Posting Personal business on DHP... [Archive]

Leslie

09-17-2003, 09:24 AM

People do it case they are ****ing confused and have no idea why a certain situation in their life has gotten/is getting outta control.

1) Those close to them told them what the deal was didn't listen, now friends don't want to hear it - turn to the web for help.

2) You done did some shit don't nobody know about but you need to get it off your chest (9x's outta 10 men cause they ain't good a hiding a gat damn thing - if a woman lets you find out she no longer cares and wanted you to know).

3) They are looking for someone to cosign their shit - and there is always someone on the web who will do that.

And

09-17-2003, 09:25 AM

Why shouldn't people post whatever the hell they want? All this dictating of what's appropriate fodder for the almighty dhp is a bit much sometimes. Take a look at one of the longest threads going ... People just talking about anything and everything. Can't it just be a good thing that people are communicating without all this post this way, post that. Much as I like the music discussions, I know I'm always more interested in the people and their stories. We still have the choice not to read right?

drilla

09-17-2003, 09:26 AM

Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by matthew j:
what do you mean by personal business? WTF!!....are you slow? need help in the thinking department today? Pay attention.....(where is that "dunce cap/in the corner" image) [/QUOTE]oh abstract one,

all that is seen by you, is not seen by all.

liL Ray

09-17-2003, 09:27 AM

Originally posted by Leslie:
People do it case they are ****ing confused and have no idea why a certain situation in their life has gotten/is getting outta control.

1) Those close to them told them what the deal was didn't listen, now friends don't want to hear it - turn to the web for help.

2) You done did some shit don't nobody know about but you need to get it off your chest (9x's outta 10 men cause they ain't good a hiding a gat damn thing - if a woman lets you find out she no longer cares and wanted you to know).

3) They are looking for someone to cosign their shit - and there is always someone on the web who will do that. Leslie, you taking writing classes at the DJ HUTCH school AH writing? (if he ask me "Who are you", I'm gonna bust my shirt laughing)

:D

[ September 17, 2003, 10:27 AM: Message edited by: liL Ray ]

Brut by Faberge

09-17-2003, 09:28 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
Why shouldn't people post whatever the hell they want? All this dictating of what's appropriate fodder for the almighty dhp is a bit much sometimes. Take a look at one of the longest threads going ... People just talking about anything and everything. Can't it just be a good thing that people are communicating without all this post this way, post that. Much as I like the music discussions, I know I'm always more interested in the people and their stories. We still have the choice not to read right? shiiiii...the personal business stuff is often better than the music or political stuff! plus, we all have problems, and whether we use the DHP to work em out is a matter of personal choice.

liL Ray

09-17-2003, 09:29 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
Why shouldn't people post whatever the hell they want? All this dictating of what's appropriate fodder for the almighty dhp is a bit much sometimes. WHERE, oh WHERE, did I mention that it was appropriate or in appropriate? Show me! Pinch and pull, please.....

däp

09-17-2003, 09:29 AM

i only get personal with those i consider friends.

it's like a talkshow thing around here. oftentimes it's easier for people to put things out in front of an audience (public forum) because they are shiedled from direct, one-on-one interaction.

i have met a lot of people from the board in person and i must say, most have been true to their monicker although a little more magnified in print. http://deephousepage.com/smilies/mwink.gif

out

[ September 17, 2003, 10:57 AM: Message edited by: t o r i n ]

Leslie

09-17-2003, 09:30 AM

Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
People do it case they are ****ing confused and have no idea why a certain situation in their life has gotten/is getting outta control.

1) Those close to them told them what the deal was didn't listen, now friends don't want to hear it - turn to the web for help.

2) You done did some shit don't nobody know about but you need to get it off your chest (9x's outta 10 men cause they ain't good a hiding a gat damn thing - if a woman lets you find out she no longer cares and wanted you to know).

