This is how it went down ... [Archive]

And

11-19-2003, 09:36 AM

Hi peeps .. You know how it is - Every once in a while you find yourself in the middle of a strange drama looking around and wondering how in the world you got there. Well here's my story for the day. Feel free to share yours if you have any.
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The story:
Sunday night I went out with some friends to round off my birthday celebrations. As the one with an available car, I gave friends 1, 2 and 3 a ride to the club. Towards the end of the night, I realized I was extremely tired and wanted to go home. I told friends 1, 2, and 3 and they were cool with it. Friend 3 said she'd hang out with another friend (4).
Well I ended up staying till the end of the party but was still set on going directly home. Friend 4 asked me for a ride to his place in DC (which wasn't out of my way home) so I agreed. As we were walking to the car friend 3 joined us and got in. I assumed friend 4 and 3 were going to hang out and I was dropping them off at one spot as nothing else had been said to me.
Well imagine my surprise when barely minutes from friend 4's house, friend 4 claims to be tired and friend 3 mentions needing a ride to her house. Firmly, I told friend 3 that that was not the original plan. That I was dropping them both off and going straight home. I was just trying to help by dropping them off so they wouldn't have to take a taxi. Besides dropping her off added two more highways to my trip home.
Friend 3 got mad and started yelling. We were at a red light in a circle. The light turned green and I started driving. Friend 3 and I were yelling at each other at this point. I told her I felt she was trying to pull a fast one on me and I wasn't having it. That must have been the final straw 'cause the next thing I saw, (the car's going about 15-20 miles per hour) was friend 3 pulling off her seat belt, throwing the car door open and flinging herself onto the road. Mind you it's 3:30 a.m. I heard a thud, saw a flash of red (the colour of her shirt), then road.
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Thoughts racing through my head at the time: What the FUCK was that! Oh shit I hope I didn't run over her, oh shit I hope another car doesn't run over her, oh shit my car door's open I hope another car doesn't clip it off, oh shit why did this crazy bitch throw herself out of the car - I've got a little piece of bud on me, I don't need to be stopped by a cop at three in the morning asking why a woman was seen falling out of my car. Oh shit this sucks, oh shit I'm going to close my door and keep going.
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So I pulled the car door shut and proceeded only to find her in the middle of the street yelling and throwing things at my car. Luckily friend 4 lived only a few feet from the site of the incident so I dropped him off with the assurance from him that he'd take care of friend 3
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Yikes .. :eek:

alex zen

11-19-2003, 09:40 AM

next time throw her out of car going 50 mph and 3 will never ask for a ride again.

Tony Cano

11-19-2003, 09:42 AM

you should delete this. this makes you look bad.

And

11-19-2003, 09:42 AM

but it didn't make sense ... She threw herself out of the car. graemlins/stupid.gif

Rudy Jordan

11-19-2003, 09:43 AM

What a way to cap off a "Happy Birthday." I hope you enjoyed the rest of your celebration.

btw, That's a great idea Alex!

Peace

And

11-19-2003, 09:43 AM

Originally posted by Tony Cano:
you should delete this. this makes you look bad. Why do I look bad?

MYOR

11-19-2003, 09:43 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
but it didn't make sense ... She threw herself out of the car. graemlins/stupid.gif Friend 3 Should become a stunt person icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif

MYOR

11-19-2003, 09:44 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Tony Cano:
you should delete this. this makes you look bad. Why do I look bad? [/QUOTE]Yeah why does she look bad?? graemlins/conf44.gif

Huey P. Freeman

11-19-2003, 09:46 AM

You have 4 friends? Wow! :D

Brut by Faberge

11-19-2003, 09:46 AM

hahaha! i'm speechless!

"tuck n roll, bitch! tuck n roll!" lmao graemlins/rofl.gif

And

11-19-2003, 09:47 AM

Originally posted by Eargasm:
You have 4 friends? Wow! :D Silly .. Probably 3 now. graemlins/tongueout.gif

Tony Cano

11-19-2003, 09:48 AM

perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend.

DLow

11-19-2003, 09:49 AM

Originally posted by THX-1138:
hahaha! i'm speechless!

"tuck n roll, bitch! tuck n roll!" lmao graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/lol.gif You kill me with the one-liners!!!

DLow

11-19-2003, 09:51 AM

Was friend 3 drunk?

alex zen

11-19-2003, 09:53 AM

darrow

11-19-2003, 09:54 AM

When I read this stuff I realize that I am getting old. smile.gif

1) My days of screaming/deeply wounded friends was over so long ago and far away, that to realize that other people have to deal with friends like this amazes and surprises me. Get away from the bad energy quick.

2) If I ever did a tuck and roll out of a car, I'd probably break a hip.

And

11-19-2003, 09:55 AM

alex zen

11-19-2003, 09:57 AM

i jumped out of a car once. the only thing that happened was one of my glass lens fell out.

MYOR

11-19-2003, 09:59 AM

Originally posted by alex zen:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Tony Cano:
perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend. being carless i can always appreciate a ride home. but, i always ask, not assume that i'll get a ride. [/QUOTE]Just because you are a friend doesn't give you automatic ride home.. Especially knowing that the driver is very tired and will need to go out of her way to give you a ride.. graemlins/nono.gif

And

11-19-2003, 10:01 AM

Originally posted by alex zen:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Tony Cano:
perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend. being carless i can always appreciate a ride home. but, i always ask, not assume that i'll get a ride. [/QUOTE]Honestly, with me, this is what it's all about. I could do a favour for someone every day for years but the second they start assuming, expecting or demanding - No way! 3 and 4 could have cabbed it to his place but I felt bad for wanting to leave earlier so I offered him the ride. I guess by not dropping her off I was trying to make the point that I didn't like what I took as her deception.
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Derrick ... I don't think she was that drunk. Maybe just really frustrated. graemlins/conf44.gif

Tony Cano

11-19-2003, 10:02 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Tony Cano:
perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend. Read the story again. I was supposed to leave before the party ended. I had the assurance from 3 she was hanging out with 4. 1 and 2 didn't have any problems with me leaving. If anything they were more concerned about my well being on the drive home. I left with 4 who asked for a ride and 3 joined us then at the last minute switched it up. Living as far as I do from where we were, that was not the tactic to use. You see it how you will though. [/QUOTE]no need to re-read your story. you said you were leaving early because you were tired. if you were really so tired, why didn't you leave? you must not have been that tired or maybe you never really intended on giving them a ride home so you planted a seed.

