if you went....

[Jennifer]

on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. Now, all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex) then came Saturday night and he says he can't do that with you anymore (he can't have sex with you) and then sets the alarm clock at 5 am and gets up and starts to load up. 7am yall are on yalls way back home...would you say he really cared for you and didn't wanna hurt or that he was just using you? graemlins/conf44.gif Serious question!

[JMJ]

Doesn't matter. You shouldn't have gone.....JMJ

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[Jennifer]

thats not the question I wanted to go so that he could tell me something stick to the question and no pics... :D

[richierich]

Yeah I think he just wanted to do the freaky thang. Now that it's over(weekend)he's putting distance between you so that you'l know that sex was all it was. Rude and crude and totally immature.

[JMJ]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
thats not the question I wanted to go so that he could tell me something stick to the question and no pics... :D He told you he couldn't have sex with you anymore. What else do you need to know??.....JMJ

[ October 28, 2003, 04:27 PM: Message edited by: JMJ ]

[Jamie 3:26]

Now you really should already know the answer to that question.....you were played like an exclusive white label.Don't base relationships on sex or better yet,realize that from the beginning you were only F.uck buddies not in a relationship.

Go into things using your mind,not your body and you will not be faced with situations like this again... ;)

[Tony Cano]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. Now, all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex) then came Saturday night and he says he can't do that with you anymore (he can't have sex with you) and then sets the alarm clock at 5 am and gets up and starts to load up. 7am yall are on yalls way back home...would you say he really cared for you and didn't wanna hurt or that he was just using you? graemlins/conf44.gif Serious question! dump his ass.

[Discogoddess]

I think it's kinda foul to get down with someone all weekend long, then toward the end, give them the "it's not you, it's me" or the "it's bcuz I care for you that we can't see each other anymore" speech or whatever. I'd say chalk it up and move on. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter WHY the person did what they did, only that they DID what they did.

[Tony Cano]

Originally posted by Discogoddess:
I think it's kinda foul to get down with someone all weekend long, then toward the end, give them the "it's not you, it's me" or the "it's bcuz I care for you that we can't see each other anymore" speech or whatever. I'd say chalk it up and move on. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter WHY the person did what they did, only that they DID what they did. teach

[richierich]

Are you the same person that asked what she should do when she found out that her best friend and her boyfriend were getting down??

[Tee Cee 13]

But because of complication means he cares.... Because both new from jump off... If compilcation was not discussed, I hope you practiced safe sex.......

[ October 28, 2003, 04:39 PM: Message edited by: T.C. 13 ]

[DISKOQUEEN99]

Go and listen to Jean Carn's "Was That All It Was." Listen to the lyrics carefully until you get it.

[And]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. Now, all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex) then came Saturday night and he says he can't do that with you anymore (he can't have sex with you) and then sets the alarm clock at 5 am and gets up and starts to load up. 7am yall are on yalls way back home...would you say he really cared for you and didn't wanna hurt or that he was just using you? graemlins/conf44.gif Serious question! Hmm ... my dear I think you answered your own question already and I quote: "all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex)." Guys are really good at that sex and detach thing. Unless he said what he said to cover up for ... Ehh ... f*ck that. He was rude and lame. Although ... I'm curious what these "complications" were that arose. Hmm ... The whole story please.
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[JoeB]

complications = couldn't get it up anymore or is married?

[Tony Cano]

enough of tehe vagueness. we need facts in order to better analyze the situation........

tc

[Ronnie Ron]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. Now, all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex) then came Saturday night and he says he can't do that with you anymore (he can't have sex with you) and then sets the alarm clock at 5 am and gets up and starts to load up. 7am yall are on yalls way back home...would you say he really cared for you and didn't wanna hurt or that he was just using you? graemlins/conf44.gif Serious question! This seemed like a Mutual agreement. Whats the problem. the solution is to Move on and find someone you care for and that cares for you, Unless this is the type of situation you like to be in then you, DO YOU....

R-R

[ October 28, 2003, 07:26 PM: Message edited by: RonnieRon ]

[gabriel]

you all only want full facts for gossip purposes

you have enough. who cares what complications means. it's not a freaking clothesline

[beaniboy67]

how long have you known the guy for and were both of you drunk!

[jpsf]

Originally posted by gabrielloveshouse:
you all only want full facts for gossip purposes

you have enough. who cares what complications means. it's not a freaking clothesline complications can mean alot of important things. there were 2 people in that room. did something over the weekend happen to change his attitude? were you headed for this and something moved it to the breaking point? i'm guessing that this didn't come as a complete surprize? not to be cold here, but like i said, there were 2 people in that room and we're hearing from one of those people.

[Jennifer]

The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :(

[beaniboy67]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( phone him and say what you have just typed.if he says he doesnt miss u or if he says that it never meant anything get on with your life and diss him!

[Ronnie Ron]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( Give him some time, he still may call. just do your thing and go about your business if he really cares for you he will make that call. if a lot of time goes by and you still dont hear from him its all good because you should be living your life anywayzzzzzzzzz. ;) Good luck Jen.

R-R

[JoeB]

Originally posted by gabrielloveshouse:
you all only want full facts for gossip purposes

you have enough. who cares what complications means. it's not a freaking clothesline you're buggin' if you think there's enough there to actually give a serious answer to this "serious question". i can't put my finger on it but i think i can speak for the others that have asked on what these complications are because something just doesn't make sense in this particular situation and that is primarily the only reason i ask since i don't spend my time away from this board "gossiping" about people i don't know and essentially don't really care for since i don't know them. but if you are gonna come on here and pose a serious question and expect some serious answers than don't leave out certain things or else our advice is pointless. and we are not asking for names or anything that personal but just to clear up what exactly a "complication" is.

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by RonnieRon:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. Now, all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex) then came Saturday night and he says he can't do that with you anymore (he can't have sex with you) and then sets the alarm clock at 5 am and gets up and starts to load up. 7am yall are on yalls way back home...would you say he really cared for you and didn't wanna hurt or that he was just using you? graemlins/conf44.gif Serious question! This seemed like a Mutual agreement. Whats the problem. the solution is to Move on and find someone you care for and that cares for you, Unless this is the type of situation you like to be in then you, DO YOU....

R-R </font>[/QUOTE]I agree. Sounds like an equal situation. Sex isn't a thing you have. It's a thing you do.

