THE ASS KISSING MUST STOP NOW!! [Archive]

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:09 AM

Good morning everybody. Kissing women's asses to keep them posting on DHP must stop. While I don't want to see the women leave, neutering every man on DHP isn't the answer, and that's exactly what's happening. "Watch your p's and q's or there will be nothing but men posting on the board....." If the previous statement fits you, GET THE FUCK OUT!! We all should take some responsibilty for what we say and do, but it seems like every time the women have a problem with something posted by a man, the threat to leave the board comes up. LADIES - IF YOU AREN'T HAPPY HERE, PLEASE LEAVE. Yes, you'll be missed, but isn't your happiness more important?? Be happy. I have spoken.....JMJ smile.gif

BHouse

12-01-2003, 10:12 AM

hail.gif I think there is a difference between ass kissing and being respectful.

[ December 01, 2003, 10:15 AM: Message edited by: BHouse ]

'Magic' Juan

12-01-2003, 10:15 AM

THAT'S why you are the Jam Master ... well said.

magic_juan graemlins/beerchug.gif

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:15 AM

Originally posted by BHouse:
hail.gif Now stop the lovey-dovey shit......JMJ graemlins/cool_shades.gif

KBig

12-01-2003, 10:15 AM

Newbie Confusion ....

Where did that come from? Are you telling me you are catching feelings about what is said on a message board JMJ???? I have seen you post some profound posts... but neutering men??? online???
Everyone has opinions, some are favorable some arent... but when people post topics specifically drawing lines in the sands of the "battle of the sexes" what do you expect to get...

Women voiceing their opinions about men and Men voicing theirs about women...

Toughen up sheeesh graemlins/slap.gif

MYOR

12-01-2003, 10:21 AM

Ohh Please do you think half the BS you guys say can actually run me out... HA... YOU CAN TRY but it won't work..

I rather see you guys be yourself... just don't start calling women sluts and hoes when they post the same shyt you do.. and I wont have to kick ur assets :D ;)

richierich

12-01-2003, 10:23 AM

I like kissing womens asses.

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:24 AM

Originally posted by KBig:
Newbie Confusion ....

Where did that come from? Are you telling me you are catching feelings about what is said on a message board JMJ???? I have seen you post some profound posts... but neutering men??? online???
Everyone has opinions, some are favorable some arent... but when people post topics specifically drawing lines in the sands of the "battle of the sexes" what do you expect to get...

Women voiceing their opinions about men and Men voicing theirs about women...

Toughen up sheeesh graemlins/slap.gif This isn't about me or my feelings. This is about what I've been reading here lately. While the portrayal of women as slut's, ho's, and lord knows what else is WRONG, I'm not kissing anybody's ass to stay here, unlike some of my fellow DHP men. Stay because YOU want to, not because I'm telling you that you're the greatest thing since Viagra. Life isn't fair, both men and women are flawed, we love each other, but haven't learned to LIKE one another. Men are cave dwellers, women have feelings, LET'S DEAL WITH IT! The women here know what they're dealing with, and it's not going to change overnight, nor is it THAT serious.......JMJ ;)

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:25 AM

Originally posted by MYOR:
Ohh Please do you think half the BS you guys say can actually run me out... HA... YOU CAN TRY but it won't work..

I rather see you guys be yourself... just don't start calling women sluts and hoes when they post the same shyt you do.. and I wont have to kick ur assets :D ;) You got balls (figuratively speaking)......JMJ graemlins/remybussi.gif

[ December 01, 2003, 10:26 AM: Message edited by: JMJ ]

KBig

12-01-2003, 10:25 AM

*chuckle* @ Myor ....

I don't think JMJ would have to even make that type of statement if females who come here do so to discuss the love of Music. Seems to me that you dont have to kiss ass if you are engaging people here as peers instead of possible booty call hookups ???

Shit Imma House Head, I know my shit and I want to learn more, There is no better place to do that than here ...DHP. Shit dont kiss my azz respect me and I'll repect you... I will only neuter a guy if he asks .... I heard that twigs and berries and get in the way when walking!! LOL graemlins/rofl.gif

imported_Gman

12-01-2003, 10:26 AM

But J, you continually threaten to leave as well graemlins/biglaugha.gif . Sorry I could not help myself.

-G

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:28 AM

Originally posted by richierich:
I like kissing womens asses. And it's gotten you nowhere. I eagerly await your next "What's wrong with women??" thread......JMJ

i.be.me

12-01-2003, 10:28 AM

exactly.

telling me to stay, telling me to go... or even posting stupid, dare i say sexist sh!t, won't make the decision for me.

it just baffles me how surprised and defensive guys have been when they get checked. icon_rofl.gif

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:29 AM

Originally posted by Gman:
But J, you continually threaten to leave as well graemlins/biglaugha.gif . Sorry I could not help myself.

-G graemlins/slap.gif .......JMJ

Brenda

12-01-2003, 10:31 AM

Hahahhahahha.... graemlins/OLA.gif Im staying.

I demand graemlins/respekt.gif however...

KBig

12-01-2003, 10:31 AM

JMJ = that lil kid who takes his ball and leaves the dodgeball game when he gets hit with his own ball!!!

LOL LOL graemlins/rofl.gif

Just joke JMJ... * looking @ calendar to schedule JMJ for neutering*

Huey P. Freeman

12-01-2003, 10:35 AM

Huey P. Freeman

12-01-2003, 10:35 AM

BHouse

12-01-2003, 10:35 AM

JMJ - why did you had an issue with the title of the VIRGIN vs. EX-PROSITUTE thread? You thought it could have been worded differently out of RESPECT for the women on DHP... Isn't this a form of ass kissing...? or a way of respecting the few women left on DHP...?

DJ Rated M

12-01-2003, 10:36 AM

Originally posted by Brenda:
Hahahhahahha.... graemlins/OLA.gif Im staying.

I demand graemlins/respekt.gif however... you better stay!

graemlins/grinyes.gif

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:37 AM

Originally posted by KBig:
JMJ = that lil kid who takes his ball and leaves the dodgeball game when he gets hit with his own ball!!!

LOL LOL graemlins/rofl.gif

Just joke JMJ... * looking @ calendar to schedule JMJ for neutering* Nobody's checked me on anything. I defended some of the women last week when the shit got ugly. I know right from wrong, and won't hesitate to call somebody on it. Check your facts before making such a statement again. This topic is directed to the ass-kissing men as well as the terminally unhappy women that bitch but continue to post. Again, get your facts straight before proceeding with me.......JMJ

And

12-01-2003, 10:37 AM

Originally posted by i.be.me:
exactly.

telling me to stay, telling me to go... or even posting stupid, dare i say sexist sh!t, won't make the decision for me.

it just baffles me how surprised and defensive guys have been when they get checked. icon_rofl.gif Now you go ahead with your bad self I.B. ;)
I don't know the ladies that aren't posting on here because of the guys 'cause well they don't post on here. Personally I'm too interested in the people I do get on with here and the music to be driven away by some disrespectful chumpy.
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I am curious why JMJ is bothered enough to start this thread.