D J 1 3 8

11-19-2003, 10:03 AM

I had a box of records fall out the back of a moving car once. Lucky for me, it didn't open. Thank you, DMC record box.

As for your friend, she sounds like a psycho.

Martin Red

11-19-2003, 10:05 AM

F3 and F4

Male and female , anything going on behind closed doors, or open doors in this case ?

The girls unstable, that's for sure, perhaps she isn't familiar with the word "control"

And

11-19-2003, 10:10 AM

Originally posted by Tony Cano:
no need to re-read your story. you said you were leaving early because you were tired. if you were really so tired, why didn't you leave? you must not have been that tired or maybe you never really intended on giving them a ride home so you planted a seed. I didn't leave because it turned out there was only 10 minutes left till the end of the night. There was never the intent to NOT give them a ride home that's why I made sure they all had ways home before I left the club. I got assurances from all of them in the club that they were okay. Still feeling bad, I stuck around to see how else I could help. Rather than drop off 4 people at 3 different locations, I was willing to drop them all off at one. 1 and 2 no sweat. 4 no problem. 3 joined and last minute switcheroo? Nope! I was clear, why wasn't she?

And

11-19-2003, 10:14 AM

Originally posted by Martin Red:
F3 and F4

Male and female , anything going on behind closed doors, or open doors in this case ?

The girls unstable, that's for sure, perhaps she isn't familiar with the word "control" I don't think so .. I stopped at 7-11 so they could get stuff on the way to his place and they both went in. I stayed in the car. If there was anything between them, I don't think I was in the way, I was dropping them off together ... Is that how you meant your question?

mhd

11-19-2003, 10:16 AM

you are so lucky, there are a million things that could have gone wrong in that scenario

Martin Red

11-19-2003, 10:25 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Martin Red:
F3 and F4

Male and female , anything going on behind closed doors, or open doors in this case ?

The girls unstable, that's for sure, perhaps she isn't familiar with the word "control" I don't think so .. I stopped at 7-11 so they could get stuff on the way to his place and they both went in. I stayed in the car. If there was anything between them, I don't think I was in the way, I was dropping them off together ... Is that how you meant your question? [/QUOTE]Thanks, I was just thinking that thowing yourself out of a car is quite a drastic way to deal with it, I just thought that maybe romance may have been involved, as love (or even sex) makes people do the strangest things.

Proper Doo lally , ga ga !

advice: make sure you do the same action, pick her up , drop her off, make sure someone has a home video camera and send the vid off to one of those caught of camera haha shows and get some $$$$ smile.gif

And

11-19-2003, 10:25 AM

Originally posted by mhd:
you are so lucky, there are a million things that could have gone wrong in that scenario BELIEVE me I know! I thought about that the whole ride home. When I dropped off friend 4 (who hadn't said a word through the whole thing) I was still in shock. So much so, I asked him to verify what he'd seen too just so I was sure I wasn't hallucinating. At the same time, I can't help thinking how inconsiderate of her to do something so dramatic that could have brought us a heap of trouble. Was it really worth it to throw herself out of a car to make a point, and what point would that be?

Martin Red

11-19-2003, 10:28 AM

P.S:

Is she half human half Lemming ? ;)

http://whyfiles.org/129sci_fable/images/lemming_only.gif

Sounds like she's watched too many films also.

Martin Red

11-19-2003, 10:31 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
and what point would that be? It hurts

Tarmac is hard

Tarmac is rough

graemlins/conf44.gif

LUNACY !

Martin Red

11-19-2003, 10:32 AM

No wonder people in Europe think Americans are mad nutters ;)

And

11-19-2003, 10:39 AM

Originally posted by Martin Red:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
and what point would that be? It hurts

Tarmac is hard

Tarmac is rough

graemlins/conf44.gif

LUNACY ! [/QUOTE]You don't say Mr. Red ... You're feeling my ... befuddlement (?). In a strange way I do understand "snapping" or feelings building up till you feel like doing something "cuckoo." I'm just such a prude I can only ever comfortably "lose it" alone. icon_rofl.gif

Larissa J.

11-19-2003, 10:45 AM

6 23 This does not look bad on your character. We all know that on the scene there are many drama kings and queens. People often tend to take kindness for weakness. You were nice enough to give these people a ride, not once, but twice. If you can't get a ride from the party, you need to have an alternate plan on getting home, like a cab, train or bus.

DLow

11-19-2003, 10:45 AM

I don't think I'd hang around friend 3. She's a nut-case. http://deephousepage.com/smilies/stupid.gif

She gave no thought to the consequences of jumping out of a moving car. Plus it was inconsiderate to make such a request at the last minute in the middle of the night AFTER you've stated 'Hey, listen I'm gonna get out of here shortly cuz I'm tired. Is everyone straight for rides?' To me, that's more than enough. If she was really all about the ride home, she would've spoke up when you made the announcement.

Just my two pennies...

DJ76

11-19-2003, 10:49 AM

(A) I understand Tony Cano's point, being a friend, specially the one driving people home, one should make an effort to be sure everyone gets home safely.... in this day and age, you never know what can happen, specially at 3:30 in the morning.

(B) When someone gives a lift, they are doing people a favor.

(C) When you get a lift from someone, the least you can do is tell the driver where you are going beforehand, specially at 3:30 in the morning and specially when your friend told you he/she is tired.