3) They are looking for someone to cosign their shit - and there is always someone on the web who will do that. Leslie, you taking writing classes at the DJ HUTCH school AH writing? (if he ask me "Who are you", I'm gonna bust my shirt laughing)

:D [/QUOTE]My fingers can't keep up with my thoughts - my bad, hey I can dish and I can take. At least I'm not putting it al in caps and YELLING at people.

Digiman

09-17-2003, 09:30 AM

Originally posted by THX-1138:
like, "my baby mama burned all my clothes and slept with my brother. should i kill er?" Ha ha ha or

"My friend's cousin doesn't like this thing we call house, should I talk to him or marry my Uncle's old teacher who is very in touch with his spiritual side but also does not like house or should I go out with an old friend who has a very large record collection"

And

09-17-2003, 09:30 AM

Originally posted by THX-1138:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
Why shouldn't people post whatever the hell they want? All this dictating of what's appropriate fodder for the almighty dhp is a bit much sometimes. Take a look at one of the longest threads going ... People just talking about anything and everything. Can't it just be a good thing that people are communicating without all this post this way, post that. Much as I like the music discussions, I know I'm always more interested in the people and their stories. We still have the choice not to read right? shiiiii...the personal business stuff is often better than the music or political stuff! plus, we all have problems, and whether we use the DHP to work em out is a matter of personal choice. [/QUOTE]Greetings FreshNLovely
Going to work in a bit. Will hit you off pm stylee. :D

liL Ray

09-17-2003, 09:32 AM

Originally posted by matthew j:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by matthew j:
what do you mean by personal business? WTF!!....are you slow? need help in the thinking department today? Pay attention.....(where is that "dunce cap/in the corner" image) [/QUOTE]oh abstract one,

all that is seen by you, is not seen by all. [/QUOTE]I know, but try and keep up.....totes on the "abstact one"...

And

09-17-2003, 09:33 AM

Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
Why shouldn't people post whatever the hell they want? All this dictating of what's appropriate fodder for the almighty dhp is a bit much sometimes. WHERE, oh WHERE, did I mention that it was appropriate or in appropriate? Show me! Pinch and pull, please..... [/QUOTE]I'm way past this ... Let's move on.

liL Ray

09-17-2003, 09:34 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
Why shouldn't people post whatever the hell they want? All this dictating of what's appropriate fodder for the almighty dhp is a bit much sometimes. WHERE, oh WHERE, did I mention that it was appropriate or in appropriate? Show me! Pinch and pull, please..... [/QUOTE]I'm way past this ... Let's move on. [/QUOTE]oh, so that's where it's coming from......you get a "BOOOOOO" for that one. No points for originality!!!

[ September 17, 2003, 10:35 AM: Message edited by: liL Ray ]

Bill Blake

09-17-2003, 09:35 AM

Sometimes in my cubicle at work, I like to touch myself

Leslie

09-17-2003, 09:38 AM

If someone wants to post their business - its fine and you open yourself up to both praise, condemnation, and ridicule. If you are unable to take any of those three I would suggest you not do it - if you are in need of attention cause then by all means do your thing.

BTW are you so sure people are telling the truth? Are you sure they are not making themselves look one way as oppossed to the truth of hwo they really are?

liL Ray

09-17-2003, 09:41 AM

Originally posted by Leslie:
BTW are you so sure people are telling the truth? Are you sure they are not making themselves look one way as oppossed to the truth of hwo they really are? This was a topic I brought up on the DHP and I don't know if folks got what I was trying to say....I will try a search to find it.

Edit*** here it is....

http://deephousepage.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=028772

[ September 17, 2003, 10:45 AM: Message edited by: liL Ray ]

Cheddar

09-17-2003, 09:42 AM

I personally think it degrades the quality of the board. We have enough subjectivity when discussing DJ stuff & music. The Riki Lake stuff could get deleted for all I care @ this point in time.

Awareness and Music we must spread.