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:38 AM

Originally posted by BHouse:
JMJ - why did you had an issue with the title of the VIRGIN vs. EX-PROSITUTE thread? You thought it could have been worded differently out of RESPECT for the women on DHP... Isn't this a form of ass kissing...? or a way of respecting the few women left on DHP...? Respect, plain and simple.......JMJ

richierich

12-01-2003, 10:40 AM

Originally posted by JMJ:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
I like kissing womens asses. And it's gotten you nowhere. I eagerly await your next "What's wrong with women??" thread......JMJ [/QUOTE]Excuse me I've NEVER had a problem with women. How would you know anything about my relationships with women seeing how I see you maybe twice a year??? Never posted a "what's wrong with women thread" sorry wrong person. I only post stuff like relationship topics to see what others think and if they can be truely honest about that kinda stuff ..I'm doing fine in the ladies dept..thank you.

P.S It's much better than kissing DJ ass.

[ December 01, 2003, 10:44 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:40 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by i.be.me:
exactly.

telling me to stay, telling me to go... or even posting stupid, dare i say sexist sh!t, won't make the decision for me.

it just baffles me how surprised and defensive guys have been when they get checked. icon_rofl.gif Now you go ahead with your bad self I.B. ;)
I don't know the ladies that aren't posting on here because of the guys 'cause well they don't post on here. Personally I'm too interested in the people I do get on with here and the music to be driven away by some disrespectful chumpy.
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I am curious why JMJ is bothered enough to start this thread. [/QUOTE]I HATE ass-kissers, and I loathe terminally unhappy women that can't get out of their own way......JMJ

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:42 AM

Originally posted by richierich:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
I like kissing womens asses. And it's gotten you nowhere. I eagerly await your next "What's wrong with women??" thread......JMJ [/QUOTE]Excuse me I've NEVER had a problem with women.[/QUOTE]Hahahahahaha. I would make a great puppeteer......JMJ

imported_Gman

12-01-2003, 10:44 AM

Originally posted by MYOR:
Ohh Please do you think half the BS you guys say can actually run me out... HA... YOU CAN TRY but it won't work..

I rather see you guys be yourself... just don't start calling women sluts and hoes when they post the same shyt you do.. and I wont have to kick ur assets :D ;) There used to be more balance on the board with the ladies posting pictures of fine men, talking about hair care products, their relationships..etc. What happened ? Actually I know what happened but curious as to what your thoughts are.

-G

BHouse

12-01-2003, 10:44 AM

Originally posted by JMJ:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
JMJ - why did you had an issue with the title of the VIRGIN vs. EX-PROSITUTE thread? You thought it could have been worded differently out of RESPECT for the women on DHP... Isn't this a form of ass kissing...? or a way of respecting the few women left on DHP...? Respect, plain and simple.......JMJ [/QUOTE]My point exactly... No ass kissing involved...

KBig

12-01-2003, 10:45 AM

Thou dost protest tooo much. JMJ
Again I dont have to check facts ... this is not a fact based conversation. Pure conjucture and interpretation. And arent you the one who said it wasnt that serious. I think the women who come here and side step the bullshit dont need their azzes kiss'd, their purpose for being here is quite the antithesis of a topic that would require such bullshit!

People take themselves a bit toooo seriously here.
Question?
Why would you have to stand up for women here... I mean its admirable but why give that nonsense any NRG. Isnt G-Man the admin anyway? wouldnt he determine what is or isnt appropo?

And if your having disscussions about music and and relative dialog, calling me a bitch or a ho' wouldn't have a place in those topics, now would they?

too dayum sensitive here...
Brothas be having heavy flow dayz, needing Midol and shit!!
No one can take a joke LOL LOL graemlins/conf44.gif

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:50 AM

Originally posted by KBig:
Thou dost protest tooo much. JMJ
Again I dont have to check facts ... this is not a fact based conversation. Pure conjucture and interpretation. And arent you the one who said it wasnt that serious. I think the women who come here and side step the bullshit dont need their azzes kiss'd, their purpose for being here is quite the antithesis of a topic that would require such bullshit!

People take themselves a bit toooo seriously here.
Question?
Why would you have to stand up for women here... I mean its admirable but why give that nonsense any NRG. Isnt G-Man the admin anyway? wouldnt he determine what is or isnt appropo?

And if your having disscussions about music and and relative dialog, calling me a bitch or a ho' wouldn't have a place in those topics, now would they?

too dayum sensitive here...
Brothas be having heavy flow dayz, needing Midol and shit!!
No one can take a joke LOL LOL graemlins/conf44.gif You're right. Next.......JMJ

KBig

12-01-2003, 10:50 AM

JMJ I have a question...
What do u consider azz-kissing or loathsome man bashing ...and If you are only dealing with quality folks... Y do care. like I said I have seen some profound posts from you ... Im a lil perplex'd with this one...

I haven't seen it here... I guest I cause I dont participate in non-music oriented topics....This is the first one.

DJ RON C

12-01-2003, 10:55 AM

so is the choice like this?

a) stop respecting women, diss them and their opinions as stupid, generalize them only as "bitches", mock them at every chance and disregard anything they say to not look like a "punk" in front of the other DHP men.

or

b) respect all the ladies (even when joking), listen to what they have to say, understand that when they check me-they are not disrespecting me, they are just asking me to respect them and have it be win-win for everyone.

If these are the choices, I will gladly kiss butt. I like all the guys here but I love women. I'd rather hang in a room full of lovely ladies having a convo than sitting on the DHP couch lonely with a bunch of guys punching each other yelling "my point is right! wemmen are stoopid"

Just my two cents. graemlins/cool_shades.gif

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:55 AM

Originally posted by KBig:
JMJ I have a question...
What do u consider azz-kissing or loathsome man bashing ...and If you are only dealing with quality folks... Y do care. like I said I have seen some profound posts from you ... Im a lil perplex'd with this one...

I haven't seen it here... I guest I cause I dont participate in non-music oriented topics....This is the first one. Check the non-music oriented posts before proceeding any further. All the reasons are there......JMJ

imported_Gman

12-01-2003, 10:56 AM

J, you are not fooling me. I read a lot of your posts where you are interacting with the ladies. Ladies beware graemlins/biglaugha.gif

http://biddlegallery.com/images/gallery/325/wolf_in_sheep_s_clothing.jpg

JMJ

12-01-2003, 10:58 AM

Originally posted by Beatdown:
so is the choice like this?

a) stop respecting women, diss them and their opinions as stupid, generalize them only as "bitches", mock them at every chance and disregard anything they say to not look like a "punk" in front of the other DHP men.

or

b) respect all the ladies (even when joking), listen to what they have to say, understand that when they check me-they are not disrespecting me, they are just asking me to respect them and have it be win-win for everyone.

