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    Your significant other got macked by someone else? but here is the kicker... guys she got taken by another woman, and ladies your man got taken by another man. How would you really feel or would it matter at all that it was a member of your lovers' same sex that came between the two of you?
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    Damn DUDE...tough !! I would consider a party with all 3 of us [img]graemlins/grinyes.gif[/img]

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    Originally posted by Michael J. Carmona:
    Damn DUDE...tough !! I would consider a party with all 3 of us [img]graemlins/grinyes.gif[/img]
    No that's not in the plan ... she got taken and don't want nothin' to do with you anymore.... now what???
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    Can you say, "threesome?" [img]smokin.gif[/img]

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    Was she being macked down, or was she actually interested and giving positive responses back?

    If it was my significant other (wife in my case) and she was just getting game spit to her, it's no big deal to me. But if she's responding like she's interested, then we have a story. If she acts on it tnen we have a problem.
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    Originally posted by richierich:
    No that's not in the plan ... she got taken and don't want nothin' to do with you anymore.... now what???
    First, I would sing "Don't Say (It's Over)" by Stevo Armani, then ....Damn Dude, umm that would be weird, but I have to go back to my college days MOTTO "I'm Young, Dumb, and Full of Cum" [img]graemlins/cool_shades.gif[/img]

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    macked down....... [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img] you guys got the best sayings
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    Naw she got macked down and taken... she straight left you.. and there are no threesomes. she don't want you nor does her partner. get the threesome fantasy out of the scenario... she's gone... now what??
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    If that happened to me I think I'd have to bust out my "How to backhand someone when they act stupid" guide.

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    In my opinion, if something like that happened - that person wasn't yours to begin with. Cry, sulk, get over it & move on. . . . Thank GOD that you didn't invest even more time, love, energy & resources into such a doubleminded individual....When it comes to relationships, loyalty, trust & faith are tantamount to the relationship! Its unfortunate that its such a rarity these days for men to be faithful to one woman anyway.....and even sadder that the trend is now seeming to extend to the ladies as well.

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    Originally posted by richierich:
    Naw she got macked down and taken... she straight left you.. and there are no threesomes. she don't want you nor does her partner. get the threesome fantasy out of the scenario... she's gone... now what??
    Well then F her and ask for every muh fuggen thing you gave her (but be polite, otherwise, she might tell you to F off), then tell her you cheated on her ass all the time so you knew you had it coming. To top it all off, subscribe her to porn and junk mail lists, tee-pee the hell out of her house, and try to hook up with one of her friends (Again, be polite and sly in order to get into the pants). Even better, if you have any nude pics of her, tell her you're gonna post them all over the damn internet and your gonna mail them to all her friends, your friends, and her family. Not that I've ever done any of that before. [img]smokin.gif[/img]

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    My feelings would have to change for that person I could not trust them even though it with same sex individual.

    The pussy [img]graemlins/nono.gif[/img] cat just don't get that good!!!
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    Originally posted by Albert D.:
    </font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
    Naw she got macked down and taken... she straight left you.. and there are no threesomes. she don't want you nor does her partner. get the threesome fantasy out of the scenario... she's gone... now what??
    Well then F her and ask for every muh fuggen thing you gave her (but be polite, otherwise, she might tell you to F off), then tell her you cheated on her ass all the time so you knew you had it coming. To top it all off, subscribe her to porn and junk mail lists, tee-pee the hell out of her house, and try to hook up with one of her friends (Again, be polite and sly in order to get into the pants). Even better, if you have any nude pics of her, tell her your gonna post them all over the damn internet and your gonna mail them to all her friends, your friends, and her family. Not that I've ever done any of that before. [img]smokin.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Albert, Albert, Albert...... [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img]

    [ March 17, 2003, 09:09 AM: Message edited by: girlfriday ]
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    Originally posted by girlfriday:
    </font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Albert D.:
    </font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
    Naw she got macked down and taken... she straight left you.. and there are no threesomes. she don't want you nor does her partner. get the threesome fantasy out of the scenario... she's gone... now what??
    Well then F her and ask for every muh fuggen thing you gave her (but be polite, otherwise, she might tell you to F off), then tell her you cheated on her ass all the time so you knew you had it coming. To top it all off, subscribe her to porn and junk mail lists, tee-pee the hell out of her house, and try to hook up with one of her friends (Again, be polite and sly in order to get into the pants). Even better, if you have any nude pics of her, tell her your gonna post them all over the damn internet and your gonna mail them to all her friends, your friends, and her family. Not that I've ever done any of that before. [img]smokin.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Albert, Albert, Albert...... [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]What?? [img]graemlins/remybussi.gif[/img]

