Just to know if you feel good or bad these days, how's the DHP family going ?

[the crackhouse]

Well, my life is shitty and sad these days : no job, bad days with my wife, no money, sad thoughts, and not a lot of friends in a good mood.
I hear bad issues everyday and I wished to know over 3 000 househeads if I was in a minority, or if we have to gather and feel allright.

So please vote and we'll try to see what's going wrong and what's going well in this DHP international world !

NB : IN THE 2ND QUESTION, YOU'LL HAVE TO READ : "Something which is NOT mentionned here, you..." (the "NOT" is missing, merci de votre comprehension, mesdames mesdemoiselles messieurs)

[ October 11, 2003, 11:06 AM: Message edited by: idancetoomuch ]

[JMJ]

Keep your head up, Idance. It's tough all over......JMJ ;)

[DLow]

We all go through rough times; you are not alone. I know it's easier said than done during hard times, but stay positive.

[Friday]

Hi Idance, if I could, I would give you a big hug, I probably need one too, so for now, I hope this will put a smile on your face for the moment http://deephousepage.com/smilies/hug.gif I do think it does get better, atleast this is what people have told me.

[lyot]

graemlins/scared.gif @ poll results..
well, obviously you are not the only one Mathieu..You are in good compagny.I'm depressed / semi-depressed since half a year or so, and it will take time before I get where I want to be, but there's only one way, right : forward..

take care

lyot

[the crackhouse]

Thanks for the nice words ! I wouldn't say I'm depressed, but I find life less easy than it was.
I'm most frightened by the future than by the present events.
Is it gonna get worse or will I found a way to live happy ? Is life really though like some amish wiseman told me ?

We'll see... I'm very optimist by nature !
I hear a lot of people talking about their 4 millions problems, so I just wanted to do a poll and see the answers !

[the crackhouse]

The poll results tell us something great :
HOUSE MUSIC IS A THERAPY FOR A HAPPY LIFE.
"Feelin' a lil bit like you're a dirty socket ?
Put House Music in your basket !
Recommanded as the basic treatment if you're about to loose your mind ! "

Soul Clinic on 83 west !

[kelvy]

Mr. Idancetoomuch, i definetly understand and symphatize with you....as of late, let's just say that i am very disappointed and unhappy with the way my life has become even after exhausting all my possible options...You're definetly not alone and just like GF (aka "Ms. Pimp Weasel" :D graemlins/rofl.gif ) i want to extend a hug and blessings to each and every one of you!

plus as you mentioned Mr. Idancetoomuch, it is a benefit that you're an optimist..kudos! i myself struggled with looking at the better side of things and could use some in my life.....you can do it...

by the way, on another note Mr. Idancetoomuch, have you ever been to www.oldiesfunk.com? (http://www.oldiesfunk.com?) i miss this Paris-based site that had record reviews, samples, and a radio show of classic 80s funk and club music...they remind me a lot of http://www.danceclassic.com...

[Dj Alex]

Hello Idance,

Sorry to hear life downside is weighing you down. When I feel down and I think when alot of people feel down we try and escape it onw way or another. If we can clearly adress how we got to that state of mind in the 1st place we can try and not feel as bad next time.
And always remember nothing stays the same bro !. Everything changes so keep your head up and your mind clear and answers will be found.

Peace Alex.

[JMNYC]

"keep your head to the sky"...

check it - I know how you feel! See My Personal Post (http://deephousepage.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=036930) just keep your head up and make changes in your life.. and remember that if you won't remember it a year from now it probably isn't as important as you think. Feel better soon and no matter what happens, don't let it keep you from being the best you can right now.

:D

[Friday]

For everyone and myself included ;)

***********
Optimistic

Keep, keep On.... Never Say Die....

When in the midst of sorrow
You can' t see up when looking down
A brighter day tomorrow will bring

You hear the voice of reason
Telling you this cannot weigh me down *
No matter how hard reality seems
Just hold on to your dreams

Don't give up and don't give in
Although it seems you never win
You will always pass the test
As long as you keep your head to the sky
You can win as long as you keep your head to the sky
You can win as long as you keep your head to the sky
Be optimistic

If things around you crumble
No, you don't have to stumble and fall
Keep pushing on and don't you look back

I know of storms and strive
I been around them all of life *
Just think ahead and you'll be inspired
To reach higher and higher.

