Don't shoot the messanger...its just funny...

[TAC]

A Rant about Mariage..."Nomarriage.com" (http://www.nomarriage.com/)

Word, I just found it, so don't chew my head off. Perleeease!


Peace
TAC

[liL Ray]

heah boss, yu ah come out anytime dis weekend....weh?

[MYOR]

There is 95% probability that your future wife will become a nagging bitch who will make your life miserable and ass-rape you in divorce court.

Thats so evil... but my friend won't marry cuz of that.. Two of his friends got everything taken away in court they work just to pay alamony(sp) :(

[mhd]

Originally posted by MYOR:
There is 95% probability that your future wife will become a nagging bitch who will make your life miserable and ass-rape you in divorce court.

Thats so evil... but my friend won't marry cuz of that.. Two of his friends got everything taken away in court they work just to pay alamony(sp) :( those cats need to get married again to help pay them bills

[GrantB]

I used to pay a lot for sex, like my whole salary.
Then I got a dicorce and now sex is easy, fun and free!
graemlins/lol.gif

[TAC]

Originally posted by liL Ray:
heah boss, yu ah come out anytime dis weekend....weh? Domestic duties are calling this weekend. I'll PM you from home. But for now, I am trying to make Tyrone's birthday party tonight for starters.

[Jamie 3:26]

Regardless of what some folks may think,some of that shit is very true.....

[TAC]

Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
Regardless of what some folks may think,some of that shit is very true..... Some of it is true, but rule number one, marry for the right reasons and you'll save "yourself" a lot of grief.

Peace
TAC

[ July 02, 2003, 04:58 PM: Message edited by: TAC ]

[Moksha]

as men, we all know that a woman's primary objective is to marry. after years of experience i've discovered their most commonly used strategy. here it is:

1. Girl pressures guy for marriage.

2. Guy delays.

3. Girl gradually starts destroying guy's self-esteem and eliminating his friends.

4. Guy becomes too weak and too much of a loser to find something better than what he has.

5. Girl starts to limit sex. In effect controlling the only good thing in the guy's life.

6. Guy is in despair. Capitulates to marriage.

Then 5-10 yrs later the guy is an empty shell of his former self. Girl is a ruthless manipulating machine. Girl divorces loser husband. Girl takes 80% of guy's stuff because the guy is too brain dead to find a good lawyer. Girl lives happily ever after. Guy becomes bald alcoholic who dies of heart attack at 45 yrs old.

[GrantB]

Nice one TAC, I'm going to send this to one of my friends who was talking some pretty scary shit last night.

[ July 02, 2003, 05:03 PM: Message edited by: GrantB ]

[mhd]

Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
Regardless of what some folks may think,some of that shit is very true..... Some of it is true, but rule number one, marry for the right reasons and you'll save "yourself" a lot of grief.

Peace
TAC </font>[/QUOTE]kinda reminds me of Band of Brothers, cats did not want to be surrounded at Bastogne, in the middle of winter, no ammo, no winter clothing, no hot food, just living in foxholes, waiting for a mortar shell to end it quickly

[Ken1015]

Originally posted by Orion : Konbit:

Then 5-10 yrs later the guy is an empty shell of his former self. Girl is a ruthless manipulating machine. Girl divorces loser husband. Girl takes 80% of guy's stuff because the guy is too brain dead to find a good lawyer. Girl lives happily ever after. Guy becomes bald alcoholic who dies of heart attack at 45 yrs old. http://websmileys.bei.t-online.de/div169.gif Bravo! Cheers! Let me know when your first novel comes out. You have a vivid imagination and a gift for relating fantasy. The reality of the matter is that after the divorce it is then the woman who suffers. The man is invigorated because he's free. She is now stuck with the kids and has only his small child support checks to supplement her meager income. Alimony is a myth. Very few people pay it. She had to move in with her parents while he gets a new bachelor pad. He starts dating and hooks up with a hot younger chick while she is stuck with bottom feeders because the likelihood of any woman meeting someone decent once she passes the age of 30 is slim to none. It's even lower for one with kids.

This is a purely misogynistic site and the "don't shoot the messenger" defense doesn't work. It's pure garbage.

