Freaky Friday Question for the Men . . .

[ProvocativeElement]

Speak honestly . . .

how long do you really spend on foreplay?

[Terry James]

Speak honestly . . .

how long do you really spend on foreplay?

all week...thats what the texting and calls are for

['Magic' Juan]

Foreplay? What's that?!

[ProvocativeElement]

all week...thats what the texting and calls are for

seriously, most men think they are spending enough time, but in reality, there is no such thing as too much forplay - as an offshoot to the thread about whether or not you gave a 'good performance' chances are it was 'blah' to 'good' if ya forplay to fucking ratio ain't 2:1

when ya leave and you are in the car she's in the crib finishing where you left off.

you better hot-the-pot before you put anything in there, or there will be no sizzle

[ProvocativeElement]

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[Terry James]

seriously, most men think they are spending enough time, but in reality, there is no such thing as too much forplay - as an offshoot to the thread about whether or not you gave a 'good performance' chances are it was 'blah' to 'good' if ya forplay to fucking ratio ain't 2:1

when ya leave and you are in the car she's in the crib finishing where you left off.

you better hot-the-pot before you put anything in there, or there will be no sizzle

ok..you jus' gon make a bruh be serious for a minute on Friday..I think you should never let the pot get cold...at least keep it on simmer. I am very impulsive so it's easy for me. Foreplay to me is a broad category...may consist of a variety of unexpected treasured little momments that doesn't start in the bedroom.

[SuzanneT]

all week...thats what the texting and calls are for
DING DING DING DING We have a winner!

[ProvocativeElement]

ok..you jus' gon make a bruh be serious for a minute on Friday..I think you should never let the pot get cold...at least keep it on simmer. I am very impulsive so it's easy for me. Foreplay to me is a broad category...may consist of a variety of unexpected treasured little momments that doesn't start in the bedroom.

agreed - I'm referring to the foreplay that takes place when you are in the bedroom - when sex is imminent

ideally (or at least my ideal says) a man should be working to get her off digitally/orally the same way she got herself off all week long when you sent those steamy text's

they both should be struggling to work each other over as thoroughly as possible before any prolonged penetration takes place (might give her a stroke here or there, but thats all)

for those into power and control, next time you're with your lover, see how long you can turn up the heat without actual sex - you'll have em begging - and they'll remember that (works as a underlying mind-fuck technique for the next time you meet)

[Terry James]

agreed - I'm referring to the foreplay that takes place when you are in the bedroom - when sex is imminent

well PE...I jus' guess next time I'll have to bring a stop-watch.....I really don't make a distinction. You can have foreplay on the dancefloor...you know when it's gonna go down..I don't have a switch, its more like a dimmer. It can be on high or low but it's always on

[ProvocativeElement]

well PE...I jus' guess next time I'll have to bring a stop-watch.....I really don't make a distinction. You can have foreplay on the dancefloor...you know when it's gonna go down..I don't have a switch, its more like a dimmer. It can be on high or low but it's always on

i'm sure you make out just fine . . .

[Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand]

well PE...I jus' guess next time I'll have to bring a stop-watch.....I really don't make a distinction. You can have foreplay on the dancefloor...you know when it's gonna go down..I don't have a switch, its more like a dimmer. It can be on high or low but it's always on

Make sure you get your Diamond quartz stop-watch from SueT,

[Larissa J.]

ok..you jus' gon make a bruh be serious for a minute on Friday..I think you should never let the pot get cold...at least keep it on simmer. I am very impulsive so it's easy for me. Foreplay to me is a broad category...may consist of a variety of unexpected treasured little momments that doesn't start in the bedroom.


Ladies I think we have a winner! Please stand up and take a bow TJ!

[SuzanneT]

Make sure you get your Diamond quartz stop-watch from SueT,
Shee-it! We gonna have his name encrusted with rubies on his. :rofl5:

[Vinyl Deficit]

Depends on my mood I suppose. When married with 3 kids, you gotta be careful. Don't want to start something you may not be able to follow through with. With the actual physical foreplay...I totally enjoy bringing pleasure and sometimes get lost in the moment. Love to hear the oohh's and aahh's. Makes it hard enough to cut diamonds :biggrin:

[Vinyl Deficit]

for those into power and control, next time you're with your lover, see how long you can turn up the heat without actual sex - you'll have em begging - and they'll remember that (works as a underlying mind-fuck technique for the next time you meet)
I don't think I'm into power and control, but do get so much pleasure from pleasuring.

[LEONARD REMIX RROY]

I don't know but, after the first time we do the damn thang, foreplay ain't wanted for long anytime after that.

[Mizzmeme]

all week...thats what the texting and calls are for

LMAO!

[Mizzmeme]

well PE...I jus' guess next time I'll have to bring a stop-watch.....I really don't make a distinction. You can have foreplay on the dancefloor...you know when it's gonna go down..I don't have a switch, its more like a dimmer. It can be on high or low but it's always on

mmmmhhmmmm!!! interesting.lol!

[Mizzmeme]

I don't know but, after the first time we do the damn thang, foreplay ain't wanted for long anytime after that.

LMAO! u silly Leonard, lol!

[Mizzmeme]

I agree with ProvocativeElement. The text and calls are all well and good but when u get in the bedroom its a different story. Foreplay to me is just as good as the sex itself sometimes. To me! I am going to speak for me, lol!Sometimes it depends on the mood also, but I got to have it, lol!

[MusicFilter]

As long as it takes to get the juices flowing.

[Mr.I]

13.4 seconds:acclaim:

[Daniel, Grand Duke of Stony Island]

Depends upon what she wants. If I'm working on foreplay but she had a few glasses of red wine and would rather have her clothes ripped off, my steelo is wrong.

Then again, hell, I'm 36 w/ three teenagers, my own business and more than 8" worth of blood flow requirement so I probably need foreplay equally as much as she.

I will say that, as I am so cerebral, I need a while to get "out of my own head", so mutually-satisfying foreplay is a must.

[Daniel, Grand Duke of Stony Island]

Depends upon what she wants. If I'm working on foreplay but she had a few glasses of red wine and would rather have her clothes ripped off, my steelo is wrong.

Then again, hell, I'm 36 w/ three teenagers, my own business and more than 8" worth of blood flow requirement so I probably need foreplay equally as much as she.

I will say that, as I am so cerebral, I need a while to get "out of my own head", so mutually-satisfying foreplay is a must.