You'll always do your best
If you learn to never say never
You maybe down, but you're not out.

Don't give up and don't give in
Although it seems you never win
You will always pass the test
As long as you keep your head to the sky
You can win as long as you keep your head to the sky (you can win child!)
You can win as long as you keep your head to the sky
Be optimistic

Don't you let no body stop you.....
Be optimistic

You can win, Yes
Never say die....

*Sounds of Blackness

[the crackhouse]

Hey ! the poll results are evolving to a lot of hapiness from what I see.
I'm sure that monday we'll see a lot more of happy voting !

[BHouse]

http://www.carolynhester.com/images/medicine.jpg

[Martin Red]

It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under
It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under

Broken glass everywhere
People pissin' on the stairs, you know they just don't care
I can't take the smell, can't take the noise
Got no money to move out, I guess I got no choice
Rats in the front room, roaches in the back
Junkies in the alley with a baseball bat
I tried to get away but I couldn't get far
'cuz a man with a tow truck repossessed my car

Don't push me 'cuz I'm close to the edge
I'm trying not to lose my head
Uh huh ha ha ha
It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under

Standin' on the front stoop hangin' out the window
Watchin' all the cars go by, roarin' as the breezes blow
Crazy lady, livin' in a bag
Eatin' outta garbage pails, used to be a fag hag
Said she'll dance the tango, skip the light fandango
A Zircon princess seemed to lost her senses
Down at the peep show watchin' all the creeps
So she can tell her stories to the girls back home
She went to the city and got social security
She had to get a pimp, she couldn't make it on her own

Don't push me 'cuz I'm close to the edge
I'm trying not to lose my head
Uh huh ha ha ha

It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under
It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under

My brother's doin' bad, stole my mother's TV
Says she watches too much, it's just not healthy
"All My Children" in the daytime, "Dallas" at night
Can't even see the game or the Sugar Ray fight
The bill collectors, they ring my phone
and scare my wife when I'm not home
Got a bum education, double-digit inflation
Can't take the train to the job, there's a strike at the station
Neon King Kong standin' on my back
Can't stop to turn around, broke my sacroiliac
A mid-range migraine, cancered membrane
Sometimes I think I'm goin' insane
I swear I might hijack a plane!

Don't push me 'cuz I'm close to the edge
I'm trying not to lose my head
It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under
It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under

My son said, Daddy, I don't wanna go to school
'cuz the teacher's a jerk, he must think I'm a fool
And all the kids smoke reefer, I think it'd be cheaper
if I just got a job, learned to be a street sweeper
Or dance to the beat, shuffle my feet
Wear a shirt and tie and run with the creeps
'cuz it's all about money, ain't a damn thing funny
You got to have a con in this land of milk and honey
They pushed that girl in front of the train
Took her to the doctor, sewed her arm on again
Stabbed that man right in his heart
Gave him a transplant for a brand new start
I can't walk through the park 'cuz it's crazy after dark
Keep my hand on my gun 'cuz they got me on the run
I feel like a outlaw, broke my last glass jaw
Hear them say "You want some more?"
Livin' on a see-saw

Don't push me 'cuz I'm close to the edge
I'm trying not to lose my head
Say what?

It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under
It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under

It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under

It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under

A child is born with no state of mind
Blind to the ways of mankind
God is smilin' on you but he's frownin' too
Because only God knows what you'll go through
You'll grow in the ghetto livin' second-rate
And your eyes will sing a song called deep hate
The places you play and where you stay
Looks like one great big alleyway
You'll admire all the number-book takers
Thugs, pimps and pushers and the big money-makers
Drivin' big cars, spendin' twenties and tens
And you'll wanna grow up to be just like them, huh
Smugglers, scramblers, burglars, gamblers
Pickpocket peddlers, even panhandlers
You say I'm cool, huh, I'm no fool
But then you wind up droppin' outta high school
Now you're unemployed, all non-void
Walkin' round like you're Pretty Boy Floyd
Turned stick-up kid, but look what you done did
Got sent up for a eight-year bid
Now your manhood is took and you're a Maytag
Spend the next two years as a undercover fag
Bein' used and abused to serve like hell
'til one day, you was found hung dead in the cell
It was plain to see that your life was lost
You was cold and your body swung back and forth
But now your eyes sing the sad, sad song
Of how you lived so fast and died so young so...

