View Full Version : IS FLIRTING CHEATING?
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 08:51 AM
I feel it's ok, as long as it's done with taste & discretion.
Your thoughts on the subject.
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Mack-Williams
10-21-2003, 08:53 AM
I say just don't do around your partner. Respect each other.
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I feel it's ok, as long as it's done with taste & discretion.
Your thoughts on the subject.
graemlins/acclaim.gif Is asked the same question and this is what I gathered!!! (http://deephousepage.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=035363)
The Good Reverend Rollo Goodlove
10-21-2003, 08:56 AM
Not only no, but HELL NO. Flirting for some is as natural as breathing.
beaniboy67
10-21-2003, 08:57 AM
when i was younger i was very paranoid about this kind of thing but now im a little older it doesnt play on my mind so much.
I feel that as long as you no you will not cheat then its harmless.sometimes its impossible not to flirt.i would never cheat on my gf but if im in a bar and a girl is being friendly and stuff i will chat and maybe flirt a little but i wouldnt take it any further.
if i really felt i wanted to take it further i would be questioning my relationship and i would probably have a long think about whether i wanted to carry on with it.if i really was intrested in the other girl then i would finish where i was and end it cos at the end of the day if you feel like messing then you shouldnt be involved with someone!!
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Rainless
10-21-2003, 08:59 AM
Originally posted by Eargasm:
Not only no, but HELL NO. Flirting for some is as natural as breathing. I agree! Flirting is not cheating. It's natural! ;)
richierich
10-21-2003, 09:04 AM
If ya can't do it around your lover(whatever it is) then I don't feel you should do it at all. What would be the point? I say flirting is not good..would you want your lover flirting? You aint gonna do nothing so why play..you might get caught up. THE THING IS THAT PEOPLE DEFINE FLIRTING DIFFERENTLY there are different levels...Just keep in mind that the person you are flirting with may see it as more than just flirting.. then when ya can't get rid of that person when you want to ya wanna say someone is harrassing you. Ya never know how serious a person will take your flirting with them..don't play.....JMO
Rich
[ October 21, 2003, 10:17 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 09:04 AM
On the other hand flirting can cause serious problems if it's done in front or near your significant other.
A cute little smile, a hug, or wink of the eye, can get you in a lot of trouble.
"Lucy you got some splainin to do" mad1.gif
[ October 21, 2003, 10:08 AM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]
Rainless
10-21-2003, 09:11 AM
Flirting is a very natural habit for some! Many don't even realize that they're flirting because they truly believe they're just having a casual conversation with someone. if you take your flirting to another level then that is cheating. If your flirting and you become touchy feely then that is cheating. But if you're just talking, smiling and having a good conversation with someone than that is not flirting in my book.
;)
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
On the other hand flirting can cause serious problems if it's done in front or near your significant other.
A cute little smile, a hug, or wink of the eye, can get you in a lot of trouble.
"Lucy you got some splainin to do" mad1.gif If a cute smile or a hug gets you introuble with your significant other.. You don't need to be with them... Unless you want to wear blinders every time you go out.. graemlins/conf44.gif
Nothing wrong with flirting as long as it is done in a healthy way. Don't hurt anyone's feelings.
Can we start flirting now?
http://www.missabigail.com/images/flirt.gif
Q Dear Miss Abigail:
I recently discovered that I have been flirting with far more girls than I had realized. Please, I need to know where the line is between flirting and a witty conversation.
Signed,
Wondering in Wisconsin
A Dear Wondering:
Just curious ~ how exactly did you come to this realization? I'm picturing you mid-flirt, suddenly speechless. Whoa.
Personally, I think flirting is a good thing. But I understand if you feel you need some guidelines. There wasn't any advice on this topic in my books aimed directly at boys, so I've done a bit of editing to the following passage. It's pulled from a chapter titled "Boys, Boys, Boys" in Enid Haupt's The Seventeen Book of Etiquette and Entertaining. I think it works quite well for either sex, don't you?
1963: What About Flirting?
Yes and no. Yes if you flirt because you like the [girl] ~ or [girls] in general. Yes if you flirt to flatter the [girl]. Yes if you flirt lightly and naturally ([boy] talking to [girl]). Yes if [boys] are your friends too.
No if you flirt only to prove you can make the [girl] interested. No if you plan to drop [her] the moment [she's] interested. No if you flirt to take [her] away from a [boy] who really likes [her]. No if [boys] think you're bad news to have around.
Source: The Seventeen Book of Etiquette & Entertaining
~ p. 48 ~
Rainless
10-21-2003, 09:16 AM
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
On the other hand flirting can cause serious problems if it's done in front or near your significant other.
A cute little smile, a hug, or wink of the eye, can get you in a lot of trouble.
"Lucy you got some splainin to do" mad1.gif If a cute smile or a hug gets you introuble with your significant other.. You don't need to be with them... Unless you want to wear blinders every time you go out.. graemlins/conf44.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Looking at the floor just because you don't want to piss them off is no way to build on a relationship. Good Point! ;)
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 09:24 AM
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting?
richierich
10-21-2003, 09:25 AM
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting? Of course not. You know you my girl and all but aint nobody gotta tell you when you're flirting.... you know when YOU are flirting.
