View Full Version : Ladies why is it that some of you get all evil and roll your eyes
Phyllis Hyman Cherry
02-19-2008, 01:40 PM
When a brother looks at you.On the train this morning,i saw a very beautiful darkskinned woman,she had to be a model.I have never seen skin so georgeous and flawless in my life.So i am reading the metro newspaper,and i glance up at this woman casually and she rolled her eyes at me point blank.It was one of those eye rolls that little key-lolo gives to the boys for pulling her hair on the playground.I was like"oh no she di-int".Thing is i wasnt looking at her in a sexual way as most men do for obvious reasons.Its just natural for a man to look at a beautiful woman regardless of what he might be into to.Ladies lighten up!!!!!
When a brother looks at you.On the train this morning,i saw a very beautiful darkskinned woman,she had to be a model.I have never seen skin so georgeous and flawless in my life.So i am reading the metro newspaper,and i glance up at this woman casually and she rolled her eyes at me point blank.It was one of those eye rolls that little key-lolo gives to the boys for pulling her hair on the playground.I was like"oh no she di-int".Thing is i wasnt looking at her in a sexual way as most men do for obvious reasons.Its just natural for a man to look at a beautiful woman regardless of what he might be into to.Ladies lighten up!!!!!
WORD!!!!!
Like someone took their money or something.
Perhaps your look conveyed more than you expected???
Steven Stewart
02-19-2008, 02:07 PM
Perhaps your look conveyed more than you expected???
Maybe the boner gave you away....:rofl5:
'Magic' Juan
02-19-2008, 02:08 PM
Maybe the boner gave you away....:rofl5:
:rofl:
Phyllis Hyman Cherry
02-19-2008, 02:09 PM
Perhaps your look conveyed more than you expected???
Yo Myor,this happens to me all the time in the morning on the train.You would think i was rubbing my nipples with the looks i get.
P-M-S
I'm convinced that women are on it 24-7 . . . . . I swear, I hold the door open and I get a nasty screwface.
panklady
02-19-2008, 02:11 PM
Sometimes it's an unconscious thing.
ProvocativeElement
02-19-2008, 02:13 PM
When a brother looks at you.On the train this morning,i saw a very beautiful darkskinned woman,she had to be a model.I have never seen skin so georgeous and flawless in my life.So i am reading the metro newspaper,and i glance up at this woman casually and she rolled her eyes at me point blank.It was one of those eye rolls that little key-lolo gives to the boys for pulling her hair on the playground.I was like"oh no she di-int".Thing is i wasnt looking at her in a sexual way as most men do for obvious reasons.Its just natural for a man to look at a beautiful woman regardless of what he might be into to.Ladies lighten up!!!!!
The answer to your question can be found in the lyrics of Sweet Pussy Pauline (unfortunately, I gots no link or cut-n-paste)
sump'n like "There wouldn't be so many half sick grouchy ass women if they could get a complete good f***, baby"
Sometimes it's an unconscious thing.
is it? what subconciously triggers this unconcious "thing"? Discuss
'Magic' Juan
02-19-2008, 02:14 PM
The answer to your question can be found in the lyrics of Sweet Pussy Pauline (unfortunately, I gots no link or cut-n-paste)
sump'n like "There wouldn't be so many half sick grouchy ass women if they could get a complete good f***, baby"
Actually that's from "The Sensuous Black Woman" by The Madam.
But I digress ....
The Real Dragonfly Jones
02-19-2008, 02:14 PM
I had a young lady roll her eyes on me one time in college after I very politely said hello as she was walking by. I wasn't even trying to holla. My boy ended messing with her friend who said she was a little stuck up.
A few months later I saw her at a party begging this one dude for attention (supposedly her man). She kept saying "why are you ignoring me??" & "Why are you acting like this?" He just ignored her & walked away. She saw that I noticed her whole ordeal. I had a good laugh at her expense.
The answer to your question can be found in the lyrics of Sweet Pussy Pauline (unfortunately, I gots no link or cut-n-paste)
sump'n like "There wouldn't be so many half sick grouchy ass women if they could get a complete good f***, baby"
http://deephousepage.com/smilies/lach.gif
'Magic' Juan
02-19-2008, 02:17 PM
I blame no one but ourselves, gents. I've seen how some of our fellow bretheren approach some of these young ladies. They have absolutely NO game and are tacky & vulgar in their approach. They try rapping to the women with not so subtle innuendos and completely talk down to them. Then when they get no play they get upset and curse the girl out because THEY f*cked it up for themselves. This sets up a bad precedent and now the women get defensive whenever they sense someone may have an interest in them.