[JoeB]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( you are definitely not wrong to be confused. shit, i'm confused just trying to imagine myself in your place. tough one. i'll have to get back to you on this and thanks for clearing things up.

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( From this description, it seems as if you set up a situation in order to gain his committment through REACTION.

Committments ("Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him.") are fostered between people deliberately. Going away for a cozy weekend of lovemaking and good times isn't going to solidify anything between you two.

If you want him, better declare your intentions and go after him DIRECTLY instead of INDIRECTLY.

Sex is sex...not seed planting.

[Pete Nice]

jennifer,
your screwed. you can just see all this emotion pouring out of you. either put yourself out there again for him to do as he pleases or move on and learn from what went wrong. guys are rarely ever confused. we are either scared or selfish most of the time.

[JMJ]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( With phucked up people come phucked up results. Sorry to be so harsh, but get with someone at least halfway normal and you might not have this drama in your life. Shouldn't YOU be the number one priority?? To accept anything else is unacceptable. Complications?? Get your shit together. Meet someone without complications. 7 billion people on the planet and you're bitching about some phuck-up that can't make you first in his life?? I'm done. I have spoken......JMJ graemlins/cussing.gif

[Tony Cano]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him.this is what confuses me most about women. if im understanding you correctly, you led him to believe one thing because you wanted him to tell you something else?

so now because he followed your lead, he is a dog? if he kept persueing you then he is a stalker. i don't get it. why can't women be real.

[ October 28, 2003, 07:54 PM: Message edited by: Tony Cano ]

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( From this description, it seems as if you set up a situation in order to gain his committment through REACTION.

Committments ("Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him.") are fostered between people deliberately. Going away for a cozy weekend of lovemaking and good times isn't going to solidify anything between you two.

If you want him, better declare your intentions and go after him DIRECTLY instead of INDIRECTLY.

Sex is sex...not seed planting. </font>[/QUOTE]As it may seem like the cozy weekend was set up to gain commitment but it was planned a month in a half in advance the whole, my intention was not to tie im down but to gain more solitude. I believe what you said sex is just sex but it wasn't about sex we built a true solid friendship first before any of the sex came into the picture. Thanks that was a great answer! graemlins/bighug.gif

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( From this description, it seems as if you set up a situation in order to gain his committment through REACTION.

Committments ("Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him.") are fostered between people deliberately. Going away for a cozy weekend of lovemaking and good times isn't going to solidify anything between you two.

If you want him, better declare your intentions and go after him DIRECTLY instead of INDIRECTLY.

Sex is sex...not seed planting. </font>[/QUOTE]As it may seem like the cozy weekend was set up to gain commitment but it was planned a month in a half in advance the whole, my intention was not to tie im down but to gain more solitude. I believe what you said sex is just sex but it wasn't about sex we built a true solid friendship first before any of the sex came into the picture. Thanks that was a great answer! graemlins/bighug.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Jen - my answer wasn't to imply that you baited him somehow.

Everyone in the West views sex as some tie that binds when, in fact, it isn't as big a factor in relationships than it's made out to be. It doesn't mean anything in and of itself. That you singled out the information that you and he got down all weekend made your issue seem as if there was some price attached to it.

Are you certain you aren't placing any "after the fact" value on your sexual activity?

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by Tony Cano:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him.this is what confuses me most about women. if im understanding you correctly, you led him to believe one thing because you wanted him to tell you something else?

so now because he followed your lead, he is a dog? if he kept persueing you then he is a stalker. i don't get it. why can't women be real. </font>[/QUOTE]No he's not the dog..no way! I was being real with him. I wanted him to tell me to stay. He knew that. I wanted him, he knew that.

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( From this description, it seems as if you set up a situation in order to gain his committment through REACTION.

Committments ("Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him.") are fostered between people deliberately. Going away for a cozy weekend of lovemaking and good times isn't going to solidify anything between you two.

If you want him, better declare your intentions and go after him DIRECTLY instead of INDIRECTLY.

Sex is sex...not seed planting. </font>[/QUOTE]As it may seem like the cozy weekend was set up to gain commitment but it was planned a month in a half in advance the whole, my intention was not to tie im down but to gain more solitude. I believe what you said sex is just sex but it wasn't about sex we built a true solid friendship first before any of the sex came into the picture. Thanks that was a great answer! graemlins/bighug.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Jen - my answer wasn't to imply that you baited him somehow.

Everyone in the West views sex as some tie that binds when, in fact, it isn't as big a factor in relationships than it's made out to be. It doesn't mean anything in and of itself. That you singled out the information that you and he got down all weekend made your issue seem as if there was some price attached to it.

Are you certain you aren't placing any "after the fact" value on your sexual activity? </font>[/QUOTE]I think I might be placing an "I thought I was more" value on myself. I mean why would you let me turn away from you, and you not look back. I guess maybe I played myself. Maybe I felt something more than him.

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( With phucked up people come phucked up results. Sorry to be so harsh, but get with someone at least halfway normal and you might not have this drama in your life. Shouldn't YOU be the number one priority?? To accept anything else is unacceptable. Complications?? Get your shit together. Meet someone without complications. 7 billion people on the planet and you're bitching about some phuck-up that can't make you first in his life?? I'm done. I have spoken......JMJ graemlins/cussing.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Thank you for slapping me and waking me up! Neede it! graemlins/bighug.gif

[DISKOQUEEN99]

I see the word love was used in this scenario. Was it one-sided or mutual? All I can gather from this is that he sensed you wanted something more and just couldn't commit to it. He apparently peeped your game. But he wasn't going to pass up one for the road. Looks like you simply had more feelings for him than he had for you and he knew you would still have sex with him because of that. Your expectations don't seem realistic. The whole thing about not talking to him on Monday and then he said whatever he said to you and got up early..he just turned it around on you. You can't make somebody love you. Move on.

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
I see the word love was used in this scenario. Was it one-sided or mutual? All I can gather from this is that he sensed you wanted something more and just couldn't commit to it. He apparently peeped your game. But he wasn't going to pass up one for the road. Looks like you simply had more feelings for him than he had for you and he knew you would still have sex with him because of that. Your expectations don't seem realistic. The whole thing about not talking to him on Monday and then he said whatever he said to you and got up early..he just turned it around on you. You can't make somebody love you. Move on. Thank you moving on is now in full process! graemlins/bighug.gif

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( From this description, it seems as if you set up a situation in order to gain his committment through REACTION.

