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TAC

11-26-2003, 10:31 AM

Originally posted by Shalewa:
What trips me out about this whole discussion is that it assumes that one's only choices are relating or records. What kind of relationship worth keeping requires a person to give up his or her creative center? What keeps a person from being able to connect with others to the extent that s/he totally excludes significant romantic partnership from life and chooses what for most people is little more than an expensive hobby? Most sane partnerships that have any depth involve folks who can appreciate that whether the interest is shared or individual a healthy relationship requires that the partners be able to direct some part of their energy and attention outside of the relationship. Sorry, but I had to cut this and start a new thread, because the other one is nuts.

I was going to post a one liner and all, but this cut right to the point in a serious way.

When I was younger, I had this idea in my head that the woman I would marry was the one that would make me quit listening/purchasing music.

Somewhere along the line, I came to realize that kind of woman was not for me. The kind of woman I eventually married wound up to be the one that accepted me and my music. No choice had to be made.

Now for my orginal statement.

"Music over p*ssy!! http://deephousepage.com/smilies/focking.gif Someone is out of their *%@#*ING minds" This is the R rated version, btw.

Peace
TAC

[ November 26, 2003, 10:33 AM: Message edited by: TAC ]

richierich

11-26-2003, 10:38 AM

Wassup TAC??? I really can't see a scenario that would come up where one would actually have to seriously make a choice. Yeah you're right though..for real I was seriously gonna give up weed though for this girl but that's a different thing altogether. I really wish one day that I meet a lady that can at least tolerate House. So far I have not had this happen but we still kicked it.
Peace

Mack-Williams

11-26-2003, 10:39 AM

P*ssy is overrated. icon_rofl.gif

Jamie 3:26

11-26-2003, 10:46 AM

Originally posted by Mack-Williams:
P*ssy is overrated. icon_rofl.gif Yes,it is Mack.But having a damn good friend and lover can not compare.Sometimes i get things tossed at me that let's me realize,that I am a lucky man.

I have a good wife,she likes house,actually is getting turned out on the new stuff,she doesn't like classics now,she just does not party like she used too.

I'm fine with that.I can not get that shit from playing records.Just glad I'm not a bitter ass man.

TAC

11-26-2003, 10:46 AM

Originally posted by richierich:
[snip...]for real I was seriously gonna give up weed though for this girl but that's a different thing altogether.Yo bro, the weed clouds one's judgement!! graemlins/rofl.gif

jimmymack-2000

11-26-2003, 11:05 AM

Originally posted by richierich:
for real I was seriously gonna give up weed though for this girl...GIVE UP WEED?!? Take it easy now Rich, I can get you the number of a crisis centre in the Chicagoland area...

Sam The Man Burns

11-26-2003, 11:13 AM

I'm married to an incredible woman who not only LOVES the music but she FEELS the music!

guys and gals on DHP.....you will find someone who will share your vision....trust me!

I have two women in my life...my wife and my music.

richierich

11-26-2003, 11:14 AM

Originally posted by jimmymack-2000:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
for real I was seriously gonna give up weed though for this girl...GIVE UP WEED?!? Take it easy now Rich, I can get you the number of a crisis centre in the Chicagoland area... [/QUOTE]:D

And

11-26-2003, 11:47 AM

Originally posted by Sam The Man Burns:
I'm married to an incredible woman who not only LOVES the music but she FEELS the music!

guys and gals on DHP.....you will find someone who will share your vision....trust me!

I have two women in my life...my wife and my music. Aw comon Sam you mean one can have both? How's that possible. It's gotta be records over a woman. I've read some stupid shit on here lately. Thanks for your voice of reason.

Fletch

11-26-2003, 11:54 AM

I think it's more about accepting one's passions in general, not just music. I will listen to my music (jazz, house, classics), play my bass and watch my sports (The 'Cuse, track, etc). Anyone who cannot accept who I am or what I do better deal with someone else. Peace.

JMJ

11-26-2003, 11:57 AM

Originally posted by Fletch:
I think it's more about accepting one's passions in general, not just music. I will listen to my music (jazz, house, classics), play my bass and watch my sports (The 'Cuse, track, etc). Anyone who cannot accept who I am or what I do better deal with someone else. Peace. But you're a Yankee fan. You should seek help......JMJ :D

jimmymack-2000

11-26-2003, 11:58 AM

My girl's an ex-goth, which is cool. I drop "My Spine Is The Bassline" or "The Jezebel Spirit" on her and she goes nuts!

MYOR

11-26-2003, 12:01 PM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Sam The Man Burns:
I'm married to an incredible woman who not only LOVES the music but she FEELS the music!

guys and gals on DHP.....you will find someone who will share your vision....trust me!

I have two women in my life...my wife and my music. Aw comon Sam you mean one can have both? How's that possible. It's gotta be records over a woman. I've read some stupid shit on here lately. Thanks for your voice of reason. [/QUOTE]THERE CAN ONLY BE ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! graemlins/rofl.gif

Sam The Man Burns

11-26-2003, 12:04 PM

you guys don't know my wife

richierich

11-26-2003, 12:09 PM

How about you just get blessed and have a woman that can sing and dance..then you have it all in one.

