The thrill of the chase vs. actual relationship

[richierich]

Maybe it's just me but in the past I have noticed that when it comes to pursueing women once I find out that I have won that woman's heart I tended to be less interested. The whole thing of trying to either get some coochie or just win the affection of a woman whose interest in me seemed lukewarm at best was more of a thrill than actually reaping the benefits of that womans' affection. Was I crazy, playing games or what?? Of course there were exceptions. Once the woman started falling for me I kinda dropped the interest level (not on purpose it was just honest feelings). It's not the case now as I really appreciate the bond between a man and a woman. Maybe I was just immature (sp). Do others feel this way.. once you've got them it's like ok chase over bye. Again seriously I say this was in the past.

[ June 17, 2003, 10:30 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]

[Jamie 3:26]

First Choice was singin' bout you..."Jimmy Lee" graemlins/rofl.gif

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
First Choice was singin' bout you..."Jimmy Lee" graemlins/rofl.gif What a song...but then, what a man! Richierich - stay away from my daughters, man. ;) graemlins/rofl.gif

[JMJ]

Originally posted by richierich:
Maybe it's just me but in the past I have noticed that when it comes to pursueing women once I find out that I have won that woman's heart I tended to be less interested. The whole thing of trying to either get some coochie or just win the affection of a woman whose interest in me seemed lukewarm at best was more of a thrill than actually reaping the benefits of that womans' affection. Was I crazy, playing games or what?? It's not the case now as I really appreciate the bond between a man and a woman. Maybe I was just immature (sp). Do others feel this way.. once you've got them it's like ok chase over bye. Everybody likes a challenge, and with some men and women, that's all it is, like a game of cat and mouse. I think that's mostly because of infatuation or lust rather than genuine interest in the other person, which is why the thrill is gone once you get what you want.....JMJ ;)

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Well what do you say to that one's that call you up later that night after a date and tell you, "I wish you didn't leave"?

Do you go back and get yours, or is this just a warning sign for you to avoid any emotional contact with this person anytime soon because "SHe ain't the one"?

Peace

[richierich]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
Well what do you say to that one's that call you up later that night after a date and tell you, "I wish you didn't leave"?

Do you go back and get yours, or is this just a warning sign for you to avoid any emotional contact with this person anytime soon because "SHe ain't the one"?

Peace 9 times out of 10..I'm going back!

[Koffy Brown]

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[JMJ]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
Well what do you say to that one's that call you up later that night after a date and tell you, "I wish you didn't leave"?

Do you go back and get yours, or is this just a warning sign for you to avoid any emotional contact with this person anytime soon because "SHe ain't the one"?

Peace If a woman makes the MISTAKE of letting me go home, she can call all she wants...I'M NOT COMING BACK!! I like women that know what they want and aren't afraid to say it......JMJ graemlins/cool_shades.gif

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
graemlins/jpshakehead.gif What you noddin for?

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by richierich:
Maybe it's just me but in the past I have noticed that when it comes to pursueing women once I find out that I have won that woman's heart I tended to be less interested. The whole thing of trying to either get some coochie or just win the affection of a woman whose interest in me seemed lukewarm at best was more of a thrill than actually reaping the benefits of that womans' affection. Was I crazy, playing games or what?? Of course there were exceptions. Once the woman started falling for me I kinda dropped the interest level (not on purpose it was just honest feelings). It's not the case now as I really appreciate the bond between a man and a woman. Maybe I was just immature (sp). Do others feel this way.. once you've got them it's like ok chase over bye. Again seriously I say this was in the past. I'm glad I read this part

Again seriously I say this was in the past.

because I was bout to act up....

[M3taPhsX]

I hear what you're sayin. Unless I'm really diggin the girl from the get go, I lose interest right after I have sex with them.

[Jamie 3:26]

Rich,sometimes when you reflect on the former you,ya can't help but bug out on how much you have grown and matured.Some folks never grow out of the life patterns they have set.It takes a lot in a person to realize they have faults and to try to correct those faults.

Most folks play the blame game,when the consatnt factor in your universe is YOU!!No one else controls what you allow in your world but you.Not God,not the devil,The "man"not anyone but YOU!!

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
I hear what you're sayin. Unless I'm really diggin the girl from the get go, I lose interest right after I have sex with them. What a waste of time...hers and yours...

[And]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
I hear what you're sayin. Unless I'm really diggin the girl from the get go, I lose interest right after I have sex with them. Straight up! graemlins/rofl.gif
I can relate to what RichieRich is saying. Only in my case it's when the sex comes up that I start losing interest. graemlins/conf44.gif

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
I hear what you're sayin. Unless I'm really diggin the girl from the get go, I lose interest right after I have sex with them. Straight up! graemlins/rofl.gif
I can relate to what RichieRich is saying. Only in my case it's when the sex comes up that I start losing interest. graemlins/conf44.gif </font>[/QUOTE]so this brings me to this question...what if you never have sex with a man, do they still lose interest?

[And]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
I hear what you're sayin. Unless I'm really diggin the girl from the get go, I lose interest right after I have sex with them. Straight up! graemlins/rofl.gif
I can relate to what RichieRich is saying. Only in my case it's when the sex comes up that I start losing interest. graemlins/conf44.gif so this brings me to this question...what if you never have sex with a man, do they still lose interest? </font>You'd better believe they do. icon_rofl.gif
Of course not until they've given me heavy doses of the "Sex is a good thing baby ... there's no need to be shy" talk. Then I'll respond with: "but sex is sooooo easy to get. Everybody's doing it right? So why don't we go for something a little more challenging?"
...
I'm settling into the single life quite comfortably ... Okay, I'm just settling into it. ;)

[JMJ]

Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
I hear what you're sayin. Unless I'm really diggin the girl from the get go, I lose interest right after I have sex with them. Straight up! graemlins/rofl.gif
I can relate to what RichieRich is saying. Only in my case it's when the sex comes up that I start losing interest. graemlins/conf44.gif so this brings me to this question...what if you never have sex with a man, do they still lose interest? </font>You'd better believe they do. icon_rofl.gif
Of course not until they've given me heavy doses of the "Sex is a good thing baby ... there's no need to be shy" talk. Then I'll respond with: "but sex is sooooo easy to get. Everybody's doing it right? So why don't we go for something a little more challenging?"
...
I'm settling into the single life quite comfortably ... Okay, I'm just settling into it. ;) </font>[/QUOTE]Like what, Scrabble??.....JMJ graemlins/cool_shades.gif

[richierich]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
I hear what you're sayin. Unless I'm really diggin the girl from the get go, I lose interest right after I have sex with them. Straight up! graemlins/rofl.gif
I can relate to what RichieRich is saying. Only in my case it's when the sex comes up that I start losing interest. graemlins/conf44.gif </font>[/QUOTE]so this brings me to this question...what if you never have sex with a man, do they still lose interest? </font>[/QUOTE]I say no they,we will just have sex with someone else while we're waiting for you... seriously!! It isn't the main thing in a relationship but it is a part of it. Some place way too much emphasis on it and think that just because it took longer that it is/was more special and really get their feelings hurt because they attached their hearts to their sex and feel like well I've given you all of me when the other feels like it's just sex... I hope that made sense.

[ June 17, 2003, 11:14 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]

[Leslie]

This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy.

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by Leslie:
This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy. GET THE HELL OUT OF MY HEAD

YOU LAFFING TOO graemlins/rofl.gif

[mhd]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy. GET THE HELL OUT OF MY HEAD

YOU LAFFING TOO graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]we need help, ok, i'm admitting

[richierich]

Originally posted by Leslie:
This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy. Huh.. I aint said nothin like that and I'm talking about how I use to honestly feel. I aint never said women are stupid, never called them hoes and said that I keep my party and intimate life seperate.. you surely are talking about someone else.

[And]

Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
I hear what you're sayin. Unless I'm really diggin the girl from the get go, I lose interest right after I have sex with them. Straight up! graemlins/rofl.gif
I can relate to what RichieRich is saying. Only in my case it's when the sex comes up that I start losing interest. graemlins/conf44.gif so this brings me to this question...what if you never have sex with a man, do they still lose interest? </font>You'd better believe they do. icon_rofl.gif
Of course not until they've given me heavy doses of the "Sex is a good thing baby ... there's no need to be shy" talk. Then I'll respond with: "but sex is sooooo easy to get. Everybody's doing it right? So why don't we go for something a little more challenging?"
...
I'm settling into the single life quite comfortably ... Okay, I'm just settling into it. ;) </font>[/QUOTE]Like what, Scrabble??.....JMJ graemlins/cool_shades.gif </font>[/QUOTE]After some of the performances I've endured in the sack ... Yes ... scrabble would actually be challenging and entertaining. graemlins/cool_shades.gif

[richierich]

Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy. Huh.. I aint said nothin like that and I'm talking about how I use to honestly feel. I aint never said women are stupid, never called them hoes and said that I keep my party and intimate life seperate.. you surely are talking about someone else. And it goes both ways .. there are women that feel the same way.</font>[/QUOTE]

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy. Huh.. I aint said nothin like that and I'm talking about how I use to honestly feel. I aint never said women are stupid, never called them hoes and said that I keep my party and intimate life seperate.. you surely are talking about someone else. </font>[/QUOTE]Believe it or not this is exactly what you were saying, it may not apply now because you claim you no longer think like the scenario that you described...but in essence you said that women were stupid, not worthy, you berated women, you called them hoes...and all of this was done with your past actions and way of thinking...