Committments ("Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him.") are fostered between people deliberately. Going away for a cozy weekend of lovemaking and good times isn't going to solidify anything between you two.

If you want him, better declare your intentions and go after him DIRECTLY instead of INDIRECTLY.

Sex is sex...not seed planting. </font>[/QUOTE]As it may seem like the cozy weekend was set up to gain commitment but it was planned a month in a half in advance the whole, my intention was not to tie im down but to gain more solitude. I believe what you said sex is just sex but it wasn't about sex we built a true solid friendship first before any of the sex came into the picture. Thanks that was a great answer! graemlins/bighug.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Jen - my answer wasn't to imply that you baited him somehow.

Everyone in the West views sex as some tie that binds when, in fact, it isn't as big a factor in relationships than it's made out to be. It doesn't mean anything in and of itself. That you singled out the information that you and he got down all weekend made your issue seem as if there was some price attached to it.

Are you certain you aren't placing any "after the fact" value on your sexual activity? </font>[/QUOTE]I think I might be placing an "I thought I was more" value on myself. I mean why would you let me turn away from you, and you not look back. I guess maybe I played myself. Maybe I felt something more than him. </font>[/QUOTE]He could perfectly well have a totally different idea of what happened between you and he.

Maybe HE feels used or baited? Maybe he's weirded out because where first you two were friends, now you're sex partners? Maybe he feels he can't trust you? It isn't all about this "he got his" bullshit that a few people in this thread asserted. :rolleyes:

No one can "let" you do anything. And the problem isn't that you felt something more than him. The problem is that you weren't open about how you felt.

Next time, open your mouth and tell him what you want. You can't gain indirectly that which should happen directly. He isn't going to REACT in the manner you prefer.

And, bottom line, you placed value on your sex because he was supposed to do something in return. Play the passive role if you must, but you have to be able to see that you put a level of value on your sex that was more than the value of the act itself. That's dangerous thinking and is going to lead to your continual disappointment.

[AD]

Jen, be careful with who you get involved with next time and be straight from the very beginning with what your intentions are. I hope you feel better.
graemlins/bighug.gif

Take care,

AD


P.S. time heals all wounds.

[JMJ]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
The fact is he WAS in a relationship that wasn't right. NOT married. and is not in one NOW. Over the weekend we had a great time almost too perfect. Four days it was great. Then Saturday night came and thats when he became flaky. Telling me that it hurt to know that I was not going to talk to him come Monday. Now its not that I wasn't going to talk to him, Its that I wanted him to say something like I meant something to him. Stay, something graemlins/conf44.gif But he was telling me that and the Sunday he was awake before daylight. Now I think if he really cared he woud have called me by now and said I Miss you! Am I wrong here to be confused??? :( With phucked up people come phucked up results. Sorry to be so harsh, but get with someone at least halfway normal and you might not have this drama in your life. Shouldn't YOU be the number one priority?? To accept anything else is unacceptable. Complications?? Get your shit together. Meet someone without complications. 7 billion people on the planet and you're bitching about some phuck-up that can't make you first in his life?? I'm done. I have spoken......JMJ graemlins/cussing.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Thank you for slapping me and waking me up! Neede it! graemlins/bighug.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Needed = Neede. Hang in there.....JMJ graemlins/remybussi.gif

[And]

http://www.tntyouthministry.com/ypn2000/ruready1.jpg

Perhaps it's time for some "No" to pre-marital/pre-relationship sex.

http://www.shiloahbooks.com/media/7-7AMMarry.JPG

[ October 29, 2003, 03:37 AM: Message edited by: 6 23 ]

[Martin Red]

Played and laid.

[And]

Originally posted by Martin Red:
Played and laid. Plaid and lei'd ?

http://www.pasadenaplayhouse.org/images/plaid.jpg and http://www.accessibledownunder.co.uk/images/lei.jpg

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by Martin Red:
Played and laid. Damn...I feel like a dumba** now! graemlins/conf44.gif

[Tony Cano]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Martin Red:
Played and laid. Damn...I feel like a dumba** now! graemlins/conf44.gif </font>[/QUOTE]no - not really. everyone makes mistakes. it's important to learn from them and move forward.

[la verde]

Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
Go and listen to Jean Carn's "Was That All It Was." Listen to the lyrics carefully until you get it. icon_rofl.gif , or Kym Mayzelles version, or even better yet... Useless!

[Brenda]

Originally posted by Albert Diaz:
Jen, be careful with who you get involved with next time and be straight from the very beginning with what your intentions are. I hope you feel better.
graemlins/bighug.gif

Take care,

AD

There You Go....


P.S. time heals all wounds.

[Brenda]

Originally posted by Albert Diaz:
Jen, be careful with who you get involved with next time and be straight from the very beginning with what your intentions are. I hope you feel better.
graemlins/bighug.gif

Take care,

AD


P.S. time heals all wounds. There You Go.... graemlins/thumbsup.gif

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. Now, all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex) then came Saturday night and he says he can't do that with you anymore (he can't have sex with you) and then sets the alarm clock at 5 am and gets up and starts to load up. 7am yall are on yalls way back home...would you say he really cared for you and didn't wanna hurt or that he was just using you? graemlins/conf44.gif Serious question! If your that stupid maybe you deserved to be used?

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. Now, all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex) then came Saturday night and he says he can't do that with you anymore (he can't have sex with you) and then sets the alarm clock at 5 am and gets up and starts to load up. 7am yall are on yalls way back home...would you say he really cared for you and didn't wanna hurt or that he was just using you? graemlins/conf44.gif Serious question! If your that stupid maybe you deserved to be used? </font>[/QUOTE]It was an honest question! Why would anyone deserve to be used stupid or not? Is it stupid to love? Is it stupid to want love? :rolleyes:

[Bill Blake]

http://www.youdraw.com/drawpad/pics/149/149211.gif

[ October 29, 2003, 09:36 AM: Message edited by: Jamie Lennox ]

[Cheddar]

Jamie & Jennifer,

Before you degrade this post..GET A ROOM!!

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by 1343:
Jamie & Jennifer,

Before you degrade this post..GET A ROOM!! I know where you live!

