Would you date a Stripper?

[Mack-Williams]

I ask this because some of these strippers be fine ass hell, but when it comes to money some will do anything. I went to a strip club last night, beautiful black girls with bodies out of this world. I don't know if I could handle a serious relationship with one, but I would date one.

[Basecore Boy]

I would for one week only. Then I would have to break it off. After I have my fun. graemlins/acclaim.gif

[JMJ]

Date????? No.......JMJ biggrinangel.gif

[Jamie 3:26]

I have a buddy who is dating a notorious stripper here in Chi.Girl has been around the block more than a few times.He's about the paper and so is she,so I guess they are cool.

I have not dated strippers,but have had a few who I have dealt with once in a while. ;)

If she is in one of those clubs where there is no touching and no side whoring,I could be cool with it.Not for wifey material,but a buddy...yes. ;)

[MC]

I wouldn't date, but I would wanna be VERY good friends ;) . I would just be really cool with them, and have some HOT fun hail.gif

[Ken1015]

I absolutely would date a stripper. I hate to generalize any group of people since I am sure there are good and bad in all of them. A relationship with a member of the sex industry is no different than one with a regular civilian. The key is to find one with the mental qualities you like.

[JMJ]

Originally posted by Soulful1015:
I absolutely would date a stripper. I hate to generalize any group of people since I am sure there are good and bad in all of them. A relationship with a member of the sex industry is no different than one with a regular civilian. The key is to find one with the mental qualities you like. I like tittie glitter. Is that a mental quality??.....JMJ

[Mack-Williams]

It's a nortorious one that has been calling me. I have been kind of hesitant to mess around with her, to many stories I have heard, but I know she would freak the hell out of me.

[jeremy]

I dated one for a while, but she was actually one of the most boring girls i have been with.
Other people have told me similar stories.

It all depends on the individual, and what you are looking for, but put it this way, Someone who makes you laugh while on stage/tv, may not be that funny in person.

I was young at the time, and it did my rep a lot of good though!

[Koffy Brown]

Originally posted by Mack-Williams:
It's a nortorious one that has been calling me. I have been kind of hesitant to mess around with her, to many stories I have heard, but I know she would freak the hell out of me. giving up too many dollars...

[Jamie 3:26]

Well,for the few I had kicked it with,they were duds in the sack.Dancin' and making love are two totally different things.

[ibddj]

Originally posted by Mack-Williams:
It's a nortorious one that has been calling me. I have been kind of hesitant to mess around with her, to many stories I have heard, but I know she would freak the hell out of me. Are you sure it aint Jamies buddy's girl.haha. I don't think I would have a real relationship,but a 3:00am after the club relationship yea.

[floorgasm]

i did. dude was foin too. 18 years old and i know it sounds cliche, but he was the best damn sex i ever had.

[P-Flipp]

Strippers are people who need to be held,listened
to and respected just like any around the way girl.Some of those girls are just trying to survive by the use of their um, "assets".I would date one but would have to accept the murky territory that goes along with it.

[Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand]

Originally posted by jeremy:
I dated one for a while, but she was actually one of the most boring girls i have been with.
Other people have told me similar stories.

It all depends on the individual, and what you are looking for, but put it this way, Someone who makes you laugh while on stage/tv, may not be that funny in person.

I was young at the time, and it did my rep a lot of good though! I dated a stripper, he performed better for an audience and don't get me started about intimacy -ICK! http://deephousepage.com/smilies/eviltongue.gif

[The Donger]

Originally posted by jeremy:
I dated one for a while, but she was actually one of the most boring girls i have been with.Ditto.