[ October 21, 2003, 10:27 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting? Only if you grab their a$$ while hugging them biggrinangel.gif
statuskuo
10-21-2003, 09:37 AM
is wanking to porn cheating??
if so, lock me up.
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting? Only if you grab their a$$ while hugging them biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Phew! It's a good thing I only grab balls when hugging ...
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 09:43 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by richierich:
[QB}would you want your lover flirting? [/QB][QUOTE]
No Richard I would not...I had it done before, & I like to bust a cap in his ass.
Naw just kidding. Answering your question, I wouldn't like it at all, but if it's done with decency where there's no disrespect & flaunting in yo partners face, than I'm ok with it.
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 09:48 AM
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting? Only if you grab their a$$ while hugging them biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Hahahaha or rub against that hot spot.
Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting? Only if you grab their a$$ while hugging them biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Phew! It's a good thing I only grab balls when hugging ... </font>[/QUOTE]icon_rofl.gif (why am I hearing that Donald Duck email that was going around... "play with my balls, play with my balls)
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FemalePhenom
10-21-2003, 09:51 AM
Flirting is definitely not cheating, but it can have the same negative results on your significant other. I had to ask myself this question recently, and I personally hurt from thinking my significant other is flirting with someone else. To me isn't that like dangling bait in front of someone, what happens if they bite? It is like foreplay almost, but just because you did not sleep with the person, was the foreplay not cheating?
However, I will also say, what is good for the goose is good for the gander, and if you are going to flirt, then your significant other gets to flirt too. How would you feel about it in the reverse? If it doesn't bother you, then I guess it is cool smile.gif But then does one have to consider, are you really in a relationship if you are spending time flirting with someone else? Is your significant other waiting for you while you are out doing so? That seems amiss, not cheating, but definitely hurtful.
I used to be considered a big flirt, and I stopped when I saw what issues it caused in my relationship, and now when it is done to me, I feel the hurt I used to cause. We can act like it is no big deal, but always consider how would you feel if the same situation was reversed, and your outlook may change a little. graemlins/conf44.gif
richierich
10-21-2003, 09:52 AM
Now see y'all makin' me horny with all this huggin' and grabbing asses and hot spots and shit. You know I'm a Scorpio. Now see where flirting leads. graemlins/cool_shades.gif
Originally posted by richierich:
Now see y'all makin' me horny with all this huggin' and grabbing asses and hot spots and shit. You know I'm a Scorpio. Now see where flirting leads. graemlins/cool_shades.gif Please refer to the masterbation Thread icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
The Good Reverend Rollo Goodlove
10-21-2003, 09:56 AM
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Now see y'all makin' me horny with all this huggin' and grabbing asses and hot spots and shit. You know I'm a Scorpio. Now see where flirting leads. graemlins/cool_shades.gif Please refer to the masterbation Thread icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/rofl.gif
Originally posted by richierich:
Now see y'all makin' me horny with all this huggin' and grabbing asses and hot spots and shit. You know I'm a Scorpio. Now see where flirting leads. graemlins/cool_shades.gif Heh, heh Fellow Scorpio! graemlins/beerchug.gif
Flirting is biological ... graemlins/rofl.gif
richierich
10-21-2003, 09:58 AM
You are crazy. No but I like what FemalePhenom said. It makes so much sense.
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 09:58 AM
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting? Only if you grab their a$$ while hugging them biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Hahahaha or rub against that hot spot. </font>[/QUOTE]Oh i forgot this one, if one of yo girls pops out! :rolleyes:
NubianSista
10-21-2003, 09:59 AM
Originally posted by Mack-Williams:
I say just don't do around your partner. Respect each other. I agree.
Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand
10-21-2003, 10:02 AM
I am a friendly person and people think I'm flirting. (Which usually get me in trouble) graemlins/conf44.gif I use flirting as a form of flattery to get stuff too graemlins/tongueout.gif . As long as their aren't phone numbers passing or lunch/dinner dates along with. Then flirting is harmless.
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting? Only if you grab their a$$ while hugging them biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Hahahaha or rub against that hot spot. </font>[/QUOTE]Oh i forgot this one, if one of yo girls pops out! :rolleyes: </font>[/QUOTE]Still not flirting.. biggrinangel.gif
Now if you take it out and rub it on their face..
U R FLIRTING icon_rofl.gif
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 10:15 AM
Has anyone's significant other had to kick someone's butt due to you flirting or someone flirting with you?
Have there been any serious arguments or break ups because of the flirting
[ October 21, 2003, 11:21 AM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]
Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand
10-21-2003, 10:30 AM
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
Has anyone's significant other had to kick someone's butt due to you flirting or someone flirting with you?
Have there been any serious arguments or break ups because of the flirting No but I had to thraeten a guy, to make him stop following me. All I said was hello, he followed me thru the club all night until I told him That I was going to ram his beer bootle up his butt. :D
richierich
10-21-2003, 10:32 AM
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
Has anyone's significant other had to kick someone's butt due to you flirting or someone flirting with you?