[mdpm99]

By all means marry: If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.

--Socrates

[TAC]

Originally posted by Ken1015:
Bravo! Cheers! Let me know when your first novel comes out. You have a vivid imagination and a gift for relating fantasy. The reality of the matter is that after the divorce it is then the woman who suffers. The man is invigorated because he's free. She is now stuck with the kids and has only his small child support checks to supplement her meager income. Alimony is a myth. Very few people pay it. She had to move in with her parents while he gets a new bachelor pad. He starts dating and hooks up with a hot younger chick while she is stuck with bottom feeders because the likelihood of any woman meeting someone decent once she passes the age of 30 is slim to none. It's even lower for one with kids.

This is a purely misogynistic site and the "don't shoot the messenger" defense doesn't work. It's pure garbage. Whateverrrrrrrr... . Your said any, i can find quite a few exceptions to you ANY... .

Like I said, whateverrrrrrrr... .

[ July 03, 2003, 10:27 AM: Message edited by: TAC ]

[mercado]

Originally posted by david mancuso:
By all means marry: If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.

--Socrates was this before or after his first sip of hemlock? smile.gif

[MYOR]

woman meeting someone decent once she passes the age of 30 is slim to none. SHITz, I'm over the hill.. Well I guess the fact that I look 24yrs old work to my advantage http://deephousepage.com/smilies/scratchchin.gif

But i do agree with the rest,usually the women are left the the short end of the stick if they have kids..

[Discogoddess]

Originally posted by TAC:
A Rant about Mariage..."Nomarriage.com" (http://www.nomarriage.com/)

Word, I just found it, so don't chew my head off. Perleeease!


Peace
TAC Ummm...what's up with the "I just found it, so don't chew my head off" BS? If you don't like whatever heat this thread may generate, then perhaps you shouldn't have "just found" the link and made the choice to post it here...

He-man woman-hating bastids! :D

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Ken1015:
Bravo! Cheers! Let me know when your first novel comes out. You have a vivid imagination and a gift for relating fantasy. The reality of the matter is that after the divorce it is then the woman who suffers. The man is invigorated because he's free. She is now stuck with the kids and has only his small child support checks to supplement her meager income. Alimony is a myth. Very few people pay it. She had to move in with her parents while he gets a new bachelor pad. He starts dating and hooks up with a hot younger chick while she is stuck with bottom feeders because the likelihood of any woman meeting someone decent once she passes the age of 30 is slim to none. It's even lower for one with kids.

This is a purely misogynistic site and the "don't shoot the messenger" defense doesn't work. It's pure garbage. Why should the women suffer? Why can't they get off they asses and get a career? And don't tell me it's because they have to take care of the children beeswax. Any "MAN" who has common sense would do right by his ex and have the balls to take care of his children and be there Physically rather than "in spirit". This is the same garbage I had to go through with my ex. I took her 3 years to figure out that in order for her to make a living and stop living off of my child support check every month, that she needed to get off her ass and go find a job. Now she's working for a school system, just like me, and I haven't heard her complain YET about not having enough money to pay HER bills.

Peace

[Discogoddess]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
Why should the women suffer? Why can't they get off they asses and get a career? And don't tell me it's because they have to take care of the children beeswax. Any "MAN" who has common sense would do right by his ex and have the balls to take care of his children and be there Physically rather than "in spirit". This is the same garbage I had to go through with my ex. I took her 3 years to figure out that in order for her to make a living and stop living off of my child support check every month, that she needed to get off her ass and go find a job. Now she's working for a school system, just like me, and I haven't heard her complain YET about not having enough money to pay HER bills.

Peace @Groove: So, you're using your personal experience to assume that many or most women don't have careers to begin with, and that they need to get up off their asses and get one after divorce? I'd hazard to guess that the majority of women today already have jobs and/or careers, before, during and after marriage. I'd also hazard to guess that many of them either work in fields that pay less, or they are getting less pay for the same work as men in their fields. You put all that together, and there is the issue of inequality after divorce.