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by 1343:
Jamie & Jennifer,

Before you degrade this post..GET A ROOM!! no i'm not gonna degrade this post...I appreciate all answers to this thread. I asked a question and got some great answers. JL please stay off! ;)

[And]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Martin Red:
Played and laid. Damn...I feel like a dumba** now! graemlins/conf44.gif </font>[/QUOTE]That feeling too shall pass so don't fret too much. graemlins/bighug.gif

['Magic' Juan]

I think the word "love" gets tossed around more than the salad bar at Pizza Hut. Love does, indeed, take time. I think he just wanted some action. Now that he got a lil taste, he doesn't want to deal with you any more. In time, he may start calling you up again because he has it in his mind that you are a "booty call." Move forth and leave this jerk alone. You deserve better than that .....

magic_juan

P.S. Incidentally ... this guy didn't have a blindfold on, did he? ;)

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by Magic Juan:
I think the word "love" gets tossed around more than the salad bar at Pizza Hut. Love does, indeed, take time. I think he just wanted some action. Now that he got a lil taste, he doesn't want to deal with you any more. In time, he may start calling you up again because he has it in his mind that you are a "booty call." Move forth and leave this jerk alone. You deserve better than that .....

magic_juan

P.S. Incidentally ... this guy didn't have a blindfold on, did he? ;) Why is this guy "a jerk" by default?

You don't know his intentions or motivations, but because he's a man and a woman is expressing her disappointment over something he didn't give her, he's automatically "a jerk" or "a dog" or whatever? How do you know Jennifer "deserves better than that"? For all you know, she could be the root of the "problem".

Men will bend over backwards to dry a woman's tears fo' sho'. graemlins/jpshakehead.gif

[ October 29, 2003, 09:50 AM: Message edited by: Danny Gardner ]

['Magic' Juan]

Perhaps I am generalizing, but from her description I know the type of guy he is. I truly believe most guys are a__holes and need to grow the f*ck up. There are the rare few that are real men and truly love and care for their women. In this case, my opinion is that dude is a "jerk." I could have used a harsher term, but I shall not.

magic_juan

[Tony Cano]

Originally posted by Magic Juan:
Perhaps I am generalizing, but from her description I know the type of guy he is. I truly believe most guys are a__holes and need to grow the f*ck up. There are the rare few that are real men and truly love and care for their women. In this case, my opinion is that dude is a "jerk." I could have used a harsher term, but I shall not.

magic_juan both women and guys can be jerks. let's not single out the men. women play the same games guys do.

['Magic' Juan]

True ... but from the (bad) company I kept over the years, most of the time it was the guys who were playing the ladies, hence my comments.

magic_juan

[dj c-los]

Shoot I'm not gonna lie but i did a weekend thing with a girl and i knew i was gonna be tapping "that" all night and after i did a few times she started to get mushy. I was changing conversations and trying to avoid getting into talks about relationships. i felt uncomfortable. We ended getting up at 4am and i told her i needed to do something Sunday morning. I dropped her off and felt guilty afterwards but i think we concluded that we weren't seeing eye to eye.
it happens.

[ October 29, 2003, 10:03 AM: Message edited by: clos7 ]

[MYOR]

on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. I don't see why Jennifer is confused after all.. Unless, I'm not reading the above statement correct..

You guys decided to have a weekend of fun(sex). And agreed you weren't going to talk after, so why where you suprised about his actions?..
Again.. maybe WOMEN need to seperate.. sex from... a relationship..

[ October 29, 2003, 10:02 AM: Message edited by: MYOR ]

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 1343:
Jamie & Jennifer,

Before you degrade this post..GET A ROOM!! no i'm not gonna degrade this post...I appreciate all answers to this thread. I asked a question and got some great answers. JL please stay off! ;) </font>[/QUOTE]Look if you ****ing is gonna turn into lame ass 'gee I gave it up and now Im all emotional what should I do tee hee' topics on the pee....please, please, please.....dont **** anymore.

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by Magic Juan:
I think the word "love" gets tossed around more than the salad bar at Pizza Hut. Love does, indeed, take time. I think he just wanted some action. Now that he got a lil taste, he doesn't want to deal with you any more. In time, he may start calling you up again because he has it in his mind that you are a "booty call." Move forth and leave this jerk alone. You deserve better than that .....

magic_juan

P.S. Incidentally ... this guy didn't have a blindfold on, did he? ;) thanks Magic....he doesn't wear a blindfold! ;)

[ October 29, 2003, 10:05 AM: Message edited by: Jennifer ]

[upliftdisco365]

Hmmm... Sounds like he knew he was gonna cut you loose long before your getaway. I bet you thought things were going along OK. Then out of the blue, there's some problem so big that y'all can't see each other anymore. This ones common among unattached/married-cheating guys.

Sounds like somewhere along the line, dude had a very specific change of heart or your time in the rotation (I know, that's crude, but I'm trying to provide real insight here...) simply expired. The jacked-up part of being the recipient rather than the donor is that he gets to formulate, make peace with and deliver the bomb before you even have a chance to hear the fuse hissing.

It's not your fault, though. Next time, maybe hear and understand what it is exactly that the fella likes about you before throwing in chips.

www.askuplift.com (http://www.askuplift.com)

[Nicholas]

The answer could be

c. Everything was going fine until you started talking incessently and he had to leave or go insane.


d. Hes an immature little wanker who cant honestly deal with a situation like this.

e. Neo is actually a machine and thats why at the end he was able to disable the sentinels even though they were in the "real" world.

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Nicholas:


e. Neo is actually a machine and thats why at the end he was able to disable the sentinels even though they were in the "real" world. Hmmmmmmmmm, very telling and I hope everyone is paying attention.

Are you sure that doesn’t have something to do with his interaction with machines through Mr Smith?

[MC]

Jennifer oh Jennifer!!!! graemlins/stupid.gif

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:


e. Neo is actually a machine and thats why at the end he was able to disable the sentinels even though they were in the "real" world. Hmmmmmmmmm, very telling and I hope everyone is paying attention.

Are you sure that doesn’t have something to do with his interaction with machines through Mr Smith? </font>[/QUOTE]Thats a very good argument, Smith says they have a connection, that they became more alike. In the first Matrix the agents inside the matrix can communicate/control the sentinels (when they are torturing Morpheus they do this). Smith no longer needs his earpiece and maybe Neo can interact with the machines now in the way the agents could.