At least that is my take on it.
-M J
Phyllis Hyman Cherry
02-19-2008, 02:18 PM
The art of conversation is gone.I like to talk to people,even strangers.When you try and strike up a conversation with people nowadays they look at you like you are insane.Even the little stuff like the weather,gets you pegged as a nutcase.
panklady
02-19-2008, 02:20 PM
is it? what subconciously triggers this unconcious "thing"? Discuss
I had a friend in college who could "roll the hayle outta her eyes" and nobody would be saying anything to her that would warrant such a response. I asked her what the deal was? And she was like "I was just thinking about something else" (unrelated to our discussion).
In fact, I have a coworker who rolls & flutters her eyes without her even knowing. I make her look at me straight in the face. What I have concluded is that she is rolling them so as to NOT have to give eye contact.
And then ANSWER C is that some folk are just plain rude.
The D ANSWER she might have really had an eye problem.
Chris Conrad
02-19-2008, 02:20 PM
P-M-S
I'm convinced that women are on it 24-7 . . . . . I swear, I hold the door open and I get a nasty screwface.
what is it with that? i always hold the door open and the last several years it seems like i get dissed for doing so...
Ndless Nite
02-19-2008, 02:22 PM
I've seen how some guys approach ladies. I guess it becomes a natural reaction due to cynicism?
Possible symptom of ABW (Angry Black Woman) syndrome.
Just guessing.
Phyllis Hyman Cherry
02-19-2008, 02:24 PM
I cant help but to agree with Magic Juan.Some guys are just disrespectful to some women for no reason.And if the woman doesnt respond back sometimes she is verbally abused.I have heard guys say "F that B".Im like Dude you just try to scoop that "B" you are talking about.Unfortunealty some women have pegged all men as this type.
what is it with that? i always hold the door open and the last several years it seems like i get dissed for doing so...
I don't know what thats about man. Its annoying as hell though.
If I go through a series of doors and hold the first one as I'm walking in and I don't get a thank you, the next one I go through I literally walk up a few steps faster and slightly open it enough so that I can fit through, making them have to oopen the door themselves. . . hehehe and that goes for men and women.
Stan747
02-19-2008, 02:38 PM
Some of them are use to getting a lot of play so they feel their s***t don't stink. Some of them feel only a certain type of man can even think about approaching or looking at them.
SuzanneT
02-19-2008, 02:41 PM
what is it with that? i always hold the door open and the last several years it seems like i get dissed for doing so...
Limit your chivalry to middle aged and older women and folks with their hands full. The rest are an ungrateful bunch.
Limit your chivalry to middle aged and older women and folks with their hands full.
This works wonders. Old Black women love when you ensure that they arrive into an entry safely. Young girls, forget it!!!!
SuzanneT
02-19-2008, 02:45 PM
This works wonders. Old Black women love when you ensure that they arrive into an entry safely. Young girls, forget it!!!!
:grinyes:
Dj Kindel
02-19-2008, 02:45 PM
Ladies there is power and responsibility that come with being beautiful. Don't be abusive. Embrace the compliments.
Ladies there is power and responsibility that come with being beautiful. Don't be abusive. Embrace the compliments.
Speaking from expierenc:rofl5: its also a great burden..:rofl5:
SuzanneT
02-19-2008, 02:49 PM
Ladies there is power and responsibility that come with being beautiful. Don't be abusive. Embrace the compliments because like beauty, they won't last forever.
FIXED:biggrin:
MadMixer
02-19-2008, 02:49 PM
This works wonders. Old Black women love when you ensure that they arrive into an entry safely. Young girls, forget it!!!!
I prefer the term "mature" when talking about a black woman of a certain age.
i can only speak for myself....it just gets to a point where everytime you look up someones staring at you...its not YOU its just....sometimes we dont want attention...and dont let us put our guards down and smile politely.....you fellas take it as an invitation for conversation.....and its rarely geniune or casual...
sidenote....in the mornings....everybody get the evil eye...even my momma....
its not you...its me....not a morning person
Mack-Williams
02-19-2008, 02:57 PM
If Ladies don't like gettin looked at, come out in a do rag, crust in your eyes, and dress like Dbrat. If you are fine, and looking good, I'm going to look.