Thank Goodness for growth, maturity and evolution...

peace

[richierich]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy. Huh.. I aint said nothin like that and I'm talking about how I use to honestly feel. I aint never said women are stupid, never called them hoes and said that I keep my party and intimate life seperate.. you surely are talking about someone else. </font>[/QUOTE]Believe it or not this is exactly what you were saying, it may not apply now because you claim you no longer think like the scenario that you described...but in essence you said that women were stupid, not worthy, you berated women, you called them hoes...and all of this was done with your past actions and way of thinking...

Thank Goodness for growth, maturity and evolution...

peace </font>[/QUOTE]

[ June 17, 2003, 11:46 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]

[richierich]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:

Originally posted by Leslie:
[qb] This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy. Huh.. I aint said nothin like that and I'm talking about how I use to honestly feel. I aint never said women are stupid, never called them hoes and said that I keep my party and intimate life seperate.. you surely are talking about someone else. </font>Believe it or not this is exactly what you were saying, it may not apply now because you claim you no longer think like the scenario that you described...but in essence you said that women were stupid, not worthy, you berated women, you called them hoes...and all of this was done with your past actions and way of thinking...

Thank Goodness for growth, maturity and evolution...

[ June 17, 2003, 11:46 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]

[richierich]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy. Huh.. I aint said nothin like that and I'm talking about how I use to honestly feel. I aint never said women are stupid, never called them hoes and said that I keep my party and intimate life seperate.. you surely are talking about someone else. </font>[/QUOTE]Believe it or not this is exactly what you were saying, it may not apply now because you claim you no longer think like the scenario that you described...but in essence you said that women were stupid, not worthy, you berated women, you called them hoes...and all of this was done with your past actions and way of thinking...

Thank Goodness for growth, maturity and evolution...

peace </font>[/QUOTE]Naw, Naw, Naw.. that couldn't be what I'm sayin' because I have never felt like women were hoes, or stupid or club girls don't count.. where in what I said do you get all of this out of. That's like sayin' if I said this I really meant that. I don't bite my tongue and aint afraid to put myself out there but hell naw. As much love and respect as I have for women there is no way that you are gonna put that bullshit into my words.. I'm not having it.. if you want to vent find someone who has dissed you cuz I never have.. show me that words that I said to back that up...please...break it down!!

[ June 17, 2003, 11:54 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]

[Leslie]

Originally posted by richierich:

peace [/qb]Naw, Naw, Naw.. that couldn't be what I'm sayin' because I have never felt like women were hoes, or stupid or club girls don't count.. where in what I said do you get all of this out of. That's like sayin' if I said this I really meant that. I don't bite my tongue and aint afraid to put myself out there but hell naw. As much love and respect as I have for women there is no way that you are gonna put that bullshit into my words.. I'm not having it.. if you want to vent find someone who has dissed you cuz I never have.. show me that words that I said to back that up...please...break it down!! [/QB][/QUOTE]


Someone please dig up the post regarding specific women in your(Richierich's) office, I ain't got the energy to rifle through today....

[richierich]

Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:

peace Naw, Naw, Naw.. that couldn't be what I'm sayin' because I have never felt like women were hoes, or stupid or club girls don't count.. where in what I said do you get all of this out of. That's like sayin' if I said this I really meant that. I don't bite my tongue and aint afraid to put myself out there but hell naw. As much love and respect as I have for women there is no way that you are gonna put that bullshit into my words.. I'm not having it.. if you want to vent find someone who has dissed you cuz I never have.. show me that words that I said to back that up...please...break it down!! [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]Someone please dig up the post regarding specific women in your(Richierich's) office, I ain't got the energy to rifle through today.... [/QB][/QUOTE]
I know exactly what thread you are talking about and the whole thing was about them patronizing me because I told them they were attractive and I didn't like it... what?? Not looking for an arguement but I know what I mean when I say stuff.
Where is the disrespect in that?

[Jolyon]

I think I've fallen in love with Leslie.

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
This is hilarious. One minute you all are berating women for "using men", "being stupid", "fugging hoes", "women in clubs are not quality women", etc...the next you talk about how you you chase us but once we start to show interest or allow you pleasures of the flesh you decide we are no longer worthy. Huh.. I aint said nothin like that and I'm talking about how I use to honestly feel. I aint never said women are stupid, never called them hoes and said that I keep my party and intimate life seperate.. you surely are talking about someone else. </font>[/QUOTE]Believe it or not this is exactly what you were saying, it may not apply now because you claim you no longer think like the scenario that you described...but in essence you said that women were stupid, not worthy, you berated women, you called them hoes...and all of this was done with your past actions and way of thinking...

Thank Goodness for growth, maturity and evolution...

peace </font>[/QUOTE]Naw, Naw, Naw.. that couldn't be what I'm sayin' because I have never felt like women were hoes, or stupid or club girls don't count.. where in what I said do you get all of this out of. That's like sayin' if I said this I really meant that. I don't bite my tongue and aint afraid to put myself out there but hell naw. As much love and respect as I have for women there is no way that you are gonna put that bullshit into my words.. I'm not having it.. if you want to vent find someone who has dissed you cuz I never have.. show me that words that I said to back that up...please...break it down!! </font>[/QUOTE]well if you respected and loved women so much (now we're speaking of the past right?) why would you not be interested in them after they give you their most prized possession...the thrill is gone...huh...that was respect huh...This isn't about me personally brotha, and I'm not venting, this isn't about me, it's about brotha's thinking they can treat women any ****ing way...it's all about the coochie, it's this it's that...but be the main ones to have a ****ing sucka attack if a sistah was to say that she only dates men who make 6 figues, and drive a certain car....

I'm glad you don't think the way you use to...

[RX]

richie, you just haven't found the right woman at the right time in your life yet...once you are prepared, you shall receive - your current situation is like being offered a great meal and you're already full...

it's not the women, sweetie...it's you...and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that...

[Leslie]

Richie, not looking for an argument either, but there are times when you don't think you've said something when in actuality you have as Ashaki pointed out.

Read back through some of the male responses and really think about what is being said.

[Leslie]

Originally posted by Jolyon:
I think I've fallen in love with Leslie. If only it were that easy... graemlins/remybussi.gif

[RX]

jolyon, if i were a man, i'd flirt with her, too...leslie's really cool... graemlins/thumbsup.gif

[richierich]

Originally posted by Leslie:
Richie, not looking for an argument either, but there are times when you don't think you've said something when in actuality you have as Ashaki pointed out.

Read back through some of the male responses and really think about what is being said. I know but I can only speak for myself If I offended you or anyone else.. I apologize...but damn I was just saying how I used to honestly feel back in my girl chasing days.. that's all.

[richierich]

Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
richie, you just haven't found the right woman at the right time in your life yet...once you are prepared, you shall receive - your current situation is like being offered a great meal and you're already full...

it's not the women, sweetie...it's you...and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that... I never thought it was the women and knew it was me that's why I said this in the first place.

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
Richie, not looking for an argument either, but there are times when you don't think you've said something when in actuality you have as Ashaki pointed out.

Read back through some of the male responses and really think about what is being said. I know but I can only speak for myself If I offended you or anyone else.. I apologize...but damn I was just saying how I used to honestly feel back in my girl chasing days.. that's all. </font>[/QUOTE]You didn't offend me, I just found it hillarious (litterally) that men think this way...and I'll say it again, I'm glad that you know longer think like this...but there are plenty of men who do....what made you stop chasing women?

[M3taPhsX]

A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with you, DO NOT sleep with him right away.

[ June 17, 2003, 12:22 PM: Message edited by: M3taPhsX ]

[MusicFilter]

Rich I feel ya! After the bullsh*t I went through with someone I thought loved me, I don't know what's best to do when it comes to women.

Everybody is on somethin'! Everyone is out here for themselves, so if you get next to a woman enough for her to share herself with you, get and be gone if that's what you're about because bellieve me when they are ready to bail on you they will.

Now maybe I'm a little biased but I have been single (meaning no committed relationship) for about 6 months. I've dated women who want nothing but a good time, free dinner, attention and sex, but with no commitment. Some want to be "friends" but reap the benefits of being my woman, which basically means be friends (no coochie) and I pay for everything. graemlins/nono.gif
I'm a relationship type brotha, but most women out here aren't in that relationship mode.

Ask most women why they like being single and they tell you because they don't want to have to answer to anyone or they like their freedom.

It's all a big game out here, no one can be trusted. Have yourself some fun be safe, and what I mean by be safe is be protected, but mostly protect your heart, because no one is on the love tip, IT'S ALL ABOUT PLEASURE.

So Rich, get yours and move on, better you move on than she move on when you begin to fall in love.

[Leslie]

Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
Richie, not looking for an argument either, but there are times when you don't think you've said something when in actuality you have as Ashaki pointed out.

Read back through some of the male responses and really think about what is being said. I know but I can only speak for myself If I offended you or anyone else.. I apologize...but damn I was just saying how I used to honestly feel back in my girl chasing days.. that's all. </font>[/QUOTE]Richie its all good and I understand - perhaps my initiall response was to jsut men's topics about women in general and was probably more reactionary towards some of the responses that the men gave - especially M3ta...to actually come right out and say that is some serious shit and speaks volumes about the man and not the woman - however as you stated you have the benefit of growth and maturity on your side.

[MusicFilter]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with, DO NOT sleep with him right away. It doesn't matter when we get it, it's gonna get got and we gone. icon_rofl.gif

And while you are makin' us wait, we are gettin' it somewhere else.

[Jolyon]

Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jolyon:
I think I've fallen in love with Leslie. If only it were that easy... graemlins/remybussi.gif </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/bighug.gif

It's ALWAYS easy.