If these are the choices, I will gladly kiss butt. I like all the guys here but I love women. I'd rather hang in a room full of lovely ladies having a convo than sitting on the DHP couch lonely with a bunch of guys punching each other yelling "my point is right! wemmen are stoopid"

Just my two cents. graemlins/cool_shades.gif #1 - I hate your new name
#2 - Answer "B" is the right one, and can be done without kissing ass

Have a great day.......JMJ smile.gif

KBig

12-01-2003, 10:58 AM

LOL@ Gman

Wolf in sheeps couture huh?

graemlins/rofl.gif

The Buddy Love Show

12-01-2003, 10:59 AM

...as an equal opportunity offender i have been gang tackled (attempted) by women on this board and have stayed true to my loveable self

JMJ is 1000% right..there is a certain element of no ass getting weasels that always try to stay extra pc about everything all the time in order to placate hysteria

No quarter given and none asked i say - if women wanna drive the big rigs they have to deal with a certain amount of testosterone ( although nekkid pics and outright vileness is over the line)

"When boys talk, They dont talk politics" - InDeep (thats house)

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:00 AM

Originally posted by Gman:
J, you are not fooling me. I read a lot of your posts where you are interacting with the ladies. Ladies beware graemlins/biglaugha.gif

http://biddlegallery.com/images/gallery/325/wolf_in_sheep_s_clothing.jpg Let's not confuse "interacting" with anything else.......JMJ biggrinangel.gif

ngeso

12-01-2003, 11:02 AM

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:02 AM

Originally posted by St Magus the Reviled:
...as an equal opportunity offender i have been gang tackled (attempted) by women on this board and have stayed true to my loveable self

JMJ is 1000% right..there is a certain element of no ass getting weasels that always try to stay extra pc about everything all the time in order to placate hysteria

No quarter given and none asked i say - if women wanna drive the big rigs they have to deal with a certain amount of testosterone ( although nekkid pics and outright vileness is over the line)

"When boys talk, They dont talk politics" - InDeep (thats house) Very well said......JMJ graemlins/beerchug.gif

richierich

12-01-2003, 11:05 AM

Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!

OOOOH I HATE IT WHEN OTHER PEOPLE KISS ASS.. graemlins/puke.gif SO WHAT IF THEY CHOOSE TO DO WHAT YOU CALL ASS KISSING ?? WHY DO YOU CARE????? OH I KNOW CAUSE YOU WANNA BE THE MAN. OOOH I HATE IT WHEN GUYS OPEN DOORS FOR WOMEN...DAMN THAT'S SO ASS KISSING...PLEASE!!!

[ December 01, 2003, 11:17 AM: Message edited by: richierich ]

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:12 AM

MYOR

12-01-2003, 11:13 AM

Originally posted by Gman:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
Ohh Please do you think half the BS you guys say can actually run me out... HA... YOU CAN TRY but it won't work..

I rather see you guys be yourself... just don't start calling women sluts and hoes when they post the same shyt you do.. and I wont have to kick ur assets :D ;) There used to be more balance on the board with the ladies posting pictures of fine men, talking about hair care products, their relationships..etc. What happened ? Actually I know what happened but curious as to what your thoughts are.

-G [/QUOTE]I honestly don't know.... graemlins/conf44.gif

Huey P. Freeman

12-01-2003, 11:14 AM

Originally posted by richierich:
Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! Please explain what "being in good with tha ladies" affords you on a message board. I agree with JMJ and Magus on this issue. My belief is that A. Some guys on this board need to learn to respect the ladies and B. The ladies sometimes need to learn to pick their battles a little better. Sometimes it gets ridiculous. Everyone here needs to relax. Like Lil Ray says, "Ban them all and sort out the rest later".

[ December 01, 2003, 11:15 AM: Message edited by: Eargasm ]

And

12-01-2003, 11:15 AM

BHouse

12-01-2003, 11:15 AM

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:16 AM

Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! icon_rofl.gif graemlins/bolt.gif [/QUOTE]What are you laughing at??.......JMJ graemlins/slap.gif

MYOR

12-01-2003, 11:17 AM

Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! icon_rofl.gif graemlins/bolt.gif [/QUOTE]Some of those guys you can smell the bullshyt miles away.. graemlins/tongueout.gif .. But its cute... icon_rofl.gif

richierich

12-01-2003, 11:20 AM

Originally posted by Eargasm:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! Please explain what "being in good with tha ladies" affords you on a message board. I agree with JMJ and Magus on this issue. My belief is that A. Some guys on this board need to learn to respect the ladies and B. The ladies sometimes need to learn to pick their battles a little better. Sometimes it gets ridiculous. Everyone here needs to relax. Like Lil Ray says, "Ban them all and sort out the rest later". [/QUOTE]Sorry I don't want to debate my feelings if ya didn't get it too bad.

Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand

12-01-2003, 11:22 AM

WHAAAAAA? I WANT MY A** KISSED! AS A MATTER OF FACT MY ENTIRE LARGE, HUGE & FAT A**. graemlins/rofl.gif

I feel you J. But I do like the way B opened himself up like that. I think it's sweet biggrinangel.gif

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:23 AM

Originally posted by MYOR:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! icon_rofl.gif graemlins/bolt.gif [/QUOTE]Some of those guys you can smell the bullshyt miles away.. graemlins/tongueout.gif .. But its cute... icon_rofl.gif [/QUOTE]Rich likes to post things like that to make him feel better about himself. I don't have a problem with that because I understand......JMJ ;)

BHouse

12-01-2003, 11:24 AM

Originally posted by MYOR:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! icon_rofl.gif graemlins/bolt.gif [/QUOTE]Some of those guys you can smell the bullshyt miles away.. graemlins/tongueout.gif .. But its cute... icon_rofl.gif [/QUOTE]Reason why I am laughing... Male members here that try to respect the women on DHP are considered ass kissers. Where are threads about the men who seem to purposely disregard the women and their opinions...? Or am I only one in an handful that see this...?

