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    WOULD YOU EVER DO IT?

    IF YOU RAN INTO AN EX (WHETHER YOU WERE CURRENTLY
    INVOLVED IN A RELATIONSHIP), AND THEY JUST LOOKED SO DAMN GOOD TO YOU, AND THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTED ITSELF, WOULD YOU CAVE IN TO YOUR DESIRE?

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    its a dangerous game to play - he or she is probably your ex for a damn good reason. If was bored yeah maybe but Wouldn't jeopardize current relationship for been there done that.
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    Yea why not? Knock it out for old time sake, you know it's good and you know their techniques! Yea I'd do Celerie again if I could! Hey [img]AR15firing.gif[/img] Malik, you're gettin' sloppy seconds dog! I hope you enjoy what I left. [img]graemlins/acclaim.gif[/img]
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    there's a reason i am not with those crazy bitches anymore!!!!

    so the answer is pretty much no.

    okay if i was single, there is this one i never technically "dated" if you know what i mean... so her, yes.
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    depends on how the sex was in our previous relationship...although I can't stand and I mean he litterally makes me ill...my ex husband...I'd sex him... [img]biggrinangel.gif[/img]
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    That depends...If I was single I might really consider it....I would just hate to look her in the eyes afterwards. So ...to answer the question..ummm MAYBE!

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    I FEEL YOU ON THAT ONE, ASHAKI (ABOUT DOING SOMEBODY YOU REALLY CAN'T STAND). VENGEFUL SEX CAN BE GOOD.

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    I had an ex "pop in"

    She had mailed me in the daytime explaining she had moved from Florida to Glasgow and she was in Birmingham for a few days, she works for an animation company now. She wanted me to put some music over some clips for her.... Cut a long story short, I said Not tonight I am tired and busy, perhaps another time, I was interested in the work though. The same night she turns up at mine, I have fallen a sleep in my tighty whiteys, I wake up confused go to the door and there she is.

    We talked and looked at these clips which where interesting and good work, but I could see that it was a cover story.


    To answer your question

    No I didn't.

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    Have done it before ...
    The mental anguish over 'going back to that' wasn't worth it. We were broken up for a reason. Sex wasn't the glue that held our relationship together anyway so it sure didn't help anything when the relationship was over. Would like to think I'd never do it again ... in fact, pretty sure I'll never do that again with any of my exes.
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    Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
    WOULD YOU EVER DO IT?

    IF YOU RAN INTO AN EX (WHETHER YOU WERE CURRENTLY
    INVOLVED IN A RELATIONSHIP), AND THEY JUST LOOKED SO DAMN GOOD TO YOU, AND THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTED ITSELF, WOULD YOU CAVE IN TO YOUR DESIRE?
    It depends on what shoes she has on and what skirt or jeans, shorts , lipstick, oooh fu_kit, just the danm smell of it. Maybe I can say (How she did it, when she did it, and DANM WHERE SHE DID IT. Let call her now.
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    Dude what's uuup had she gained a ton of weight or what, she brought it to you! I'm sure she left dissapointed. [img]graemlins/banghead.gif[/img]
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    Originally posted by Martin Red:
    I had an ex "pop in"

    She had mailed me in the daytime explaining she had moved from Florida to Glasgow and she was in Birmingham for a few days, she works for an animation company now. She wanted me to put some music over some clips for her.... Cut a long story short, I said Not tonight I am tired and busy, perhaps another time, I was interested in the work though. The same night she turns up at mine, I have fallen a sleep in my tighty whiteys, I wake up confused go to the door and there she is.

    We talked and looked at these clips which where interesting and good work, but I could see that it was a cover story.


    To answer your question

    No I didn't.
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    Yes. The key is that both parties must be clear on expectations and intentions. Friendly sharing without confusion and false promises is cool with me.
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    I would if I was single or if I'm with someone that is just filling the spot. But if I was with someone I cared for, then no I wouldn't.

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    Yes I have, will, and will again
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    Originally posted by Ashaki:
    </font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Martin Red:
    I had an ex "pop in"

    She had mailed me in the daytime explaining she had moved from Florida to Glasgow and she was in Birmingham for a few days, she works for an animation company now. She wanted me to put some music over some clips for her.... Cut a long story short, I said Not tonight I am tired and busy, perhaps another time, I was interested in the work though. The same night she turns up at mine, I have fallen a sleep in my tighty whiteys, I wake up confused go to the door and there she is.

    We talked and looked at these clips which where interesting and good work, but I could see that it was a cover story.


    To answer your question

    No I didn't.
    Don't ever tell someone you still wear tighty whities [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]still ? are that like outta date know or something, these are Kenneth Cole they're not like kids pants or anything, perhaps our definitions are different although it was an American women who said the term to me whilst I was asleep on Red D's floor in Belgium. [img]graemlins/scared.gif[/img]

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    Originally posted by 6 23:
    Have done it before ...
    The mental anguish over 'going back to that' wasn't worth it. We were broken up for a reason. Sex wasn't the glue that held our relationship together anyway so it sure didn't help anything when the relationship was over. Would like to think I'd never do it again ... in fact, pretty sure I'll never do that again with any of my exes.
    [img]graemlins/nono.gif[/img]
    i did that myself for a full year with a young lady. I would never do it again for the same reason.
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    Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
    I FEEL YOU ON THAT ONE, ASHAKI (ABOUT DOING SOMEBODY YOU REALLY CAN'T STAND). VENGEFUL SEX CAN BE GOOD.
    It can be good and fulfilling to see their expression when you tap that ass real good and be out like a thief in the night...
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    It depends on the ex...I have with several. If the sex was bangin in the first place and it's no strings, why not?
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    Originally posted by Sensei Melei-1010:
    </font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
    I FEEL YOU ON THAT ONE, ASHAKI (ABOUT DOING SOMEBODY YOU REALLY CAN'T STAND). VENGEFUL SEX CAN BE GOOD.
    It can be good and fulfilling to see their expression when you tap that ass real good and be out like a thief in the night... </font>[/QUOTE]More like have them screaming my name and quivering like a wet puppy when I'm finished..just kidding [img]biggrinangel.gif[/img]
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    Originally posted by Shalewa:
    Yes. The key is that both parties must be clear on expectations and intentions. Friendly sharing without confusion and false promises is cool with me.
    "Friendly Sharing". How divinely cavalier. Love dem modern gals...

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    There's only one ex I would love to have a session with.Only thing is,the chance was there,it just didn't feel right and I did not want to go backwards.Turning her away was the best feeling that sex could not give me.

    She was shocked to say the least.

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    Turning her away was the best feeling that sex could not give me.
    OOH, JAMIE. SO MEAN. BUT DIDN'T YOU REALLY WANNA DO IT?

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    Originally posted by DISKOQUEEN99:
    </font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr /> Turning her away was the best feeling that sex could not give me.
    OOH, JAMIE. SO MEAN. BUT DIDN'T YOU REALLY WANNA DO IT? </font>[/QUOTE]I would be lying if I said no,but I had to be strong and turn her down.I just did not want to go backwards.I would have been all messed up again.

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    Depends on the ex. Depends on how the relationship was and how it ended.

    If it's someone you still trust, it might be safer to meet those needs with him/her than going out there when you really don't want a relationship. I have at least 2 exes I'd take to bed in a minute. For one thing, I now know what NOT to expect from them and that could work very well into my plan. On the other hand, I've had a neurotic or two who I don't even want to know my phone number.

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