Have there been any serious arguments or break ups because of the flirting I had to bust this dude in the head with a beer bottle at The Warehouse on Randolph. I t was mu birthday and me and my girlfriend at the time were walking past the bar going downstairs mind you we are holding hands. This dude grabs her and and says something.. She pulled away from him and he looked at me and asked" Is she with you"? I said "Yes". We come back upstairs and walk past dude and he whispers something into her ear and she leaned away from him. He looked at me like **** you. He then comes out to the dancefloor area and comes straight up to her with me standing there and tries to pull her onto the floor she snatched away and said to me "Let's go". I asked her did she know him she said no. I played like I was going to the bathroom went up to dude and straight busted him in the forehead with a half full bottle of MGD. He nor his boys did anything and he wound up getting put out.
[ October 21, 2003, 11:34 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]
beaniboy67
10-21-2003, 10:35 AM
Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
Has anyone's significant other had to kick someone's butt due to you flirting or someone flirting with you?
Have there been any serious arguments or break ups because of the flirting I had to bust this dude in the head with a beer bottle at The Warehouse on Randolph. I t was mu birthday and me and my girlfriend at the time were walking past the bar going downstairs mind you we are holding hands. This dude grabs her and and says something.. She pulled away from him and he looked at me and asked" Is she with you"? I said "Yes". We come back upstairs and walk past dude and he whispers something into her ear and she leaned away from him. He looked at me like **** you. He then comes out to the dancefloor area and comes straight up to her with me standing there and tries to pull her onto the floof she snatched away and said to me "Let's go". I asked her did she know him she said no. I played like I was going to the bathroom went up to dude and straight busted him in the forehead with a half full bottle of MGD. He nor his boys did anything and he wound up getting put out. </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
thats the way to do it man!!
the only difference is i would have usd my scottish tactic and used my forehead and knocked him the fuik out!People like him should be taught a lesson.
thats the way to deal with asswipes like that! :D
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 10:37 AM
Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
Has anyone's significant other had to kick someone's butt due to you flirting or someone flirting with you?
Have there been any serious arguments or break ups because of the flirting I had to bust this dude in the head with a beer bottle at The Warehouse on Randolph. I t was mu birthday and me and my girlfriend at the time were walking past the bar going downstairs mind you we are holding hands. This dude grabs her and and says something.. She pulled away from him and he looked at me and asked" Is she with you"? I said "Yes". We come back upstairs and walk past dude and he whispers something into her ear and she leaned away from him. He looked at me like **** you. He then comes out to the dancefloor area and comes straight up to her with me standing there and tries to pull her onto the floor she snatched away and said to me "Let's go". I asked her did she know him she said no. I played like I was going to the bathroom went up to dude and straight busted him in the forehead with a half full bottle of MGD. He nor his boys did anything and he wound up getting put out. </font>[/QUOTE]graemlins/1luvu.gif
Originally posted by Eargasm:
Not only no, but HELL NO. Flirting for some is as natural as breathing. graemlins/remybussi.gif
Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand
10-21-2003, 10:43 AM
Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
Has anyone's significant other had to kick someone's butt due to you flirting or someone flirting with you?
Have there been any serious arguments or break ups because of the flirting I had to bust this dude in the head with a beer bottle at The Warehouse on Randolph. I t was mu birthday and me and my girlfriend at the time were walking past the bar going downstairs mind you we are holding hands. This dude grabs her and and says something.. She pulled away from him and he looked at me and asked" Is she with you"? I said "Yes". We come back upstairs and walk past dude and he whispers something into her ear and she leaned away from him. He looked at me like **** you. He then comes out to the dancefloor area and comes straight up to her with me standing there and tries to pull her onto the floor she snatched away and said to me "Let's go". I asked her did she know him she said no. I played like I was going to the bathroom went up to dude and straight busted him in the forehead with a half full bottle of MGD. He nor his boys did anything and he wound up getting put out. </font>[/QUOTE]I threw a chick down the stairs @ the Warehouse for touching on my man mad1.gif I told her nice to be careful and she told me don't say anything else to her or she was going to kick my butt. So I did what came naturally - tossed the cow down the stairs graemlins/conf44.gif No one knew what happend and when the security figured it out, it was too late biggrinangel.gif
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 10:47 AM
Originally posted by DiscoLady:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
Has anyone's significant other had to kick someone's butt due to you flirting or someone flirting with you?
Have there been any serious arguments or break ups because of the flirting I had to bust this dude in the head with a beer bottle at The Warehouse on Randolph. I t was mu birthday and me and my girlfriend at the time were walking past the bar going downstairs mind you we are holding hands. This dude grabs her and and says something.. She pulled away from him and he looked at me and asked" Is she with you"? I said "Yes". We come back upstairs and walk past dude and he whispers something into her ear and she leaned away from him. He looked at me like **** you. He then comes out to the dancefloor area and comes straight up to her with me standing there and tries to pull her onto the floor she snatched away and said to me "Let's go". I asked her did she know him she said no. I played like I was going to the bathroom went up to dude and straight busted him in the forehead with a half full bottle of MGD. He nor his boys did anything and he wound up getting put out. </font>[/QUOTE]I threw a chick down the stairs @ the Warehouse for touching on my man mad1.gif I told her nice to be careful and she told me don't say anything else to her or she was going to kick my butt. So I did what came naturally - tossed the cow down the stairs graemlins/conf44.gif No one knew what happend and when the security figured it out, it was too late biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Damn disco icon_rofl.gif
FemalePhenom
10-21-2003, 10:53 AM
Originally posted by DiscoLady:
[/qb]I threw a chick down the stairs @ the Warehouse for touching on my man mad1.gif I told her nice to be careful and she told me don't say anything else to her or she was going to kick my butt. So I did what came naturally - tossed the cow down the stairs graemlins/conf44.gif No one knew what happend and when the security figured it out, it was too late biggrinangel.gif [/QB][/QUOTE]
sounds like something i would do icon_rofl.gif so let me ask ya'll, if flirting is not cheating, why are peeps getting violent?
and are you supposed to get mad at your significant other if he or she is encouraging the flirting, but you know he/she won't actually cheat?