(D) The only thing I'm not sure about is why you took for granted that 3 was spending the night at 4's? Mind you if they hooked up, then you could assume...

(E) errrr, ya, throwing yourself out of someone else's car, now that's gonna solve the problem.

I don't see where you did wrong... just the "assuming 3 was staying at 4's place" part needs to be cleared.

Bold Soul

11-19-2003, 10:50 AM

None of my biz, but I would reevaluate my whole sphere of people behind that shit. You're rollin' with some unstable characters to be sure. No to mention MANIPULATIVE - wow.

www.friendster.com... (http://www.friendster.com...for)for real... graemlins/jpshakehead.gif

[ November 19, 2003, 10:52 AM: Message edited by: Danny Gardner ]

Larissa J.

11-19-2003, 10:54 AM

DJ76

11-19-2003, 10:57 AM

Originally posted by Larissa J.:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Tony Cano:
perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend. Tony, a true friend would not have jumped her ass out the car and tried to kill herself just because she wasn't getting her way. People have to be held accountable for their own actions. What if she died? Would that have been fair to 6 23? At least he made sure friend 4 was there for her.

Dancing is the root of my passion [/QUOTE]exactly.

oh and 6 23 is a she ;)
and no she's not KAOZ 6:23 :D

[ November 19, 2003, 10:58 AM: Message edited by: DJ76 ]

beaniboy67

11-19-2003, 11:08 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Martin Red:
F3 and F4

Male and female , anything going on behind closed doors, or open doors in this case ?

The girls unstable, that's for sure, perhaps she isn't familiar with the word "control" I don't think so .. I stopped at 7-11 so they could get stuff on the way to his place and they both went in. I stayed in the car. If there was anything between them, I don't think I was in the way, I was dropping them off together ... Is that how you meant your question? [/QUOTE]maybe there was something goin on and he gave her the big NO. she sounds like she was on drugs or something.jumping out of the car while it was moving is a bit nutty if you ask me.

why didnt she just ask to phone a cab from his house then go home?

that would have been the most sensible thing to do i reckon.

i wouldnt beat yourself up about it.i guess if you knew she was gonna react like that you would have gave her a lift home but your not a mind reader.

you are very lucky nothing bad happened to her injury wise when she jumped out and may that be a good lesson to you( not to get involved with people who do crazy shit like that and put you in danger or put you in a situation that you may have had to live with if anything had happened to her.

hope your cool.have a good one smile.gif

And

11-19-2003, 11:10 AM

Originally posted by DJ76:
(D) The only thing I'm not sure about is why you took for granted that 3 was spending the night at 4's? Mind you if they hooked up, then you could assume...
I assumed 3 and 4 were hanging out 'cause 3 was the one that had told me in the club they were hanging out. She'd even invited me to hang out with them. I said I was still going home 'cause I was tired. At the end of the night I saw 1 and 2 get a ride home from someone. 4 was getting a ride with me, she came along, I assumed plans were still the same.

upliftdisco365

11-19-2003, 11:12 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
...'cause the next thing I saw, (the car's going about 15-20 miles per hour) was friend 3 pulling off her seat belt, throwing the car door open and flinging herself onto the road. Mind you it's 3:30 a.m. I heard a thud, saw a flash of red (the colour of her shirt), then road.

... oh shit why did this crazy bitch throw herself out of the car - I've got a little piece of bud on me, I don't need to be stopped by a cop at three in the morning asking why a woman was seen falling out of my car. Eeeewwwww!!! I'm howlin' over here.

If someone takes me from my house, I expect them to bring me back to my house. I don't think that I'd roll with cats who'd handle it any differently. I've had a car for most of my adult life and I'd always take a cat back to the place from which I got him.

I'd never say, "Yo, I'm tired dog, so you need to find another way home.." but that's me. However if I were to say that, then the friend replied, "OK, I'll do so-and-so instead.." then THAT's that friend's new plan. Whatever I do going forward has no bearing on that friend's new plan.

Now as far as leaping your crazy ass out of my car, well, I can always use a good laugh.

Too funny.

darrow

11-19-2003, 11:19 AM

You know ofcourse that those of us who know you are running through the cast of characters you have been seen with and trying to determine who #3 is. :D

DJ76

11-19-2003, 11:22 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by DJ76:
(D) The only thing I'm not sure about is why you took for granted that 3 was spending the night at 4's? Mind you if they hooked up, then you could assume...
I assumed 3 and 4 were hanging out 'cause 3 was the one that had told me in the club they were hanging out. She'd even invited me to hang out with them. I said I was still going home 'cause I was tired. At the end of the night I saw 1 and 2 get a ride home from someone. 4 was getting a ride with me, she came along, I assumed plans were still the same. [/QUOTE]cool.

and just like MHD said, things could've been much worst.
cheers
76

mhd

11-19-2003, 11:23 AM

Originally posted by darrow:
You know ofcourse that those of us who know you are running through the cast of characters you have been seen with and trying to determine who #3 is. :D haha

Brut by Faberge

11-19-2003, 11:23 AM

Originally posted by darrow:
You know ofcourse that those of us who know you are running through the cast of characters you have been seen with and trying to determine who #3 is. :D hahaha! hell yeah...hmmmmmmmm...DC characters...

*darrow: i'm presently LOVING your newest mix, homie graemlins/thumbsup.gif

And

11-19-2003, 11:25 AM

Originally posted by DJ76:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Larissa J.:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Tony Cano:
perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend. Tony, a true friend would not have jumped her ass out the car and tried to kill herself just because she wasn't getting her way. People have to be held accountable for their own actions. What if she died? Would that have been fair to 6 23? At least he made sure friend 4 was there for her.