Don't push me 'cuz I'm close to the edge
I'm trying not to lose my head
Uh huh huh huh huh

It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under
Huh, uh huh huh huh huh
It's like a jungle sometimes
It makes me wonder how I keep from goin' under
Huh, uh huh huh huh huh

[Rep]

Couldn't help noticing in the poll that the majority of people are unhappy at work, and house music/djing is what makes them happiest. Wouldn't it be great then if you were one of the very lucky few that get to combine these two!

Headz up peeps and never let them bring you down graemlins/respekt.gif

[C hristian]

NEVER SAY DIE!

no one could possibly have less money than me at the moment.

but change has got to come. once you have bottomed, the only way is up.

of course, when is the bottom?

[BHouse]

Originally posted by C hristian:
no one could possibly have less money than me at the moment. I bet I have less money than you... I was at a friends house yesterday and searched in "his couch" for change... Can't afford Ramen Noodles because they cost too much... Washed my clothes at the laundry mat with "dishwashing" liquid and I helped people empty out the pockets of their clothes...

[The Buddy Love Show]

Originally posted by gf:
For everyone and myself included ;)

***********
Optimistic

Keep, keep On.... Never Say Die....

When in the midst of sorrow
You can' t see up when looking down
A brighter day tomorrow will bring

You hear the voice of reason
Telling you this cannot weigh me down *
No matter how hard reality seems
Just hold on to your dreams

Don't give up and don't give in
Although it seems you never win
You will always pass the test
As long as you keep your head to the sky
You can win as long as you keep your head to the sky
You can win as long as you keep your head to the sky
Be optimistic

If things around you crumble
No, you don't have to stumble and fall
Keep pushing on and don't you look back

I know of storms and strive
I been around them all of life *
Just think ahead and you'll be inspired
To reach higher and higher.

You'll always do your best
If you learn to never say never
You maybe down, but you're not out.

Don't give up and don't give in
Although it seems you never win
You will always pass the test
As long as you keep your head to the sky
You can win as long as you keep your head to the sky (you can win child!)
You can win as long as you keep your head to the sky
Be optimistic

Don't you let no body stop you.....
Be optimistic

You can win, Yes
Never say die....

*Sounds of Blackness I second this quote

and on the for realzy...TAKE CONTROL of your life. Don't cry about it be about it. If things are as bad as you say then let this be the last thread you participate in for a while until you regain some semblance of order in your life - cause, seriously, if shit is so bad ya don't need to be spending time on messageboards (think about how much time ya spent putting this poll together - time ya coulda spent on other more important things wih a better payoff - although my words are always PRICELESS)

Now get your head up and get back in the game and go get a big win, and stop all this wussy woe is us shit

[C hristian]

you win. i haven't hit people up like that yet. give me a week though.

[The Buddy Love Show]

I hope you are in the process of making that U-Turn towards happiness and success

peace

[Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand]

I have my days. Today I will start it on a good note. I have to remember what keeps me sane and not to worry about mess. There have been some things revealed to me, I felt like killing that person (I could plead the post pardum defense graemlins/rofl.gif )I really believe my family is trying to make me crack so I can go back to the hospital. graemlins/scared.gif

Every morning I get up pray, read the bible, and meditate. If I don't do that my defenses are down and I get caught up in confusion with either my oldest daughter or my husband. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP, THIS TOO SHALL PASS graemlins/bighug.gif

[lola desire]

graemlins/bighug.gif smile.gif

sometimes things get a little tough. sometimes things get us down, we feel there is nothing we can do to help our situation. whenever i feel sad or down, it's usually when i'm avoiding something. the important thing is to get back in touch with your center. in retrospect, usually things weren't as bad as they seemed.

slow down.
take care of yourself.
love yourself.
everything will work out.

[the crackhouse]

I feel better now, I have new goals, I'm looking forward (and for rewards hee hee), and that's fine, thanks for the nice words, and thanks a lot Magus, I'll put some money in your church box.