[Alanda Marquette from DiscoLadyLand]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. Now, all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex) then came Saturday night and he says he can't do that with you anymore (he can't have sex with you) and then sets the alarm clock at 5 am and gets up and starts to load up. 7am yall are on yalls way back home...would you say he really cared for you and didn't wanna hurt or that he was just using you? graemlins/conf44.gif Serious question! Hell Yes that was wrong! That happend to me. My boyfriend was in the Air Force, he came home one weekend. We hung out, rented a suite, partied, did our thing and BAM, come Sunday morning, the SOB decided that we were not compatible anymore and we should call it off :eek:

Of course I was hurt but revenge is sweet. He came back for the holidays and decided that we should get back together (I guess his other option drop his butt), so he called my friend's house where he knew I would be hanging out and got a rude awakening. He asked to speak to me, the guy I was dating answered the phone and told him "She ain't your girl anymore, quit calling her". He was so mad, He threatened me and the guy. I didn't care, it was payback and it felt good. :D

[ October 29, 2003, 10:33 AM: Message edited by: DiscoLady ]

[JoeB]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:


e. Neo is actually a machine and thats why at the end he was able to disable the sentinels even though they were in the "real" world. Hmmmmmmmmm, very telling and I hope everyone is paying attention.

Are you sure that doesn’t have something to do with his interaction with machines through Mr Smith? </font>[/QUOTE]Thats a very good argument, Smith says they have a connection, that they became more alike. In the first Matrix the agents inside the matrix can communicate/control the sentinels (when they are torturing Morpheus they do this). Smith no longer needs his earpiece and maybe Neo can interact with the machines now in the way the agents could. </font>[/QUOTE]on point, stiggs. can't wait to check it out next week!

graemlins/OLA.gif

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:


e. Neo is actually a machine and thats why at the end he was able to disable the sentinels even though they were in the "real" world. Hmmmmmmmmm, very telling and I hope everyone is paying attention.

Are you sure that doesn’t have something to do with his interaction with machines through Mr Smith? </font>[/QUOTE]Thats a very good argument, Smith says they have a connection, that they became more alike. In the first Matrix the agents inside the matrix can communicate/control the sentinels (when they are torturing Morpheus they do this). Smith no longer needs his earpiece and maybe Neo can interact with the machines now in the way the agents could. </font>[/QUOTE]The one thing buggin me is how much of what The Architect said in the second is true or is a lie to trick Neo.

Do you think that The Architect lied in some parts of the story?

Also if what he said is true it doesn’t seem like the Oracle could be the other ‘mother creator’ he was talking about….Trinity or Persephone?

[JoeB]

would it help matters if you saw both films and played the "enter the matrix" game before seeing the final one? what say you stiggs and lennox?

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by JoeB:
would it help matters if you saw both films and played the "enter the matrix" game before seeing the final one? what say you stiggs and lennox? Depends on how much of what the Architect said was true.

[JoeB]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JoeB:
would it help matters if you saw both films and played the "enter the matrix" game before seeing the final one? what say you stiggs and lennox? Depends on how much of what the Architect said was true. </font>[/QUOTE]true.

that's actually my gameplan, so to speak, before i check out "revolutions" next week.

[ October 29, 2003, 10:49 AM: Message edited by: JoeB ]

[dj c-los]

Matrix is crap. It's this generations Star Trek for the geeks.

Kill Bill however, kicks but!!!!


graemlins/all_coholic.gif

['Magic' Juan]

Originally posted by clos7:
Matrix is crap. It's this generations Star Trek for the geeks.

Kill Bill however, kicks but!!!!


graemlins/all_coholic.gif graemlins/thumbsup.gif graemlins/thumbsup.gif

[jimmymack-2000]

Learn from the experience--become a lesbian.

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by clos7:
Matrix is crap. It's this generations Star Trek for the geeks.

Kill Bill however, kicks but!!!!


graemlins/all_coholic.gif That is actually a very poor comparison.

[JoeB]

Originally posted by clos7:
Matrix is crap. It's this generations Star Trek for the geeks.

Kill Bill however, kicks but!!!!


graemlins/all_coholic.gif the "matrix is crap" comment is strictly your opinion as i could never really get into the whole star trek thing myself. the philosophical themes behind the matrix, the violence, and not to mention a dope soundtrack are what attracts me to these films. can you elaborate on why you personally don't like it because i would be very interested to hear your side?

but i do agree that kill bill kicked ass.

[dj c-los]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by clos7:
Matrix is crap. It's this generations Star Trek for the geeks.

Kill Bill however, kicks but!!!!


graemlins/all_coholic.gif That is actually a very poor comparison. </font>[/QUOTE]Both are fiction
Both are blockbusters
Both are one huge film divided in two
Both have a bland lead actor/actress

I think they compare just fine

graemlins/all_coholic.gif

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. I don't see why Jennifer is confused after all.. Unless, I'm not reading the above statement correct..

You guys decided to have a weekend of fun(sex). And agreed you weren't going to talk after, so why where you suprised about his actions?..
Again.. maybe WOMEN need to seperate.. sex from... a relationship.. </font>[/QUOTE]Okay everybody...watch the bouncing ball...and sing along... hail.gif

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by clos7:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by clos7:
Matrix is crap. It's this generations Star Trek for the geeks.

Kill Bill however, kicks but!!!!


graemlins/all_coholic.gif That is actually a very poor comparison. </font>[/QUOTE]Both are fiction
Both are blockbusters
Both are one huge film divided in two
Both have a bland lead actor/actress

I think they compare just fine

graemlins/all_coholic.gif </font>[/QUOTE]No they dont

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. I don't see why Jennifer is confused after all.. Unless, I'm not reading the above statement correct..

You guys decided to have a weekend of fun(sex). And agreed you weren't going to talk after, so why where you suprised about his actions?..
Again.. maybe WOMEN need to seperate.. sex from... a relationship.. </font>[/QUOTE]Okay everybody...watch the bouncing ball...and sing along... hail.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Bold, we are talking about Matrix now....get with the program.

['Magic' Juan]

graemlins/nono.gif

[JoeB]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. I don't see why Jennifer is confused after all.. Unless, I'm not reading the above statement correct..

You guys decided to have a weekend of fun(sex). And agreed you weren't going to talk after, so why where you suprised about his actions?..
Again.. maybe WOMEN need to seperate.. sex from... a relationship.. </font>[/QUOTE]Okay everybody...watch the bouncing ball...and sing along... hail.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Bold, we are talking about Matrix now....get with the program. </font>[/QUOTE]i bet danny could drop some deep shit about the matrix.