Huey P. Freeman

12-01-2003, 11:29 AM

Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! icon_rofl.gif graemlins/bolt.gif [/QUOTE]Some of those guys you can smell the bullshyt miles away.. graemlins/tongueout.gif .. But its cute... icon_rofl.gif [/QUOTE]Reason why I am laughing... Male members here that try to respect the women on DHP are considered ass kissers. Where are threads about the men who seem to purposely disregard the women and their opinions...? Or am I only one in an handful that see this...? [/QUOTE]There is a difference between respecting women and kissing ass. I respect the ladies. Have never called one a bitch or a whore or started threads that would offend them. Respect. Starting threads with the sole purpose of getting the ladies to say "Aw he's so sweet" by making villains out of the less respectful brothers IS KISSING ASS. I think that is what he is referring to.

richierich

12-01-2003, 11:30 AM

Rich like to post whatever Rich likes to post. You seem to be concerned about why I post.. Don't worry about why I post what I post...HATER!!!

MYOR

12-01-2003, 11:30 AM

Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! icon_rofl.gif graemlins/bolt.gif [/QUOTE]Some of those guys you can smell the bullshyt miles away.. graemlins/tongueout.gif .. But its cute... icon_rofl.gif [/QUOTE]Reason why I am laughing... Male members here that try to respect the women on DHP are considered ass kissers. Where are threads about the men who seem to purposely disregard the women and their opinions...? Or am I only one in an handful that see this...? [/QUOTE]Nah I notice... but if they want to play with themselves. Let them... Then they can complain when they are left with balls in their mouths.. ;)

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:31 AM

Originally posted by Eargasm:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by BHouse:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Y'all just mad because there are men on here that are liked by the women and you're not one of them.

YOU'RE JEALOUS OF MEN THAT ARE IN GOOD WITH THE LADIES ..HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! icon_rofl.gif graemlins/bolt.gif [/QUOTE]Some of those guys you can smell the bullshyt miles away.. graemlins/tongueout.gif .. But its cute... icon_rofl.gif [/QUOTE]Reason why I am laughing... Male members here that try to respect the women on DHP are considered ass kissers. Where are threads about the men who seem to purposely disregard the women and their opinions...? Or am I only one in an handful that see this...? [/QUOTE]There is a difference between respecting women and kissing ass. I respect the ladies. Have never called one a bitch or a whore or started threads that would offend them. Respect. Starting threads with the sole purpose of getting the ladies to say "Aw he's so sweet" by making villains out of the less respectful brothers IS KISSING ASS. I think that is what he is referring to. [/QUOTE]BINGO!! Johnny, tell Mr. Eargasm what he's won!......JMJ graemlins/thumbsup.gif

richierich

12-01-2003, 11:35 AM

Originally posted by richierich:
Rich like to post whatever Rich likes to post. You seem to be concerned about why I post.. Don't worry about why I post what I post...HATER!!! Why y'all concerned about why someone else posts anything. Our motives gotta got thru your screening process?? If ANYBODY is considered in your definition as an as-kisser....SO WHAT??? IF SOMEBODY DOES GET A RESPONSE LIKE "AW THAT'S SO SWEET"..so what...OR IS THAT THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE...NOBODY SAID IT TO YOU.

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:35 AM

Originally posted by richierich:
Rich like to post whatever Rich likes to post. You seem to be concerned about why I post.. Don't worry about why I post what I post...HATER!!! I don't care why you post. I don't care why you breathe .... I don't like that you refer to your self in third-person, but that's your problem. No name calling. That's not nice. Women hate name-callers......JMJ graemlins/nono.gif

richierich

12-01-2003, 11:38 AM

Originally posted by JMJ:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Rich like to post whatever Rich likes to post. You seem to be concerned about why I post.. Don't worry about why I post what I post...HATER!!! I don't care why you post. I don't care why you breathe .... I don't like that you refer to your self in third-person, but that's your problem. No name calling. That's not nice. Women hate name-callers......JMJ graemlins/nono.gif [/QUOTE]Obviously you do ..you gotta come on here and criticize and call people ass-kissers for what and why they post ..yeah you care and thanks for analyzing my post so in-depth..I knew you were taking notes.

jimmymack-2000

12-01-2003, 11:38 AM

Originally posted by Eargasm:
My belief is...the ladies sometimes need to learn to pick their battles a little better.This is very, VERY funny coming from you...

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:38 AM

Originally posted by richierich:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Rich like to post whatever Rich likes to post. You seem to be concerned about why I post.. Don't worry about why I post what I post...HATER!!! Why y'all concerned about why someone else posts anything. Our motives gotta got thru your screening process?? If ANYBODY is considered in your definition as an as-kisser....SO WHAT??? IF SOMEBODY DOES GET A RESPONSE LIKE "AW THAT'S SO SWEET"..so what...OR IS THAT THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE...NOBODY SAID IT TO YOU.[/QUOTE]Damn, Rich. Quoting yourself?? That's really sad. You should be quoting me......JMJ graemlins/rofl5.gif

Huey P. Freeman

12-01-2003, 11:39 AM

Originally posted by jimmymack-2000:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Eargasm:
My belief is...the ladies sometimes need to learn to pick their battles a little better.This is very, VERY funny coming from you... [/QUOTE]Ban me Gman.

[ December 01, 2003, 11:48 AM: Message edited by: t o r i n ]

jimmymack-2000

12-01-2003, 11:42 AM

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jimmymack-2000

12-01-2003, 11:45 AM

P.S. Using the phrase "my belief" makes it about you, right? If you can't substitute "black" for "women" in the latter half of your post and see the hypocrisy there, heaven help you.

BHouse

12-01-2003, 11:45 AM

I post more personal business, relationship/sexual exploits and baby mama drama on DHP than anyone... Not in the hopes of making some anonymous women in the DHP universe that I will never meet fawn over me... I do it because that is who I am... But I do it in a way that is respectful to those women that may read it... Like I said there is a difference between ass kissing and being respectful and some us can't seem separate the two...

[ December 01, 2003, 11:53 AM: Message edited by: BHouse ]

däp

12-01-2003, 11:47 AM

eargasm. see you tomorrow. http://deephousepage.com/smilies/coolgleamA.gif

[ December 01, 2003, 01:23 PM: Message edited by: t o r i n ]

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:48 AM

Originally posted by Eargasm:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by jimmymack-2000:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Eargasm:
My belief is...the ladies sometimes need to learn to pick their battles a little better.This is very, VERY funny coming from you... [/QUOTE]Fuck off dickhead. You are one of the dumbest motherfuckers on this board. This thread is not about me asshole. Ban me Gman. [/QUOTE]http://www.deephousepage.com/smilies/eek2.gif......JMJ

[ December 01, 2003, 11:51 AM: Message edited by: t o r i n ]

