Just a little help....

[MC]

What would you do if someone you considered a good friend lied to you. Not once, but multiple times. Would you still be there friend or what?

[Rainless]

nope drop them like a bad habit! graemlins/cool_shades.gif

[MC]

Originally posted by Rainless:
nope drop them like a bad habit! graemlins/cool_shades.gif Thanks that's great advice.

[DaveR]

Get rid of them

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[kev]

Obviously you can't trust them. Don't sound like much of a friend to me.

[shannoneileen]

nah... fool me once, shame on you...
fool me twice, shame on me...
try to fool me again... B@TCH, I KNOW YOU DIDN'T TRY TO GO THERE WITH ME!!!!
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lol, nah, tho... you're a reflection of the friends you keep... how well would it serve you to have a liar in ya corner?

[Rainless]

Originally posted by Shannon_Shawan:
nah... fool me once, shame on you...
fool me twice, shame on me...
try to fool me again... B@TCH, I KNOW YOU DIDN'T TRY TO GO THERE WITH ME!!!!
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lol, nah, tho... you're a reflection of the friends you keep... how well would it serve you to have a liar in ya corner? Good advice....I will never be fooled again! ;)

[MC]

I'm the fool... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif

[ November 18, 2003, 04:48 PM: Message edited by: Michael J. Carmona ]

[shannoneileen]

@ Rainless graemlins/beerchug.gif

:D
you're silly

[MC]

Originally posted by DaveR:
Get rid of them

http://www.killsbugsdead.com/i/raid_home_peglar_24.jpg I'm going straight to Sam's Warehouse after work. Great advice.

[ November 18, 2003, 04:54 PM: Message edited by: Michael J. Carmona ]

[shannoneileen]

Originally posted by Michael J. Carmona:
I'm the fool... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif sometimes people that know you well... people that are able to tug at your heart strings, use your kindness as a weakness...

not everyone is healthy enough to have a front seat in your life...

it ain't easy but... they gots ta go... unless you like a damaged psyche...

[MC]

Shannon,

Amen, you nailed it, thanks! Damn you got anymore advice for me... I'm listening.

[ November 18, 2003, 04:58 PM: Message edited by: Michael J. Carmona ]

[And]

Yeah .. More details please ... What's this about? What kind of lies?

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[kikolong]

Sometimes people lie for unknown reason's. Look you in your face and lie. Let them go. They aren't worth your tears. If they can't be honest to you them let "him" fly.

I have one true friend. Who has never lied to me...NEVER. I recenlty lied to her, kept something from her. That hurt her more than anything because she is so honest with me she didn't expect nor did she expect it from the other person. I hurt because of the damage i caused her. She forgave me, but i know she hasn't forgotten. But she forgave because she loved me and knew that it was only a mistake. Don't take advantage of your friends...hearts break all the time. just think about the shoe being on the other foot.

[DaveR]

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[shannoneileen]

(((Michael)))

'people don't plan to fail, they fail to plan' :D


keep ya head up...

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[Rainless]

Yes, keep your head up Sweetie....you make friends easily...I'm sure your wounds will heal fast. graemlins/bighug.gif

[Fletch]

Forgive them.

I'm the only one saying this, so be it!

However, if you feel there is a pattern, and you feel that moving on is appropriate, then do so. Let them know, though.

You can still forgive and keep your distance. Continuous lying could be a nuisiance, and, more importantly, a hinderance (or potentially worse), so there may be no other alternative but to keep distance.

But the forgiving part heals YOUR state of mind (lack of forgiveness eats the unforgiver's insides out).

[Tony Cano]

we need details. who, when, where, why.....

there are always 2 sides to the story.

tc

[shannoneileen]

Originally posted by Fletch:
Forgive them.

I'm the only one saying this, so be it!

However, if you feel there is a pattern, and you feel that moving on is appropriate, then do so. Let them know, though.

You can still forgive and keep your distance. Continuous lying could be a nuisiance, and, more importantly, a hinderance (or potentially worse), so there may be no other alternative but to keep distance.

But the forgiving part heals YOUR state of mind (lack of forgiveness eats the unforgiver's insides out). Yes!!! I agree... forgiveness IS divine... but still... everyone is NOT healthy enough to have a front seat in your life... meaning, yes, keep your distance...

It hurts when you are betrayed... when you are betrayed time and time again, how long must you sit there and stand for it only because of your friendship and/ or commitment?

There comes a time in everyones life when they must move on from situations that hinder growth... hinder understanding... that decision is painful, but to enable growth (for the individual) and establish boundaries (with the so-called friend) one must move on...

you forgive, for your own sanity, of course... it does nothing to run around with resentments... but still... the offender must be removed from one's inner circle...

[sezy]

yeah, it totally depends on what they lied about.

but perpetual liars need to get dropped.