Huey P. Freeman

09-17-2003, 09:43 AM

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Sometimes in my cubicle at work, I like to touch myself Not suprising one bit. graemlins/sleep2.gif

drilla

09-17-2003, 09:44 AM

Originally posted by Eargasm:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Sometimes in my cubicle at work, I like to touch myself Not suprising one bit. graemlins/sleep2.gif [/QUOTE]DISS!

Leslie

09-17-2003, 09:46 AM

Bill Blake

09-17-2003, 09:47 AM

Originally posted by matthew j:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Eargasm:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Sometimes in my cubicle at work, I like to touch myself Not suprising one bit. graemlins/sleep2.gif [/QUOTE]DISS! [/QUOTE]Ha ha ha

Finni stories are the only personal business that should be allowed.

MYOR

09-17-2003, 09:48 AM

Its a way to get counseling without having to pay for it..
:(

martino

09-17-2003, 09:50 AM

Its about power (like most things). Someone wants to "expose" some shit about a situation or another person in a public place. That way all of a sudden, everybody knows about it. The person writing the stuff feels better because they think they are dealing with the situation.
The power bit comes in because they are the ones opening up about it, giving them a (false?) sense of control over it.
there's my amachwhore pop-pyschologist breakdown for ya

JMJ

09-17-2003, 09:52 AM

I don't post anything here that I wouldn't say in person. What you see is what you get.......JMJ ;)

statuskuo

09-17-2003, 09:58 AM

cuz therapy is not covered under their medical plan.

Brut by Faberge

09-17-2003, 09:58 AM

Originally posted by Alfie Moon:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by THX-1138:
like, "my baby mama burned all my clothes and slept with my brother. should i kill er?" Ha ha ha or

"My friend's cousin doesn't like this thing we call house, should I talk to him or marry my Uncle's old teacher who is very in touch with his spiritual side but also does not like house or should I go out with an old friend who has a very large record collection" [/QUOTE]icon_rofl.gif i think that WAS a post on here at some point...heyyyy you shouldn't make fun of people's problems like that graemlins/nono.gif graemlins/rofl.gif

Bill Blake

09-17-2003, 10:00 AM

And how comes its mostly people from Jersey always doing this shit?

Leslie

09-17-2003, 10:01 AM

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
And how comes its mostly people from Jersey always doing this shit? Gee and ain't that where your transplanted ass lives?

Jamie 3:26

09-17-2003, 10:03 AM

Originally posted by Leslie:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
And how comes its mostly people from Jersey always doing this shit? Gee and ain't that where your transplanted ass lives? [/QUOTE]Cut!!!

Bill Blake

09-17-2003, 10:11 AM

Oh wait.....

liL Ray

09-17-2003, 10:12 AM

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Oh wait..... LATE!!!

graemlins/bolt.gif

liL Ray

09-17-2003, 10:14 AM

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Oh wait..... if you hijack my post, I'm kidnapping Finni....I know where you live!!!

Jamie 3:26

09-17-2003, 10:15 AM

Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Oh wait..... if you hijack my post, I'm kidnapping Finni....I know where you live!!! [/QUOTE]Leave Ol' Yeller alone Ray...

mhd

09-17-2003, 10:15 AM

you can actually get some pretty good insight here on a lot of different stuff

mhd

09-17-2003, 10:16 AM

Tony Cano

09-17-2003, 10:16 AM

i gotta get this off my chest. i think it helps to a certain degree.

one lesson learned in these threads is that we djs are chasing a dream that doesn't exist. everybody wants to be the next LLV, Tony, Timmy, FK, etc.

- people need to be taking care of business at work because in most case this is what pays the bills.

- people need to be paying attention to their wife/girl friends. most women don't get it. your odds of being happy are better if she is a house head. pay attention or they will walk out on you.