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    Originally posted by Albert D.:
    </font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by richierich:
    Naw she got macked down and taken... she straight left you.. and there are no threesomes. she don't want you nor does her partner. get the threesome fantasy out of the scenario... she's gone... now what??
    Well then F her and ask for every muh fuggen thing you gave her (but be polite, otherwise, she might tell you to F off), then tell her you cheated on her ass all the time so you knew you had it coming. To top it all off, subscribe her to porn and junk mail lists, tee-pee the hell out of her house, and try to hook up with one of her friends (Again, be polite and sly in order to get into the pants). Even better, if you have any nude pics of her, tell her you're gonna post them all over the damn internet and your gonna mail them to all her friends, your friends, and her family. Not that I've ever done any of that before. [img]smokin.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]that's exactly what i'm talking about. [img]graemlins/acclaim.gif[/img]
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    I think it would be in many ways easier to take for me if my man left me for a man than for a woman because it seems to me that his coming into alignment with his true sexuality is way more about him than about me. I mean if he wants a man there is nothing I can do to "compete" for his affections short of negating my woman-self and that ain't happening. If he wants a different woman and leaves our relationship in the ugly way described in the scenario, that is more deeply ego-wounding because you can get caught up in that whole older, younger, thinner, bustier, richer, more aggressive, less aggressive loop of comparing yourself to the next partner. That said, betrayal is betrayal and any partner who leaves as a direct result of infidelity is a person who needs to check themeselves. Endings are hard but they don't have to be dishonorable.
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    If I was involved with a woman, who then left me for ANOTHER woman, I'd consider that she'd done me a HUGE-ASS favor!!! I don't need her! I'll find someone a hundred times better. Phuck her and her confusion... let her go "carpet munch". [img]mad1.gif[/img]

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    Considering the male ego,I would be hurt of course,but you would have to see these kind of things coming.

    I guess from me having a few feamle friends who crossed over,I can see some things diffently.I would most def be aware and look out for certain things.If she leaves me for another woman,she was frontin with me anyways.

    I would rather that person be honest with me and tell me the deal.It would make it easier for me to deal with.If I see her get macked up and she is totally vibing with this woman,she was already confused and just used me as a scapegoat to fit in.

    **** em.I don't have time to worry over that kind of stuff.A woman is gonna do what she wants to when her mind is made up.There is no need to worry.Life is too short to be bugging out over a man or a woman.I guess my heart has been hardened,but I am not going to flip out over another woman...ever!!!

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    Originally posted by Shalewa:
    I think it would be in many ways easier to take for me if my man left me for a man than for a woman because it seems to me that his coming into alignment with his true sexuality is way more about him than about me. I mean if he wants a man there is nothing I can do to "compete" for his affections short of negating my woman-self and that ain't happening. If he wants a different woman and leaves our relationship in the ugly way described in the scenario, that is more deeply ego-wounding because you can get caught up in that whole older, younger, thinner, bustier, richer, more aggressive, less aggressive loop of comparing yourself to the next partner. That said, betrayal is betrayal and any partner who leaves as a direct result of infidelity is a person who needs to check themeselves. Endings are hard but they don't have to be dishonorable.
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    Originally posted by JAMIE 3:26:
    I guess my heart has been hardened,but I am not going to flip out over another woman...ever!!!
    I hear ya! Some women just don't understand that some of us fellas are sensitive too and we need a lil TLC every once in a while. We're not a blubbering mess, but we do have feelings dammit! [img]graemlins/cussing.gif[/img]

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    Originally posted by Austin/Dallas:
    My feelings would have to change for that person I could not trust them even though it with same sex individual.

    The pussy [img]graemlins/nono.gif[/img] cat just don't get that good!!!
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    Betrayal is betrayal. Same sex, whatever. There are too many factors that influence a person's decision to go for a same sex mackdown. Is a person automatically gay because they cheated on you/left you for a same sex person? What if they found themselves really attracted to that one person? If I were already hurting from a break-up, the gender of whoever they're seeing next doesn't add a unique pain of its own. I'm already hurting ...
    I'd still have a few nagging questions I guess.
    Relationships are just weird anyway..
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    First, I would sing "Don't Say (It's Over)" by Stevo Armani, then ....Damn Dude, umm that would be weird, but I have to go back to my college days MOTTO "I'm Young, Dumb, and Full of Cum".
    [img]graemlins/cool_shades.gif[/img]

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    Please pardon the expression but **** 'EM. Damn confused horny ass freaks.
    Most of the time anyone that start as a heterosexual and all of a sudden decide that they are gay simply don't know what they want. I am not talking about the folk that have claimed to be straight all their life only to hide their homosexuality because of what family or friends think. It's an act of selfishness and has nothing to do with the other person.

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    Originally posted by DiscoLady:
    Please pardon the expression but **** 'EM. Damn confused horny ass freaks.
    Most of the time anyone that start as a heterosexual and all of a sudden decide that they are gay simply don't know what they want. I am not talking about the folk that have claimed to be straight all their life only to hide their homosexuality because of what family or friends think. It's an act of selfishness and has nothing to do with the other person.

    Just my opinion [img]graemlins/cool_shades.gif[/img]
    No but this was your soulmate. Not someone you just met. Seriously how would you feel emotionally, How is anybody gonna just say **** it if they deeply cared for that person. Yeah we all can say.."**** em and all of this macho or bravado, but really deep down how would you really Feel inside. That's what I want to hear, not what woud you do. I mean your TRUE,DEEP Feelings inside. How would you even know if it's all of a sudden or something that they've been thinking about for years?
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