[MYOR]

Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. I don't see why Jennifer is confused after all.. Unless, I'm not reading the above statement correct..

You guys decided to have a weekend of fun(sex). And agreed you weren't going to talk after, so why where you suprised about his actions?..
Again.. maybe WOMEN need to seperate.. sex from... a relationship.. </font>[/QUOTE]Okay everybody...watch the bouncing ball...and sing along... hail.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Bold, we are talking about Matrix now....get with the program. </font>[/QUOTE]i bet danny could drop some deep shit about the matrix. </font>[/QUOTE]Then maybe u should start a MATRIX THREAD graemlins/tongueout.gif icon_rofl.gif

[Jennifer]

Guys starts yall own post please. No need for a response. Just start another thread! Thanks graemlins/thumbsup.gif

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
Guys starts yall own post please. No need for a response. Just start another thread! Thanks graemlins/thumbsup.gif Why?

[MYOR]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
Guys starts yall own post please. No need for a response. Just start another thread! Thanks graemlins/thumbsup.gif Why? </font>[/QUOTE]Just quit givin shyt and start your own thread .. graemlins/spanka.gif graemlins/spanka.gif

[Jennifer]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
Guys starts yall own post please. No need for a response. Just start another thread! Thanks graemlins/thumbsup.gif Why? </font>[/QUOTE]NO need for a response??? did that register???

Please I asked nicely graemlins/conf44.gif

[Bill Blake]

Make me

[JoeB]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. I don't see why Jennifer is confused after all.. Unless, I'm not reading the above statement correct..

You guys decided to have a weekend of fun(sex). And agreed you weren't going to talk after, so why where you suprised about his actions?..
Again.. maybe WOMEN need to seperate.. sex from... a relationship.. </font>[/QUOTE]Okay everybody...watch the bouncing ball...and sing along... hail.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Bold, we are talking about Matrix now....get with the program. </font>[/QUOTE]i bet danny could drop some deep shit about the matrix. </font>[/QUOTE]Then maybe u should start a MATRIX THREAD graemlins/tongueout.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]good to see the dhp thread police regulating! ahahaha icon_rofl.gif graemlins/tongueout.gif

sorry to get off topic but talking about the matrix gets me a little sidetracked.

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by JoeB:
would it help matters if you saw both films and played the "enter the matrix" game before seeing the final one? what say you stiggs and lennox? Did that. Didnt help. Crap game.

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
Guys starts yall own post please. No need for a response. Just start another thread! Thanks graemlins/thumbsup.gif Well maybe if you were willing to take responsibility for what happened, Trinity wouldnt have had to be put in that situation and Neo wouldnt have had to make that choice?

HOW ABOUT THAT!

[JoeB]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JoeB:
would it help matters if you saw both films and played the "enter the matrix" game before seeing the final one? what say you stiggs and lennox? Did that. Didnt help. Crap game. </font>[/QUOTE]oh well. i just bought the ****ing game to try to get any more info that could help before viewing the third film.

[2121]

Originally posted by Jennifer:
on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. Now, all weekend long yall did yall thing(sex) then came Saturday night and he says he can't do that with you anymore (he can't have sex with you) and then sets the alarm clock at 5 am and gets up and starts to load up. 7am yall are on yalls way back home...would you say he really cared for you and didn't wanna hurt or that he was just using you? graemlins/conf44.gif Serious question! maybe you got over-emotional and scared him into thinking you were falling in love with him too fast

[MYOR]

Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. I don't see why Jennifer is confused after all.. Unless, I'm not reading the above statement correct..

You guys decided to have a weekend of fun(sex). And agreed you weren't going to talk after, so why where you suprised about his actions?..
Again.. maybe WOMEN need to seperate.. sex from... a relationship.. </font>[/QUOTE]Okay everybody...watch the bouncing ball...and sing along... hail.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Bold, we are talking about Matrix now....get with the program. </font>[/QUOTE]i bet danny could drop some deep shit about the matrix. </font>[/QUOTE]Then maybe u should start a MATRIX THREAD graemlins/tongueout.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]good to see the dhp thread police regulating! ahahaha icon_rofl.gif graemlins/tongueout.gif

sorry to get off topic but talking about the matrix gets me a little sidetracked. </font>[/QUOTE]Hey I haven't seen Matrix reload.. so don't spoil that for me either... biggrinangel.gif

[2121]

hey joeB graemlins/bighug.gif

[JoeB]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. I don't see why Jennifer is confused after all.. Unless, I'm not reading the above statement correct..

You guys decided to have a weekend of fun(sex). And agreed you weren't going to talk after, so why where you suprised about his actions?..
Again.. maybe WOMEN need to seperate.. sex from... a relationship.. </font>[/QUOTE]Okay everybody...watch the bouncing ball...and sing along... hail.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Bold, we are talking about Matrix now....get with the program. </font>[/QUOTE]i bet danny could drop some deep shit about the matrix. </font>[/QUOTE]Then maybe u should start a MATRIX THREAD graemlins/tongueout.gif icon_rofl.gif </font>[/QUOTE]good to see the dhp thread police regulating! ahahaha icon_rofl.gif graemlins/tongueout.gif

sorry to get off topic but talking about the matrix gets me a little sidetracked. </font>[/QUOTE]Hey I haven't seen Matrix reload.. so don't spoil that for me either... biggrinangel.gif </font>[/QUOTE]omg, MYOR, you are so freaking LATE! get with the program, girl.

damn, i did it again. k, no more matrix posts from me in this thread.

[JoeB]

Originally posted by 2121:
hey joeB graemlins/bighug.gif graemlins/remybussi.gif

[jimmymack-2000]

Please stop hijacking the thread--it's about Jennifer's problem.

On the real, Jennifer, sapphic love is calling your name--heed the call!

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jennifer:
Guys starts yall own post please. No need for a response. Just start another thread! Thanks graemlins/thumbsup.gif Well maybe if you were willing to take responsibility for what happened, Trinity wouldnt have had to be put in that situation and Neo wouldnt have had to make that choice?

HOW ABOUT THAT! </font>[/QUOTE]Hella mega totes!