[JMJ]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Wait until after dinner......JMJ

[Jolyon]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with you, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Well I've been in love with a girl who did just that. Also, a girl who waited three months. And a whole lot in between. I don't think that's got anything to do with anything, in my personal experience.

[Leslie]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Who the hell are you to give any woman advice given your earlier response? Did it EVER occur to you that she only wanted to sleep with you too? (oh I forgot you were the one who said no respectable women went to clubs so we know where ya picked her up).

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by Jolyon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with you, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Well I've been in love with a girl who did just that. Also, a girl who waited three months. And a whole lot in between. I don't think that's got anything to do with anything, in my personal experience. </font>[/QUOTE]So are you telling me if you meet a girl, you go out, she sleep swith you on the first night that she is someeone you would look at with respect and high moral character?

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jolyon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with you, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Well I've been in love with a girl who did just that. Also, a girl who waited three months. And a whole lot in between. I don't think that's got anything to do with anything, in my personal experience. </font>[/QUOTE]So are you telling me if you meet a girl, you go out, she sleep swith you on the first night that she is someeone you would look at with respect and high moral character? </font>[/QUOTE]how old are you?

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Who the hell are you to give any woman advice given your earlier response? Did it EVER occur to you that she only wanted to sleep with you too? (oh I forgot you were the one who said no respectable women went to clubs so we know where ya picked her up). </font>[/QUOTE]Angry feminist who only wants to hear what she wants Alert! graemlins/conf44.gif

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jolyon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with you, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Well I've been in love with a girl who did just that. Also, a girl who waited three months. And a whole lot in between. I don't think that's got anything to do with anything, in my personal experience. </font>[/QUOTE]So are you telling me if you meet a girl, you go out, she sleep swith you on the first night that she is someeone you would look at with respect and high moral character? </font>[/QUOTE]how old are you? </font>[/QUOTE]30

[Leslie]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jolyon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with you, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Well I've been in love with a girl who did just that. Also, a girl who waited three months. And a whole lot in between. I don't think that's got anything to do with anything, in my personal experience. </font>[/QUOTE]So are you telling me if you meet a girl, you go out, she sleep swith you on the first night that she is someeone you would look at with respect and high moral character? </font>[/QUOTE]Oh so you have high moral charecter by pursuing someone, using them for sex, and moving on...oh I forgot your a man so its okay....you're precluded from being chaste, respectable, and ove high moral charecter - carry on....

[Koffy Brown]

M3ta you have a lot to learn about women (American)...

[ June 17, 2003, 12:32 PM: Message edited by: Ashaki ]

[Jolyon]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jolyon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with you, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Well I've been in love with a girl who did just that. Also, a girl who waited three months. And a whole lot in between. I don't think that's got anything to do with anything, in my personal experience. </font>[/QUOTE]So are you telling me if you meet a girl, you go out, she sleep swith you on the first night that she is someeone you would look at with respect and high moral character? </font>[/QUOTE]How could I make a moral judgement on a girl for sleeping with me on the first date when I've done the exact same thing with her right there then?

Anyway, I have no moral code of my own when it comes to sex, so why should I expect others to have one?

Plus, I respect a girl for her character and a lot of other things - whether or not she's prepared to have sex with me on the first night or the hundredth night has nothing to do with whether I respect her. If she tells me all about her favourite book, her greatest record of all time, why she's in favour of whalehunting or whatever, that's how she's going to win my respect...

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
You have a lot to learn about women (American)... Oh I know all about them, and it's a shame.

[RX]

Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
richie, you just haven't found the right woman at the right time in your life yet...once you are prepared, you shall receive - your current situation is like being offered a great meal and you're already full...

it's not the women, sweetie...it's you...and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that... I never thought it was the women and knew it was me that's why I said this in the first place. </font>[/QUOTE]you did not say that in the first place...you said "maybe it's just me"...

carry on...

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by chgodj3:
Rich I feel ya! After the bullsh*t I went through with someone I thought loved me, I don't know what's best to do when it comes to women.

Everybody is on somethin'! Everyone is out here for themselves, so if you get next to a woman enough for her to share herself with you, get and be gone if that's what you're about because bellieve me when they are ready to bail on you they will.

Now maybe I'm a little biased but I have been single (meaning no committed relationship) for about 6 months. I've dated women who want nothing but a good time, free dinner, attention and sex, but with no commitment. Some want to be "friends" but reap the benefits of being my woman, which basically means be friends (no coochie) and I pay for everything. graemlins/nono.gif
I'm a relationship type brotha, but most women out here aren't in that relationship mode.

Ask most women why they like being single and they tell you because they don't want to have to answer to anyone or they like their freedom.

It's all a big game out here, no one can be trusted. Have yourself some fun be safe, and what I mean by be safe is be protected, but mostly protect your heart, because no one is on the love tip, IT'S ALL ABOUT PLEASURE.

So Rich, get yours and move on, better you move on than she move on when you begin to fall in love. Let it go brotha...forreal...honestly you've only been out of your relationship for 6 months...are you sure your ready for another serious relationship....you seem like you need to release some things...I'm being serious...are ou one of those serial monogomous relationship addicts...

[RX]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ashaki:
You have a lot to learn about women (American)... Oh I know all about them, and it's a shame. </font>[/QUOTE]next... </font>[/QUOTE]ms. ashaki, you shoulda seen that one coming... icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif

[MusicFilter]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jolyon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
A word of advice to all women out there. If you want a guy to respect you and possibly fall in love with you, DO NOT sleep with him right away. Well I've been in love with a girl who did just that. Also, a girl who waited three months. And a whole lot in between. I don't think that's got anything to do with anything, in my personal experience. </font>[/QUOTE]So are you telling me if you meet a girl, you go out, she sleep swith you on the first night that she is someeone you would look at with respect and high moral character? </font>[/QUOTE]Yes, are we not adults? It's not that we slept together the first night, it's how you handle it after that. You know the morning after.

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ashaki:
You have a lot to learn about women (American)... Oh I know all about them, and it's a shame. </font>[/QUOTE]next...

[richierich]

Ashaki I stopped chasing women because they stopped running.... no but seriously it all comes when it's supposed to and I want quality not quantity. I never thought that a woman's coochie was her most prized possession I thought it was their brains. If a woman does want to date a guy because he has this or that it has nothing to do with me and all of that can be broken down if she finds someone that she really digs. In my twenties I tried to be with a lot of women because I liked being around them.. this is how I was learning about women.. by being in their company. I guess I never considered it disrespect to act upon your true feelings and that's all I was doing.. were talking about like 1981-1992 or '93 age 21-33 and there were exceptions. I am 42yrs. old now. I fell deep in love twice during that time. There are some women who command that without even asking for it.. you just know this girl aint for no bullshit. Some are all about bullshit. Believe me there are those of the opposite sex that practice this as well.. it's not a man thang it's an I don't know what I want or I just don't want you thang.. that's all.

[M3taPhsX]

You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to.

[ June 17, 2003, 12:40 PM: Message edited by: M3taPhsX ]

[Leslie]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to. 1 minute man has spoken...trust, you can tell! graemlins/rofl.gif

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by richierich:
Ashaki I stopped chasing women because they stopped running.... no but seriously it all comes when it's supposed to and I want quality not quantity. I never thought that a woman's coochie was her most prized possession I thought it was their brains. If a woman does want to date a guy because he has this or that it has nothing to do with me and all of that can be broken down if she finds someone that she really digs. In my twenties I tried to be with a lot of women because I liked being around them.. this is how I was learning about women.. by being in their company. I guess I never considered it disrespect to act upon your true feelings and that's all I was doing.. were talking about like 1981-1992 or '93 age 21-33 and there were exceptions. I am 42yrs. old now. I fell deep in love twice during that time. There are some women who command that without even asking for it.. you just know this girl aint for no bullshit. Some are all about bullshit. Believe me there are those of the opposite sex that practice this as well.. it's not a man thang it's an I don't know what I want or I just don't want you thang.. that's all. mkay...I can dig it...

graemlins/remybussi.gif

[Jolyon]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to. I am being honest. Can you explain why you think it's cool for you to **** a girl on the first night but she is somehow lacking in morals (what ever they are) for doing the same thing you're doing?

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to. 1 minute man has spoken...trust, you can tell! graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Leslie, why are you so offened by what I say? Is it because you live the lifestyle I am criticizing? To each his/her own but I am entitled to my opinion.

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by Jolyon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to. I am being honest. Can you explain why you think it's cool for you to **** a girl on the first night but she is somehow lacking in morals (what ever they are) for doing the same thing you're doing? </font>[/QUOTE]Political correctness did a number on you bredgren...

[And]

I think the reason I'm not so offended by m3ta is because I think he's really touching on how a lot of men think. Not all ... but a lot.
I am curious to find out what he thinks of himself if he's sleeping with these women on the first night too.

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to. 1 minute man has spoken...trust, you can tell! graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]you were being generous...I was thinking more like..."this kind of stuff never happens to me..honestly, I don't know what's wrong...maybe I'm excited..." that is usually less than 1 minute graemlins/rofl.gif

[Jolyon]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jolyon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to. I am being honest. Can you explain why you think it's cool for you to **** a girl on the first night but she is somehow lacking in morals (what ever they are) for doing the same thing you're doing? </font>[/QUOTE]Political correctness did a number on you bredgren... </font>[/QUOTE]Call it whatever you like. I call it getting old and learning from the mistakes you make when you're a nipper.

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to. 1 minute man has spoken...trust, you can tell! graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]you were being generous...I was thinking more like..."this kind of stuff never happens to me..honestly, I don't know what's wrong...maybe I'm excited..." that is usually less than 1 minute graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]I'm not gonna hurl personal insults at you guys, even though I had a good comeback on that. I don't understand why all the anger?