[AD]

Would I date a stripper? Hmmmmm...let me think about that? Ok, I'm done and the answer is--duh! of course. smokin.gif

[richierich]

Yes I would, for me it's not about what she does for a living it's what we do for each other.
Peace

[fred da warrior]

I dated one for a minute and she was actually kinda cool on the mental tip. She was doing that whole "I'm stripping to put myself through college shite." Anyway, like a few have said, the sparks on stage didn't exactly spark anything extra in the bedroom. But boy, when she did "make it clap", it sounded like thunder :D

[HML]

This is a good question... I would not want to be seriously involved with a woman who was actively stripping. I wouldn't mind partaking of the goods though. graemlins/grinyes.gif To me, a woman who possesses a mentality that would allow her to take her clothes off and shake her ass to make money is not someone I would be willing to "bet the bank on" in a real relationship... I believe that most strippers share a venomous disdain for men. They see us as "marks". They use our lust against us. They give as little as they can and take as much as they can get... Their modus operandi is "How can I separate this dumbass sucker from his cash?"! Why would any man in his right mind want to be with a woman like that? I doubt seriously if I'd even want to get with a woman who USED to strip. graemlins/jpshakehead.gif Nice girls don't STRIP... PERIOD!!

-HML

[Erob the One]

Ya'll some simple mutha****ers - I can see you now: "Mom, this is my soulmate and her name is Extascy!" Stupid ass - that is what they are in the biz for is to get suckers like you to fall in love and next thing you know pockets empty as hell. I am from Detroit - the trickin' capital of the world. It is a fine art form, because they specialize in making you feel like you are special - what a sucka!!!!

Erob

[Erob the One]

By the way, let me quote one of the most underrated rappers of our time - Willie D from the Geto Boys "Let a Hoe be a Hoe"

Erob

[Ronnie Ron]

I would date a stripper if she had her head on straight, Dont know if i would date one that was ho ing on the side, that wouldnt be cool but if she was doin the do (Stripping) to get her to another place in life why not support her just make sure you are the only one using the ol dip stick on her..... ;)

Strippers are people to DAMMIT!!!

[ultra]

I 'dated' a foine ass stripper once...but we sure didn't have a 'relationship'...maybe a 'magnum' type of thang!

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[Dr. Freud]

I dated a stripper for 8 months, and I have to say she was great. Completely professional at work (nothing "extra"), and a great girl at home. She had no problems with intimacy, and she could f**k like a champion (I swear I could hear her humming the "Rocky" soundtrack sometimes when she was ridin'). She moved out of state so we ended it.

[Wild i]

Stripper, yes. Hooker, no.

[RX]

yep - but not for long...male stripper shave chest and leg hair - how feminine can one get?

[ROB]

I dated a stripper about a year ago. It was cool but extremley hard to take her seriously. Once she took me out to dinner and all the money in her purse was balled up and folded in half. She was cool but outside of the bedroom, I couldnt hold a conversation with her.

[richierich]

Why would anybody date but not take someone serious? What's the point? If they are good enough to screw then they should be good enough foe whatever else. I mean you'd give you body to someone but she aint good enouhg for anything else? If you don't have respect for the one that you are dating then maybe you don't respect yourself either. That's like "Oh yeah I'd **** her but she aint nothin' but a ho". Well what are you? Maybe if there were men on this board capable of even having the body to strip, let alone the moves then you should think that noone could possibly want you seriously either. Y'all need to cut the bullshit. When you get Miss Polly Pure Bred and get her home and in bed and find out what she won't do instead of what she will then you want to dip off with somenoe who will get down. Please.... what's Really going on?

[mhd]

would you date a ballerina?

[Balactus]

i'd definately date a stripper.
i'd also date a pornstar
but i wouldn't date a prostitute.

w

[Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand]

Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
yep - but not for long...male stripper shave chest and leg hair - how feminine can one get? That's because some of them have drag queen shows to do. Have you ever noticed that some of them arch their eyebrows too? How sexy is that? Those poor women that don't know graemlins/jpshakehead.gif graemlins/rofl.gif

[TAD]