HERE CLICKIE (http://deephousepage.com/ubb/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=039420)

[ October 29, 2003, 11:24 AM: Message edited by: Jamie Lennox ]

[Drrtynewyork]

i havent seen the second matrix either :(

i guess i'll rent it this weekend! :D

[ October 29, 2003, 11:25 AM: Message edited by: DOUG GOMEZ ]

[JoeB]

Originally posted by DOUG GOMEZ:
i havent seen the second matric either :(

i guess i'll rent it this weekend! :D neither have i but the second matriX isn't bad.

[ October 29, 2003, 11:26 AM: Message edited by: JoeB ]

[Drrtynewyork]

Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DOUG GOMEZ:
i havent seen the second matric either :(

i guess i'll rent it this weekend! :D neither have i but the second matriX isn't bad. </font>[/QUOTE]late! i fixed it already smile.gif

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Danny Gardner:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> on vacation with a person you loved to get away, but because of complications yall decided it was best not to talk after that weekend. I don't see why Jennifer is confused after all.. Unless, I'm not reading the above statement correct..

You guys decided to have a weekend of fun(sex). And agreed you weren't going to talk after, so why where you suprised about his actions?..
Again.. maybe WOMEN need to seperate.. sex from... a relationship.. </font>[/QUOTE]Okay everybody...watch the bouncing ball...and sing along... hail.gif </font>[/QUOTE]Bold, we are talking about Matrix now....get with the program. </font>[/QUOTE]i bet danny could drop some deep shit about the matrix. </font>[/QUOTE]Don't stereotype me... graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif graemlins/rofl.gif

...but yes, I could...bwahahahahahaha

[Nicholas]

Jennifer, the guys a pussy but also you should be honest with him about what you want.

Trinity was finally honest with Neo and thats why they worked out.

Anyone who thinks its a Matrix within a Matrix is a stupid pussy.

[Drrtynewyork]

this thread is a matrix

[drilla]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
Jennifer, the guys a pussy but also you should be honest with him about what you want.

Trinity was finally honest with Neo and thats why they worked out.

Anyone who thinks its a Matrix within a Matrix is a stupid pussy. johnny utah is stuck in two matrixes...matrixi...matrixeee...what the hell is the plural of matrix?

[Nicholas]

Matrices.


I heard that Bill Murray is in the new Matrix movie.

[JoeB]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
Matrices.


I heard that Bill Murray is in the new Matrix movie. that's gotta be bullshit. loved him in L.I.T. but come on.

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
Matrices.


I heard that Bill Murray is in the new Matrix movie. I heard that Bill Murray is in the new Matrix

[JoeB]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
Trinity was finally honest with Neo and thats why they worked out.

i honestly think this is the best post on this thread and the most helpful. seriously.

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:
Matrices.


I heard that Bill Murray is in the new Matrix movie. I heard that Bill Murray is in the new Matrix </font>[/QUOTE]No Youre thinking about ghostbusters. in the new matrix movie, bill murray plays a character who has to live the same day over and over again, until he breaks the cycle somehow.

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by JoeB:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:
Matrices.


I heard that Bill Murray is in the new Matrix movie. that's gotta be bullshit. loved him in L.I.T. but come on. </font>[/QUOTE]No its not, he learns ice sculpture in it.

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:
Matrices.


I heard that Bill Murray is in the new Matrix movie. I heard that Bill Murray is in the new Matrix </font>[/QUOTE]No Youre thinking about ghostbusters. in the new matrix movie, bill murray plays a character who has to live the same day over and over again, until he breaks the cycle somehow. </font>[/QUOTE]Are you sure?

[Nicholas]

Maybe Im thinking of Ghostbusters 2.

That had andi macdowell in it right?

[richierich]

What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about??

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
Maybe Im thinking of Ghostbusters 2.

That had andi macdowell in it right? No it was the first ghostbusters right?

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Dude, you have obviously not seen the matrix

[MYOR]

Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :(

[ October 29, 2003, 12:35 PM: Message edited by: MYOR ]

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :( </font>[/QUOTE]And just what does this post have to do with the original topic?

Hypocrites ALL OF YOU!

[richierich]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :( </font>[/QUOTE]I just wanted to see if ANY of them would admit to this.. It's funny how people can choose to be rude..I guess it's SAFE as long as it's on-line and they are talking shit to or about a woman. Sounds JUVENILE!!

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Dude, you have obviously not seen the matrix </font>[/QUOTE]Did you hear that bill Murray was in the new one?

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :( </font>[/QUOTE]I just wanted to see if ANY of them would admit to this.. It's funny how people can choose to be rude..I guess it's SAFE as long as it's on-line and they are talking shit to or about a woman. Sounds JUVENILE!! </font>[/QUOTE]So true dude, so true.

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :( </font>[/QUOTE]I just wanted to see if ANY of them would admit to this.. It's funny how people can choose to be rude..I guess it's SAFE as long as it's on-line and they are talking shit to or about a woman. Sounds JUVENILE!! </font>[/QUOTE]Seriously, could we get back to talking about Jennifer please.

Jennifer, just call him and be honest with him, dont try and say the right thing. If he feels you, then you are good to go, he might just have got scared.

If Bill Murray hadnt taken a leap of faith like this in Groundhog Day with expressing himself to Andi McDowell, he would have been stuck in that day that repeated over and over again.

[JMJ]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :( </font>[/QUOTE]I just wanted to see if ANY of them would admit to this.. It's funny how people can choose to be rude..I guess it's SAFE as long as it's on-line and they are talking shit to or about a woman. Sounds JUVENILE!! </font>[/QUOTE]Seriously, could we get back to talking about Jennifer please.

Jennifer, just call him and be honest with him, dont try and say the right thing. If he feels you, then you are good to go, he might just have got scared.

If Bill Murray hadnt taken a leap of faith like this in Groundhog Day with expressing himself to Andi McDowell, he would have been stuck in that day that repeated over and over again. </font>[/QUOTE]Groundhog Day was a great movie, but most women hate it.....JMJ

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :( </font>[/QUOTE]I just wanted to see if ANY of them would admit to this.. It's funny how people can choose to be rude..I guess it's SAFE as long as it's on-line and they are talking shit to or about a woman. Sounds JUVENILE!! </font>[/QUOTE]Seriously, could we get back to talking about Jennifer please.

Jennifer, just call him and be honest with him, dont try and say the right thing. If he feels you, then you are good to go, he might just have got scared.

If Bill Murray hadnt taken a leap of faith like this in Groundhog Day with expressing himself to Andi McDowell, he would have been stuck in that day that repeated over and over again. </font>[/QUOTE]Groundhog Day was a great movie, but most women hate it.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]What was the name of the one where he kidnapped that chipmunk?