[MusicFilter]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by chgodj3:
Rich I feel ya! After the bullsh*t I went through with someone I thought loved me, I don't know what's best to do when it comes to women.

Everybody is on somethin'! Everyone is out here for themselves, so if you get next to a woman enough for her to share herself with you, get and be gone if that's what you're about because bellieve me when they are ready to bail on you they will.

Now maybe I'm a little biased but I have been single (meaning no committed relationship) for about 6 months. I've dated women who want nothing but a good time, free dinner, attention and sex, but with no commitment. Some want to be "friends" but reap the benefits of being my woman, which basically means be friends (no coochie) and I pay for everything. graemlins/nono.gif
I'm a relationship type brotha, but most women out here aren't in that relationship mode.

Ask most women why they like being single and they tell you because they don't want to have to answer to anyone or they like their freedom.

It's all a big game out here, no one can be trusted. Have yourself some fun be safe, and what I mean by be safe is be protected, but mostly protect your heart, because no one is on the love tip, IT'S ALL ABOUT PLEASURE.

So Rich, get yours and move on, better you move on than she move on when you begin to fall in love. Let it go brotha...forreal...honestly you've only been out of your relationship for 6 months...are you sure your ready for another serious relationship....you seem like you need to release some things...I'm being serious...are ou one of those serial monogomous relationship addicts... </font>[/QUOTE]I'm over it Ashaki, but that's just the way it is and as far as being a "serial monogomous relationship addicts" I guess you prefer a man you give yourself to and nothing comes of it, I think they have a name for that.

[Leslie]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to. 1 minute man has spoken...trust, you can tell! graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Leslie, why are you so offened by what I say? Is it because you live the lifestyle I am criticizing? To each his/her own but I am entitled to my opinion. </font>[/QUOTE]How woould you know what type of lifestyle I live? I simply put a scenario out there and you (in your 30 yrs of infinite wisdom) assumed that I run out and sleep with men the minute I meet them - I never said anything like that - but you said of yourself that once you sleep with women you lose interest - and yet you never address your behavior only the behavior or the women you insist you sleep with. So let's flip the script and look at you since you are so sure you know what my deal is.....(this is where he graemlins/bolt.gif , watch...)

[lyot]

i want to concur to the statement that the average DHP man seems much more sensitive then most of the men I know in the "real" world..

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by chgodj3:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by chgodj3:
Rich I feel ya! After the bullsh*t I went through with someone I thought loved me, I don't know what's best to do when it comes to women.

Everybody is on somethin'! Everyone is out here for themselves, so if you get next to a woman enough for her to share herself with you, get and be gone if that's what you're about because bellieve me when they are ready to bail on you they will.

Now maybe I'm a little biased but I have been single (meaning no committed relationship) for about 6 months. I've dated women who want nothing but a good time, free dinner, attention and sex, but with no commitment. Some want to be "friends" but reap the benefits of being my woman, which basically means be friends (no coochie) and I pay for everything. graemlins/nono.gif
I'm a relationship type brotha, but most women out here aren't in that relationship mode.

Ask most women why they like being single and they tell you because they don't want to have to answer to anyone or they like their freedom.

It's all a big game out here, no one can be trusted. Have yourself some fun be safe, and what I mean by be safe is be protected, but mostly protect your heart, because no one is on the love tip, IT'S ALL ABOUT PLEASURE.

So Rich, get yours and move on, better you move on than she move on when you begin to fall in love. Let it go brotha...forreal...honestly you've only been out of your relationship for 6 months...are you sure your ready for another serious relationship....you seem like you need to release some things...I'm being serious...are ou one of those serial monogomous relationship addicts... </font>[/QUOTE]I'm over it Ashaki, but that's just the way it is and as far as being a "serial monogomous relationship addicts" I guess you prefer a man you give yourself to and nothing comes of it, I think they have a name for that. </font>[/QUOTE]Personally I don't Chg...what I prefer is someone who is not carrying a bunch of baggage and issues...not saying that you are...My thing is I don't have to have a mate, I want one, but the right one...I don't have to have sex, I'm okay with me, but I know some people who are obsessed with relationships...they go into 1 relationship after the other...not saying that you do...but they have a hard time being by themselves...and guess what ... these people are never happy in their relationships...that's why they have so many...jmo
btw...I am so far from that word that you were thinking of...

peace

[ June 17, 2003, 01:13 PM: Message edited by: Ashaki ]

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Well Gee willikers. I was gone for an hour and a half replacing a hard drive and re imaging 4 computers and this thread is now three pages!!!


How in d hail are you guys gonna try and explain shit that has been going on for thousands of years? I'd really like to know.


You don't hear chickens, lions, dogs, cats, fish, and insects complaining do you?

[Friday]

M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on.

[RX]

Originally posted by lyot:
i want to concur to the statement that the average DHP man seems much more sensitive then most of the men I know in the "real" world.. yeah, but many of them are closet playas... graemlins/cheering.gif

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by girlfriday:
M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on. It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.

Peace

[ June 17, 2003, 01:14 PM: Message edited by: GROOVE VICTIM ]

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on. It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]is this what you do Groove?

[lyot]

Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by lyot:
i want to concur to the statement that the average DHP man seems much more sensitive then most of the men I know in the "real" world.. yeah, but many of them are closet playas... graemlins/cheering.gif </font>[/QUOTE]what's that Ms Rickey X ?

[RX]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on. It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]please...once you pass a certain age and maturity, all that "time" shyt goes out of the window...

everything y'all are slinging about was covered by me and my contemporaries long ago...

i'm out.

[GROOVE VICTIM]

shit happens

[Friday]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on. It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]Precisely, ;) ........shame

Carry on though smile.gif

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
shit happens but it's the women in your neck of the woods huh...you men are so transparent...

[Leslie]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
shit happens but it's the women in your neck of the woods huh...you men are so transparent... </font>[/QUOTE]GOOOOOOOAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!

graemlins/OLA.gif

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
shit happens but it's the women in your neck of the woods huh...you men are so transparent... </font>[/QUOTE]When you have a conversation that consists of "Whatcha doin", "Nuttin", with some of these characters down here, then call me.

Have you been watchin the Real World on MTV lately? There's a dude that's from the town where I live in now, and he proves to me everyday how ridicerous people can be in my neck of the woods. No culture at all.

Peace

[Mack-Williams]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on. It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]I feel that is not true. It depends on for me if I am truely interested, and attracted in that person. Also if me and her are sexually compatible.

[RX]

Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on. It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]Precisely, ;) ........shame

Carry on though smile.gif </font>[/QUOTE]girlfriday, the minute you believe it's about that, you may as well start abstaining...think grown men...GROWN - they ain't saying "well, if she puts out today..."...they are more concerned with if she can handle hers, period...

[JMJ]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on. It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]Not with the right woman. Keep in mind you used the words friendship and relationship, which don't coincide with infatuation or lust.....JMJ ;)

[RX]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
shit happens but it's the women in your neck of the woods huh...you men are so transparent... </font>[/QUOTE]don't say that to groove...he'll go on his rampage about southernwomen...(love you, though!) graemlins/1luvu.gif

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
You guys are being so PC in front of the ladies it's killing me. I've never met a bunch of more sensitive, "understanding" men in my life.....be honest fellas, at least richierich had the balls to. 1 minute man has spoken...trust, you can tell! graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Leslie, why are you so offened by what I say? Is it because you live the lifestyle I am criticizing? To each his/her own but I am entitled to my opinion. </font>[/QUOTE]How woould you know what type of lifestyle I live? I simply put a scenario out there and you (in your 30 yrs of infinite wisdom) assumed that I run out and sleep with men the minute I meet them - I never said anything like that - but you said of yourself that once you sleep with women you lose interest - and yet you never address your behavior only the behavior or the women you insist you sleep with. So let's flip the script and look at you since you are so sure you know what my deal is.....(this is where he graemlins/bolt.gif , watch...) </font>[/QUOTE]I've never seen someone twist words around so much. You are one of those irrational people I don't like to have debates with because you don't listen and just spew but anyways....I don't know where you have been living, it must be another planet. Men and women are built totally differnet when it come to sexuality. There have been so many studies on this and it is apparent in everyday life. It is things like the feminist movement and political correctness that stop people from using common sense. For a man to sleep with a woman, it is a purely physical act and does not require any emotional attachment. For a woman to sleep with a man is a different story. I even read a study that said 9 out of 10 men that a woman chose to sleep with, they could see as a life partner. Complete opposites. Now who are these women who just sleep around with anyone? Are they devoid of some type of woman gene? I don't have the answer to that.

[RX]

Originally posted by lyot:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by lyot:
i want to concur to the statement that the average DHP man seems much more sensitive then most of the men I know in the "real" world.. yeah, but many of them are closet playas... graemlins/cheering.gif </font>[/QUOTE]what's that Ms Rickey X ? </font>[/QUOTE]ask them...nope, better yet, ask the ladies... ;) graemlins/rofl.gif

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by JMJ:


Not with the right woman. Keep in mind you used the words friendship and relationship, which don't coincide with infatuation or lust.....JMJ ;) True but how many men and women out there use sex as a starting point to a relationship? We can watch 3 weeks full of Jenny Jones and Jerry Springer to prove that.

Peace

[RX]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:


Not with the right woman. Keep in mind you used the words friendship and relationship, which don't coincide with infatuation or lust.....JMJ ;) True but how many men and women out there use sex as a starting point to a relationship? We can watch 3 weeks full of Jenny Jones and Jerry Springer to prove that.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]damn...you actually believe they represent the majority of the population? they are making you immune to the standards they are attempting to set forth within those communities, love...