[ October 21, 2003, 11:54 AM: Message edited by: FemalePhenom ]
Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand
10-21-2003, 11:01 AM
Originally posted by FemalePhenom:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DiscoLady:
I threw a chick down the stairs @ the Warehouse for touching on my man mad1.gif I told her nice to be careful and she told me don't say anything else to her or she was going to kick my butt. So I did what came naturally - tossed the cow down the stairs graemlins/conf44.gif No one knew what happend and when the security figured it out, it was too late biggrinangel.gif [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]sounds like something i would do icon_rofl.gif so let me ask ya'll, if flirting is not cheating, why are peeps getting violent?
and are you supposed to get mad at your significant other if he or she is encouraging the flirting, but you know he/she won't actually cheat? [/QB][/QUOTE]
My encounter was the same as rich's encounter. We were dancing and talking, this chick (who I've always got into with every weekend) targeted him just like other guys.
Hey at least I started off with a civil warning B4 I threw her butt. I wouldn't do this now, I am too much of a lady and I don't drink anymore biggrinangel.gif
Rainless
10-21-2003, 11:01 AM
Originally posted by DiscoLady:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
Has anyone's significant other had to kick someone's butt due to you flirting or someone flirting with you?
Have there been any serious arguments or break ups because of the flirting I had to bust this dude in the head with a beer bottle at The Warehouse on Randolph. I t was mu birthday and me and my girlfriend at the time were walking past the bar going downstairs mind you we are holding hands. This dude grabs her and and says something.. She pulled away from him and he looked at me and asked" Is she with you"? I said "Yes". We come back upstairs and walk past dude and he whispers something into her ear and she leaned away from him. He looked at me like **** you. He then comes out to the dancefloor area and comes straight up to her with me standing there and tries to pull her onto the floor she snatched away and said to me "Let's go". I asked her did she know him she said no. I played like I was going to the bathroom went up to dude and straight busted him in the forehead with a half full bottle of MGD. He nor his boys did anything and he wound up getting put out. </font>[/QUOTE]I threw a chick down the stairs @ the Warehouse for touching on my man mad1.gif I told her nice to be careful and she told me don't say anything else to her or she was going to kick my butt. So I did what came naturally - tossed the cow down the stairs graemlins/conf44.gif No one knew what happend and when the security figured it out, it was too late biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]icon_rofl.gif Thats sh*t was funny! icon_rofl.gif
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 11:02 AM
Originally posted by FemalePhenom:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DiscoLady:
I threw a chick down the stairs @ the Warehouse for touching on my man mad1.gif I told her nice to be careful and she told me don't say anything else to her or she was going to kick my butt. So I did what came naturally - tossed the cow down the stairs graemlins/conf44.gif No one knew what happend and when the security figured it out, it was too late biggrinangel.gif [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]sounds like something i would do icon_rofl.gif so let me ask ya'll, if flirting is not cheating, why are peeps getting violent?
and are you supposed to get mad at your significant other if he or she is encouraging the flirting, but you know he/she won't actually cheat? [/QB][/QUOTE]
___________________________________________
This chick was feeling on Disco's Man, that's
going over board & she warned her.
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[ October 21, 2003, 12:12 PM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]
FemalePhenom
10-21-2003, 11:07 AM
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by FemalePhenom:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DiscoLady:
I threw a chick down the stairs @ the Warehouse for touching on my man mad1.gif I told her nice to be careful and she told me don't say anything else to her or she was going to kick my butt. So I did what came naturally - tossed the cow down the stairs graemlins/conf44.gif No one knew what happend and when the security figured it out, it was too late biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]sounds like something i would do icon_rofl.gif so let me ask ya'll, if flirting is not cheating, why are peeps getting violent?
and are you supposed to get mad at your significant other if he or she is encouraging the flirting, but you know he/she won't actually cheat? [/QB]</font>[/QUOTE]___________________________________________
This chick was feeling on her Disco's Man, that's
going over board & she warned her.
___________________________________________ [/QB][/QUOTE]
yeah, that is not cool at all. blatant disrespect. i don't drink either anymore, but i might have had to bust out some drunken monkey style on her ass! http://deephousepage.com/smilies/kickbut.gif
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Jamie 3:26
10-21-2003, 11:18 AM
I found out the hard way...don't do shit,you do not want given back 2 fold.
I can't help it that I am a flirt.I do flirt and talk to lots of people,I am not disrespectful or grabbing all over folks.I'm just friendly.I'm not a wolf howling at every woman I see.It really depends on the setting and since I am a dj,I have to talk to and meet folks of all walks of life.