If Ladies don't like gettin looked at, come out in a do rag, crust in your eyes, and dress like Dbrat.
You still get attention that dont work
SuzanneT
02-19-2008, 02:59 PM
If Ladies don't like gettin looked at, come out in a do rag, crust in your eyes, and dress like Dbrat. If you are fine, and looking good, I'm going to look.
Some men go for that look Mack :icon_rofl:
Mack-Williams
02-19-2008, 03:02 PM
Some men go for that look Mack :icon_rofl:
You then cut off the percentage of looks. Instead of everybody looking, you cut it down to 10%.
Fletch
02-19-2008, 03:03 PM
Young girls, forget it!!!!
Many young girls........bad response to chivalry and don't cook!
(did I say that?)
Many young girls........bad response to chivalry and don't cook!
(did I say that?)
OOPS!. . hahaha
Many young girls........bad response to chivalry and don't cook!
(did I say that?)
Yup you did. But the key word is girls. Real women will throw down when they are ready, TRUST!!!
LaNegraLoca
02-19-2008, 03:10 PM
Sheeittt, this is why she's hot!
http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z217/mgonzo069/dabrat.jpg
Mack-Williams
02-19-2008, 03:13 PM
Sheeittt, this is why she's hot!
http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z217/mgonzo069/dabrat.jpg
After she had a make over.
SuzanneT
02-19-2008, 03:16 PM
After she had a make over.
I swear I don't ever remember da brat looking like that.
Phyllis Hyman Cherry
02-19-2008, 03:17 PM
Isnt that Rihanna?
never seen that chick without a hat, never knew she had a forehead
Isnt that Rihanna?
Nah, her forehead is too small.
'Magic' Juan
02-19-2008, 03:19 PM
She looks nice in this one:
http://i30.tinypic.com/2nscoqp.jpg
Makeovers are truly magic.
housewithme
02-19-2008, 03:19 PM
Ladies there is power and responsibility that come with being beautiful. Don't be abusive. Embrace the compliments.
While I appreciate your point, its sorta hard to embrace compliments when
you constantly are hit on by men you encounter during the course of a workday, sometimes it's just a throw off b/c they may be trying to hide something they don't want exposed or trying to get on your good side or who knows what their motive is, I don't want to hear it
Phyllis Hyman Cherry
02-19-2008, 03:20 PM
Nah, her forehead is too small.
You betta not let Chris Brown her man,know that you said that.
dj c-los
02-19-2008, 03:20 PM
She looks nice in this one:
http://i30.tinypic.com/2nscoqp.jpg
Makeovers are truly magic.
after celebrity fit club?
'Magic' Juan
02-19-2008, 03:21 PM
after celebrity fit club?
Yeah, must be b/c I remember she was rather chunkified.
Phyllis Hyman Cherry
02-19-2008, 03:22 PM
The above picture looks fishy to me.It looks as though her head is superimposed on someone's body.Or someone airbrushed the hell out of that picture.
SuzanneT
02-19-2008, 03:22 PM
Isnt that Rihanna?
Thats who I thought this was too, Phyl.
See you guys have to see women with tits half out or ass sticking out to realize their potential..
'Magic' Juan
02-19-2008, 03:23 PM
See you guys have to see women with tits half out or ass sticking out to realize their potential..
http://i30.tinypic.com/x4n8gn.jpg
LaNegraLoca
02-19-2008, 03:24 PM
I like daBrat here, too. Nothing wrong with a bad gurl!
http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z217/mgonzo069/DaBrat2-1.jpg
My other gurl Kelis - mmmmmmmmm! She can give the evil eye anytime!
http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z217/mgonzo069/Kelis2.jpg
SuzanneT
02-19-2008, 03:24 PM
http://i30.tinypic.com/x4n8gn.jpg
:lol: You just made me cackle out loud!
Mack-Williams
02-19-2008, 03:25 PM
See you guys have to see women with tits half out or ass sticking out to realize their potential..
No just looking nice gets me.
Mack-Williams
02-19-2008, 03:26 PM
[QUOTE=LaNegraLoca;652317]I like daBrat here, too. Nothing wrong with a bad gurl!
http://i194.photobucket.com/albums/z217/mgonzo069/DaBrat2-1.jpg
From that pic, me and her might be looking at the same chic on the bus, plotting who is going to holla first.
islandlover
02-19-2008, 03:27 PM
Isnt that Rihanna?
yeah, that's her. Her hair is on point IMO. Look at this recent pic
http://cm1.dotspotter.com/media/0/51/50/rihanna-hm-25.jpg
Phyllis Hyman Cherry
02-19-2008, 03:28 PM
She looks good in that pic,i hate H&M though.
jimmymack-2000
02-19-2008, 04:13 PM
I don't know what thats about man. Its annoying as hell though.