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:50 AM

Originally posted by richierich:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Rich like to post whatever Rich likes to post. You seem to be concerned about why I post.. Don't worry about why I post what I post...HATER!!! I don't care why you post. I don't care why you breathe .... I don't like that you refer to your self in third-person, but that's your problem. No name calling. That's not nice. Women hate name-callers......JMJ graemlins/nono.gif [/QUOTE]Obviously you do ..you gotta come on here and criticize and call people ass-kissers for what and why they post ..yeah you care and thanks for analyzing my post so in-depth..I knew you were taking notes. [/QUOTE]You can do better than this, Rich. Try a little harder. Sometimes calling me names works......JMJ ;)

richierich

12-01-2003, 11:54 AM

Originally posted by JMJ:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Rich like to post whatever Rich likes to post. You seem to be concerned about why I post.. Don't worry about why I post what I post...HATER!!! I don't care why you post. I don't care why you breathe .... I don't like that you refer to your self in third-person, but that's your problem. No name calling. That's not nice. Women hate name-callers......JMJ graemlins/nono.gif [/QUOTE]Obviously you do ..you gotta come on here and criticize and call people ass-kissers for what and why they post ..yeah you care and thanks for analyzing my post so in-depth..I knew you were taking notes. [/QUOTE]You can do better than this, Rich. Try a little harder. Sometimes calling me names works......JMJ ;) [/QUOTE]Naw not today....You just like posting..period be it concerning the topic or not...This aint about you and me going at it so get your last words in so we can end this back and forth bullshit.

Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand

12-01-2003, 11:56 AM

See, I was trying to bring humor on this topic, but I gotta say somethin'

The topic-turned arguments is what keep me from posting. Not the topics. I choose what and what not to read. But when light convo turns into battles I rather not participate in discussions because of the back and forward confusion. I still love ya'll but sometimes the testosterone get to high graemlins/jpshakehead.gif graemlins/remybussi.gif

däp

12-01-2003, 11:56 AM

rich and jmj please keep it civil.

The Buddy Love Show

12-01-2003, 11:58 AM

Originally posted by DiscoLady:
See, I was trying to bring humor on this topic, but I gotta say somethin'

The topic-turned arguments is what keep me from posting. Not the topics. I choose what and what not to read. But when light convo turns into battles I rather not participate in discussions because of the back and forward confusion. I still love ya'll but sometimes the testosterone get to high graemlins/jpshakehead.gif graemlins/remybussi.gif In this there is truth...and thats coming from me

JMJ

12-01-2003, 11:59 AM

Originally posted by t o r i n:
rich and jmj please keep it civil. Don't edit my posts.......JMJ graemlins/nono.gif

däp

12-01-2003, 12:05 PM

Originally posted by JMJ:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by t o r i n:
rich and jmj please keep it civil. Don't edit my posts.......JMJ graemlins/nono.gif [/QUOTE]you quoted someting i deleted from another post. i let it fly. chill.

[ December 01, 2003, 12:06 PM: Message edited by: t o r i n ]

Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand

12-01-2003, 12:10 PM

Originally posted by St Magus the Reviled:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by DiscoLady:
See, I was trying to bring humor on this topic, but I gotta say somethin'

The topic-turned arguments is what keep me from posting. Not the topics. I choose what and what not to read. But when light convo turns into battles I rather not participate in discussions because of the back and forward confusion. I still love ya'll but sometimes the testosterone get to high graemlins/jpshakehead.gif graemlins/remybussi.gif In this there is truth...and thats coming from me [/QUOTE]And that is scary that you are agreeing with me graemlins/rofl.gif

Shalewa

12-01-2003, 12:28 PM

For the record I agree that the "ass-kissing" is pointless even when it is well-intentioned. It bugs me because it seems like it is trying to placate and pacify and I wish that sometimes the community could be more serious about engaging in dialogue that might actually expand everyone's understanding. I am not interested in neutering or silencing anyone and I am continually mystified by folks acting like they have a hatchet coming at their mid-sections or tongues when they are asked a hard question or to clarify a position.

What is deepest to me is the ways in which serious discussion is often charactarized. "Political Correctness" is invoked at the oddest moments, seemingly whenever someone doesn't want to acknowledge that her/his post has been ill-considered, poorly reasoned or patently offensive. What is deep is that if one really wanted to attempt a credible usage of the odious term it might most appropriately directed at the posts that seem designed to constrain dialogue instead of at the posts that spark dialogue. I also don't know who the "terminally unhappy women that bitch but continue to post," are. Who are they? I have been around DHP for a pretty long while and have had periods of extended silence born of frustration with the tone of many of the posts on the board and I have tried to engage folks in serious discussions on uncomfortable topics including patriarchy, race, sexism and cultural imperialism and mayhaps have challenged them to look beyonnd their present understanding and/or move me beyond mine but I have never been about idle bitching. I have seen some really bright women leave the community in disgust after some pretty dark moments but while I don't recall their bitching, I do mourn their leaving.

I know I tend to be on the more serious end of the continuum of posters in this community and I make no apologies for this. It reflects the part of myself that is interested in understaning others and being understood. I dig dialogue. I get that lots of folks say thing in ostensible jest; however, I also get that lots of the time derisive humor is a tool used to maintain social control as no one really wants to the butt of the joke. A great example of this is the FMK "joke" which sends the thinly veiled message that women would want to conform to a limited range of behavior or they will miss the brass ring of M and be left either with the booby prize and implied humiliation of F or the extermination of K. I ignore many posts (including vitually all of Albert Diaz's which I know are usually jokes that I won't find funny) but the overt violence with a gendered overtone in light of my friend's murder by her husband compelled a response.

The bottom line is that the women here aren't looking for gestures or pedestals which is basically what we get when folks post these I love the women threads and absolve themselves of responsibility to dialogue respectfully (NOT deferentially) and honestly with EVERYONE present.

Jamie 3:26

12-01-2003, 12:35 PM

Originally posted by Shalewa:
For the record I agree that the "ass-kissing" is pointless even when it is well-intentioned. It bugs me because it seems like it is trying to placate and pacify and I wish that sometimes the community could be more serious about engaging in dialogue that might actually expand everyone's understanding. I am not interested in neutering or silencing anyone and I am continually mystified by folks acting like they have a hatchet coming at their mid-sections or tongues when they are asked a hard question or to clarify a position.

What is deepest to me is the ways in which serious discussion is often charactarized. "Political Correctness" is invoked at the oddest moments, seemingly whenever someone doesn't want to acknowledge that her/his post has been ill-considered, poorly reasoned or patently offensive. What is deep is that if one really wanted to attempt a credible usage of the odious term it might most appropriately directed at the posts that seem designed to constrain dialogue instead of at the posts that spark dialogue. I also don't know who the "terminally unhappy women that bitch but continue to post," are. Who are they? I have been around DHP for a pretty long while and have had periods of extended silence born of frustration with the tone of many of the posts on the board and I have tried to engage folks in serious discussions on uncomfortable topics including patriarchy, race, sexism and cultural imperialism and mayhaps have challenged them to look beyonnd their present understanding and/or move me beyond mine but I have never been about idle bitching. I have seen some really bright women leave the community in disgust after some pretty dark moments but while I don't recall their bitching, I do mourn their leaving.