I am never disrespectful to my wife and her feelings.I know some guys who could care less and do their own thing with their partner/lover right there.
I am a grown ass man and do not have times for games.I learned all of the relationship do's and dont's when I was younger.Hell,I am married and I am still learning.
There's a time and a place for everything.
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 11:19 AM
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting? Only if you grab their a$$ while hugging them biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Hahahaha or rub against that hot spot. </font>[/QUOTE]Oh i forgot this one, if one of yo girls pops out! :rolleyes: </font>[/QUOTE]Still not flirting.. biggrinangel.gif
Now if you take it out and rub it on their face..
U R FLIRTING icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]You a trip, but that would cause for a serious ass whoopin from her significant other. :D
FemalePhenom
10-21-2003, 11:30 AM
Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
I found out the hard way...don't do shit,you do not want given back 2 fold.
I can't help it that I am a flirt.I do flirt and talk to lots of people,I am not disrespectful or grabbing all over folks.I'm just friendly.I'm not a wolf howling at every woman I see.It really depends on the setting and since I am a dj,I have to talk to and meet folks of all walks of life.
I am never disrespectful to my wife and her feelings.I know some guys who could care less and do their own thing with their partner/lover right there.
I am a grown ass man and do not have times for games.I learned all of the relationship do's and dont's when I was younger.Hell,I am married and I am still learning.
There's a time and a place for everything. i agree! we are grown, we know how what we do affects others, but we also are all still learning. however, someone can't continue to use the latter as an excuse ;) it is the whole principle of treat others as you wish to be treated smile.gif
lola desire
10-21-2003, 12:02 PM
Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
I hug people all the time, especially if I haven't seen them in while. Does that mean I'm flirting? Of course not. You know you my girl and all but aint nobody gotta tell you when you're flirting.... you know when YOU are flirting. </font>[/QUOTE]hugging alone is not flirting.
hug + cop-a-feel = flirting/cheating & high potential for being smacked
hug + hump = flirting & high potential for being smacked
Friday
10-21-2003, 12:10 PM
OK guys, here's a question, is it flirting when a man casually puts his arm around your waist but his hand kind of drops down to the small of your back, then just below the butt crack and then leaves it there. What is this? I find it uncomfortable, espeacially if I don't know the guy so well. Why do some men do this? :(
richierich
10-21-2003, 12:14 PM
Originally posted by gf:
OK guys, here's a question, is it flirting when a man casually puts his arm around your waist but his hand kind of drops down to the small of your back, then just below the butt crack and then leaves it there. What is this? I find it uncomfortable, espeacially if I don't know the guy so well. Why do some men do this? :( There aint nothing casual about anything you've stated...he's just copping a feel.
[ October 21, 2003, 01:18 PM: Message edited by: richierich ]
Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand
10-21-2003, 12:18 PM
Originally posted by gf:
OK guys, here's a question, is it flirting when a man casually puts his arm around your waist but his hand kind of drops down to the small of your back, then just below the butt crack and then leaves it there. What is this? I find it uncomfortable, espeacially if I don't know the guy so well. Why do some men do this? :( I would just casually move his hand. He has no business doing that unless you are dating
[ October 21, 2003, 01:23 PM: Message edited by: DiscoLady ]
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 12:47 PM
Originally posted by gf:
OK guys, here's a question, is it flirting when a man casually puts his arm around your waist but his hand kind of drops down to the small of your back, then just below the butt crack and then leaves it there. What is this? I find it uncomfortable, espeacially if I don't know the guy so well. Why do some men do this? :( He's definately flirting. The next time he does that, check him about it.
BHouse
10-21-2003, 01:19 PM
This past week I had two separate incidents... The first one, I was a friends house. About four couples. I was paired up with a nice woman that I not attracted to at all. So anyway, we are enjoying ourselves. Drinking, playing cards and listening to House music. So the one I am attracted to begins to dance all seductive with her boyfriend but looking at me. So I think nothing of it... Later that night her boyfriend tells her don't do that dance like that in front of me... There three other guys there, why just me... I didn't flirt with at all.
Then a couple of days later I went over a woman's house I just met about doing some work with her and her boyfriend was walking out the door when I was coming up the stairs. So I introduced myself and shook his hand and all. Then all of a sudden he wanted to stick around. When he did finally decide to leave, he called 30min later and told his girl that I better not try anything... WTF...
Originally posted by BHouse:
This past week I had two separate incidents... The first one, I was a friends house. About four couples. I was paired up with a nice woman that I not attracted to at all. So anyway, we are enjoying ourselves. Drinking, playing cards and listening to House music. So the one I am attracted to begins to dance all seductive with her boyfriend but looking at me. So I think nothing of it... Later that night her boyfriend tells her don't do that dance like that in front of me... There three other guys there, why just me... I didn't flirt with at all.
Then a couple of days later I went over a woman's house I just met about doing some work with her and her boyfriend was walking out the door when I was coming up the stairs. So I introduced myself and shook his hand and all. Then all of a sudden he wanted to stick around. When he did finally decide to leave, he called 30min later and told his girl that I better not try anything... WTF... That is becuase no matter what, guys want sex from girls... You were going ther for work.. Sure "work on his girl"..