Originally posted by richierich:
Why would anybody date but not take someone serious? What's the point? If they are good enough to screw then they should be good enough foe whatever else. I mean you'd give you body to someone but she aint good enouhg for anything else? If you don't have respect for the one that you are dating then maybe you don't respect yourself either. That's like "Oh yeah I'd **** her but she aint nothin' but a ho". Well what are you? Maybe if there were men on this board capable of even having the body to strip, let alone the moves then you should think that noone could possibly want you seriously either. Y'all need to cut the bullshit. When you get Miss Polly Pure Bred and get her home and in bed and find out what she won't do instead of what she will then you want to dip off with somenoe who will get down. Please.... what's Really going on? hail.gif

[Shalewa]

Went to one show in college and was repulsed by the experience. Have since dated a few and been chased by a few more...
They seem to need more attention/adulation than most men and one got cut off because I frankly I got tired of his "hey look at me" foolishness and his acting like I should swoon at his very presence. Next.

I dated one seriously and he was really a great person on many levels. His having been a stripper didn't really figure into the relationship at all (except for when I was broke and he asked me if I would ever consider...).

I find that strippers, who for some reason seem to approach me a lot, are more aggressive in their initial approaches and expect that because some people are willing to pay to see them naked you are supposed to fling panties in their faces. That is a pretty big turn off to me and even though I had one really great relationship with a stripper I generally am not open to their attentions at this point.

[Shalewa]

Originally posted by mhd:
would you date a ballerina? Or any other dancer?

When I lived in Atlanta i was constantly explaining that I was not "that kind of dancer." Folks have interesting ideas about what being with a dancer is about to say the least.

[Tenyu]

Originally posted by HML:
This is a good question... I would not want to be seriously involved with a woman who was actively stripping. I wouldn't mind partaking of the goods though. graemlins/grinyes.gif To me, a woman who possesses a mentality that would allow her to take her clothes off and shake her ass to make money is not someone I would be willing to "bet the bank on" in a real relationship... I believe that most strippers share a venomous disdain for men. They see us as "marks". They use our lust against us. They give as little as they can and take as much as they can get... Their modus operandi is "How can I separate this dumbass sucker from his cash?"! Why would any man in his right mind want to be with a woman like that? I doubt seriously if I'd even want to get with a woman who USED to strip. graemlins/jpshakehead.gif Nice girls don't STRIP... PERIOD!!

-HML not all strippers are looking to bank off of a guy outside of work because they already make enough(more than most of us) stripping. the problem is with the 18 year old intelligent girls who get caught up in the money so early on that it turns into more than a means to pay for college, you become what you do. so they have these schizophrenic tendencies because they think they can separate work from their "real" lives... i end up losing all attraction when i feel sorry for them

[lola desire]

Originally posted by Cosmic_Twin:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Why would anybody date but not take someone serious? What's the point? If they are good enough to screw then they should be good enough foe whatever else. I mean you'd give you body to someone but she aint good enouhg for anything else? If you don't have respect for the one that you are dating then maybe you don't respect yourself either. That's like "Oh yeah I'd **** her but she aint nothin' but a ho". Well what are you? Maybe if there were men on this board capable of even having the body to strip, let alone the moves then you should think that noone could possibly want you seriously either. Y'all need to cut the bullshit. When you get Miss Polly Pure Bred and get her home and in bed and find out what she won't do instead of what she will then you want to dip off with somenoe who will get down. Please.... what's Really going on? hail.gif </font>[/QUOTE]word. you said it richie.

[lola desire]

question:

if you dated a stripper and the two of you went out to dinner and you left a tip on the table... do you think the stripper you're dating sees the singles differently than you?

bonus question:

if the stripper were paying, how would you feel if you noticed that all the bills had a lengthwise crease?

[Tenyu]

Originally posted by lola desire:
question:

if you dated a stripper and the two of you went out to dinner and you left a tip on the table... do you think the stripper you're dating sees the singles differently than you?

bonus question:

if the stripper were paying, how would you feel if you noticed that all the bills had a lengthwise crease? strippers tip better than anybody else

[lola desire]

Originally posted by Tenyu:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by lola desire:
question:

if you dated a stripper and the two of you went out to dinner and you left a tip on the table... do you think the stripper you're dating sees the singles differently than you?

bonus question:

if the stripper were paying, how would you feel if you noticed that all the bills had a lengthwise crease? strippers tip better than anybody else </font>[/QUOTE]i can see that.