I know I tend to be on the more serious end of the continuum of posters in this community and I make no apologies for this. It reflects the part of myself that is interested in understaning others and being understood. I dig dialogue. I get that lots of folks say thing in ostensible jest; however, I also get that lots of the time derisive humor is a tool used to maintain social control as no one really wants to the butt of the joke. A great example of this is the FMK "joke" which sends the thinly veiled message that women would want to conform to a limited range of behavior or they will miss the brass ring of M and be left either with the booby prize and implied humiliation of F or the extermination of K. I ignore many posts (including vitually all of Albert Diaz's which I know are usually jokes that I won't find funny) but the overt violence with a gendered overtone in light of my friend's murder by her husband compelled a response.

The bottom line is that the women here aren't looking for gestures or pedestals which is basically what we get when folks post these I love the women threads and absolve themselves of responsibility to dialogue respectfully (NOT deferentially) and honestly with EVERYONE present. Shalewa,how can you be such a calming force?I respect you for that.I never see any kind of negative tone from you.Then again,I know you in the real world also and you have a beautiful spirit about yourself.

I have learned a lot from you....including new words. ;) I honestly do not think some folks here can get your points at times.

Thanks....

JMJ

12-01-2003, 12:35 PM

Thank you, Shalewa. GUYS - The women see right through the ass-kissing, so please stop......JMJ

BHouse

12-01-2003, 12:40 PM

6 23... I think its time for us to put on another SHORTYELLOW BUS PRODUCTION... icon_rofl.gif

Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand

12-01-2003, 12:44 PM

Here, here to Shalewa graemlins/beerchug.gif Girl, I have to applaud you, you know the right things to say to bring everyone to their senses.

BHouse

12-01-2003, 12:45 PM

http://punkrockpenguin.net/waste/smoochies/smoochies02.jpg

I wish someone would kiss my ass sometimes... icon_rofl.gif

JMJ

12-01-2003, 12:46 PM

Originally posted by DiscoLady:
Here, here to Shalewa graemlins/beerchug.gif Girl, I have to applaud you, you know the right things to say to bring everyone to their senses. Your jokes bring everybody to their senses too. Maybe it's just the smell.......JMJ

So easy a protic can do it (QUAD)

12-01-2003, 12:48 PM

Y'ALL KNOW WHAT???? DOES ANYBODY REMEMBER ONE OF THE SONGS OFF OF ONE OF THE "TOM-TOM CLUB'S ALBUMS WHERE SHE CHANTS; "WHAT-ARE-WORDS-WORTH?-"WORDS!!!" ....AND THERE YOU HAVE IT FOLKS THAT'S ALL THEY ARE. THERE IS NOT A NAME IN LIFE THAT ANYONE CAN CALL ME OR OFFEND ME WITH, SINCE MY MOTHER VERBALLY ABUSED ME IN MY YOUNGER YEARS OF 5-8, JUST TO GET BACK AT MY FATHER.(SHE PAST WHEN I WAS THIRTEEN, AND BEING THE ONLY BOY CHILD AND THE OLDEST)SOOO, SHE WILL REIN THE QUEEN OF INSULT AND NO ONE ELSE BEFORE AND AFTER, SO IT'S CALLED HAVIN SKIN OF LEATHER FOLKS. LEARN TO DEVELOP IT AND STOP BEIN SOOOO SENSITIVE AND LET'S GET ALONG. ONCE IT STOPS, AND WE APPRECIATE ONE ANOTHER FOR HIS OR HER INDIVIDUALNESS, IT WILL BE A BETTER "DHP" AND ALL THE "LURKERS" WILL START TO CHAT WITH US FOR THEY DON'T WANNA BE ON A WEBSITE WITH ALL OF US TRYIN TO MALICIOUSLY BELITTLE EACH OTHER JUST TO GET "BROWNIE POINTS" WITH ALL THE HURTFUL INSULTS AND NAME CALLIN!!! AND IF YOU RESPECT OR LIKE SOMEONE'S TALENT'S AND BRAG ALITTLE TO YA HOMIES OR FRIENDS, IT'S NOT CALLED KISSIN ASS!!! IT'S JUST RESPECT OR ADMIRATION FOR OUR FELLOW PERSON, THAT'S ALL, PEOPLE!!!! NOTHIN MORE!!

THIS TIME I AM SCREAMIN, AND GMAN, IF YOU MUST, BAN ME.

THERE IT IS, FOLKS,
"IN BLUEBLACKNESS!!" mad1.gif

[ December 01, 2003, 12:53 PM: Message edited by: DJ QUAD ]

DJ Keith Porter

12-01-2003, 12:50 PM

KBig
Junior Member
Member # 3583

posted December 01, 2003 10:45 AM
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Question?
Why would you have to stand up for women here... I mean its admirable but why give that nonsense any NRG. Isnt G-Man the admin anyway? wouldnt he determine what is or isnt appropo?
I would stand up for any of my family or friends wouldn't you?

I don't understand how hard it is to be considerate to others.
Example:
What if you had some tragedy happen in you life like you mother fell off a bridge you wouldn't want to come to the board and read a thread with Bridge jokes now would you. Grow up!

Speak to me like you would speak to your Father, Grandfather or brothers. Speak to the women here like you would speak to your Mother, Grandmother or sisters.

Yes G-man is the Admin of the board but do you really think he has time to baby sit?

He does not get paid to do this site! I think he should start charging dues on this site and then maybe he'll have some respectable clients!

To all the men on the board: Do you know that there is a difference between way you talk to a man than a woman. If you don't know this you have a lot to learn!

I’m not kissing nobodies ass to gain any popularity around here.
Let just stick to the title of this site and we'll all be better off!
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mhd

12-01-2003, 12:56 PM

Keith, interesting point, what is the difference betweent the way you (should) talk to a man versus a woman? i think i know where you are coming from, but where do you draw the line for paternalism? anyone?

KBig

12-01-2003, 12:57 PM

Porter, I agree with your last part of your statement. However, You took only a "slither" of what I was speaking of and misinterpreted what I was communicating.

and if ANYONE comes here looking for emotional support from a message board then that is just plain sad! If I perhaps bonded with someone here then yes I would want comfort from them, but thats one on one communication not message board material. And that is also MY perspective. I view DHP as an environment for infomation about music and about the people who share a like interest.