(At least that is what my friends boyfriend says) :D
Originally posted by gf:
OK guys, here's a question, is it flirting when a man casually puts his arm around your waist but his hand kind of drops down to the small of your back, then just below the butt crack and then leaves it there. What is this? I find it uncomfortable, espeacially if I don't know the guy so well. Why do some men do this? :( icon_rofl.gif This must be one of the classic guy moves passed down from generation to generation. Look GF the key is to play dumb. So he starts off with a shoulder high hug and ends up with an arm up your ass - Play it cool, return the hug making sure to "accidentally" let your hand drop down and cup his sackage. If he looks surprised and shocked act like you don't have a clue why he's looking that way at you. Works everytime ... Most dudes I know don't like surprise foreign cuppage.
icon_rofl.gif
Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
This past week I had two separate incidents... The first one, I was a friends house. About four couples. I was paired up with a nice woman that I not attracted to at all. So anyway, we are enjoying ourselves. Drinking, playing cards and listening to House music. So the one I am attracted to begins to dance all seductive with her boyfriend but looking at me. So I think nothing of it... Later that night her boyfriend tells her don't do that dance like that in front of me... There three other guys there, why just me... I didn't flirt with at all.
Then a couple of days later I went over a woman's house I just met about doing some work with her and her boyfriend was walking out the door when I was coming up the stairs. So I introduced myself and shook his hand and all. Then all of a sudden he wanted to stick around. When he did finally decide to leave, he called 30min later and told his girl that I better not try anything... WTF... That is becuase no matter what, guys want sex from girls... You were going ther for work.. Sure "work on his girl"..
(At least that is what my friends boyfriend says) :D </font>[/QUOTE]He's just admitting he's a flirt Myor ... Pay him no mind whatsoever. He knows why the girl got the call about him ....
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Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 01:58 PM
Originally posted by BHouse:
This past week I had two separate incidents... The first one, I was a friends house. About four couples. I was paired up with a nice woman that I not attracted to at all. So anyway, we are enjoying ourselves. Drinking, playing cards and listening to House music. So the one I am attracted to begins to dance all seductive with her boyfriend but looking at me. So I think nothing of it... Later that night her boyfriend tells her don't do that dance like that in front of me... There three other guys there, why just me... I didn't flirt with at all.
Then a couple of days later I went over a woman's house I just met about doing some work with her and her boyfriend was walking out the door when I was coming up the stairs. So I introduced myself and shook his hand and all. Then all of a sudden he wanted to stick around. When he did finally decide to leave, he called 30min later and told his girl that I better not try anything... WTF... You must got it going on, you making all the fellows jealous.
BHouse
10-21-2003, 01:59 PM
Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
This past week I had two separate incidents... The first one, I was a friends house. About four couples. I was paired up with a nice woman that I not attracted to at all. So anyway, we are enjoying ourselves. Drinking, playing cards and listening to House music. So the one I am attracted to begins to dance all seductive with her boyfriend but looking at me. So I think nothing of it... Later that night her boyfriend tells her don't do that dance like that in front of me... There three other guys there, why just me... I didn't flirt with at all.
Then a couple of days later I went over a woman's house I just met about doing some work with her and her boyfriend was walking out the door when I was coming up the stairs. So I introduced myself and shook his hand and all. Then all of a sudden he wanted to stick around. When he did finally decide to leave, he called 30min later and told his girl that I better not try anything... WTF... That is becuase no matter what, guys want sex from girls... You were going ther for work.. Sure "work on his girl"..
(At least that is what my friends boyfriend says) :D </font>[/QUOTE]He's just admitting he's a flirt Myor ... Pay him no mind whatsoever. He knows why the girl got the call about him ....
http://www.sistersofsharon.com.hk/sharon/images/perv.gif </font>[/QUOTE]You know I am a flirt better than any other woman on DHP... As a matter of fact, let me whisper sweet nothings in your ear on Messenger...
[ October 21, 2003, 03:00 PM: Message edited by: BHouse ]
Originally posted by BHouse:
You know I am a flirt better than any other woman on DHP... As a matter of fact, let me whisper sweet nothings in your ear on Messenger... Ahem ... and then BHouse woke up and realized which message board he was on. I know this DHP woman ain't buying that story. The original
http://www.soulwalking.co.uk/%A5Artist%20GIF%20Images/Rufus-Street-Player-Cover.jpg greets you ... icon_rofl.gif
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 03:00 PM
Originally posted by 6 23:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
You know I am a flirt better than any other woman on DHP... As a matter of fact, let me whisper sweet nothings in your ear on Messenger... Ahem ... and then BHouse woke up and realized which message board he was on. I know this DHP woman ain't buying that story. The original
http://www.soulwalking.co.uk/%A5Artist%20GIF%20Images/Rufus-Street-Player-Cover.jpg greets you ... icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Hahahaha you gone take that BHouse?
I'm a instigator :D
JMNYC
10-21-2003, 03:25 PM
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;)
BHouse
10-21-2003, 03:26 PM
http://www.allfunpix.com/humor/pics3/coolyoda2.jpg
Girl... I is a space age pimp... "That Leia bitch better have my money..."
http://www.fridgefun.com/photos/body_detergent/BD009-MD.jpg
I stay clean...
http://www.sdcreateasign.com/images/funny/pimp1212xing.gif
Always on the stroll...
http://www.unclemelon.com/slugpimp.jpg
Pimpin by blood... not relation...
http://www.tucktop20.co.uk/gc5.jpg
Took first place at the Playas Ball '79...