[richierich]

I'm not agreeing with the once we get the draws thing. It doesn't matter how long it takes because there is way more to a woman than just her coochie and men Do know this.. some just choose not to go further. If you think that just because you had sex early into it that she is not worthy .. maybe she thinks this about you as well. If you think she's a hoe and you sleep with her then you are a hoe as well. Time has nothing to do with anything of that nature IMO.. the both of you just wanted to get down right then.. so what.....
That's like sayin' "She aint nuthin' but a hoe but I ****ed her..WTF!! But some guys do feel like this...

[Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand]

I must have been a man in my former life because, when I dated I did the same thing. It was all about the chase but I did it as a defense mechanism. I would be set out to get them before they got me or wanted to know why some women found that man so attractive and wanted him so bad. I had a bet with some friends about a particular person that had groupies and loved his dirty underwear. So with my twisted self I decided to make him go for me the way the girls were after him. Well to make a long story short after I proved myself right I left him alone and wouldn't give him the time of day.

It was all about the chase and winning. (I was terrible :( )But I felt I was doing all of the women that ever got played a service. graemlins/jpshakehead.gif

[ June 17, 2003, 01:32 PM: Message edited by: DiscoLady ]

[JMJ]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:


Not with the right woman. Keep in mind you used the words friendship and relationship, which don't coincide with infatuation or lust.....JMJ ;) True but how many men and women out there use sex as a starting point to a relationship? We can watch 3 weeks full of Jenny Jones and Jerry Springer to prove that.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]Shows like Jenny Jones and Jerry Springer are why people continue to be phucked in the head concerning the opposite sex. Anybody that watched either of those shows for three weeks loses just enough brain cells to be considered retarded, although most were retarded from the get go......JMJ

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:


Not with the right woman. Keep in mind you used the words friendship and relationship, which don't coincide with infatuation or lust.....JMJ ;) True but how many men and women out there use sex as a starting point to a relationship? We can watch 3 weeks full of Jenny Jones and Jerry Springer to prove that.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]damn...you actually believe they represent the majority of the population? they are making you immune to the standards they are attempting to set forth within those communities, love... </font>[/QUOTE]Stupidity transcends all genders, races, and financial brackets. You can see the same shit on Dr. Phil, but in a subtle manner.


Again, no one can answer these questions that have been asked for thousands of years.

"It's not nice to mess with with Mother Nature"

Mrs. Thomas from "What's Happening"

Peace

[RX]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
Stupidity transcends all genders, races, and financial brackets. You can see the same shit on Dr. Phil, but in a subtle manner.


Again, no one can answer these questions that have been asked for thousands of years.

"It's not nice to mess with with Mother Nature"

Mrs. Thomas from "What's Happening"

Peace hey, we're talking about sleeping with folk on the first night...most folk on dr. phil are married...let's not confuse the two talk show species...

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on. It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]Thank you.

[GROOVE VICTIM]

My question to ALLLL YALLLLL (Boyz in da Hood)


Who is in a Happy Relationship as we speak, married couples included.

And if you're single, is it because you choose to do so, or you "just haven't found the right one yet"?


Peace

[Mack-Williams]

Originally posted by richierich:
I'm not agreeing with the once we get the draws thing. It doesn't matter how long it takes because there is way more to a woman than just her coochie and men Do know this.. some just choose not to go further. If you think that just because you had sex early into it that she is not worthy .. maybe she thinks this about you as well. If you think she's a hoe and you sleep with her then you are a hoe as well. Time has nothing to do with anything of that nature IMO.. the both of you just wanted to get down right then.. so what.....
That's like sayin' "She aint nuthin' but a hoe but I ****ed her..WTF!! But some guys do feel like this... I'm with you on this Rich. I am happy that Her and I shared an experience. I don't call myself a hoe so I want call her one either. We just got down for a night. To consenting adults.

[Friday]

Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
M3taPhsX,

Please do go on, it is important that everyone get a good look at what an individual who is not evolved is like. Your thinking is conclusive of "the masses".

And also, as a women, it is good to have knowledgeable information about what your type of man is like, therefore I can make a sound choice for myself concerning the predetory like demeanor you "the masses" all share. ;)

Carry on. It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]Precisely, ;) ........shame

Carry on though smile.gif </font>[/QUOTE]girlfriday, the minute you believe it's about that, you may as well start abstaining...think grown men...GROWN - they ain't saying "well, if she puts out today..."...they are more concerned with if she can handle hers, period... </font>[/QUOTE]This maybe true, however, if you look at it from this stand point, most women can't handle thier business, sure they have thier jobs and own thier own cars but emotionally, this is the reason for "putting out", hence the way most men will think about women on the whole.

Discussing women is a whole other issue though.

But let's face it, everyone both men and women want something from the other, men want sex, women want security. If I am wrong then slap me biggrinangel.gif ..hmmm, ok I was joking about that.

However, I don't think I am that wrong, because in this society, people are so cheap with their own self worth that we bargain with others self worth in order to feel better...little value is placed on life so what we get are the playa's and the bitches. No, one is ever happy.

I hope that made some sense.

However, Rickey from what I see out there, there aren't that many GROWN men, they may look it but they are not.

gf smile.gif


How you doin' Ms. X? :D

[GROOVE VICTIM]

So Richie Rich, after all the stories and intersting threads you have created on this board, do you call yourself a hoe?

[And]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.
Peace [/QB]Sadly I believe this to be the case more than I'd want. It's also a big part of why sex is an issue for me. Here's my question, what is it about that particular act if performed early that "kills" the chances of a relationship from developing?

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by girlfriday:


However, Rickey from what I see out there, there aren't that many GROWN men, they may look it but they are not.

Turn this one around:

However, Rickey from what I see out there, there aren't that many GROWN WOMEN, they may look it but they are not.


Ya can't just choose one.

[Koffy Brown]

Groove, so are you saying that the women you meet are so stupid and ignorant that all they have for you is their bodies and after you get that your moving on to the next stupid ignorant, mtv watching, jenny jones memorizing buffet eating woman...

sounds like a sick cycle, but could explain your anger...

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.
Peace Sadly I believe this to be the case more than I'd want. It's also a big part of why sex is an issue for me. Here's my question, what is it about that particular act if performed early that "kills" the chances of a relationship from developing? [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]What's the biological purpose of having sex (from a man's point of view)?

TO NUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

All that fourplay and position changing nonsense is a result of being part of a civilization and culture.

Peace

[richierich]

Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.
Peace Sadly I believe this to be the case more than I'd want. It's also a big part of why sex is an issue for me. Here's my question, what is it about that particular act if performed early that "kills" the chances of a relationship from developing? [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]If sex is all they wanted in the first place then there it is..The Chase is over!! I want it again and again and again.

[MYOR]

Damn u miss alot when you do work :(

Anyway I find most guys like tolk all that jazz untill they find a girl that makes him PWed..
And most likely that will be that one that will play with them....

[RX]

hi, sweetie!!!! (@ ms. girlfriday)...listen, having sex quickly has nothing to do with emotions, if you have learned to separate the two...there may not be many grown ladies, but remember, like attracts like...

and on that note, gotta go! have fun, kiddies! graemlins/grinyes.gif

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
Groove, so are you saying that the women you meet are so stupid and ignorant that all they have for you is their bodies and after you get that your moving on to the next stupid ignorant, mtv watching, jenny jones memorizing buffet eating woman...

sounds like a sick cycle, but could explain your anger... I've grown to face up to the fact that I need to move my ass out of this area and maybe to Atlanta to get away from all of these Chicken Heads around here.

I wouldn't say that it's a cycle that I'm in because I know what I'm dealing with now. It's rather futile to try and search out "That one" when I'd rather just live my life and keep my bills payed for the time being.


But I will tell you this, I have encountered many implants from the north and mid west (men and women) that have the same experiences and opinions about the "way of life" that is portrayed down here. Most of us are here for a short while trying to find out who we are and where we want to be in the next couple of years.


Peace

[Moksha]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
Men and women are built totally differnet when it come to sexuality. There have been so many studies on this and it is apparent in everyday life. It is things like the feminist movement and political correctness that stop people from using common sense. For a man to sleep with a woman, it is a purely physical act and does not require any emotional attachment. For a woman to sleep with a man is a different story. I even read a study that said 9 out of 10 men that a woman chose to sleep with, they could see as a life partner. Complete opposites. Now who are these women who just sleep around with anyone? Are they devoid of some type of woman gene? I don't have the answer to that. Woah!

Your theory doesn't explain how so many men are in loving, comitted relationships. Are we devoid of some man gene?

Furthermore, I know plenty of awesome women who love sex and plenty of men who don't...and vice versa. Each individual has their own desires, sexual preferences, etc....and as long as everyone treats one another with the respect that we each deserve as humans, it seems unfair to place values upon their decisions.

[ June 17, 2003, 01:51 PM: Message edited by: Orion ]

[Jolyon]

Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.
Peace Sadly I believe this to be the case more than I'd want. It's also a big part of why sex is an issue for me. Here's my question, what is it about that particular act if performed early that "kills" the chances of a relationship from developing? [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]Nothing. My longest relationship was with someone I had sex with four hours after meeting for the first time. It doesn't have any negative effect...in fact it's a good way of getting to know someone and cutting through all the game playing bullshit that can be so tedious.

[MYOR]

Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.
Peace Sadly I believe this to be the case more than I'd want. It's also a big part of why sex is an issue for me. Here's my question, what is it about that particular act if performed early that "kills" the chances of a relationship from developing? [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]Sadly I believe it "kills" the chances of a relationship because most men think like M3taPhsX..