I think the problem comes bcuz even when things get split down the middle (in theory) in divorce, she's supporting herself AND any children, while her ex-husband is supporting himself (mainly) AND PERHAPS subsidizing PART of the cost to raise his children. You surely cannot use your own experience to extrapolate that most men are "doing right" by their kids...there are too many stories and studies that indicate otherwise.

To solve this perceived notion that women are "getting over" somehow after divorce, why don't more men seek full or joint custody of their children? I wonder why that is...

[MYOR]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ken1015:
Bravo! Cheers! Let me know when your first novel comes out. You have a vivid imagination and a gift for relating fantasy. The reality of the matter is that after the divorce it is then the woman who suffers. The man is invigorated because he's free. She is now stuck with the kids and has only his small child support checks to supplement her meager income. Alimony is a myth. Very few people pay it. She had to move in with her parents while he gets a new bachelor pad. He starts dating and hooks up with a hot younger chick while she is stuck with bottom feeders because the likelihood of any woman meeting someone decent once she passes the age of 30 is slim to none. It's even lower for one with kids.

This is a purely misogynistic site and the "don't shoot the messenger" defense doesn't work. It's pure garbage. Why should the women suffer? Why can't they get off they asses and get a career? And don't tell me it's because they have to take care of the children beeswax. Any "MAN" who has common sense would do right by his ex and have the balls to take care of his children and be there Physically rather than "in spirit". This is the same garbage I had to go through with my ex. I took her 3 years to figure out that in order for her to make a living and stop living off of my child support check every month, that she needed to get off her ass and go find a job. Now she's working for a school system, just like me, and I haven't heard her complain YET about not having enough money to pay HER bills.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]Lets face reality here... All the single mothers I know are working their ass off, while the ex-hobby is still hanging out, partying, dating and taking it easy... Ohh and lets not go with the fact, that most guys seem to pass thier kids off to their parents...

Motherhood is a 24/7 job.. and most men don't seem to understand that.... Basically you have 2 jobs as a mother... and while you have a FEW men that do help.. they still have more liberties...

[TAC]

Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
A Rant about Mariage..."Nomarriage.com" (http://www.nomarriage.com/)

Word, I just found it, so don't chew my head off. Perleeease!


Peace
TAC Ummm...what's up with the "I just found it, so don't chew my head off" BS? If you don't like whatever heat this thread may generate, then perhaps you shouldn't have "just found" the link and made the choice to post it here...

He-man woman-hating bastids! :D </font>[/QUOTE]Get a grip sweety...

[Leslie]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ken1015:
Bravo! Cheers! Let me know when your first novel comes out. You have a vivid imagination and a gift for relating fantasy. The reality of the matter is that after the divorce it is then the woman who suffers. The man is invigorated because he's free. She is now stuck with the kids and has only his small child support checks to supplement her meager income. Alimony is a myth. Very few people pay it. She had to move in with her parents while he gets a new bachelor pad. He starts dating and hooks up with a hot younger chick while she is stuck with bottom feeders because the likelihood of any woman meeting someone decent once she passes the age of 30 is slim to none. It's even lower for one with kids.

This is a purely misogynistic site and the "don't shoot the messenger" defense doesn't work. It's pure garbage. Why should the women suffer? Why can't they get off they asses and get a career? And don't tell me it's because they have to take care of the children beeswax. Any "MAN" who has common sense would do right by his ex and have the balls to take care of his children and be there Physically rather than "in spirit". This is the same garbage I had to go through with my ex. I took her 3 years to figure out that in order for her to make a living and stop living off of my child support check every month, that she needed to get off her ass and go find a job. Now she's working for a school system, just like me, and I haven't heard her complain YET about not having enough money to pay HER bills.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]There is an extreme difference between a career and a job. Was your ex similarly educated? Prior to your relationship or during your relationship was she working in a job or pursuing a career or was she a full time homemaker? Before you start jumping down mine or any other person's throat, step back from your own personal situation and look at the overall picture with regard to the standard of living many women in POST divorce. GENERALLY the standard of living for the mother and the child goes down regardless of the fact that she works, while the man's standard of living either stays the same or goes up, regardless of having to pay child support/alimony.

[JoeB]

could marriage suck so much because couples nowadays are just NOT having sex?