[ October 21, 2003, 04:28 PM: Message edited by: BHouse ]
richierich
10-21-2003, 03:31 PM
I don't want NO dude flirting with me.. I've recieved compliments from dudes I say thanx and keep moving. I'd have to be standing there and allowing it(flirting) to happen..which is not gonna happen.
Originally posted by JMNYC:
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;) I say bring it all on! Just make the flirting fun. graemlins/thumbsup.gif
Mack-Williams
10-21-2003, 03:40 PM
I use to work at the Hyatt selling tickets for drinks part-time. Well anyway I had to wrote a Human rights convention. So this guy comes up to me and ask me if he could buy me a drink. Me not putting two and two together said, no they don't allow me drink while I am working. Sometimes folks would offer to bring you food or drinks. So the guy is still standing there and goes on to say CAN I Give You the Key to My Room. I busted out laughing. I said naw man I don't go that way. He walked away like oh well. We all go places were they are gay men, so you will get hit on. Just ignore it.
[ October 21, 2003, 04:50 PM: Message edited by: Mack-Williams ]
Jamie 3:26
10-21-2003, 03:42 PM
Originally posted by JMNYC:
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;) I am secure in my sexuality that it would not bother me unless they get graphic,then that's just plain harassment.
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 03:51 PM
Originally posted by JMNYC:
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;) Well I had a female ask me to dance at club LaRay's. I told her no, and acted like I was with the guy that was standing next to me. Scared the shit out of me.
richierich
10-21-2003, 03:55 PM
I'm from Rialto's(HARD CORE BLACK GAY BAR) and I'm used to guys hitting on me but when they see that it is falling on deaf ears or I just tell them that I don't mess around..then they ask" Well why are you here"? I calmy say "To have a good time but I don't mess around". Then they'll go and ask one of their Judys and when they get confirmation that I don't they usually respect that.
Jamie 3:26
10-21-2003, 03:57 PM
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMNYC:
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;) Well I had a female ask me to dance at club LaRay's. I told her no, and acted like I was with the guy that was standing next to me. Scared the shit out of me. </font>[/QUOTE]No reason to be scared.We used to hit mad gay spots back in the day.had a damn good time,made a lot of friends and had to stop going when the guys hit a lil to hard on me.
I don't mind it,but when you tell me things you would do to me,then that's crossing the line.
After hanging out on the scene,I realized and understood what women go thru.
JMNYC
10-21-2003, 04:04 PM
graemlins/respekt.gif for those responses ... I just don't want to see any hypocrisy up in here. Those who know me know I'm always flirting with everybody - but I have the most fun flirting with str8 guys who I know damn well they are off limits and they know damn well how innocent my flirting is. I just wouldn't want to actually offend or piss someone off - it's all in fun (which is true for the fellas who like to flirt with other girls, too). Sometimes people just take innocent flirting WAAAAAAAY too seriously.
If you don't feel secure in your relationship, maybe you should question why you're in it. ;)
richierich
10-21-2003, 04:16 PM
Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMNYC:
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;) Well I had a female ask me to dance at club LaRay's. I told her no, and acted like I was with the guy that was standing next to me. Scared the shit out of me. </font>[/QUOTE]Scared of what?? What could she do??
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-21-2003, 04:25 PM
Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMNYC:
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;) Well I had a female ask me to dance at club LaRay's. I told her no, and acted like I was with the guy that was standing next to me. Scared the shit out of me. </font>[/QUOTE]No reason to be scared.We used to hit mad gay spots back in the day.had a damn good time,made a lot of friends and had to stop going when the guys hit a lil to hard on me.
I don't mind it,but when you tell me things you would do to me,then that's crossing the line.
After hanging out on the scene,I realized and understood what women go thru. </font>[/QUOTE]I had good time too that's why I continued to go. it's a freaky deaky place though, & lots of flirting
[ October 21, 2003, 05:57 PM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]
Bold Soul
10-21-2003, 04:32 PM
Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMNYC:
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;) I am secure in my sexuality that it would not bother me unless they get graphic,then that's just plain harassment. </font>[/QUOTE]I hear you. I try to stay away from any place where my sexual preference is an issue.
Originally posted by statuskuo:
is wanking to porn cheating??
if so, lock me up. HELL NO!!!
Originally posted by richierich:
Now see y'all makin' me horny with all this huggin' and grabbing asses and hot spots and shit. You know I'm a Scorpio. Now see where flirting leads. graemlins/cool_shades.gif So then what they say about Scorpios is true? biggrinangel.gif
statuskuo
10-21-2003, 05:53 PM
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Originally posted by statuskuo:
http://statuskuo.com/temp/chitchat.jpg hahahaha
Querck
10-21-2003, 08:19 PM
Originally posted by JMNYC:
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;) I don't mind if a dude tries to flirt with me. Acutally, this happened last night. It was fun to see what the dude would do, or say, to get me to leave the club with him. I am always very nice in those situations, but I don't flirt back. In a few minutes the dude eventually realized that it's hopeless.