[richierich]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
So Richie Rich, after all the stories and intersting threads you have created on this board, do you call yourself a hoe? I use to be one and knew that I was when I was doing it. Not now no way!!

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
So Richie Rich, after all the stories and intersting threads you have created on this board, do you call yourself a hoe? I use to be one and knew that I was when I was doing it. Not now no way!! </font>[/QUOTE]Not to get up in your business, but are you in a relationship now, or single?

[richierich]

Single

[JR JAM]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
My question to ALLLL YALLLLL (Boyz in da Hood)


Who is in a Happy Relationship as we speak, married couples included.I'm happily married :D Its going on 9 years and we slept together when we first met and it wasn't even a date! Me and my brother use to spin at this lounge called the Surf lounge(right off 71st and Halsted). She came in the DJ booth and introduce herself to me but at that time I was in a middle of a blend graemlins/rofl.gif (bringing in Loog into Crazy for you-Incognito)and I wasn't paying her attention at first, after I had done the blend I saw her then my focus changed :D We sat down and talked and one thing led to another we were at the motel.

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by richierich:
Single So when on that hot date you have planned for all week with that hot lady you asked out a week earlier, have you surpressed your urges and taken the Chivalric code of honor by treating your date to a plutonic but romantic night of good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie?

Ashaki are you reading this?

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by JR JAM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
My question to ALLLL YALLLLL (Boyz in da Hood)


Who is in a Happy Relationship as we speak, married couples included.I'm happily married :D Its going on 9 years and we slept together when we first met and it wasn't even a date! Me and my brother use to spin at this lounge called the Surf lounge(right off 71st and Halsted). She came in the DJ booth and introduce herself to me but at that time I was in a middle of a blend graemlins/rofl.gif (bringing in Loog into Crazy for you-Incognito)and I wasn't paying her attention at first, after I had done the blend I saw her then my focus changed :D We sat down and talked and one thing led to another we were at the motel. </font>[/QUOTE]Too much info dawg!!! I don't need to know all that but as long as you're happy, that's what matters most!! Congrats!!!

[Friday]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Single So when on that hot date you have planned for all week with that hot lady you asked out a week earlier, have you surpressed your urges and taken the Chivalric code of honor by treating your date to a plutonic but romantic night of good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie?

Ashaki are you reading this? </font>[/QUOTE]Why is taking a lady out for good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie Chivalric? I call that good sense.

Groove,....who the hell are you dating? :rolleyes:

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Single So when on that hot date you have planned for all week with that hot lady you asked out a week earlier, have you surpressed your urges and taken the Chivalric code of honor by treating your date to a plutonic but romantic night of good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie?

Ashaki are you reading this? </font>[/QUOTE]all http://deephousepage.com/smilies/eye_anim.gif http://deephousepage.com/smilies/eye_anim.gif and http://deephousepage.com/smilies/listen.gif

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Single So when on that hot date you have planned for all week with that hot lady you asked out a week earlier, have you surpressed your urges and taken the Chivalric code of honor by treating your date to a plutonic but romantic night of good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie?

Ashaki are you reading this? </font>[/QUOTE]Why is taking a lady out for good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie Chivalric? I call that good sense.

Groove,....who the hell are you dating? :rolleyes: </font>[/QUOTE]I agree with you GF...if it's not for good conversation, food, drinks and a good time then brotha is in for a big disappointment...especially if he's expecting sex...not saying that it will or won't happen, but i can honestly say i have NEVER been on a date epecting sex to follow....

[julian_kelly]

There's always lots of talk on DHP about promoting sex.

Does anyone who is single abstain from sex by choice?

peace
julian kelly

[Jolyon]

I'm unsingle. ;)

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by julian_kelly:
There's always lots of talk on DHP about promoting sex.

Does anyone who is single abstain from sex by choice?

peace
julian kelly yup...but I still like to talk about it...

[ June 17, 2003, 02:22 PM: Message edited by: Ashaki ]

[GROOVE VICTIM]

That's my point Ashaki. You'd expect a women would appreciate a brotha who has done all of those things and at the same time not expect sex and the end of the date. But sex is not even the issue. It's the lack of appreciation for when a man takes the honorable route and can't appreciate that fact that she's being treated like a lady for a change. And it doesn't matter where she comes from. There's more to life than just sittin around the house.

Peace

[Mack-Williams]

I was abstainant from Puberty till I was 20 because of the religion I was practicing. Then I got married. Now I am divorced and catching up on the years and all the sex I turned down from High School and College.

[Shalewa]

Groove,

What is an appropriate demonstration of appreciation?

[lyot]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
So Richie Rich, after all the stories and intersting threads you have created on this board, do you call yourself a hoe? a better term would be Playboy, no ? I think that in every man a playboy is hidden. It's analogical to the Wolf David Mancuso mentionned in that Nuisance thread ..You better not feed it all the time, otherwise he tends to grow ever bigger and bigger.. :D

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
That's my point Ashaki. You'd expect a women would appreciate a brotha who has done all of those things and at the same time not expect sex and the end of the date. But sex is not even the issue. It's the lack of appreciation for when a man takes the honorable route and can't appreciate that fact that she's being treated like a lady for a change. And it doesn't matter where she comes from. There's more to life than just sittin around the house.

Peace Well if you can't treat a woman like a woman without expecting anything in return, then just maybe you shouldn't be with her...There are just some things (for me personally) that I ain't putting up with...treating me any different is unacceptable...point blank...but if you feel like you are doing a woman a favor by respecting her and treating her kindly...then maybe you should stay in the house... :D

[MYOR]

Originally posted by julian_kelly:
There's always lots of talk on DHP about promoting sex.

Does anyone who is single abstain from sex by choice?

peace
julian kelly I didn't have sex for 24½ years... thats enough abstanance for me graemlins/rofl.gif

[ June 17, 2003, 02:28 PM: Message edited by: MYOR ]

[richierich]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Single So when on that hot date you have planned for all week with that hot lady you asked out a week earlier, have you surpressed your urges and taken the Chivalric code of honor by treating your date to a plutonic but romantic night of good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie?

Ashaki are you reading this? </font>[/QUOTE]I am a gentleman and am not expecting anything but good companionship. If she wants to get down and I'm in the mood as well then it's on and I will not think less of her(she's got good taste if she's wanting me). Then it's like let's see what else is going on as well.

[Jamie 3:26]

Originally posted by Mack-Williams:
I was abstainant from Puberty till I was 20 because of the religion I was practicing. Then I got married. Now I am divorced and catching up on the years and all the sex I turned down from High School and College. Gooooooooooo Mack!! http://deephousepage.com/smilies/focking.gif

[Leslie]

Originally posted by Shalewa:
Groove,

What is an appropriate demonstration of appreciation? been wondering myself.....

[And]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.
Peace Sadly I believe this to be the case more than I'd want. It's also a big part of why sex is an issue for me. Here's my question, what is it about that particular act if performed early that "kills" the chances of a relationship from developing? </font>[/QUOTE]What's the biological purpose of having sex (from a man's point of view)?
TO NUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All that fourplay and position changing nonsense is a result of being part of a civilization and culture.
Peace [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from? I've read this from several guy's posts on here. Okay, spill your load - It can be said ultimately when a woman has sex, she wants her spot found and that's that. Pleasure for both. Why does one thing (having sex) seem to affect so many other factors (the rest of the relationship that could be developed) if they're separate activities. E.g. We have sex, we had fun, now you won't return a phone call because we had sex? Not because you're a rude jerk? What did the sex do?
*I'm generalizing a bit, but I believe we're all talking about a general situation. Always room for the exceptions. Just thoughts.*

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Shalewa:
Groove,

What is an appropriate demonstration of appreciation? For one, there are no rules and regulations.

By meeting her at her place, or a mutual meeting place for safety concerns. If her relatives are with her, introduce yourself to them in a respectable manner.

Greeting her with maybe some flowers or candy, opening and closing the car door for her. Asking her how she's feeling and how her day was.

Complimenting her on what she is wearing.

What she would like to eat or what movie she would like to see.

Taking her jacket (if she is wearing one) and allowing her to sit down and you pushing her chair up to the table.

While doing all of these things, keeping a smile on your face to make her feel welcomed.

Having a casual conversation about who we are, politics, scrabled eggs and chitlins, just good conversation.

(this is where it begins to go down hill because the "I just like to sit around in the house" line pops up)

This is a result of living in the COUNTRY where there ain't shit to do and not being exposed to other things.


But back to the date, after dinner, asking her what she would like to do, maybe a drive out to the beach, take a drive, or a place where we can continue our conversation.

Then I take her home, walk her to her front door, tell her I had a great time and hopefully we can do this again, then we say out goodbyes.

Now is that too much to ask for?

[And]

Originally posted by julian_kelly:
There's always lots of talk on DHP about promoting sex.

Does anyone who is single abstain from sex by choice?

peace
julian kelly Yes - Because I think sex is too easy to get and seems to affect a lot of other shit it shouldn't after it happens.

[Friday]

Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from? I've read this from several guy's posts on here. Okay, spill your load - It can be said ultimately when a woman has sex, she wants her spot found and that's that. Pleasure for both. Why does one thing (having sex) seem to affect so many other factors (the rest of the relationship that could be developed) if they're separate activities. E.g. We have sex, we had fun, now you won't return a phone call because we had sex? Not because you're a rude jerk? What did the sex do?
*I'm generalizing a bit, but I believe we're all talking about a general situation. Always room for the exceptions. Just thoughts.* [/QB][/QUOTE]


Answer this question:

When was the last time you had sex for 5 hours straight on the same stroke? With that said, weed through all the BS and what do we have, a man tryin to get a nut!!! That's the purpose of it all (from a man's perspective in a primitive sense).