[Ken1015]

Discogoddess, MYOR and Leslie take a bow. graemlins/acclaim.gif

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
Why should the women suffer? Why can't they get off they asses and get a career? And don't tell me it's because they have to take care of the children beeswax. Any "MAN" who has common sense would do right by his ex and have the balls to take care of his children and be there Physically rather than "in spirit". This is the same garbage I had to go through with my ex. I took her 3 years to figure out that in order for her to make a living and stop living off of my child support check every month, that she needed to get off her ass and go find a job. Now she's working for a school system, just like me, and I haven't heard her complain YET about not having enough money to pay HER bills.

Peace @Groove: So, you're using your personal experience to assume that many or most women don't have careers to begin with, and that they need to get up off their asses and get one after divorce? I'd hazard to guess that the majority of women today already have jobs and/or careers, before, during and after marriage. I'd also hazard to guess that many of them either work in fields that pay less, or they are getting less pay for the same work as men in their fields. You put all that together, and there is the issue of inequality after divorce.

I think the problem comes bcuz even when things get split down the middle (in theory) in divorce, she's supporting herself AND any children, while her ex-husband is supporting himself (mainly) AND PERHAPS subsidizing PART of the cost to raise his children. You surely cannot use your own experience to extrapolate that most men are "doing right" by their kids...there are too many stories and studies that indicate otherwise.

To solve this perceived notion that women are "getting over" somehow after divorce, why don't more men seek full or joint custody of their children? I wonder why that is... </font>[/QUOTE]I'm simply referring to what Ken had to say, as if the women are suffering because they are stuck with the kids and small alimony and child support checks. My question is, why should a woman suffer? To me this is just a generalization, and there are many women about there who have succeeded in making themselves happy and raising children on their own, with no man's help.

Peace

[Discogoddess]

Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
A Rant about Mariage..."Nomarriage.com" (http://www.nomarriage.com/)

Word, I just found it, so don't chew my head off. Perleeease!


Peace
TAC Ummm...what's up with the "I just found it, so don't chew my head off" BS? If you don't like whatever heat this thread may generate, then perhaps you shouldn't have "just found" the link and made the choice to post it here...

He-man woman-hating bastids! :D </font>[/QUOTE]Get a grip sweety... </font>[/QUOTE]Thanks for the measured, thoughtful and intelligent response! [insert sarcasm here]

[Leslie]

Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
A Rant about Mariage..."Nomarriage.com" (http://www.nomarriage.com/)

Word, I just found it, so don't chew my head off. Perleeease!


Peace
TAC Ummm...what's up with the "I just found it, so don't chew my head off" BS? If you don't like whatever heat this thread may generate, then perhaps you shouldn't have "just found" the link and made the choice to post it here...

He-man woman-hating bastids! :D </font>[/QUOTE]Get a grip sweety... </font>[/QUOTE]No you get a grip - don't put it out there and then step away, you all find this stuff so funny but want to cry foul when the shoe is on the other foot be it with regard to being single or married. Some of you have no idea how you sound because you are so busy being angry about whatever your own personal situation might be that you can't see the forest for the trees and take your part of the responsibility in whatever when down. I looked at the sight and for every anecdote/story there was surely another side.

[Discogoddess]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
[QUOTE]...and there are many women about there who have succeeded in making themselves happy and raising children on their own, with no man's help.But they shouldn't have to (raising children on their own, with no man's help), GD-it!!!!!!

[ July 03, 2003, 10:37 AM: Message edited by: Discogoddess ]

[Leslie]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
Why should the women suffer? Why can't they get off they asses and get a career? And don't tell me it's because they have to take care of the children beeswax. Any "MAN" who has common sense would do right by his ex and have the balls to take care of his children and be there Physically rather than "in spirit". This is the same garbage I had to go through with my ex. I took her 3 years to figure out that in order for her to make a living and stop living off of my child support check every month, that she needed to get off her ass and go find a job. Now she's working for a school system, just like me, and I haven't heard her complain YET about not having enough money to pay HER bills.