- people need to be paying attention to their children. now a days it is so important to spend time with them to show them tender love and care.
there so much shit going on in the streets. babies having babies, aids, gangs, etc.

i am not saying that its wrong to have a hobby or escape, but we need to put our priorities in check. these points dont usually hit home until you find yourself in the unemployment office, without a wife or girl friend, or you are being called by the school for a meeting.

last of all, if you are gonna put your business out, be prepared for the smart asses on the board.

tc

MYOR

09-17-2003, 10:23 AM

last of all, if you are gonna put your business out, be prepared for the smart asses on the board. Or a Reality Check... graemlins/cool_shades.gif

Ronnie Ron

09-17-2003, 10:24 AM

Originally posted by Tony Cano:
i gotta get this off my chest. i think it helps to a certain degree.

one lesson learned in these threads is that we djs are chasing a dream that doesn't exist. everybody wants to be the next LLV, Tony, Timmy, FK, etc.

- people need to be taking care of business at work because in most case this is what pays the bills.

- people need to be paying attention to their wife/girl friends. most women don't get it. your odds of being happy are better if she is a house head. pay attention or they will walk out on you.

- people need to be paying attention to their children. now a days it is so important to spend time with them to show them tender love and care.
there so much shit going on in the streets. babies having babies, aids, gangs, etc.

i am not saying that its wrong to have a hobby or escape, but we need to put our priorities in check. these points dont usually hit home until you find yourself in the unemployment office, without a wife or girl friend, or you are being called by the school for a meeting.

last of all, if you are gonna put your business out, be prepared for the smart asses on the board.

tc Tony you are absolutley correct

graemlins/thumbsup.gif

Huey P. Freeman

09-17-2003, 10:25 AM

Originally posted by mhd:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Oh wait..... if you hijack my post, I'm kidnapping Finni....I know where you live!!! [/QUOTE]cut him a break, ray, he's typing with one hand [/QUOTE]graemlins/lol.gif

Bill Blake

09-17-2003, 10:29 AM

Originally posted by Eargasm:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by mhd:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Oh wait..... if you hijack my post, I'm kidnapping Finni....I know where you live!!! [/QUOTE]cut him a break, ray, he's typing with one hand [/QUOTE]graemlins/lol.gif [/QUOTE]Ha ha

Ok yes sorry Ray.

Its not a good idea, really but people are free to do it and look silly.

We all have our weaknesses, mine is just touching myself at work.

Cheddar

09-17-2003, 10:30 AM

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Eargasm:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by mhd:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Oh wait..... if you hijack my post, I'm kidnapping Finni....I know where you live!!! [/QUOTE]cut him a break, ray, he's typing with one hand [/QUOTE]graemlins/lol.gif [/QUOTE]Ha ha

Ok yes sorry Ray.

Its not a good idea, really but people are free to do it and look silly.

We all have our weaknesses, mine is just touching myself at work. [/QUOTE]You are not the only thing you cant keep your hands off!

Bill Blake

09-17-2003, 10:32 AM

Ha ha ha

Im the sloppiest DJ in New York.

mhd

09-17-2003, 10:35 AM

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Ha ha ha

Im the sloppiest DJ in New York. sticky fingers

Bill Blake

09-17-2003, 10:37 AM

Originally posted by mhd:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Ha ha ha

Im the sloppiest DJ in New York. sticky fingers [/QUOTE]WHO ARE YOU!?!

Huey P. Freeman

09-17-2003, 10:42 AM

Originally posted by mhd:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Ha ha ha

Im the sloppiest DJ in New York. sticky fingers [/QUOTE]Helps alot when back queing biggrinangel.gif

Bold Soul

09-17-2003, 10:52 AM

Originally posted by 1343:
I personally think it degrades the quality of the board. We have enough subjectivity when discussing DJ stuff & music. The Riki Lake stuff could get deleted for all I care @ this point in time.

Awareness and Music we must spread. Didn't know I was a member of the "DJP".

It's the "personal" threads that get the most play. And, from my observations, its the people who are so concerned about "awareness and music" that turn every thread into a personal debate anyhow.