[MYOR]

Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.
Peace Sadly I believe this to be the case more than I'd want. It's also a big part of why sex is an issue for me. Here's my question, what is it about that particular act if performed early that "kills" the chances of a relationship from developing? </font>[/QUOTE]What's the biological purpose of having sex (from a man's point of view)?
TO NUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All that fourplay and position changing nonsense is a result of being part of a civilization and culture.
Peace </font>[/QUOTE]So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from? I've read this from several guy's posts on here. Okay, spill your load - It can be said ultimately when a woman has sex, she wants her spot found and that's that. Pleasure for both. Why does one thing (having sex) seem to affect so many other factors (the rest of the relationship that could be developed) if they're separate activities. E.g. We have sex, we had fun, now you won't return a phone call because we had sex? Not because you're a rude jerk? What did the sex do?
*I'm generalizing a bit, but I believe we're all talking about a general situation. Always room for the exceptions. Just thoughts.* [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]Have you ever seen the movie BOOMERANG...

[Bold Soul]

Wow, some of you are some lame fcuks.

Give me all the positions you aren't using and all the foreplay (note :fore and in pre-, not FOUR as in the number, idiots ;) )you aren't giving and all the passion that ain't happenin' fo' ya!

My ratio still stands - 5 of hers for 1 of mine or I'm slippin'. Nice to say I'm still rockin' that ratio.

[And]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
It doesn't matter what type of character a certain Man posseses. Whether he's a flake or a pretty boy, the moment you give him the DRAWS, especially in the early stages of a friendship or relationship, he'll pretty much be out the door sooner than you'll think.
Peace Sadly I believe this to be the case more than I'd want. It's also a big part of why sex is an issue for me. Here's my question, what is it about that particular act if performed early that "kills" the chances of a relationship from developing? </font>[/QUOTE]What's the biological purpose of having sex (from a man's point of view)?
TO NUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All that fourplay and position changing nonsense is a result of being part of a civilization and culture.
Peace </font>[/QUOTE]So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from? I've read this from several guy's posts on here. Okay, spill your load - It can be said ultimately when a woman has sex, she wants her spot found and that's that. Pleasure for both. Why does one thing (having sex) seem to affect so many other factors (the rest of the relationship that could be developed) if they're separate activities. E.g. We have sex, we had fun, now you won't return a phone call because we had sex? Not because you're a rude jerk? What did the sex do?
*I'm generalizing a bit, but I believe we're all talking about a general situation. Always room for the exceptions. Just thoughts.* </font>[/QUOTE]Have you ever seen the movie BOOMERANG... [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]No I haven't. I can ... smile.gif
What am I to look for?

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
Wow, some of you are some lame fcuks.

Give me all the positions you aren't using and all the foreplay (note :fore and in pre-, not FOUR as in the number, idiots ;) )you aren't giving and all the passion that ain't happenin' fo' ya!

My ratio still stands - 5 of hers for 1 of mine or I'm slippin'. Nice to say I'm still rockin' that ratio. So I'm an idiot for a simple mistake by using "FOUR" instead of "FORE".

Whateva Lt Data.

Peace

[JR JAM]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
When was the last time you had sex for 5 hours straight on the same stroke? With that said, weed through all the BS and what do we have, a man tryin to get a nut!!! That's the purpose of it all (from a man's perspective in a primitive sense). [/QB]She has to get hers too!

[MYOR]

Originally posted by 6 23:
E.g. We have sex, we had fun, now you won't return a phone call because we had sex? Not because you're a rude jerk? What did the sex do?
*I'm generalizing a bit, but I believe we're all talking about a general situation. Always room for the exceptions. Just thoughts.* [/qb]Have you ever seen the movie BOOMERANG... [/QB][/QUOTE]No I haven't. I can ... smile.gif
What am I to look for? [/QB][/QUOTE]

Its basically, the total opposite.. a woman being the player.. and the guy feeling cheated..

I think the minute a woman shows interest, the man will think.. Damn she is on my shit..

Now let the woman flip it and he'll be wondering was I good enough... gotta prove they are the shit..

[And]

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
Wow, some of you are some lame fcuks.

Give me all the positions you aren't using and all the foreplay (note :fore and in pre-, not FOUR as in the number, idiots ;) )you aren't giving and all the passion that ain't happenin' fo' ya!

My ratio still stands - 5 of hers for 1 of mine or I'm slippin'. Nice to say I'm still rockin' that ratio. At the risk of incurring Ashaki's wrath ...
Grrr! icon_rofl.gif

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
Wow, some of you are some lame fcuks.

Give me all the positions you aren't using and all the foreplay (note :fore and in pre-, not FOUR as in the number, idiots ;) )you aren't giving and all the passion that ain't happenin' fo' ya!

My ratio still stands - 5 of hers for 1 of mine or I'm slippin'. Nice to say I'm still rockin' that ratio. So I'm an idiot for a simple mistake by using "FOUR" instead of "FORE".

Whateva Lt Data.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]Lt. Data! graemlins/rofl.gif

I didn't mean anything by that, Groove. Just fcukin' withcha, playa! Lt. Data... graemlins/rofl.gif

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
Wow, some of you are some lame fcuks.

Give me all the positions you aren't using and all the foreplay (note :fore and in pre-, not FOUR as in the number, idiots ;) )you aren't giving and all the passion that ain't happenin' fo' ya!

My ratio still stands - 5 of hers for 1 of mine or I'm slippin'. Nice to say I'm still rockin' that ratio. Can I like you today? biggrinangel.gif

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by JR JAM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
When was the last time you had sex for 5 hours straight on the same stroke? With that said, weed through all the BS and what do we have, a man tryin to get a nut!!! That's the purpose of it all (from a man's perspective in a primitive sense). She has to get hers too! [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]Man I ain't talking about doin damage and breakin her back and all that good stuff. I'm talking about the sole purpose of just "Doin it" other than to procreate.

[And]

Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE];)

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Look - I don't know what kind of nuts other men have, but mine ain't got NO KIND GOO in 'em.

Just GOLD baby. Liquid gold.

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Look - I don't know what kind of nuts other men have, but mine ain't got NO KIND GOO in 'em.

Just GOLD baby. Liquid gold. </font>[/QUOTE]YO if the shits shootin out your nuts gold, then you need to change your diet or sumthin!!

[Friday]

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Look - I don't know what kind of nuts other men have, but mine ain't got NO KIND GOO in 'em.

Just GOLD baby. Liquid gold. </font>[/QUOTE]Pictures......WE WANT PICTURES!!!!!!!! :D

[MYOR]

Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE];) </font>[/QUOTE]I have a feeling I'm going to see an animal kingdom explanation soon... graemlins/rofl.gif

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Look - I don't know what kind of nuts other men have, but mine ain't got NO KIND GOO in 'em.

Just GOLD baby. Liquid gold. </font>[/QUOTE]YO if the shits shootin out your nuts gold, then you need to change your diet or sumthin!! </font>[/QUOTE]I'm thinking he needs penacilan (sp)

[And]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from? I've read this from several guy's posts on here. Okay, spill your load - It can be said ultimately when a woman has sex, she wants her spot found and that's that. Pleasure for both. Why does one thing (having sex) seem to affect so many other factors (the rest of the relationship that could be developed) if they're separate activities. E.g. We have sex, we had fun, now you won't return a phone call because we had sex? Not because you're a rude jerk? What did the sex do?
*I'm generalizing a bit, but I believe we're all talking about a general situation. Always room for the exceptions. Just thoughts.* Answer this question:

When was the last time you had sex for 5 hours straight on the same stroke? With that said, weed through all the BS and what do we have, a man tryin to get a nut!!! That's the purpose of it all (from a man's perspective in a primitive sense). [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]I don't understand the 5 hours straight on the same stroke bit.
Which again begs the question why have your "approach" switch after the sex. You got the sex. Hmm ... duuuh. I get it, if I reduce it to what it sounds like, it's just another case of people using each other to get whatever floats their boat. It could be anything really ... we're just talking about sex.
Ick - I was looking for understanding. Now I'm more scared. That's it! I'm giving it up to God!
http://www.pressenter.com/~amberlit/nun1.gif

[M3taPhsX]

Originally posted by Orion:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
Men and women are built totally differnet when it come to sexuality. There have been so many studies on this and it is apparent in everyday life. It is things like the feminist movement and political correctness that stop people from using common sense. For a man to sleep with a woman, it is a purely physical act and does not require any emotional attachment. For a woman to sleep with a man is a different story. I even read a study that said 9 out of 10 men that a woman chose to sleep with, they could see as a life partner. Complete opposites. Now who are these women who just sleep around with anyone? Are they devoid of some type of woman gene? I don't have the answer to that. Woah!

Your theory doesn't explain how so many men are in loving, comitted relationships. Are we devoid of some man gene?

Furthermore, I know plenty of awesome women who love sex and plenty of men who don't...and vice versa. Each individual has their own desires, sexual preferences, etc....and as long as everyone treats one another with the respect that we each deserve as humans, it seems unfair to place values upon their decisions. </font>[/QUOTE]Good arguements. No, we wouldn't be devoid of a man gene because our love has nothing or very little to do with sex. I didn't say anything about men not being able to love or not inherit in them.

Of course you can always find exceptions but I am speaking in generalizations. We can't possible talk about every single man and woman in the world.

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Look - I don't know what kind of nuts other men have, but mine ain't got NO KIND GOO in 'em.