Dancing is the root of my passion [/QUOTE]exactly.

oh and 6 23 is a she ;)
and no she's not KAOZ 6:23 :D [/QUOTE]But I sure do love him and will jack my own thread just to pay homage!

http://www.spiritofhouse.com/IMAGE/kaoz623.gif

graemlins/1luvu.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
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Larissa, thanks for the kind words. I'm not trying to absolve myself of any fault I may have had in the matter by sharing the story. I guess I'm still amazed by her actions.
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Danny, ultimately what you say is what I'm left thinking. DC's small enough that you can have seen someone around for years without really knowing each other just of each other. 3 and I started hanging out a few months ago (but have seen her around for years). She has been a wonderful source of knowledge and learning for me so I'm not trying to pass her off as just what I've written about here. However, the point of this experience is what I'm left to face. 3's reaction really threw me for a loop. I really can relate to frustration ... It's just sad that because of how this went down, I know I'll never put myself in a position with her where it could happen again.

darrow

11-19-2003, 11:26 AM

(note to self...look for elbow scrapes, signs of limping, and/or bandages when I see any of 6 23's friends)

And thanks THX-1138!

[ November 19, 2003, 11:26 AM: Message edited by: darrow ]

mhd

11-19-2003, 11:27 AM

any word from her since the tuck and roll?

ngeso

11-19-2003, 11:28 AM

6 23,

your friend is sick in the head! cut her loose, fast! she's putting you in predicaments. fuk her, fuk people like that. lemme serenade you some Andre 3000 so you can redeem yourself...

........crazy bitch
stupid ass bitch
old punk ass bitch
old dumbass bitch
a bitch's bitch
just a bitch.........

guidance. ng.

MarkK

11-19-2003, 11:28 AM

Please. This particular person (6 23) is always playing taxi for people, she is very generous driving around in her car, on her gas to help people out.

Originally posted by Tony Cano:
perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend.

DJ76

11-19-2003, 11:34 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by DJ76:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Larissa J.:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Tony Cano:
perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend. Tony, a true friend would not have jumped her ass out the car and tried to kill herself just because she wasn't getting her way. People have to be held accountable for their own actions. What if she died? Would that have been fair to 6 23? At least he made sure friend 4 was there for her.

Dancing is the root of my passion [/QUOTE]exactly.

oh and 6 23 is a she ;)
and no she's not KAOZ 6:23 :D [/QUOTE]But I sure do love him and will jack my own thread just to pay homage!

http://www.spiritofhouse.com/IMAGE/kaoz623.gif

graemlins/1luvu.gif graemlins/rofl.gif
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Larissa, thanks for the kind words. I'm not trying to absolve myself of any fault I may have had in the matter by sharing the story. I guess I'm still amazed by her actions.
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Danny, ultimately what you say is what I'm left thinking. DC's small enough that you can have seen someone around for years without really knowing each other just of each other. 3 and I started hanging out a few months ago (but have seen her around for years). She has been a wonderful source of knowledge and learning for me so I'm not trying to pass her off as just what I've written about here. However, the point of this experience is what I'm left to face. 3's reaction really threw me for a loop. I really can relate to frustration ... It's just sad that because of how this went down, I know I'll never put myself in a position with her where it could happen again. [/QUOTE]damn, hi-jacking your own thread. Thought only I did that graemlins/rofl.gif

Bold Soul

11-19-2003, 11:43 AM

Originally posted by 6 23:
//--Danny, ultimately what you say is what I'm left thinking. DC's small enough that you can have seen someone around for years without really knowing each other just of each other. 3 and I started hanging out a few months ago (but have seen her around for years). She has been a wonderful source of knowledge and learning for me so I'm not trying to pass her off as just what I've written about here. However, the point of this experience is what I'm left to face. 3's reaction really threw me for a loop. I really can relate to frustration ... It's just sad that because of how this went down, I know I'll never put myself in a position with her where it could happen again. This act isn't as "impulsive" at she would allow it to appear. Self-preservation is instinctive of human beings. For her to fling herself out of the car had to have been:

1. WILLFUL - If she's the slightest bit rational, everything in her resisted the notion to jump. She had to push past the fear of hurting herself to make that decision. That's premeditative.

2. CALCULATING - that she threw herself out of the car that she felt you wanted her out of denotes ASSOCIATIVE THINKING.

There has always been a strangely manipulative element to this whole "clubbing" and "singles latching on to each other" post-21 thing. Sad.

If you really want to be wise, take a look at your entire circle and REEVALUATE!

Dee-Dee Sheridan

11-19-2003, 11:50 AM

6:23, the only thing I would've done differently in that situation is after she had flung herself out of your car, I would have Stopped the car, got out to see if she was alright, then ask her why the in the hell would she do something so dumb.

She could have gotten herself killed & or caused someone else to have had an accident trying to avoid hitting her. :eek:

If she's a true friend I would have let her ass have it with both barrels

Hell if she was my friend I would have offered her to spend the night at my house & that I would take her home later on that day. Dropping someone off at 3:30 in the morning on the other side of town is crazy.

[ November 19, 2003, 11:53 AM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]

MYOR

11-19-2003, 11:51 AM

Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
//--Danny, ultimately what you say is what I'm left thinking. DC's small enough that you can have seen someone around for years without really knowing each other just of each other. 3 and I started hanging out a few months ago (but have seen her around for years). She has been a wonderful source of knowledge and learning for me so I'm not trying to pass her off as just what I've written about here. However, the point of this experience is what I'm left to face. 3's reaction really threw me for a loop. I really can relate to frustration ... It's just sad that because of how this went down, I know I'll never put myself in a position with her where it could happen again. This act isn't as "impulsive" at she would allow it to appear. Self-preservation is instinctive of human beings. For her to fling herself out of the car had to have been:

1. WILLFUL - If she's the slightest bit rational, everything in her resisted the notion to jump. She had to push past the fear of hurting herself to make that decision. That's premeditative.

2. CALCULATING - that she threw herself out of the car that she felt you wanted her out of denotes ASSOCIATIVE THINKING.

There has always been a strangely manipulative element to this whole "clubbing" and "singles latching on to each other" post-21 thing. Sad.