[Jamie 3:26]

Since brother Rich has spoken,there's nothing left for me to say. hail.gif

[Wild i]

Would you date Demi Moore, Sharon Stone, Halle Berry?

What about Kevin Cosner, Jamie Foxx, Wesley Snipes?

All these folks are strippers of sort. They just have a larger audience and get bigger bank.

A person is not necessarily defined by the job he/she performs. I would not date anyone who had sex for a living (hookers, porn stars, etc) because it simply is not safe (healthy). On the other hand, I would not judge a person harshly because they strip for a living.

As far as sloppy money is concerned, that annoys me no matter who it is. In that case I'd be better off dating a blind person.

[mhd]

what if you only had sex for meals?

[Mack-Williams]

Originally posted by richierich:
Why would anybody date but not take someone serious? What's the point? If they are good enough to screw then they should be good enough foe whatever else. I mean you'd give you body to someone but she aint good enouhg for anything else? If you don't have respect for the one that you are dating then maybe you don't respect yourself either. That's like "Oh yeah I'd **** her but she aint nothin' but a ho". Well what are you? Maybe if there were men on this board capable of even having the body to strip, let alone the moves then you should think that noone could possibly want you seriously either. Y'all need to cut the bullshit. When you get Miss Polly Pure Bred and get her home and in bed and find out what she won't do instead of what she will then you want to dip off with somenoe who will get down. Please.... what's Really going on? So true.

[DJJM3.COM]

Originally posted by jeremy:
I dated one for a while, but she was actually one of the most boring girls i have been with.
Other people have told me similar stories.

It all depends on the individual, and what you are looking for, but put it this way, Someone who makes you laugh while on stage/tv, may not be that funny in person.

I was young at the time, and it did my rep a lot of good though! They make horrible sex partners. Its like they turned off their sexuality(from performing so much). I dated a couple of strippers in college. I might as well been abstinant.........

[RX]

Originally posted by lola desire:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Cosmic_Twin:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Why would anybody date but not take someone serious? What's the point? If they are good enough to screw then they should be good enough foe whatever else. I mean you'd give you body to someone but she aint good enouhg for anything else? If you don't have respect for the one that you are dating then maybe you don't respect yourself either. That's like "Oh yeah I'd **** her but she aint nothin' but a ho". Well what are you? Maybe if there were men on this board capable of even having the body to strip, let alone the moves then you should think that noone could possibly want you seriously either. Y'all need to cut the bullshit. When you get Miss Polly Pure Bred and get her home and in bed and find out what she won't do instead of what she will then you want to dip off with somenoe who will get down. Please.... what's Really going on? hail.gif </font>[/QUOTE]word. you said it richie. </font>[/QUOTE]oh, gosh - how shallow can you guys be to associate dating with having sex...dating is to get to learn about not only the person you are dating but yourself as well...how did dating all of a sudden equal sex?

[richierich]

Well Rickey X what do you think that we want??

[RX]

Originally posted by richierich:
Well Rickey X what do you think that we want?? men - an arm trophy
women - a free meal

don't those count for anything? why the sex? it just confuses you and make you have to use up more precious water - unless you conserve by showering together...hee-hee... graemlins/cheering.gif

[Jamie 3:26]

The women I had relationships with,I never got them into bed right away.The women I had realtions with is another story.Sometimes you meet someone you want to know more about.Sometimes you meet someone you know you want to phuck and that's it.

[dennis f]

nah...it'd be too creepy paying for everything with one dollar bills!

yeah i could see it now...

her: "I got you a gift for yer birthday.."
me: " uh honey this 60' t.v. is 3500.00!!"
her: "don't worry baby ...i got it with tip money.."

me: " oh that's why Poochie told me she saw at Circuit City and thought you was doin' the laundry!!...uhh you brought the bag back..right?"
graemlins/jpshakehead.gif
peace
dee!