Bottom line is, whether it's a dude or a girl, if I'm not interested, I'm not flirting back, but I surely don't find it offensive if anyone flirts with me. It doesn't happen very often so I get a kick out of it either way.
DJ Michael Terzian (Sinister)
10-21-2003, 08:49 PM
Breathing is natural.
Falling in love is natural.
Taking baby steps is natural.
Letting music set your soul on fire ...is natural.
Natural "things" are God's work.
Being flirtatious is a characteristic. Some people are, while others aren't.
And for those of you who believe "oh, it's natural" should KILL THAT NOISE. It's not natural! It's controllable...(if you're single, then GO AHEAD have yor fun; but if you're not...)
Furthermore, regarding the cheating aspect: I do believe that it is a "form" of cheating, although I also recognise that there are more severe forms of cheating besides flirting.
Nevertheless, flirting is a testament and a cover-up (in my opinion) for other emotional/psychological issues such as low self-esteem (i.e: even though people may have a bf/ gf/ or spouse, they are still curious as to whether or not they can "pick up" or be "picked up". So they play with fire).
If you are in a truly loving relationship, there shouldn't be a need or desire for these shenanigans. OK, you can "look at the menu" and acknowledge a good looking person. But you shouldn't be actually courting other people, even if you don't intend on "doing" anything. It's a lack of respect for YOU and your other, whether it's done in front of them or not. That's wrong, and it will come back to haunt you.
I'm sure that you wouldn't want your partner flirting... So show some will-power, even if you are the flirtatious type.
And who says you can't flirt with your own partner. You should always be re-inventing ways of keeping the relationship spiced up.
Rather than flirting, why don't y'all focus on staying "IN LOVE". graemlins/conf44.gif
[ October 21, 2003, 09:51 PM: Message edited by: DJ Michael Terzian, a.k.a. Sinister ]
Jay Rags
10-21-2003, 11:20 PM
I don't think flirting is cheating at all. Just don't do it around your significant other. I love talking to a woman and flirting if they are giving me those kind of signals. It was who I was before I got married and that's the person I still am. I won't cheat though. One thing I noticed is that after I got married I seem to have so many more women around me who like flirting.
flirting can be cheating, but it isn't necessarly always the case. It depends mainly on the intention that goes with it. I've to admit that i'm a very flirtatious person..As a matter of fact, I can't even explain why I am like that..I think low self-esteem could be part of the reason, but I think it can be narrowed down to that solely..
Whatever the case, when you are in a relationship with someone, flirting is a very dangerous thing..Often one might think things are 'under control' , and it's no more then 'low-level flirting', but before you know it, events overtake you..
Also, above I wrote that you should look at the intention of the person who flirts..But that ain't entirly true..In a relation, there's something like loyalty too..Being loyal to someone also means to wish the best for that person, not to harm him or to make him suffer..I guess.. So, in a sense, when flirting with someone , you are disloyal to your significant other..you are causing him grief , at least in most of the situations..
greetings
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-22-2003, 08:05 AM
Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMNYC:
question: if it's okay to flirt outside of the confines of a relationship, how come it's not okay to flirt outside of the confines of one's (assumed) sexuality? I mean, I'm interested in how the fellas who've explained that flirting is okay would you react to another dude flirting with them? Why is it "innocent" when you're kicking to another chick (even though you have one at home) but it's a hangable offense when a guy gives you the googly eyes?
Just curious... and y'all know I am an equal opportunity, all-out flirt ... and I got a man ;) Well I had a female ask me to dance at club LaRay's. I told her no, and acted like I was with the guy that was standing next to me. Scared the shit out of me. </font>[/QUOTE]Scared of what?? What could she do?? </font>[/QUOTE]Well maybe I shouldn't use the word "scared" I was young and that had never happened to me before, so it made feel very uncomfortable.
Flirting that takes balls..
I'm in a club. There is this very cute guy there.. but he had a girl with him.. I thought ohhwell.. Then I notice the guy giving me the eye.. while he is dancing with his girl.. and hugging her and mouthing hello to me.. I'm like WTF.. Then they start kissing and he is looking at me winking his eye.. at that point I was icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif ...
Damn that girl he was with was so clueless graemlins/stupid.gif
Bold Soul
10-22-2003, 08:30 AM
[Note:If I get too deep with this one, feel free to put me on your ignore list.]
Men and women pursue physical attraction based on totally different motivational levels.
What I would like to know is how did the female motivation become the standard for what is proper between men and women?
In this convoluted society we live in, everything within the male motivation connotates "cheating" or "unfaithfulness" or whatever, but, if one really applies logic to the dynamic, it's also the same thing that attracts women to men in the first place.
Dee-Dee Sheridan
10-22-2003, 08:33 AM
Originally posted by MYOR:
Flirting that takes balls..
I'm in a club. There is this very cute guy there.. but he had a girl with him.. I thought ohhwell.. Then I notice the guy giving me the eye.. while he is dancing with his girl.. and hugging her and mouthing hello to me.. I'm like WTF.. Then they start kissing and he is looking at me winking his eye.. at that point I was icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif ...
Damn that girl he was with was so clueless graemlins/stupid.gif That's not funny :(
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