It's ALL personal, so keep that shit comin'!

Brut by Faberge

09-17-2003, 10:58 AM

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 1343:
I personally think it degrades the quality of the board. We have enough subjectivity when discussing DJ stuff & music. The Riki Lake stuff could get deleted for all I care @ this point in time.

Awareness and Music we must spread. Didn't know I was a member of the "DJP".

It's the "personal" threads that get the most play. And, from my observations, its the people who are so concerned about "awareness and music" that turn every thread into a personal debate anyhow.

It's ALL personal, so keep that shit comin'! [/QUOTE]Plus it's just cool to see what people who love the same music you do think of stuff other than music.

For example, I did not know so many house-heads enjoy a finger up the butt!

Bill Blake

09-17-2003, 11:03 AM

Its all in good fun.

No one should take this shit too seriously.

The history and the music is important but humans are more than that.

Bold Soul

09-17-2003, 11:06 AM

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Its all in good fun.

No one should take this shit too seriously.

The history and the music is important but humans are more than that. I agree!

The history and the music is STATIC - the history doesn't move and the music moves really slowly. The people are DYNAMIC, and that's why people come here.

Take D. Mancuso, for instance. He posts the least about "the music". It's mostly philosophy and politics - and if that isn't "House", it should be.

Cheddar

09-17-2003, 11:06 AM

Originally posted by Bold Soul:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 1343:
I personally think it degrades the quality of the board. We have enough subjectivity when discussing DJ stuff & music. The Riki Lake stuff could get deleted for all I care @ this point in time.

Awareness and Music we must spread. Didn't know I was a member of the "DJP".

It's the "personal" threads that get the most play. And, from my observations, its the people who are so concerned about "awareness and music" that turn every thread into a personal debate anyhow.

It's ALL personal, so keep that shit comin'! [/QUOTE]I didnt even know what the "DJP" was.
I agree that the personal threads get the most play, hands down.
My view is based on the rhetorical nature of most of those personal threads. I dont start my own "personal thread" bashing threads and if it continues I will still be able to fall asleep tonight.
Humor is good, I am a strong supporter of awareness and/but I dont belive this is the place for psychotherapy.

Tee Cee 13

09-17-2003, 11:26 AM

Originally posted by liL Ray:
(in my best Hollywood Squares host voice)

Why do some do it? Cause they nuts...

What's the psychology behind it? There is none....

Is it ok to do? Hell no, you know better than that.

How do you feel when you meet the person face to face? Disgusted

Discuss... ---------------------
Be safe lil Ray.....

And

09-17-2003, 11:43 AM

Originally posted by Bold Soul:

the music moves really slowly. The people are DYNAMIC, and that's why people come here.
:D

[ September 17, 2003, 12:44 PM: Message edited by: 6 23 ]

And

09-17-2003, 11:55 AM

Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by liL Ray:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
Why shouldn't people post whatever the hell they want? All this dictating of what's appropriate fodder for the almighty dhp is a bit much sometimes. WHERE, oh WHERE, did I mention that it was appropriate or in appropriate? Show me! Pinch and pull, please..... [/QUOTE]I'm way past this ... Let's move on. [/QUOTE]oh, so that's where it's coming from......you get a "BOOOOOO" for that one. No points for originality!!! [/QUOTE]icon_rofl.gif That statement coming from you can hardly be taken seriously. Again ... icon_rofl.gif

So easy a protic can do it (QUAD)

09-17-2003, 02:01 PM

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Sometimes in my cubicle at work, I like to touch myself graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/lol.gif WITH OR WITHOUT GEL??? icon_rofl.gif

JMJ

09-17-2003, 02:05 PM

Originally posted by DJ QUAD:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Sometimes in my cubicle at work, I like to touch myself graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/lol.gif graemlins/lol.gif WITH OR WITHOUT GEL??? icon_rofl.gif [/QUOTE]Gel = Sticky Fingers......JMJ