If I go through a series of doors and hold the first one as I'm walking in and I don't get a thank you, the next one I go through I literally walk up a few steps faster and slightly open it enough so that I can fit through, making them have to oopen the door themselves. . . hehehe and that goes for men and women.
Do you hold the door for men as well? How many of them say "Thanks"?
Do you hold the door for men as well? How many of them say "Thanks"?
Same amount. Maybe I just look like someone that doesn't deserve to be thanks'ed.
Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand
02-19-2008, 04:44 PM
Many young girls........bad response to chivalry and don't cook!
(did I say that?)
The best way to a young girl's heart these days........................shoot at her and call her a B*tch. They like that type of stuff, unless another girl does it to them, then it's a fight. When we were younger I had a friend that had two boyfriends in two different jails. She was gone every weekend on the bus with no draws on :rofl: she told me "girl, the boys in prison know how to treat me."
NOW: She is an angry 37 year-old lonely woman and an eye roller :rofl:
older&wiser
02-19-2008, 04:51 PM
She looks good in that pic,i hate H&M though.
Phyll's , why do you hate H&M?
Phyllis Hyman Cherry
02-19-2008, 04:56 PM
Phyll's , why do you hate H&M?
Clothes arent made well at all.Once wash,trip to the cleaners and its a wrap.I guess sometimes you get what you pay for.I think they do great interpetations of european fashion however.Only if they were made a lil better,i see now they have a premium denim line with jeans that are like $100 dollars.
Edith A. Giles
02-19-2008, 04:57 PM
....it just gets to a point where everytime you look up someones staring at you...its not YOU its just....sometimes we dont want attention...and dont let us put our guards down and smile politely.....you fellas take it as an invitation for conversation.....and its rarely geniune or casual...
Co-sign
Edith A. Giles
02-19-2008, 04:58 PM
I blame no one but ourselves, gents. I've seen how some of our fellow bretheren approach some of these young ladies. They have absolutely NO game and are tacky & vulgar in their approach. They try rapping to the women with not so subtle innuendos and completely talk down to them. Then when they get no play they get upset and curse the girl out because THEY f*cked it up for themselves. This sets up a bad precedent and now the women get defensive whenever they sense someone may have an interest in them.
At least that is my take on it.
-M J
At last, someone FINALLY gets it :hail: !!!!
what you guys dont realize is that we've been getting the looks and the comments long before it was even appropriate! ive been 5'10 since i was 12 so you can imagine....by the time i was at an age that i could appreciate a compliment...any and all compliments felt like WRONG...its jut now in my old age that i can appreciate a compliment when phrased correctly...but not really....
i think its not up to the woman to dress differently but men need to become more aware of their own actions what they say and how they look at women....you may think you just glancing....but dude..its written ALL OVER YOUR FACE!!!! :jpshakehead:
ugh.
lets not even talk about how it goes down in the summer.....jeeezus
what you guys dont realize is that we've been getting the looks and the comments long before it was even appropriate! ive been 5'10 since i was 12 so you can imagine....by the time i was at an age that i could appreciate a compliment...any and all compliments felt like WRONG...its jut now in my old age that i can appreciate a compliment when phrased correctly...but not really....
i think its not up to the woman to dress differently but men need to become more aware of their own actions what they say and how they look at women....you may think you just glancing....but dude..its written ALL OVER YOUR FACE!!!! :jpshakehead:
ugh.
lets not even talk about how it goes down in the summer.....jeeezus
So this may not have anything to do with your self esteem or lack there of? . . .
Mack-Williams
02-19-2008, 05:30 PM
what you guys dont realize is that we've been getting the looks and the comments long before it was even appropriate! ive been 5'10 since i was 12 so you can imagine....by the time i was at an age that i could appreciate a compliment...any and all compliments felt like WRONG...its jut now in my old age that i can appreciate a compliment when phrased correctly...but not really....
i think its not up to the woman to dress differently but men need to become more aware of their own actions what they say and how they look at women....you may think you just glancing....but dude..its written ALL OVER YOUR FACE!!!! :jpshakehead:
ugh.
lets not even talk about how it goes down in the summer.....jeeezus
You have to back this up with Pics :biggrin:
Shalewa
02-19-2008, 11:29 PM
So this may not have anything to do with your self esteem or lack there of? . . .