If you really want to be wise, take a look at your entire circle and REEVALUATE! [/QUOTE]I've realized that most people you meet while clubbing can only be characterized as acquaintances not true friends.. We must learn to distinguish which is which..

darrow

11-19-2003, 11:55 AM

just to add more of a picture to the scenario...6 23's burb is about 32 miles away from the hot spots.

[ November 19, 2003, 11:55 AM: Message edited by: darrow ]

Bold Soul

11-19-2003, 11:59 AM

Originally posted by MYOR:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
//--Danny, ultimately what you say is what I'm left thinking. DC's small enough that you can have seen someone around for years without really knowing each other just of each other. 3 and I started hanging out a few months ago (but have seen her around for years). She has been a wonderful source of knowledge and learning for me so I'm not trying to pass her off as just what I've written about here. However, the point of this experience is what I'm left to face. 3's reaction really threw me for a loop. I really can relate to frustration ... It's just sad that because of how this went down, I know I'll never put myself in a position with her where it could happen again. This act isn't as "impulsive" at she would allow it to appear. Self-preservation is instinctive of human beings. For her to fling herself out of the car had to have been:

1. WILLFUL - If she's the slightest bit rational, everything in her resisted the notion to jump. She had to push past the fear of hurting herself to make that decision. That's premeditative.

2. CALCULATING - that she threw herself out of the car that she felt you wanted her out of denotes ASSOCIATIVE THINKING.

There has always been a strangely manipulative element to this whole "clubbing" and "singles latching on to each other" post-21 thing. Sad.

If you really want to be wise, take a look at your entire circle and REEVALUATE! [/QUOTE]I've realized that most people you meet while clubbing can only be characterized as acquaintances not true friends.. We must learn to distinguish which is which.. [/QUOTE]Wisdom. And you have some people who attempt to latch on to these "acquaintences" as if they're going to be LIFELONGS. Then a mountain of regrets born of dependency follow.

One cannot make a family out of those you dance and get high with. Even if they're "House".

Brut by Faberge

11-19-2003, 12:10 PM

Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
One cannot make a family out of those you dance and get high with. Even if they're "House". Thank you! And most (not all) of my friends who are "house," are like me:

-stable (career or mentally...either ;) )
-boring
-in a long-term commited relationship
-not interested in seeing my ass everyday/weekend graemlins/rofl.gif
-low-profile and loving it

i have made friends who are wild party bastards too, but they know and respect where i stand on circus silly shit, and are fun and decent with respect to that. not judging anyone...i just know the energy i prefer to be around. continue.

Tony Cano

11-19-2003, 12:47 PM

Originally posted by upliftdisco365:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by 6 23:
...'cause the next thing I saw, (the car's going about 15-20 miles per hour) was friend 3 pulling off her seat belt, throwing the car door open and flinging herself onto the road. Mind you it's 3:30 a.m. I heard a thud, saw a flash of red (the colour of her shirt), then road.

... oh shit why did this crazy bitch throw herself out of the car - I've got a little piece of bud on me, I don't need to be stopped by a cop at three in the morning asking why a woman was seen falling out of my car. Eeeewwwww!!! I'm howlin' over here.

If someone takes me from my house, I expect them to bring me back to my house. I don't think that I'd roll with cats who'd handle it any differently. I've had a car for most of my adult life and I'd always take a cat back to the place from which I got him.

I'd never say, "Yo, I'm tired dog, so you need to find another way home.." but that's me. However if I were to say that, then the friend replied, "OK, I'll do so-and-so instead.." then THAT's that friend's new plan. Whatever I do going forward has no bearing on that friend's new plan.

Now as far as leaping your crazy ass out of my car, well, I can always use a good laugh.

Too funny. [/QUOTE]thanks John. That's how I roll too.

tc smile.gif

And

11-19-2003, 12:47 PM

Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
If you really want to be wise, take a look at your entire circle and REEVALUATE! I used friend so as not to go into lengthy details explaining the club "acquaintanceship" (?). Having lived here as long as I have it would be near impossible not to somehow end up knowing a very large group of people. I do understand being alert but how does one prepare themselves for something like that. Even if I were a complete tool and said "No" to the ride without giving her any reason, I still don't see why the (to me) extreme response. Lesson learnt I hope. It's not just about her. Maybe this is about me needing to be more alert to potential misunderstandings ... Sticking to my initial decisions ... and NEVER giving rides again. icon_rofl.gif (Just kidding on that last one).
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MHD - No I haven't heard from her since. I haven't called her either ...
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Dee-Dee - Had situations been different as in I didn't see her get up and start throwing shit at my car and the fact #4 lived within 2 minutes walk from the site, I would have stopped and checked on her. ;)
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Darrow & THX-1138 - Quit guessing, I'm back to riding solo again.
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Er ... I wanted to read about other people's adventures too. Spill em please!

DJ Keith Porter

11-19-2003, 12:50 PM

Originally posted by THX-1138:
hahaha! i'm speechless!

"tuck n roll, bitch! tuck n roll!" lmao graemlins/rofl.gif That shit was mad funny. In the office rollin!

Nice call! graemlins/thumbsup.gif

DJ76

11-19-2003, 12:54 PM

Originally posted by THX-1138:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
One cannot make a family out of those you dance and get high with. Even if they're "House". Thank you! And most (not all) of my friends who are "house," are like me:

-stable (career or mentally...either ;) )
-boring
-in a long-term commited relationship
-not interested in seeing my ass everyday/weekend graemlins/rofl.gif
-low-profile and loving it

i have made friends who are wild party bastards too, but they know and respect where i stand on circus silly shit, and are fun and decent with respect to that. not judging anyone...i just know the energy i prefer to be around. continue. [/QUOTE]most of my close friends aren't that "House" :(
It really is a pain to hang around with them musically speaking. But yeah, they are decent. It's a question of choosing who you hang out with. My office colleagues are alcoholics, but that's another story.