And if you had kept track of the entire convo then you would know my comment about Gman being the admin was not to slight him... I was addressing JMJ>

People equipped with partial info are like babies with handguns AR15firing.gif

däp

12-01-2003, 12:58 PM

DJ Keith Porter

12-01-2003, 01:08 PM

Originally posted by mhd:
Keith, interesting point, what is the difference betweent the way you (should) talk to a man versus a woman? i think i know where you are coming from, but where do you draw the line for paternalism? anyone? Yes Mark it is an interesting point and I know you know where I’m going with it.
For those that don't understand try talking to one of your male friends then try kicking it to female.
Reality is starring you right in the fact!
Hello.

BHouse

12-01-2003, 01:13 PM

Since we are talking about men kissing the asses of women on DHP, what about the ass kissing that goes on between men and other men on DHP...??? http://deephousepage.com/smilies/kissass.gif

däp

12-01-2003, 01:14 PM

Originally posted by BHouse:
Since we are talking about men kissing the asses of women on DHP, what about the ass kissing that goes on between men and other men on DHP...??? http://deephousepage.com/smilies/kissass.gif late http://deephousepage.com/smilies/biglaugha.gif

[ December 01, 2003, 01:15 PM: Message edited by: t o r i n ]

JMJ

12-01-2003, 01:16 PM

Originally posted by BHouse:
Since we are talking about men kissing the asses of women on DHP, what about the ass kissing that goes on between men and other men on DHP...??? http://deephousepage.com/smilies/kissass.gif That sucks too. Michael The Sinister should be banned for life......JMJ ;)

KBig

12-01-2003, 01:17 PM

Bhouse... this is eggactly what is going on here in Bmore. I feel for anyone who is a DJ. Like if you go to a club and a well known DJ has a wack azz set. Your not allowed to truthfully express your viewpoint, so alot of DJ 's who want to be "put onto" a scene are pimpin themselves and kiss ass.... *muah*

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corwin

12-01-2003, 01:22 PM

The bottom line is that the women here aren't looking for gestures or pedestals which is basically what we get when folks post these I love the women threads and absolve themselves of responsibility to dialogue respectfully (NOT deferentially) and honestly with EVERYONE present.

Shalewa,

What I perceive from rabid anti-p.c. bandwagoneers and the proliferation of retrograde posts/threads is an increasing number of folks whom are completely disinterested in dialogue. I find it highly unlikely that Albert D and his motley crew of cheerleaders---with regards to that brazenly dubious "marry/fuck/kill" thread--- have learned anything from the exchange and it's aftermath; it's becoming painly obvious that, for quasi-enlightened (under the guise of "a spiritual thing, a body thing, a soul thing") peeps on board, an ornery woman---and her emasculated minions---needs to be allegorically popped in the mouth.

Thank you for posting on this, btw. Your insight is priceless.

I'm hoping that today's DHP cognoscenti won't take this as just another kick in the nuts.

[ December 01, 2003, 10:58 PM: Message edited by: corwin ]

MYOR

12-01-2003, 01:27 PM

Originally posted by DJ Keith Porter:

I don't understand how hard it is to be considerate to others.
Example:
What if you had some tragedy happen in you life like you mother fell off a bridge you wouldn't want to come to the board and read a thread with Bridge jokes now would you. Grow up!
Honestly the person that would have to grow up is the person who is getting mad b/c of the joke.. We have no Idea what is going on in your life.. so don't come ripping off my head b/c ur mom just leaped of a bridge and I put a joke about someone leaping off a bridge..

Moksha

12-01-2003, 01:36 PM

Demanding decency IS NOT "ass kissing." Most of the threads that contain the "there won't be any women left" statements are threads that desrve to be criticized. There are days when multiple sexist threads run on the front page all day. That shit is wrong. The result will be (and has been) that women leave. Hopefully, people continue to criticize these threads, as it keeps the testosterone at bay, a little.

Saying that those who protest such bullshit are kissing ass is kind of generalizing (though there is certainly plenty of of bullshit ass kissing too).

Just as I applaud those who speak out against racism here, I applaud those who are willing to criticize sexists, even if it makes them unpopular with more machismo element.

JMJ

12-01-2003, 01:36 PM

http://bushong.net/pics/gallery/tmp/thumbs/photos/pets/kirby/possessed-kitty.jpg

Meow......JMJ :eek:

DJ Keith Porter

12-01-2003, 01:37 PM

Originally posted by KBig:
Porter, I agree with your last part of your statement. However, You took only a "slither" of what I was speaking of and misinterpreted what I was communicating.

and if ANYONE comes here looking for emotional support from a message board then that is just plain sad! If I perhaps bonded with someone here then yes I would want comfort from them, but thats one on one communication not message board material. And that is also MY perspective. I view DHP as an environment for infomation about music and about the people who share a like interest.

And if you had kept track of the entire convo then you would know my comment about Gman being the admin was not to slight him... I was addressing JMJ>

People equipped with partial info are like babies with handguns AR15firing.gif KBig NO PUN INTENDED!
Yes I did read your reply and from what I understood you seem to be playing both sides of the fence.

Once you got to the part about why should we defend the women here on the board and isn't G-man the admin I said to myself where does he want to be, I mean does he want to be on the left or does he want to be on the right?
The slither that I quoted was the most important in your reply because you touched on parts that I needed to express not only to you but the board as a whole. We are addressing this issue, as a whole right so don't take it personal.
If the shoe fits wear it and walk a mile. graemlins/cool_shades.gif

Yeah, now you say if people come here and look for emotional support then that’s sad, Man you need to retract what you writing because the entire issue at hand is about being considerate.
Emotional support can come from so many topics on this board, Like: How do you feel about Track Blah that just came out or what about blah equipment. I have even seen a thread that some one posted about his or her relationship went sour but you know what It was positive and the entire board supported emotionally. I don’t think that is sad at all. In all actuality it helped the person to better deal with their situation. Now that’s what a friends or family can do for you.
That is the perspective view of how the DHP as an environment that shares information about MUSIC and liked INTEREST!
Again you’re trying to play two sides.

KBig

12-01-2003, 01:49 PM

OOOH KAYYYYY
Umm Porter Im very aware of the beginning of the thread..YOU are the one who bought emotionalism into this quagmeyrer LOL got mamas jumpin' off of bridges and shit and then want sympathy from a msg board. moving fwd.

Im not straddling the fence at all *rather uncomfortable!* I say now and I have said previously that WE *females* dont come here to be suck'd up to... and it I dont see it being and issue if you are utilzing this site for what it was created for the exchange of ideas, information, and resources regarding music...specifically Underground Music *correct me if Im wrong* I can't imagine such emotional outburst when the topic isnt applicable.
And for my "sistahs" here on DHP those who are clear about their own purpose here dont' need men kissing their azzes. Seems to me when topics are discussed honestly and maturely, even the jokes...
there is no room for disrespect, no reason to call women out of their names, no reason for people to kiss azzes.
Like I said, Only a hit dog yelps. Seems to me, sistahs get disrespected when menz baby feelings get hurt and can't take honest assessments... for that fact its not just a Man to Women issue.

