
It should be "A married woman who seeks male friends..."
;) </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/thumbsup.gif
Originally posted by (Im)poster:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
...A married woman that seeks male friends is looking for something she isn't getting from you, and it may have nothing at all to do with sex...JMJ ;) You know I love you, JMJ, but I havta do this, for all those you've corrected on the DHP before...
It should be "A married woman who seeks male friends..."
;) </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/thumbsup.gif </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/spanka.gif .....JMJ
(Im)poster
09-17-2003, 07:02 PM
I read this entire thread and confess to laughing, but I still think some folks were a bit cruel. Hutch may be wrong with his "I run my house" attitude, but he also said his wife told him her male friend comes first and that is a real problem. As I see it, regardless of how many friends of the opposite sex one might have, one's mate should always come first. In that sense, his wife is not right IMO. It's up to Hutch to figure out, though, if something that he is doing -- or not doing -- has led her to act that way.
Sorry to hear about your troubles, Hutch. You seem to be a nice guy. But if at home you are the type who would hurt your wife -- and I hope you are not -- just don't say you "did it for love."
Originally posted by (Im)poster:
I read this entire thread and confess to laughing, but I still think some folks were a bit cruel. Hutch may be wrong with his "I run my house" attitude, but he also said his wife told him her male friend comes first and that is a real problem. As I see it, regardless of how many friends of the opposite sex one might have, one's mate should always come first. In that sense, his wife is not right IMO. It's up to Hutch to figure out, though, if something that he is doing -- or not doing -- has led her to act that way.
Sorry to hear about your troubles, Hutch. You seem to be a nice guy. But if at home you are the type who would hurt your wife -- and I hope you are not -- just don't say you "did it for love." HULK SOWWY
Rodney Ransom
09-17-2003, 09:50 PM
A Hutch what needs to be established here is a few
things.
1 Were these men in your wife's life before you met her?
2 Does she act strange when you question her about these male friends? (body language, facial
expressions, etc)
3 How often do you guys go out & is she showing sings of not wanting to be in certain areas were
you two used to hang out?
Hey hutch you don't have to reply on DHP just some
questions , you should think about in private. graemlins/conf44.gif
alex zen
09-17-2003, 10:00 PM
ffffffffffuuuuuuuuuuuuucccccccckkkkkkkkkkk
julian_kelly
09-18-2003, 03:43 PM
graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]HAHHAHHAHHAHA. HUTCH, your timing is awesome! tell me, where can i buy one of your "t shits"? </font>[/QUOTE]SEE ME $10 FIRST AND I WILL SEND YOU A TEE SHIRT </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
Tristan
09-18-2003, 03:53 PM
Originally posted by julian_kelly:
graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
I bet "it" don't even get wet for him anymore. And I bet "he" can't even figure out why! graemlins/rofl.gif WHO ARE YOU? </font>[/QUOTE]HAHHAHHAHHAHA. HUTCH, your timing is awesome! tell me, where can i buy one of your "t shits"? </font>[/QUOTE]SEE ME $10 FIRST AND I WILL SEND YOU A TEE SHIRT </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]This is turning into a DHP Personal Finance Post... :D
DJ Hutch
09-18-2003, 04:42 PM
DJ HUTCH IS HAVING A DIVORCE PARTY REAL SOON
[ September 19, 2003, 12:02 AM: Message edited by: DJ HUTCH ]
DJ Hutch
09-18-2003, 04:48 PM
Originally posted by JoeB:
yo, i'm there! HULK SAY WHO ARE YOU CALL ME graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JoeB:
yo, i'm there! HULK SAY WHO ARE YOU CALL ME graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]ahahahahahahaha!!!!!
you're all right in my book, hutch. best of luck with everything. seriously.
Originally posted by DJ HUTCH:
DJ HUTCH IS HAVE A DIVORCE PARTY REAL SOON have = having. HULK BUTCHER SENTENCE.....JMJ
[/qb][/UOTE]QUOTE]I beat that Bitch with a bat.... [/QB][/QUOTE]
graemlins/lol.gif icon_rofl.gif
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