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MR. PLUSHEDOUT
03-27-2003, 11:37 AM
...AND YOU'RE SPOUSE'S FRIEND CAME ON TO YOU, DO YOU TELL YOUR WIFE/HUSBAND?

Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand
03-27-2003, 11:54 AM
Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
...AND YOU'RE SPOUSE'S FRIEND CAME ON TO YOU, DO YOU TELL YOUR WIFE/HUSBAND? I would check the friend and give a warning. If it happens again (he's brave and stupid)then I would make sure I will cause a scene (for witnesses and humiliation). It probably wouldn't make a difference to tell because the friend will deny it and your spouse will not believe it because it may have been your imagination.

Boo Williams
03-27-2003, 12:28 PM
Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
...AND YOU'RE SPOUSE'S FRIEND CAME ON TO YOU, DO YOU TELL YOUR WIFE/HUSBAND? Hey Mr. Plushedout:
Give a friend a Call, Please Sir.
Nuff Said...

A friend is someone who? Understand You,sometimes.

[ March 27, 2003, 12:35 PM: Message edited by: I'm a Friend ]

Boo Williams
03-27-2003, 12:34 PM
Originally posted by I'm a Friend:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
...AND YOU'RE SPOUSE'S FRIEND CAME ON TO YOU, DO YOU TELL YOUR WIFE/HUSBAND? Hey Mr. Plushedout:
Give a friend a Call, Please Sir.
Nuff Said...

A friend is someone who? Understand You,sometimes.
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RX
03-27-2003, 01:03 PM
hell yeah..out loud, too...i'd be like, "no you DIDN'T! babe...did you hear that?"

MR. PLUSHEDOUT
03-27-2003, 01:39 PM
Originally posted by I'm a Friend:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
...AND YOU'RE SPOUSE'S FRIEND CAME ON TO YOU, DO YOU TELL YOUR WIFE/HUSBAND? Hey Mr. Plushedout:
Give a friend a Call, Please Sir.
Nuff Said...

A friend is someone who? Understand You,sometimes. </font>[/QUOTE]WHO MIGHT THE FRIEND BE, SO THAT I MAY CALL THEM?

U
03-28-2003, 01:24 PM
I would handle the situation myself...

[ March 28, 2003, 01:24 PM: Message edited by: U ]

MR. PLUSHEDOUT
03-28-2003, 01:28 PM
Originally posted by U:
I would handle the situation myself... HOW SO?

shawn
03-28-2003, 07:44 PM
Absolutely Without Hesitation!

LEONARD REMIX RROY
03-30-2003, 12:57 AM
I had a situation happen like that during my first marrige. My X had a friend who would mistakenly (so she say) would always say my name insted of her boyfriend name while they were having girl talk about sex.

After a number of years, I saw her at my son birthday party. She is married now but, my X wife noticed that she was being very stand-offish of me as if we all never knew eachother.

I didn't notice it but she made it a point to say, "she got a - caught in the cookie jar look once she saw you." I was always completly not attracted to that chick but I guess she had a thing for me.

What normally happen when I do say "your friend is trying to get with me" I am not believed or thought that i'm trying to treat my ego.

U
03-31-2003, 12:31 PM
Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by U:
I would handle the situation myself... HOW SO? </font>[/QUOTE]First I would tell the so called friend to back up out of my space...if that didn't work and he continued to hit on me, I would tell his girl before I told my man. Usually I don't get that far...I just have a way of telling someone something and making what I want happen.

MR. PLUSHEDOUT
03-31-2003, 12:50 PM
Originally posted by U:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by U:
I would handle the situation myself... HOW SO? </font>[/QUOTE]First I would tell the so called friend to back up out of my space...if that didn't work and he continued to hit on me, I would tell his girl before I told my man. Usually I don't get that far...I just have a way of telling someone something and making what I want happen. </font>[/QUOTE]SO, YOU WOULD RISK SEVERING THE FRIENDSHIP?

U
03-31-2003, 02:00 PM
Severing what friendship? I thought the question was if my husband's friend hit on me...that doesn't mean he is my friend. Besides, if they are hitting on me, they can't really be my friend.

MR. PLUSHEDOUT
03-31-2003, 02:32 PM
Originally posted by U:
Severing what friendship? I thought the question was if my husband's friend hit on me...that doesn't mean he is my friend. Besides, if they are hitting on me, they can't really be my friend. BY TELLING YOUR HUSBAND, YOU'D BE SEVERING THEIR FRIENDSHIP.

RX
03-31-2003, 03:06 PM
Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
BY TELLING YOUR HUSBAND, YOU'D BE SEVERING THEIR FRIENDSHIP. please help me to understand how much of a friend he is if he hit on the wifey...

Jamie 3:26
03-31-2003, 03:08 PM
Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by U:
Severing what friendship? I thought the question was if my husband's friend hit on me...that doesn't mean he is my friend. Besides, if they are hitting on me, they can't really be my friend. BY TELLING YOUR HUSBAND, YOU'D BE SEVERING THEIR FRIENDSHIP. </font>[/QUOTE]If my guy was hitting on my ol' lady and she did not tell me anything,I would drop her and his ass too.I am supposed to be the protector.Damn a friendship when I and my wife are being dis-respected.

MR. PLUSHEDOUT
03-31-2003, 03:57 PM
Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by U:
Severing what friendship? I thought the question was if my husband's friend hit on me...that doesn't mean he is my friend. Besides, if they are hitting on me, they can't really be my friend. BY TELLING YOUR HUSBAND, YOU'D BE SEVERING THEIR FRIENDSHIP. </font>[/QUOTE]If my guy was hitting on my ol' lady and she did not tell me anything,I would drop her and his ass too.I am supposed to be the protector.Damn a friendship when I and my wife are being dis-respected. </font>[/QUOTE]LET ME ASK YOU THIS: WHY WOULD YOU TAKE HER WORD OVER HIS?

RX
03-31-2003, 03:59 PM
Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
WHY WOULD YOU TAKE HER WORD OVER HIS? are you MARRIED? :eek:

MR. PLUSHEDOUT
03-31-2003, 04:09 PM
Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MR. PLUSHEDOUT:
WHY WOULD YOU TAKE HER WORD OVER HIS? are you MARRIED? :eek: </font>[/QUOTE]OF COURSE NOT. IF I WERE, I WOULDN'T HAVE ASKED THAT QUESTION. graemlins/rofl.gif

Tee Cee 13
03-31-2003, 08:21 PM
Originally posted by U:
I would handle the situation myself... I don't Think so Buddy