Peace @Groove: So, you're using your personal experience to assume that many or most women don't have careers to begin with, and that they need to get up off their asses and get one after divorce? I'd hazard to guess that the majority of women today already have jobs and/or careers, before, during and after marriage. I'd also hazard to guess that many of them either work in fields that pay less, or they are getting less pay for the same work as men in their fields. You put all that together, and there is the issue of inequality after divorce.

I think the problem comes bcuz even when things get split down the middle (in theory) in divorce, she's supporting herself AND any children, while her ex-husband is supporting himself (mainly) AND PERHAPS subsidizing PART of the cost to raise his children. You surely cannot use your own experience to extrapolate that most men are "doing right" by their kids...there are too many stories and studies that indicate otherwise.

To solve this perceived notion that women are "getting over" somehow after divorce, why don't more men seek full or joint custody of their children? I wonder why that is... </font>[/QUOTE]I'm simply referring to what Ken had to say, as if the women are suffering because they are stuck with the kids and small alimony and child support checks. My question is, why should a woman suffer? To me this is just a generalization, and there are many women about there who have succeeded in making themselves happy and raising children on their own, with no man's help.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]Your above comment is worlds apart from your former comment.

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Leslie:
[/qb]There is an extreme difference between a career and a job. Was your ex similarly educated? Prior to your relationship or during your relationship was she working in a job or pursuing a career or was she a full time homemaker? Before you start jumping down mine or any other person's throat, step back from your own personal situation and look at the overall picture with regard to the standard of living many women in POST divorce. GENERALLY the standard of living for the mother and the child goes down regardless of the fact that she works, while the man's standard of living either stays the same or goes up, regardless of having to pay child support/alimony. [/QUOTE]


Who said I was jumping down someone's throat in the first place. Gee willikers!!!!!!!!!!!!

Define "Standard of Living".

Peace

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Leslie:

Peace Your above comment is worlds apart from your former comment. [/QB][/QUOTE]


Explain. It seems to me that when I use the term "Get off your ass" people take that the wrong way. In order to get ahead in life, you can't expect gifts of succes to fall from the sky.

Peace

[Leslie]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:
There is an extreme difference between a career and a job. Was your ex similarly educated? Prior to your relationship or during your relationship was she working in a job or pursuing a career or was she a full time homemaker? Before you start jumping down mine or any other person's throat, step back from your own personal situation and look at the overall picture with regard to the standard of living many women in POST divorce. GENERALLY the standard of living for the mother and the child goes down regardless of the fact that she works, while the man's standard of living either stays the same or goes up, regardless of having to pay child support/alimony. </font>[/QUOTE]Who said I was jumping down someone's throat in the first place. Gee willikers!!!!!!!!!!!!

Define "Standard of Living".

Peace [/QB][/QUOTE]

Groove kill it you know how you can get..said with love whether you believe it or not.... graemlins/bighug.gif

Standard of Living - what one is able to afford with regard to the amount of money coming into the household.

[Jamie 3:26]

Before this gets turned out into a male/woman bashin' thread...I know of men who have accepted kids that were not theirs and treated them as their own.I rarely hear praise going to those brothers.

I know that I would take care of my business and be in my children's life if i was a father and divorced my wife.Buying gymshoes and clothes do not make a real father.Paying your support on time does not make you a real father.Honestly,courts should not even have to be involved with the child rearing process between two adults.

Why should a judge have to determine how one should take care of a child?I would NEVER do that to any woman.I saw what my moms went thru raising us.I would never do that to any woman.

A real man does not have to brag about what he does for his kids...because his ass is supposed to take of them any damn ways.

This is just a reminder of the gap between the sexes...

[Leslie]

Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:

Peace Your above comment is worlds apart from your former comment. </font>[/QUOTE]Explain. It seems to me that when I use the term "Get off your ass" people take that the wrong way. In order to get ahead in life, you can't expect gifts of succes to fall from the sky.

Peace [/QB][/QUOTE]

your implication (whether you meant for it to sound that way or not) was that ALL women who get divorced are lazy....

[Discogoddess]

@Leslie: PLEASE don't let Ashaki (or whatever name she's using today) come in here and agree with anything either one of us is saying! You know what that will mean, don't you? That the Neck-swivelin-hands-on-hips-no-you-dieint! Angry Sistagurrrhl Cabal will be in full swing, and none of our opinions will be valid.