DJ Keith Porter

11-19-2003, 12:55 PM

Originally posted by THX-1138:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by darrow:
You know ofcourse that those of us who know you are running through the cast of characters you have been seen with and trying to determine who #3 is. :D hahaha! hell yeah...hmmmmmmmm...DC characters...

*darrow: i'm presently LOVING your newest mix, homie graemlins/thumbsup.gif [/QUOTE]Yeah, Im listening to it now.
Nice mix so far Darrow! graemlins/thumbsup.gif

Sorry to change the subject a little 6 23. This is a crazy story and the chick who jumped out the car has got MEDS 4 sure..

Dee-Dee Sheridan

11-19-2003, 12:59 PM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
If you really want to be wise, take a look at your entire circle and REEVALUATE! I used friend so as not to go into lengthy details explaining the club "acquaintanceship" (?). Having lived here as long as I have it would be near impossible not to somehow end up knowing a very large group of people. I do understand being alert but how does one prepare themselves for something like that. Even if I were a complete tool and said "No" to the ride without giving her any reason, I still don't see why the (to me) extreme response. Lesson learnt I hope. It's not just about her. Maybe this is about me needing to be more alert to potential misunderstandings ... Sticking to my initial decisions ... and NEVER giving rides again. icon_rofl.gif (Just kidding on that last one).
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Dee-Dee - Had situations been different as in I didn't see her get up and start throwing shit at my car and the fact #4 lived within 2 minutes walk from the site, I would have stopped and checked on her. ;)
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[/QUOTE]Well I understand your hesitancy but I still would have made sure the gal was alright. Just because she stood up & started throwing things doesn't mean she was ok. After I found out that the girl was ok, I would've cussed her ass out for scaring the shit out of me. She could have put your life in danger too. If someone had clipped your door you could have lost control of the car & been killed.

[ November 19, 2003, 01:23 PM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]

And

11-19-2003, 01:01 PM

Originally posted by Tony Cano:
thanks John. That's how I roll too.
tc smile.gif Hey, guess what? I roll that way too ... It's #3 that rolls out of moving cars

.

.

Badum pum! graemlins/rofl.gif
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So having a car, giving rides automatically means I give rides back? Normally yes, but things do come up. I guess I don't see what I did as being that wrong. There have been occasions we've gone out and the plan was to go back to her place so I didn't have to drive so far home, and at the end of the night she's decided to go elsewhere and I have to drive. Not the original plan, but I wouldn't throw myself in front of her ride or on the street as she walked by to make my point.

icon_rofl.gif

I do see where you're coming from ... I'm just sticking to where I'm coming from on this one.

TAD

11-19-2003, 01:34 PM

once she threw herself out of your car, she decided she didn't need a ride anymore. she also knew she was in close proximity to #4's place so as mr. gardner pointed out, calculated move and in this case many calculations were invloved including the speed at which the vehicle was rolling. i can't see her pulling that stunt at 50 mph. she knew she wasn't going to die & the most damage she would inflict on herself would be some scrapes & bruises. it's not out of the realm of possibility that #3 has attempted suicide.

crazy as it sounds but did you ever think of reaching out to her. maybe she's alone, scared, obviously in a depressed state of sorts. maybe she needs someone. people do over the top things to get attention. maybe the next time she won't be so lucky. reaching out to her in a loving way, but still maintaining a distance surely will not put you in any danger. after all you'd be trying to help her.

DLow

11-19-2003, 01:42 PM

Originally posted by THX-1138:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
One cannot make a family out of those you dance and get high with. Even if they're "House". Thank you! And most (not all) of my friends who are "house," are like me:

-stable (career or mentally...either ;) )
-boring
-in a long-term commited relationship
-not interested in seeing my ass everyday/weekend graemlins/rofl.gif
-low-profile and loving it

i have made friends who are wild party bastards too, but they know and respect where i stand on circus silly shit, and are fun and decent with respect to that. not judging anyone...i just know the energy i prefer to be around. continue. [/QUOTE]That makes two of us. :D

My closest crew members respect all that I do and don't do. That's sayin a lot because those cats are WILD...even in their 30s.

MYOR

11-19-2003, 01:53 PM

A quick side note...

3:30 am is when the party is getting started for me on Friday and Saturday...

6 23 you are an early bird.. icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif

alex zen

11-19-2003, 02:34 PM

another sidenoet: you might as well give me #3's number because i always seem to end up with dramaqueens anyways.

And

11-19-2003, 02:38 PM

Originally posted by MYOR:
A quick side note...

3:30 am is when the party is getting started for me on Friday and Saturday...

6 23 you are an early bird.. icon_rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif Comon now Myor ... It was Sunday night. biggrinangel.gif

So easy a protic can do it (QUAD)

11-19-2003, 02:43 PM

Originally posted by Tony Cano:
perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend. TONY, I'M AFRAID I HAVE TO DISAGREE WITH YOU ON THIS ONE FOR THE FOLLOWING REASONS;

1. NO ONE AND ABSOLUTELY NO ONE INCLUDING "TRUE FRIENDS" SHOULD IMPOSE THEMSELVES ON YOU TO ASSUME U WOULD DROP THEM OFF WITHOUT ASKIN YOU FIRST-THAT'S ONLY RESPECT.

2. BECAUSE 3 WAS WITH 4 THE WHOLE EVENING, NATURALLY ONE WOULD GUESS THOSE TWO WERE "HOOKING UP" FOR THE EVENING SO HE COULDN'T HAVE KNOWN THAT SHE WANTED TO GO HOME AT THAT TIME

3. ALL OF MY "TRUE FRIENDS" KNOW THAT IF I ASK THEM TO TAKE ME HOME, I WILL OFFER GAS MONEY FOR THEIR TROUBLE,'SPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE TO GO OUT OF THEIR WAY TO DO IT, AND MIND YOU, THEY REFUSE THE MONEY AND TAKE ME ANYWAY. AND IF THEY AREN'T UP TO IT, OK, DON'T GET IN A BUNCH ABOUT IT-REMEMBER, IT'S "THEIR CAR", NOT MINE. IT'S ONLY COMMON CURTESY FOR THE DRIVER, WHO HAS TO DO THAT AT 3 AM

4. LAST OF ALL, IT'S "HIS" BIRTHDAY AND HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN DRIVEN AROUND AND TREATED INSTEAD. I ALSO HOPE THE REST OF HIS B-DAY TURNED OUT BETTER.....

