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DISKOQUEEN99
04-04-2003, 11:24 AM
WOULD YOU EVER DO IT?

IF YOU RAN INTO AN EX (WHETHER YOU WERE CURRENTLY
INVOLVED IN A RELATIONSHIP), AND THEY JUST LOOKED SO DAMN GOOD TO YOU, AND THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTED ITSELF, WOULD YOU CAVE IN TO YOUR DESIRE? http://deephousepage.com/smilies/knuddel.gif

bitonti
04-04-2003, 11:26 AM
its a dangerous game to play - he or she is probably your ex for a damn good reason. If was bored yeah maybe but Wouldn't jeopardize current relationship for been there done that.

MusicFilter
04-04-2003, 11:28 AM
Yea why not? Knock it out for old time sake, you know it's good and you know their techniques! Yea I'd do Celerie again if I could! Hey AR15firing.gif Malik, you're gettin' sloppy seconds dog! I hope you enjoy what I left. graemlins/acclaim.gif

The Donger
04-04-2003, 11:29 AM
there's a reason i am not with those crazy bitches anymore!!!!

so the answer is pretty much no.

okay if i was single, there is this one i never technically "dated" if you know what i mean... so her, yes.

Koffy Brown
04-04-2003, 11:30 AM
depends on how the sex was in our previous relationship...although I can't stand and I mean he litterally makes me ill...my ex husband...I'd sex him... biggrinangel.gif

MC
04-04-2003, 11:32 AM
That depends...If I was single I might really consider it....I would just hate to look her in the eyes afterwards. So ...to answer the question..ummm MAYBE!

DISKOQUEEN99
04-04-2003, 11:33 AM
I FEEL YOU ON THAT ONE, ASHAKI (ABOUT DOING SOMEBODY YOU REALLY CAN'T STAND). VENGEFUL SEX CAN BE GOOD.

Martin Red
04-04-2003, 11:35 AM
I had an ex "pop in"

She had mailed me in the daytime explaining she had moved from Florida to Glasgow and she was in Birmingham for a few days, she works for an animation company now. She wanted me to put some music over some clips for her.... Cut a long story short, I said Not tonight I am tired and busy, perhaps another time, I was interested in the work though. The same night she turns up at mine, I have fallen a sleep in my tighty whiteys, I wake up confused go to the door and there she is.

We talked and looked at these clips which where interesting and good work, but I could see that it was a cover story.


To answer your question

No I didn't.

And
04-04-2003, 11:37 AM
Have done it before ...
The mental anguish over 'going back to that' wasn't worth it. We were broken up for a reason. Sex wasn't the glue that held our relationship together anyway so it sure didn't help anything when the relationship was over. Would like to think I'd never do it again ... in fact, pretty sure I'll never do that again with any of my exes.
graemlins/nono.gif

RaHaAn81
04-04-2003, 11:39 AM
Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
WOULD YOU EVER DO IT?

IF YOU RAN INTO AN EX (WHETHER YOU WERE CURRENTLY
INVOLVED IN A RELATIONSHIP), AND THEY JUST LOOKED SO DAMN GOOD TO YOU, AND THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTED ITSELF, WOULD YOU CAVE IN TO YOUR DESIRE? http://deephousepage.com/smilies/knuddel.gif It depends on what shoes she has on and what skirt or jeans, shorts , lipstick, oooh fu_kit, just the danm smell of it. Maybe I can say (How she did it, when she did it, and DANM WHERE :eek: SHE DID IT. Let call her now.

MusicFilter
04-04-2003, 11:40 AM
Dude what's uuup had she gained a ton of weight or what, she brought it to you! I'm sure she left dissapointed. graemlins/banghead.gif

Koffy Brown
04-04-2003, 11:40 AM
Originally posted by Martin Red:
I had an ex "pop in"

She had mailed me in the daytime explaining she had moved from Florida to Glasgow and she was in Birmingham for a few days, she works for an animation company now. She wanted me to put some music over some clips for her.... Cut a long story short, I said Not tonight I am tired and busy, perhaps another time, I was interested in the work though. The same night she turns up at mine, I have fallen a sleep in my tighty whiteys, I wake up confused go to the door and there she is.

We talked and looked at these clips which where interesting and good work, but I could see that it was a cover story.


To answer your question

No I didn't. Don't ever tell someone you still wear tighty whities graemlins/rofl.gif

Shalewa
04-04-2003, 11:43 AM
Yes. The key is that both parties must be clear on expectations and intentions. Friendly sharing without confusion and false promises is cool with me.

AD
04-04-2003, 11:44 AM
I would if I was single or if I'm with someone that is just filling the spot. But if I was with someone I cared for, then no I wouldn't.

richierich
04-04-2003, 11:45 AM
Yes I have, will, and will again

Martin Red
04-04-2003, 11:47 AM
Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Martin Red:
I had an ex "pop in"

She had mailed me in the daytime explaining she had moved from Florida to Glasgow and she was in Birmingham for a few days, she works for an animation company now. She wanted me to put some music over some clips for her.... Cut a long story short, I said Not tonight I am tired and busy, perhaps another time, I was interested in the work though. The same night she turns up at mine, I have fallen a sleep in my tighty whiteys, I wake up confused go to the door and there she is.

We talked and looked at these clips which where interesting and good work, but I could see that it was a cover story.