;)
:D
smile.gif
icon_rofl.gif
graemlins/rofl.gif

[ July 03, 2003, 10:46 AM: Message edited by: Discogoddess ]

[Leslie]

Originally posted by Discogoddess:
@Leslie: PLEASE don't let Ashaki (or whatever name she's using today) come in here and agree with anything either one of us is saying! You know what that will mean, don't you? That the Neck-swivelin-hands-on-hips-no-you-dieint! Angry Sistagurrrhl Cabal will be in full swing, and none of our opinions will be valid.

;)
:D
smile.gif
icon_rofl.gif
graemlins/rofl.gif I have decided to quit now for fear of that very scenario - besides I am still feeling my birthday celebration from last night...in a good way I might add ;)

[Leslie]

Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
Before this gets turned out into a male/woman bashin' thread...I know of men who have accepted kids that were not theirs and treated them as their own.I rarely hear praise going to those brothers.

I know that I would take care of my business and be in my children's life if i was a father and divorced my wife.Buying gymshoes and clothes do not make a real father.Paying your support on time does not make you a real father.Honestly,courts should not even have to be involved with the child rearing process between two adults.

Why should a judge have to determine how one should take care of a child?I would NEVER do that to any woman.I saw what my moms went thru raising us.I would never do that to any woman.

A real man does not have to brag about what he does for his kids...because his ass is supposed to take of them any damn ways.

This is just a reminder of the gap between the sexes... graemlins/respekt.gif

I'm out...

[GROOVE VICTIM]

Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by GROOVE VICTIM:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Leslie:

Peace Your above comment is worlds apart from your former comment. </font>[/QUOTE]Explain. It seems to me that when I use the term "Get off your ass" people take that the wrong way. In order to get ahead in life, you can't expect gifts of succes to fall from the sky.

Peace </font>[/QUOTE]your implication (whether you meant for it to sound that way or not) was that ALL women who get divorced are lazy.... [/QB][/QUOTE]


That wasn't my intent and I apologize for not making my point clear enough. If that was my intent then expect me to be in the hospital for a couple of months after recieving a back hand and a speed kick from my mother.

graemlins/acclaim.gif

[TAC]

Originally posted by Leslie:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Discogoddess:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TAC:
A Rant about Mariage..."Nomarriage.com" (http://www.nomarriage.com/)

Word, I just found it, so don't chew my head off. Perleeease!


Peace
TAC Ummm...what's up with the "I just found it, so don't chew my head off" BS? If you don't like whatever heat this thread may generate, then perhaps you shouldn't have "just found" the link and made the choice to post it here...

He-man woman-hating bastids! :D </font>[/QUOTE]Get a grip sweety... </font>[/QUOTE]No you get a grip - don't put it out there and then step away, you all find this stuff so funny but want to cry foul when the shoe is on the other foot be it with regard to being single or married. Some of you have no idea how you sound because you are so busy being angry about whatever your own personal situation might be that you can't see the forest for the trees and take your part of the responsibility in whatever when down. I looked at the sight and for every anecdote/story there was surely another side. </font>[/QUOTE]This is not about me...


I am not "crying foul" by the why...

The sh*t is mad funny. If your going to read your life situation into it, then of course you will take offense to it or get "twisted," and I cn't help you. It is patently clear that this is the rant of some dude who got rooked over.

Homeboy is bitter...

[Discogoddess]

Originally posted by TAC:
....It is patently clear that this is the rant of some dude who got rooked over.

Homeboy is bitter... I'll give you that, fa sho!

[MYOR]

Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
Before this gets turned out into a male/woman bashin' thread...I know of men who have accepted kids that were not theirs and treated them as their own.I rarely hear praise going to those brothers.

I know that I would take care of my business and be in my children's life if i was a father and divorced my wife.Buying gymshoes and clothes do not make a real father.Paying your support on time does not make you a real father.Honestly,courts should not even have to be involved with the child rearing process between two adults.

Why should a judge have to determine how one should take care of a child?I would NEVER do that to any woman.I saw what my moms went thru raising us.I would never do that to any woman.