...................just and observation, of course

smile.gif smile.gif

[ November 19, 2003, 02:47 PM: Message edited by: DJ QUAD ]

upliftdisco365

11-19-2003, 02:46 PM

Originally posted by Cosmic_Twin:
once she threw herself out of your car, she decided she didn't need a ride anymore. This is the best comment ever made ANYWHERE.

ncho

11-19-2003, 02:58 PM

was 3 smoking herb too?...maybe she thought she could fly....that happens, you know...

peace,
-g-

DJ76

11-19-2003, 03:08 PM

Originally posted by DJ QUAD:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Tony Cano:
perhaps your definition of a friend is different than mine. if i go out with friends and stay to the end of the party, there is no way in hell that i am letting them cab it or bus it home. unless, of course they hook up with someone or find an alternate ride home. maybe its just me, but i would go out of my way for a true friend. TONY, I'M AFRAID I HAVE TO DISAGREE WITH YOU ON THIS ONE FOR THE FOLLOWING REASONS;

1. NO ONE AND ABSOLUTELY NO ONE INCLUDING "TRUE FRIENDS" SHOULD IMPOSE THEMSELVES ON YOU TO ASSUME U WOULD DROP THEM OFF WITHOUT ASKIN YOU FIRST-THAT'S ONLY RESPECT.

2. BECAUSE 3 WAS WITH 4 THE WHOLE EVENING, NATURALLY ONE WOULD GUESS THOSE TWO WERE "HOOKING UP" FOR THE EVENING SO HE COULDN'T HAVE KNOWN THAT SHE WANTED TO GO HOME AT THAT TIME

3. ALL OF MY "TRUE FRIENDS" KNOW THAT IF I ASK THEM TO TAKE ME HOME, I WILL OFFER GAS MONEY FOR THEIR TROUBLE,'SPECIALLY IF THEY HAVE TO GO OUT OF THEIR WAY TO DO IT, AND MIND YOU, THEY REFUSE THE MONEY AND TAKE ME ANYWAY. AND IF THEY AREN'T UP TO IT, OK, DON'T GET IN A BUNCH ABOUT IT-REMEMBER, IT'S "THEIR CAR", NOT MINE. IT'S ONLY COMMON CURTESY FOR THE DRIVER, WHO HAS TO DO THAT AT 3 AM

4. LAST OF ALL, IT'S "HIS" BIRTHDAY AND HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN DRIVEN AROUND AND TREATED INSTEAD. I ALSO HOPE THE REST OF HIS B-DAY TURNED OUT BETTER.....

...................just and observation, of course

smile.gif smile.gif [/QUOTE]6:23 you're really confusing people with that name graemlins/rofl.gif

Now.... where is your pic dear? Gotta stop the confusion.... or do you like to leave it that way graemlins/cool_shades.gif

jimmymack-2000

11-19-2003, 03:40 PM

You should have thrown it in reverse and backed up over your dum-dum friend...

And

11-19-2003, 03:46 PM

Originally posted by DJ76:
6:23 you're really confusing people with that name graemlins/rofl.gif
Now.... where is your pic dear? Gotta stop the confusion.... or do you like to leave it that way graemlins/cool_shades.gif When people think I'm a guy I get a chuckle out of it. It's not a big deal to me so I usually don't correct. When they think I'm Kaoz though, I speak up right away. graemlins/grinyes.gif
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CosmicTwin:

"crazy as it sounds but did you ever think of reaching out to her. maybe she's alone, scared, obviously in a depressed state of sorts. maybe she needs someone. people do over the top things to get attention. maybe the next time she won't be so lucky. reaching out to her in a loving way, but still maintaining a distance surely will not put you in any danger."

I think the lesson was for me to know my limits and make sure they are always clear. Also knowing when to say enough is enough.

[ November 19, 2003, 03:52 PM: Message edited by: 6 23 ]

DJ76

11-19-2003, 03:50 PM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by DJ76:
6:23 you're really confusing people with that name graemlins/rofl.gif
Now.... where is your pic dear? Gotta stop the confusion.... or do you like to leave it that way graemlins/cool_shades.gif When people think I'm a guy I get a chuckle out of it. It's not a big deal to me so I usually don't correct. When they think I'm Kaoz though, I speak up right away. graemlins/grinyes.gif [/QUOTE]graemlins/rofl.gif
Afraid you might not be able to provide those sick basslines?

Bold Soul

11-19-2003, 03:54 PM

6 23 - thanks for the further inspiration!

http://www.boldsoul.com/images/houseisdead2.jpg

Brut by Faberge

11-19-2003, 03:56 PM

Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
6 23 - thanks for the further inspiration!

http://www.boldsoul.com/images/houseisdead2.jpg okay...what is with the green people with jherri curls?

MusicFilter

11-19-2003, 04:03 PM

It just goes to show

NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED!

That chick has problems jumping out of the car like that! I probably would have pulled over because I'd be laughing so hard I couldn't drive. icon_rofl.gif

Next time remember this it keeps so-called friends from hitching a ride with you....

ASS, GRASS OR GAS- NOBODY RIDES FOR FREE!