To answer your question

No I didn't. Don't ever tell someone you still wear tighty whities graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]still ? are that like outta date know or something, these are Kenneth Cole they're not like kids pants or anything, perhaps our definitions are different although it was an American women who said the term to me whilst I was asleep on Red D's floor in Belgium. graemlins/scared.gif

I like my pants.

Mocambo
04-04-2003, 11:49 AM
Originally posted by 6 23:
Have done it before ...
The mental anguish over 'going back to that' wasn't worth it. We were broken up for a reason. Sex wasn't the glue that held our relationship together anyway so it sure didn't help anything when the relationship was over. Would like to think I'd never do it again ... in fact, pretty sure I'll never do that again with any of my exes.
graemlins/nono.gif i did that myself for a full year with a young lady. I would never do it again for the same reason.

Sensei Melei
04-04-2003, 11:49 AM
Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
I FEEL YOU ON THAT ONE, ASHAKI (ABOUT DOING SOMEBODY YOU REALLY CAN'T STAND). VENGEFUL SEX CAN BE GOOD. It can be good and fulfilling to see their expression when you tap that ass real good and be out like a thief in the night...

U
04-04-2003, 11:50 AM
It depends on the ex...I have with several. If the sex was bangin in the first place and it's no strings, why not?

Koffy Brown
04-04-2003, 11:53 AM
Originally posted by Sensei Melei-1010:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
I FEEL YOU ON THAT ONE, ASHAKI (ABOUT DOING SOMEBODY YOU REALLY CAN'T STAND). VENGEFUL SEX CAN BE GOOD. It can be good and fulfilling to see their expression when you tap that ass real good and be out like a thief in the night... </font>[/QUOTE]More like have them screaming my name and quivering like a wet puppy when I'm finished..just kidding biggrinangel.gif

upliftdisco365
04-04-2003, 12:16 PM
Originally posted by Shalewa:
Yes. The key is that both parties must be clear on expectations and intentions. Friendly sharing without confusion and false promises is cool with me. "Friendly Sharing". How divinely cavalier. Love dem modern gals...

Jamie 3:26
04-04-2003, 12:18 PM
There's only one ex I would love to have a session with.Only thing is,the chance was there,it just didn't feel right and I did not want to go backwards.Turning her away was the best feeling that sex could not give me.

She was shocked to say the least.

DISKOQUEEN99
04-04-2003, 12:21 PM
Turning her away was the best feeling that sex could not give me.
OOH, JAMIE. SO MEAN. BUT DIDN'T YOU REALLY WANNA DO IT?

Jamie 3:26
04-04-2003, 12:23 PM
Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> Turning her away was the best feeling that sex could not give me.
OOH, JAMIE. SO MEAN. BUT DIDN'T YOU REALLY WANNA DO IT? </font>[/QUOTE]I would be lying if I said no,but I had to be strong and turn her down.I just did not want to go backwards.I would have been all messed up again.

Wild i
04-04-2003, 12:24 PM
Depends on the ex. Depends on how the relationship was and how it ended.

If it's someone you still trust, it might be safer to meet those needs with him/her than going out there when you really don't want a relationship. I have at least 2 exes I'd take to bed in a minute. For one thing, I now know what NOT to expect from them and that could work very well into my plan. On the other hand, I've had a neurotic or two who I don't even want to know my phone number.

AD
04-04-2003, 12:25 PM
Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
Turning her away was the best feeling that sex could not give me.
I've been there before. Turning her down is like giving her the biggest FU. What a wonderful feeling it is. smokin.gif

Jolyon
04-04-2003, 12:48 PM
If you can both walk away afterwards with no hassles...what's the problem.

Done it before and it was ok. Done it with another and weird afterwards.

Not worth effort...just find someone else instead smile.gif

Pete Nice
04-04-2003, 01:00 PM
i've done it,still do it and now she's in thearpy... no joke. bad habits die hard. i've done the booty call with her and a couple hours later got with the girlfriend. graemlins/spanka.gif i'm just a dawg when it comes to stuff like that. this is why i won't get in a serious relationship. all that shit comes back and i don't wanna pay the karma mafia. graemlins/stupid.gif forget about it. save the drama for your mama!

lola desire
04-04-2003, 01:02 PM
why go back to substandard sex when i'm married to the best???

( graemlins/remybussi.gif thank god i'm married graemlins/1luvu.gif )

RX
04-04-2003, 01:09 PM
they ARE ex's for a reason, but if jamie 3:26 and ron c will have me back for a few hours, i wouldn't say "no"...

Jamie 3:26
04-04-2003, 01:10 PM
Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
they ARE ex's for a reason, but if jamie 3:26 and ron c will have me back for a few hours, i wouldn't say "no"... Check ya pm's.... graemlins/rofl.gif
Just kidding...

nev m
04-05-2003, 08:13 AM
Keep movin' on. Don't look back.

DOTSmusic
04-05-2003, 11:07 AM
i have done it and it can be fun but i think it's better left in memory.
life is about progression not digression.
look to the past as a reference for what lies ahead.
keep moving forward, only looking back to wave goodbye to the past you left behind.

DJ George Bates
04-05-2003, 08:08 PM
NOOOOOOOO ! I'm sorry. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !The relationship with my wife is literally the best relationship I've ever been in ! Ther eis no piece of " love from the past " that is worth me fuc#king that up ! remember they are ex's for a reason !

The Real Dragonfly Jones
04-06-2003, 04:24 AM
I've had sex with an ex... was it worth it? Yes and no. It's worth it when I was horny but not worth the confussion it caused in the relationship.