[richierich]

Originally posted by Ms Rickey X:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
Well Rickey X what do you think that we want?? men - an arm trophy
women - a free meal

don't those count for anything? why the sex? it just confuses you and make you have to use up more precious water - unless you conserve by showering together...hee-hee... graemlins/cheering.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Not to trivialize anything that you've said, but we actually would like more than sex, the whole package, but don't for a minute think that we don't want the panties. We may do all of the things that you want ie; movies, dinner meeting the parents being there when you need us emotionally etc. but still we want the poonany. Some are willing to go the extra mile to get it and some are just out with it from jump street. Yeah we may talk about world affairs, politics, walking in the rain and all that but don't give up the drawers and see what happens or should I say not happens. Dating will lead to sex if you two are vibing like that if not Oh well!!
Oh yeah, who on this board aint having sex??? I bet if they aren't they wish that they were.
Peace

[Pete Nice]

i'll try most anything at least once, but she would have to pay the first couple of dates just i wouldn't feel like i was getting played right a way.

[kayotv]

I was in a relationship with a stripper in college. She had just stopped about 2 months into our relationship.

And, she was no dummy by no means. very upfront. She always reminded me that her mom told her to always be a lady outside the bedroom and be a freak in the bedroom. She lived up to it and was all that. Still, It ended when she graduated and moved on to work at ICM and started dating Black Rob...

I was like "WHOA!"

1
k!

[jcapeverde]

I've been with two strippers and it was strictly for sex. no dating at all.

[JMJ]

Originally posted by jcapeverde:
I've been with two strippers and it was strictly for sex. no dating at all. How much were they??.....JMJ

[RX]

mr. rich, i understand all that, love...however, the question is:
"would you DATE a stripper?"
not
"would you FUKK a stripper?"

big difference...even if one leads to the other, "dating" and "fukking" are two different things - if you don't think so, don't let your daughters go out on a "date" - ever... graemlins/beerchug.gif

here's a couple 'o questions:
do you "date" with the intention of "fukking"?
do you "fukk" with the intention of "dating"?

[ March 14, 2003, 06:42 PM: Message edited by: Ms Rickey X ]

[Germain]

Have you ever met someone and right away...you know how it feels vibes!!!!!!!!!!! Strong get down to it vibes!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[melodic]

It's a nortorious one that has been calling me. I have been kind of hesitant to mess around with her, to many stories I have heard, but I know she would freak the hell out of me.

a true test of "moral" fibers.

If I wasn't engage, I would'nt date a stripper.

[melodic]

This is a good question... I would not want to be seriously involved with a woman who was actively stripping. I wouldn't mind partaking of the goods though. To me, a woman who possesses a mentality that would allow her to take her clothes off and shake her ass to make money is not someone I would be willing to "bet the bank on" in a real relationship... I believe that most strippers share a venomous disdain for men. They see us as "marks". They use our lust against us. They give as little as they can and take as much as they can get... Their modus operandi is "How can I separate this dumbass sucker from his cash?"! Why would any man in his right mind want to be with a woman like that? I doubt seriously if I'd even want to get with a woman who USED to strip. Nice girls don't STRIP... PERIOD!!


True indeed

[jcapeverde]

Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by jcapeverde:
I've been with two strippers and it was strictly for sex. no dating at all. How much were they??.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]The first one was a childhood sweetheart from 8th grade. She moved but we found each other in high school and hung out for awhile. We went our separate ways but hooked up 10 years later. She was stripping then but I never saw her "work". I got mine before or we hooked up after she finished. Drugs eventually took its toll and she did 2 bids in Albion. I saw her years later once but she was not the same. The other one lives in my neighborhood and I met her before she stripped. We were basically booty calls for each other when our significant others acted up. She no longer strips and I run into her now & then She gave me an open invitation to spend the night whenever we can escape our partners. I haven't taken her up on it yet but, one never knows, do one!