Not a thing.
Some years back when Fletch(sic, TAC started it) started a similar thread I did an informal tally of the number of men who tried to talk to me in any way- polite, impolite, flirty, raunchy, simple greeting- over the course of a day walking in Brooklyn to illustrate this point, responding to all of that energy is exhausting and the expectation of any response is intrusive. On that day I counted 31 discrete verbal encounters. It was not a particularly heavy day and I was not dressed in a way that was provocative or remarkable and tellingly I only counted verbalizations not looks. And to those who say, "you'll miss the attention when its gone," one of the few things I enjoy about winter is the protection of a heavy overcoat and the measure of respite from unwanted attention it brings.
EDIT: I found the thread. It is worth reading if only because the tenor of discussion was kinda different back then, for the good and the bad... http://deephousepage.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12721&highlight=twisted
Martin Red
02-20-2008, 07:37 AM
When a brother looks at you.
Perhaps it's because the off spring may be born deformed ?
Martin Red
02-20-2008, 07:40 AM
When a brother looks at you.On the train this morning,i saw a very beautiful darkskinned woman,she had to be a model.I have never seen skin so georgeous and flawless in my life.So i am reading the metro newspaper,and i glance up at this woman casually and she rolled her eyes at me point blank.It was one of those eye rolls that little key-lolo gives to the boys for pulling her hair on the playground.I was like"oh no she di-int".Thing is i wasnt looking at her in a sexual way as most men do for obvious reasons.Its just natural for a man to look at a beautiful woman regardless of what he might be into to.Ladies lighten up!!!!!
Lesbian love scene, i can picture it now, flawless skin chick eating you like a horse bag
Mizzmeme
02-20-2008, 01:51 PM
P-M-S
I'm convinced that women are on it 24-7 . . . . . I swear, I hold the door open and I get a nasty screwface.
Hey all the ladies are not like that;)
Mizzmeme
02-20-2008, 01:52 PM
The answer to your question can be found in the lyrics of Sweet Pussy Pauline (unfortunately, I gots no link or cut-n-paste)
sump'n like "There wouldn't be so many half sick grouchy ass women if they could get a complete good f***, baby"
Works for me, lol!
Not a thing.
Some years back when Fletch(sic, TAC started it) started a similar thread
Fletch and I are the bookends... :grinyes:
EDIT: I found the thread. It is worth reading if only because the tenor of discussion was kinda different back then, for the good and the bad... http://deephousepage.com/forums/showthread.php?t=12721&highlight=twisted
Interesting. It's true how the same topics are continually discussed. However, there was great input in the old thread from all sides. Great discussion.
I'll repeat it again, here. If a woman want's to meet "decent" men, the first place to find em is on their own faces, i.e., smile.
Peace
TAC
Clothes arent made well at all.Once wash,trip to the cleaners and its a wrap.I guess sometimes you get what you pay for.I think they do great interpetations of european fashion however.Only if they were made a lil better,i see now they have a premium denim line with jeans that are like $100 dollars.
Spoken like a man who knows clothes.
I'll repeat it again, here. If a woman want's to meet "decent" men, the first place to find em is on their own faces, i.e., smile.
Peace
TAC
I hate that smile baby..
ohhshutthefuckup.. Idontwanttosmile goddammit
:biggrinangel:
I hate that smile baby..
ohhshutthefuckup.. Idontwanttosmile goddammit
:biggrinangel:
SHAAAAADDAAAAP!!!!!
BHouse
02-20-2008, 02:21 PM
Yo Myor,this happens to me all the time in the morning on the train.You would think i was rubbing my nipples with the looks i get.
You should ride the train with me. :madani:
You should ride the train with me. :madani:
You picked a bad day to.. bwshahahahahahaahahaha
SuzanneT
02-20-2008, 02:28 PM
You should ride the train with me I am rubbing my nipples. :madani:
FIXED! :icon_rofl:
and people wonder why so many of the "FINE" women at the party/club are always standing around by themsevles looking at each other's FINE-NESS
and people wonder why so many of the "FINE" women at the party/club are always standing around by themsevles looking at each other's FINE-NESS
Becuase all the fellas are at the booth looking at rikkids..:tongueout:
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