Jamie 3:26

11-26-2003, 12:13 PM

Originally posted by Sam The Man Burns:
you guys don't know my wife Sam,your wife can move and groove. graemlins/thumbsup.gif

MYOR

11-26-2003, 12:18 PM

Sorry guys.. I got it messed up... By Gones...

http://roswell.fortunecity.com/lovecraft/214/thumb10.jpg
There Can Only BE ONE..

Sam The Man Burns

11-26-2003, 01:49 PM

Originally posted by MYOR:
Sorry guys.. I got it messed up... By Gones...

http://roswell.fortunecity.com/lovecraft/214/thumb10.jpg
There Can Only BE ONE.. icon_rofl.gif Hahahahahahahahahahahaha....

Sam The Man Burns

11-26-2003, 01:51 PM

Originally posted by Big Sexy:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Sam The Man Burns:
you guys don't know my wife Sam,your wife can move and groove. graemlins/thumbsup.gif [/QUOTE]Thanks!

5haus

11-26-2003, 01:55 PM

i always thought that i would once find my other half as they say, the one girl that can relate to and understands everything i like, feel, think, do, dislike, etc and that we would be on a everlasting harmonic trip thereafter (well the last part i didn't actually anticipate but it just follows).

once i started to let go of this i found my mate.

DJ Rated M

11-26-2003, 01:59 PM

i will have to agree with Tac. my ex tried that bs..."either me or the music" and then she had to go! at one point i was gonna quit music because of her until i came to my senses. women come and go and you can always get another woman.

Sam The Man Burns

11-26-2003, 02:03 PM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Sam The Man Burns:
I'm married to an incredible woman who not only LOVES the music but she FEELS the music!

guys and gals on DHP.....you will find someone who will share your vision....trust me!

I have two women in my life...my wife and my music. Aw comon Sam you mean one can have both? How's that possible. It's gotta be records over a woman. I've read some stupid shit on here lately. Thanks for your voice of reason. [/QUOTE]Let me brake it down to you youngin.....

It became possible in 1993, I met and fell in love with a woman who happens to be a dancer who loves Housemusic! 1998 We were married, 2003 We had our first child.....his name is Mason.

and 6:23.....don't get cute! graemlins/nono.gif

Sam The Man Burns

11-26-2003, 02:08 PM

Originally posted by DJ Rated M:
i will have to agree with Tac. my ex tried that bs..."either me or the music" and then she had to go! at one point i was gonna quit music because of her until i came to my senses. women come and go and you can always get another woman. yeah, the "right" woman for YOU.

Shalewa

11-26-2003, 02:27 PM

Ron la Rock

11-26-2003, 02:28 PM

i actually have someone in my life
(my Ally graemlins/1luvu.gif )
who I can share my love of music with
She also brought a ceratin magic back 2 my life
and enhanced my love of music again
espec the soul(slowjams) classics

you would think you would wanna share with any partner/relationship your in????

regardless how long they might or might not last

that other thread kills me

Jamie 3:26

11-26-2003, 02:36 PM

Dag,congrats Sam.Seems like yesterday your wife was working it out in Miami at the MAW party.

Shalewa,you and Sams wife would do some serious damage on a floor together.I would pay to see that session.

richierich

11-26-2003, 02:59 PM

I just thought about this lady I dated for 3+ years and she didn't like ANYTHING that I did..She didn't like my friends, She didn't like the fact that I partied, she didn't like a whole lot of shit I did. So I'm thinking what did she like?? Well she loved me but I don't think she loved me for me..just what she wanted me to become. Well after the second year she started to be like a chore. If I was 10 min. late she had an attitude. If I was doing something prior to us going out.. she had an attitude, she was always correcting my english.. I could go on forever (I don't know why I stayed with her in the first place).. well It got to the point that I just put up with here until I just got fed up. She damn near had a heart attack when I broke up with her. My mother didn't get on my case the way she did. When I broke it off it felt like I was free again.

DJ Rated M

11-26-2003, 03:01 PM

Originally posted by Sam The Man Burns:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by DJ Rated M:
i will have to agree with Tac. my ex tried that bs..."either me or the music" and then she had to go! at one point i was gonna quit music because of her until i came to my senses. women come and go and you can always get another woman. yeah, the "right" woman for YOU. [/QUOTE]i won't have to worry about that anymore, Sam......LOL

Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand

11-26-2003, 05:50 PM

Originally posted by Sam The Man Burns:
I'm married to an incredible woman who not only LOVES the music but she FEELS the music!

guys and gals on DHP.....you will find someone who will share your vision....trust me!

I have two women in my life...my wife and my music. Be careful with that. What happens when that's all you have in common? One day you wake up and realized that you've married a club buddy with personal issues and problems. Years later you find yourself stuck and not too crazy about the music anymore because now it leaves a bad taste in your mouth.

[ November 26, 2003, 05:57 PM: Message edited by: DiscoLady ]

DJ Timmy Richardson

11-26-2003, 06:28 PM

Originally posted by Sam The Man Burns:
you guys don't know my wife I can vouch for Sam...It is a match made in heaven.