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :( </font>[/QUOTE]I just wanted to see if ANY of them would admit to this.. It's funny how people can choose to be rude..I guess it's SAFE as long as it's on-line and they are talking shit to or about a woman. Sounds JUVENILE!! </font>[/QUOTE]Seriously, could we get back to talking about Jennifer please.

Jennifer, just call him and be honest with him, dont try and say the right thing. If he feels you, then you are good to go, he might just have got scared.

If Bill Murray hadnt taken a leap of faith like this in Groundhog Day with expressing himself to Andi McDowell, he would have been stuck in that day that repeated over and over again. </font>[/QUOTE]Groundhog Day was a great movie, but most women hate it.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]What was the name of the one where he kidnapped that chipmunk? </font>[/QUOTE]Terms of endearment

[JMJ]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :( </font>[/QUOTE]I just wanted to see if ANY of them would admit to this.. It's funny how people can choose to be rude..I guess it's SAFE as long as it's on-line and they are talking shit to or about a woman. Sounds JUVENILE!! </font>[/QUOTE]Seriously, could we get back to talking about Jennifer please.

Jennifer, just call him and be honest with him, dont try and say the right thing. If he feels you, then you are good to go, he might just have got scared.

If Bill Murray hadnt taken a leap of faith like this in Groundhog Day with expressing himself to Andi McDowell, he would have been stuck in that day that repeated over and over again. </font>[/QUOTE]Groundhog Day was a great movie, but most women hate it.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]What was the name of the one where he kidnapped that chipmunk? </font>[/QUOTE]Wasn't that "Caddyshack"??......JMJ

[drilla]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
What does ANY of this have to do with what Jennifer was talking about?? Nothing..but they don't have any respect for other peoples wishes.. She nicely asked them not to continue this here but obviously they didn't give a shyt about her... :( </font>[/QUOTE]I just wanted to see if ANY of them would admit to this.. It's funny how people can choose to be rude..I guess it's SAFE as long as it's on-line and they are talking shit to or about a woman. Sounds JUVENILE!! </font>[/QUOTE]Seriously, could we get back to talking about Jennifer please.

Jennifer, just call him and be honest with him, dont try and say the right thing. If he feels you, then you are good to go, he might just have got scared.

If Bill Murray hadnt taken a leap of faith like this in Groundhog Day with expressing himself to Andi McDowell, he would have been stuck in that day that repeated over and over again. </font>[/QUOTE]Groundhog Day was a great movie, but most women hate it.....JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]What was the name of the one where he kidnapped that chipmunk? </font>[/QUOTE]caddyshack

dude, meatballs was the dopest murray flic ever...it really showed how if you try...try and practice that is, you can succeed..even if everyone around you is not showing you respect....very similar to jenny's problem..i think.

[ October 29, 2003, 12:55 PM: Message edited by: matthew j ]

[Nicholas]

It definately wasnt Caddyshack. It was the one where he had to live the same day over and over again.

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
What was the name of the one where he kidnapped that chipmunk? Ok I remember I think you are thinking of either the Blues Brothers or What about bob?

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
Terms of endearment No way dude, your thinking of ghostbusters 2

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:
What was the name of the one where he kidnapped that chipmunk? Ok I remember I think you are thinking of either the Blues Brothers or What about bob? </font>[/QUOTE]Bill Murray was great in the Blues brothers. I loved the part where he got into the shower every morning and it was freezing cold EVERY MORNING because it was THE SAME MORNING.


ahahahahahahahaha.

He wasnt in What about bob, your thinking about Matrix Revolutions

[mhd]

one word of advice for jennifer: babysteps

[LEONARD REMIX RROY]

It would have been better for you if...all he wanted was sex and told you that from the git go. Had it been me, I would had let you know from the start if sex was the only thing on my mind.

I love women whom p*s*y is not connected to their heart, a woman like that will have "no strings sex", the drawback to that is, most (male ego's) can't handle a woman like that - due to the "I got the golden love rod" (so they think) between their legs.

Take it for what is was or like my buddy said
Go and listen to Jean Carn's "Was That All It Was." Listen to the lyrics carefully until you get it.
If what he did was so good that you mis-took it for love, your best bet is find someone and teach them how to really break you off right (as best that they can) unless you luck up and meet someone who is just gifted in that area.

[Bold Soul]

Originally posted by mhd:
one word of advice for jennifer: babysteps bingo

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
Bill Murray was great in the Blues brothers. I loved the part where he got into the shower every morning and it was freezing cold EVERY MORNING because it was THE SAME MORNING.


ahahahahahahahaha.

No dude, THAT was caddy shack. He walked up to that guy he knows and the guy kept saying ‘Am I righ, Am I right, Am I right’

[Nicholas]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Nicholas:
Bill Murray was great in the Blues brothers. I loved the part where he got into the shower every morning and it was freezing cold EVERY MORNING because it was THE SAME MORNING.


ahahahahahahahaha.

No dude, THAT was caddy shack. He walked up to that guy he knows and the guy kept saying ‘Am I righ, Am I right, Am I right’ </font>[/QUOTE]Ned The Bull! BING!

[statuskuo]

Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 1343:
Jamie & Jennifer,

Before you degrade this post..GET A ROOM!! I know where you live! </font>[/QUOTE]yeah, me, too. let's get this b*tch!

FRUSHING!!! hoooooooooo

[Bougie Soliterre]

Originally posted by Nicholas:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:

Originally posted by Nicholas:
[qb] Bill Murray was great in the Blues brothers. I loved the part where he got into the shower every morning and it was freezing cold EVERY MORNING because it was THE SAME MORNING.

He wasnt in What about bob, your thinking about Matrix Revolutions </font>Of course he was in What About Bob. That flic is hella funny

[ October 29, 2003, 01:38 PM: Message edited by: Bougie Soliterre ]

[Bill Blake]

Originally posted by statuskuo:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Jamie Lennox:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by 1343:
Jamie & Jennifer,

Before you degrade this post..GET A ROOM!! I know where you live! </font>[/QUOTE]yeah, me, too. let's get this b*tch!

FRUSHING!!! hoooooooooo </font>[/QUOTE]Yo Im down!

[Moksha]

Originally posted by mhd:
one word of advice for jennifer: babysteps hahahaha