Just GOLD baby. Liquid gold. </font>[/QUOTE]YO if the shits shootin out your nuts gold, then you need to change your diet or sumthin!! </font>[/QUOTE]I'm thinking he needs penacilan (sp) </font>[/QUOTE]Well, it was PLATINUM this AM...with diamonds and rose petals.

Maybe it's kidney stones - bwahahahaha

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Orion:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by M3taPhsX:
Men and women are built totally differnet when it come to sexuality. There have been so many studies on this and it is apparent in everyday life. It is things like the feminist movement and political correctness that stop people from using common sense. For a man to sleep with a woman, it is a purely physical act and does not require any emotional attachment. For a woman to sleep with a man is a different story. I even read a study that said 9 out of 10 men that a woman chose to sleep with, they could see as a life partner. Complete opposites. Now who are these women who just sleep around with anyone? Are they devoid of some type of woman gene? I don't have the answer to that. Woah!

Your theory doesn't explain how so many men are in loving, comitted relationships. Are we devoid of some man gene?

Furthermore, I know plenty of awesome women who love sex and plenty of men who don't...and vice versa. Each individual has their own desires, sexual preferences, etc....and as long as everyone treats one another with the respect that we each deserve as humans, it seems unfair to place values upon their decisions. </font>[/QUOTE]Good arguements. No, we wouldn't be devoid of a man gene because our love has nothing or very little to do with sex. I didn't say anything about men not being able to love or not inherit in them.

Of course you can always find exceptions but I am speaking in generalizations. We can't possible talk about every single man and woman in the world. </font>[/QUOTE]Well, I like emotions in sex. The more emotional release the better.

[MusicFilter]

Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by chgodj3:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by chgodj3:
Rich I feel ya! After the bullsh*t I went through with someone I thought loved me, I don't know what's best to do when it comes to women.

Everybody is on somethin'! Everyone is out here for themselves, so if you get next to a woman enough for her to share herself with you, get and be gone if that's what you're about because bellieve me when they are ready to bail on you they will.

Now maybe I'm a little biased but I have been single (meaning no committed relationship) for about 6 months. I've dated women who want nothing but a good time, free dinner, attention and sex, but with no commitment. Some want to be "friends" but reap the benefits of being my woman, which basically means be friends (no coochie) and I pay for everything. graemlins/nono.gif
I'm a relationship type brotha, but most women out here aren't in that relationship mode.

Ask most women why they like being single and they tell you because they don't want to have to answer to anyone or they like their freedom.

It's all a big game out here, no one can be trusted. Have yourself some fun be safe, and what I mean by be safe is be protected, but mostly protect your heart, because no one is on the love tip, IT'S ALL ABOUT PLEASURE.

So Rich, get yours and move on, better you move on than she move on when you begin to fall in love. Let it go brotha...forreal...honestly you've only been out of your relationship for 6 months...are you sure your ready for another serious relationship....you seem like you need to release some things...I'm being serious...are ou one of those serial monogomous relationship addicts... </font>[/QUOTE]I'm over it Ashaki, but that's just the way it is and as far as being a "serial monogomous relationship addicts" I guess you prefer a man you give yourself to and nothing comes of it, I think they have a name for that. </font>[/QUOTE]Personally I don't Chg...what I prefer is someone who is not carrying a bunch of baggage and issues...not saying that you are...My thing is I don't have to have a mate, I want one, but the right one...I don't have to have sex, I'm okay with me, but I know some people who are obsessed with relationships...they go into 1 relationship after the other...not saying that you do...but they have a hard time being by themselves...and guess what ... these people are never happy in their relationships...that's why they have so many...jmo
btw...I am so far from that word that you were thinking of...

peace </font>[/QUOTE]It's cool Ashaki. graemlins/bighug.gif The dialogue is healthy. I just had to learn that sex doesn't always lead to a relationship.

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Look - I don't know what kind of nuts other men have, but mine ain't got NO KIND GOO in 'em.

Just GOLD baby. Liquid gold. </font>[/QUOTE]YO if the shits shootin out your nuts gold, then you need to change your diet or sumthin!! </font>[/QUOTE]I'm thinking he needs penacilan (sp) </font>[/QUOTE]Well, it was PLATINUM this AM...with diamonds and rose petals.

Maybe it's kidney stones - bwahahahaha </font>[/QUOTE]Probably kidney stones graemlins/rofl.gif

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Just let it go 6 23.


http://www.chinfo.navy.mil/navpalib/aircraft/b-angels/blues1.gif

[And]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
Just let it go 6 23.


http://www.chinfo.navy.mil/navpalib/aircraft/b-angels/blues1.gif Done ...
but those planes aren't flying as high over my head as you might believe. ;)

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by Eargasm:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ashaki:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Look - I don't know what kind of nuts other men have, but mine ain't got NO KIND GOO in 'em.

Just GOLD baby. Liquid gold. </font>[/QUOTE]YO if the shits shootin out your nuts gold, then you need to change your diet or sumthin!! </font>[/QUOTE]I'm thinking he needs penacilan (sp) </font>[/QUOTE]Yes is does sound like an infection. Bold go get yourself checked now !!! </font>[/QUOTE]But every time I go to the clinic, the doctors come on to me.

[imported_Gman]

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
But every time I go to the clinic, the doctors come on to me. That was actually me posting as Eargasm testing his account.

-G

[MusicFilter]

Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Single So when on that hot date you have planned for all week with that hot lady you asked out a week earlier, have you surpressed your urges and taken the Chivalric code of honor by treating your date to a plutonic but romantic night of good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie?

Ashaki are you reading this? </font>[/QUOTE]Why is taking a lady out for good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie Chivalric? I call that good sense.

Groove,....who the hell are you dating? :rolleyes: </font>[/QUOTE]Why is that good sense, because you don't have to come out of your pocket? icon_rofl.gif

[MusicFilter]

YO! WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT, NOTHIN'JUMPS OFF UNLESS SHE WANT IT TO GO DOWN (OR YOU TO GO DOWN).

THAT'S OF COURSE UNLESS YOU'RE A RAPEST?

WOMEN HAVE ALL THE COOCHIE AND HALF THE MONEY.

WOMEN BASICALLY DICTATE HOW IT'S GOING TO BE PLAYED.

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by Gman:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Bold Soul:
But every time I go to the clinic, the doctors come on to me. That was actually me posting as Eargasm testing his account.

-G </font>[/QUOTE]Harumph! Maybe your new name should be MOLE-MAN. LOL! graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif

[Friday]

Originally posted by chgodj3:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Single So when on that hot date you have planned for all week with that hot lady you asked out a week earlier, have you surpressed your urges and taken the Chivalric code of honor by treating your date to a plutonic but romantic night of good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie?

Ashaki are you reading this? </font>[/QUOTE]Why is taking a lady out for good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie Chivalric? I call that good sense.

Groove,....who the hell are you dating? :rolleyes: </font>[/QUOTE]Why is that good sense, because you don't have to come out of your pocket? icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Shit, you come out of your pocket? Now how you do that? :rolleyes:

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by chgodj3:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Single So when on that hot date you have planned for all week with that hot lady you asked out a week earlier, have you surpressed your urges and taken the Chivalric code of honor by treating your date to a plutonic but romantic night of good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie?

Ashaki are you reading this? </font>[/QUOTE]Why is taking a lady out for good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie Chivalric? I call that good sense.

Groove,....who the hell are you dating? :rolleyes: </font>[/QUOTE]Why is that good sense, because you don't have to come out of your pocket? icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Shit, you come out of your pocket? Now how you do that? :rolleyes: </font>[/QUOTE]Liquid gold.

[Friday]

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by chgodj3:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Single So when on that hot date you have planned for all week with that hot lady you asked out a week earlier, have you surpressed your urges and taken the Chivalric code of honor by treating your date to a plutonic but romantic night of good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie?

Ashaki are you reading this? </font>[/QUOTE]Why is taking a lady out for good conversation, food, dancing, or a movie Chivalric? I call that good sense.

Groove,....who the hell are you dating? :rolleyes: </font>[/QUOTE]Why is that good sense, because you don't have to come out of your pocket? icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Shit, you come out of your pocket? Now how you do that? :rolleyes: </font>[/QUOTE]Liquid gold. </font>[/QUOTE]AI & W graemlins/tongueout.gif

[And]

Originally posted by chgodj3:

WOMEN BASICALLY DICkTATE HOW IT'S GOING TO BE PLAYED. [/QB]and there you have it. graemlins/rofl.gif

[MYOR]

Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by chgodj3:

WOMEN BASICALLY DICkTATE HOW IT'S GOING TO BE PLAYED. and there you have it. graemlins/rofl.gif [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/rofl.gif

Why did that just remind me of an buckwee joke..

ok stay away from the jokes.. biggrinangel.gif

[ June 17, 2003, 04:39 PM: Message edited by: MYOR ]

[JMJ]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by girlfriday:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
So where in the world did this accepted fact that men have sex to unload their nuts of goo come from?Bwahahahahahaha!!! icon_rofl.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE];) </font>[/QUOTE]I have a feeling I'm going to see an animal kingdom explanation soon... graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Nope. I'm staying out of this one.....JMJ biggrinangel.gif

[And]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by chgodj3:

WOMEN BASICALLY DICkTATE HOW IT'S GOING TO BE PLAYED. and there you have it. graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/rofl.gif

Why did that just remind me of an buckwee joke..

ok stay away from the jokes.. biggrinangel.gif [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]I can't explain how ... but I do believe I get what you mean. Something about that k I guess ... graemlins/rofl.gif ;)