MusicFilter

11-19-2003, 04:10 PM

Originally posted by Martin Red:

Proper Doo lally , ga ga !

graemlins/lol.gif icon_rofl.gif

And

11-19-2003, 04:18 PM

Originally posted by DJ76:
graemlins/rofl.gif
Afraid you might not be able to provide those sick basslines? Sick basslines? Sure! Once I've mastered getting the needle to start at the beginning of the record so I don't have to turn off the turn table every time I want a song to start properly, then I'll drop some sick basslines on 'em! icon_rofl.gif

Dee-Dee Sheridan

11-19-2003, 04:29 PM

Originally posted by chgodj3:
It just goes to show

That chick has problems jumping out of the car like that! I probably would have pulled over because I'd be laughing so hard I couldn't drive. icon_rofl.gif Hahahahaha you crazy icon_rofl.gif

[ November 19, 2003, 04:30 PM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]

ngeso

11-19-2003, 04:42 PM

Originally posted by 6 23:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by DJ76:
graemlins/rofl.gif
Afraid you might not be able to provide those sick basslines? Sick basslines? Sure! Once I've mastered getting the needle to start at the beginning of the record so I don't have to turn off the turn table every time I want a song to start properly, then I'll drop some sick basslines on 'em! icon_rofl.gif [/QUOTE]nice, the way you say 'properly'. love the English. erm......carry on then... graemlins/all_coholic.gif

(Im)poster

11-19-2003, 08:28 PM

Originally posted by 6 23:
Er ... I wanted to read about other people's adventures too. Spill em please! Was trying to read the whole thread, but...

I don't have any adventures like that, but I can relate to being the one with the car. Let's consider, too, that all of those folks would have had to come out the pocket for a cab if you weren't there to give them a ride. Do they ever offer you anything for gas? Friendship goes both ways IMO. Maybe I'm just selfish, but it's going to get old if I always have to drive out of my way to pick up a "friend" and take that friend home, too. My momma always taught me to offer someone money for gas if they gave me a ride. I got tired of shuttling folks around and then being the one to get the $50 ticket for parking at the wrong spot outside the club. Did any of my "friends" who were happy to accept the free ride even offer to help with the ticket, let alone gas? Not one.
As others have said, some people are not real friends.

Pete Nice

11-19-2003, 08:53 PM

you want adventure? how about misadventure? here ya go....
so it's my best friend, my ex-girl, her friend and me. the scene: a friends party @his apartment and a whole bunch of alcohol and bad attitude, ill will, bitterness & raw hatered. so we're all outside arguing over something minor, i'm sure. at this point i'm losing it and get in my ex-girls face. not touching or handling. i don't do that. then she starts yelling about "what are you gonna do, hit me?" lound enough to get attention. then starts yelling to her friend, "see how he is, the abuse i gotta take." i've never hit a woman in my life. NEVER! so now i'm pissed and telling her to fvck off. now i'm loud and i hate causing scenes, but it's on now. everybody has come out of the apartment to watch. uggh. then some jack-off yells out his window "shut the fvck up!" so i tell him to come down and make me. childish i know, but now i do want to hurt someone. so he keeps talkin' 'ish and i'm done so i run up the stairs of his building to find him. i don't mess around. my friend has to tackle and hold me down. i finally cool out. the guy yelling shut the hell up. i'm now yelling at my ex-girl telling her i can go jail with her talking that kind of 'ish in front of people. her and her friend wind up walking a long long long way home. i mean long and thru some bad hoods. at that point i didn't give a rats azz. that's my story and i wish it wasn't.

[ November 19, 2003, 08:56 PM: Message edited by: square root ]

BHouse

11-19-2003, 09:57 PM

http://homepages.nildram.co.uk/~culttv/fallguytitle.jpg

The whole time I was reading your story 6 23, I kept picturing this old television show... icon_rofl.gif Anyway, that was funny as hell... I would have stopped the car to see if she was all right then killed her... Someone said that she knew she was not going to die... Hell people die climbing out of the bathtub... Still no excuse... I am sure everything happened the way you say...
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Now let me give you one of mine... Back in '91, I got a call from one of my guys I grew up with in Atlanta who wanted me to come down for Freaknik for the first time... Unfortunately, I just paid my car note, insurance and rent and had only $10 in my pocket... So he convinced me to find some friends who wanted to come down who would be willing to pay for gas and he would provide the place for us all the sleep... He would also give me some spending money once I get there... I agreed... Two female friends (1 and 2)of mine said they wouldn't mind paying for gas. I was providing the transportation and a place to sleep. Good deal...
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I drive to Atlanta with $10 in my pocket... So we get there and my guy got a house full of people from Chicago staying with him. I meet Female 3 who is from my neighborhood that I never met. Its all good. We party, drink, smoke and kick it... While there, I take Female 1 and 2 to the liquor store to get some drink. When I come out of the liquor store, there are two guys sitting in the back of my jeep. I am like WTF... I tell the guys, "YO...GET OUT OF MY JEEP..." So the guys looking at me like who the fvck are you...? The females ain't said a word... Now I go into my deep, acting like I'm crazy voice, "MOTHERFVCKER'S GET THE FVCK OUT OF MY SH*T", but deep down I am spooked because I am 1000 miles from home w/$10... The guys say, "The b*tches said we could get in..." "N*GGAZ ya'll better get out of my car..."as I put the brown paper bag on the ground thinking I have to fight these two... So they jump out talking crazy under their breath... Now I starting snapping on Female 1 and 2... They say the guys just jumped in...I am pissed.
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Now the next day its time for us to go home... Female 3 says she would like to ride back with me and Female 1 and 2. I say it cool. Female 1 and 2 ask if it is OK for they to ride back with some other people since we are going back to Chicago... Like I a dummy I say fine, as long as you guys don't run off and leave me...I even tell the driver what the deal was and he was like cool don't worry about it...(they are still paying for gas)I am in the car putting my MACK down on Female 3, when I look up car with Female 1 and 2 are gone... So I am panicking, but trying to be cool in front of Female 3... I finally tell her I have no money or gas... Luckily she had a cash station card, but it took us a while to find one that would accept her card... When I finally made it home, I couldn't contact Female 1 and 2 for a couple of months... Then I heard that they were telling everyone I owed them gas money... graemlins/cussing.gif

[ November 19, 2003, 10:14 PM: Message edited by: BHouse ]