If you can't take criticism then bounce...

Iz that better Porter graemlins/acclaim.gif

DJ RON C

12-01-2003, 01:51 PM

much love and respect, sista Shalewa. hail.gif

DJ Keith Porter

12-01-2003, 01:53 PM

Originally posted by MYOR:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by DJ Keith Porter:

I don't understand how hard it is to be considerate to others.
Example:
What if you had some tragedy happen in you life like you mother fell off a bridge you wouldn't want to come to the board and read a thread with Bridge jokes now would you. Grow up!
Honestly the person that would have to grow up is the person who is getting mad b/c of the joke.. We have no Idea what is going on in your life.. so don't come ripping off my head b/c ur mom just leaped of a bridge and I put a joke about someone leaping off a bridge.. [/QUOTE]Ok Myor I am sorry! You’re absolutely right with your point.

I really meant to throw in that the board already knew the mother jumped off the bridge.

Just trying to make a point about being considerate that’s all. graemlins/cool_shades.gif

Will you ever forgive me! hail.gif
aaahh ooohhh, I think I’m kissing ass! graemlins/tongueout.gif

jimmymack-2000

12-01-2003, 01:56 PM

It takes a mindreader to know whether an inocuous joke about jumping off a bridge will offend; it takes nothing more than good, old-fashioned common sense to realize that jokes based on "Which woman would you..." or "What do Puerto Ricans have in common with..." are going to offend someone.

DJ Keith Porter

12-01-2003, 02:16 PM

Originally posted by KBig:
OOOH KAYYYYY
Umm Porter Im very aware of the beginning of the thread..YOU are the one who bought emotionalism into this quagmeyrer LOL got mamas jumpin' off of bridges and shit and then want sympathy from a msg board. moving fwd.

Im not straddling the fence at all *rather uncomfortable!* I say now and I have said previously that WE *females* dont come here to be suck'd up to... and it I dont see it being and issue if you are utilzing this site for what it was created for the exchange of ideas, information, and resources regarding music...specifically Underground Music *correct me if Im wrong* I can't imagine such emotional outburst when the topic isnt applicable.
And for my "sistahs" here on DHP those who are clear about their own purpose here dont' need men kissing their azzes. Seems to me when topics are discussed honestly and maturely, even the jokes...
there is no room for disrespect, no reason to call women out of their names, no reason for people to kiss azzes.
Like I said, Only a hit dog yelps. Seems to me, sistahs get disrespected when menz baby feelings get hurt and can't take honest assessments... for that fact its not just a Man to Women issue.

If you can't take criticism then bounce...

Iz that better Porter graemlins/acclaim.gif KBig
Read the part above my last reply. That is your writing noe mine.
Again I touch parts of what you said because they were important.
Like say it another way: You started off different then the way you ended in one of your first replies.
Again, I'm not saying your wrong Im saying top me you seem to have played both sides of the fence.
Hold on let me get the entire post so we can get this together.

Originally posted by KBig:
Thou dost protest tooo much. JMJ
Again I dont have to check facts ... this is not a fact based conversation. Pure conjucture and interpretation. And arent you the one who said it wasnt that serious. I think the women who come here and side step the bullshit dont need their azzes kiss'd, their purpose for being here is quite the antithesis of a topic that would require such bullshit!

People take themselves a bit toooo seriously here.
Question?
Why would you have to stand up for women here... I mean its admirable but why give that nonsense any NRG. Isnt G-Man the admin anyway? wouldnt he determine what is or isnt appropo?

And if your having disscussions about music and and relative dialog, calling me a bitch or a ho' wouldn't have a place in those topics, now would they?

too dayum sensitive here...
Brothas be having heavy flow dayz, needing Midol and shit!!
No one can take a joke LOL LOL graemlins/conf44.gif aaaahhhh, Now I know why I only quoted a Slither of your post!
Its because the first part was toward JMJ?
I had no comment.

The middle part that I quoted was a question you asked.
I answered the question and added information that was not only directed at you but for the all the readers of this thread.

The ending of your post was right on target so I had no comment.
Again, I am not trying to make a point about be considerate to others which like I said its not only directed to you but for every one.

One more time:
If the shoe fits wear it and walk a mile.

Another time. No pun intended! graemlins/cool_shades.gif

DJ Keith Porter

12-01-2003, 02:21 PM

Originally posted by jimmymack-2000:
It takes a mindreader to know whether an inocuous joke about jumping off a bridge will offend; it takes nothing more than good, old-fashioned common sense to realize that jokes based on "Which woman would you..." or "What do Puerto Ricans have in common with..." are going to offend someone. You and Myor are right. I take it that you replied as I quoted Myor..

Of course you would have to be a mind reader to know what happen in some ones life.
I really meant to throw in that the board already knew the mother jumped off the bridge.

Just trying to make a point about being considerate that’s all.

I am sorry to mislead with incomplete thoughts my bad. graemlins/acclaim.gif

[ December 01, 2003, 02:25 PM: Message edited by: DJ Keith Porter ]

LEONARD REMIX RROY

12-01-2003, 04:38 PM

I agree with JMJ!

There are people who kiis ass inorder to get a hook up with a female's here for everything from attending an event / other agendas.

Doing that via a message board is a poor display of social skills IMO.

As for myself...I am not double jointed IE: I Can't Kiss My Own Ass, so kissing the ass of another will not happen.

I guess when you're a man that don't have to look far to find / go all out ones way so women like them - that give me the option to not kiss female ass.

That takes me to a new thread to post.

Erika R.

12-01-2003, 05:56 PM

Originally posted by JMJ:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by KBig:
Newbie Confusion ....

Where did that come from? Are you telling me you are catching feelings about what is said on a message board JMJ???? I have seen you post some profound posts... but neutering men??? online???
Everyone has opinions, some are favorable some arent... but when people post topics specifically drawing lines in the sands of the "battle of the sexes" what do you expect to get...

Women voiceing their opinions about men and Men voicing theirs about women...

Toughen up sheeesh graemlins/slap.gif This isn't about me or my feelings. This is about what I've been reading here lately. While the portrayal of women as slut's, ho's, and lord knows what else is WRONG, I'm not kissing anybody's ass to stay here, unlike some of my fellow DHP men. Stay because YOU want to, not because I'm telling you that you're the greatest thing since Viagra. Life isn't fair, both men and women are flawed, we love each other, but haven't learned to LIKE one another. Men are cave dwellers, women have feelings, LET'S DEAL WITH IT! The women here know what they're dealing with, and it's not going to change overnight, nor is it THAT serious.......JMJ ;) [/QUOTE]Excellent Point J!

[ December 01, 2003, 06:04 PM: Message edited by: Erika R. ]