A real man does not have to brag about what he does for his kids...because his ass is supposed to take of them any damn ways.

This is just a reminder of the gap between the sexes... There are REAL men left out there graemlins/respekt.gif

[Discogoddess]

Originally posted by Leslie:
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@Leslie: PLEASE don't let Ashaki (or whatever name she's using today) come in here and agree with anything either one of us is saying! You know what that will mean, don't you? That the Neck-swivelin-hands-on-hips-no-you-dieint! Angry Sistagurrrhl Cabal will be in full swing, and none of our opinions will be valid.

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graemlins/rofl.gif I have decided to quit now for fear of that very scenario - besides I am still feeling my birthday celebration from last night...in a good way I might add ;) </font>[/QUOTE]"It's alright....I feel it!" Glad you had a good time on your b-day. Imma pull up on this here discussion in a minute, too.

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[Discogoddess]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
Before this gets turned out into a male/woman bashin' thread...I know of men who have accepted kids that were not theirs and treated them as their own.I rarely hear praise going to those brothers.

I know that I would take care of my business and be in my children's life if i was a father and divorced my wife.Buying gymshoes and clothes do not make a real father.Paying your support on time does not make you a real father.Honestly,courts should not even have to be involved with the child rearing process between two adults.

Why should a judge have to determine how one should take care of a child?I would NEVER do that to any woman.I saw what my moms went thru raising us.I would never do that to any woman.

A real man does not have to brag about what he does for his kids...because his ass is supposed to take of them any damn ways.

This is just a reminder of the gap between the sexes... There are REAL men left out there graemlins/respekt.gif </font>[/QUOTE]My daddy (the one who potty-trained me, went to parent-teacher conferences, gave me his love of music, taught me to play b-ball, put his foot in my azz re: grades and good behavior, sent me care packages in college and walked me down the aisle as a bride....not the one who created me w/my mom) is sure in the hell a clear example of that! graemlins/1luvu.gif

[ July 03, 2003, 10:58 AM: Message edited by: Discogoddess ]

[Cheddar]

As long as women and men walk the earth believing they are equal in the family structure, there is nothing but luck which helps people make it all the way.
A little determination also, but someone has to bow...now who is it gonna be??

[MYOR]

Originally posted by 1343:
As long as women and men walk the earth believing they are equal in the family structure, there is nothing but luck which helps people make it all the way.
A little determination also, but someone has to bow...now who is it gonna be?? Who is bowing down.., ohh no... I'm truelly fvcked.. cuz there is no way in hell that if I have a child my partner is going to have less responsiblity in raising them... graemlins/nono.gif

[Ken1015]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 1343:
As long as women and men walk the earth believing they are equal in the family structure, there is nothing but luck which helps people make it all the way.
A little determination also, but someone has to bow...now who is it gonna be?? Who is bowing down.., ohh no... I'm truelly fvcked.. cuz there is no way in hell that if I have a child my partner is going to have less responsiblity in raising them... graemlins/nono.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Sorry MYOR but you're over 30 and studies show that this is something that you most likely won't have to worry about. biggrinangel.gif

[MYOR]

Originally posted by Ken1015:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 1343:
As long as women and men walk the earth believing they are equal in the family structure, there is nothing but luck which helps people make it all the way.
A little determination also, but someone has to bow...now who is it gonna be?? Who is bowing down.., ohh no... I'm truelly fvcked.. cuz there is no way in hell that if I have a child my partner is going to have less responsiblity in raising them... graemlins/nono.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Sorry MYOR but you're over 30 and studies show that this is something that you most likely won't have to worry about. biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Ken1015 graemlins/spanka.gif
HEY I LOOK LIKE 24....there is hope for me yet graemlins/tongueout.gif

[ngeso]

it is all so simple. just don't do it. don't get married unless you see a lot of practical advantages in doing it.

if both of you are not pragmatic about it, it will go wrong! trust a guy who has neither married nor fathered children, and instead looks forward to loads of physical and spiritual stimulation in the 'second half' of the game.

i'll be taking tea on the terrace at five, if you care to join me...