Before I begin this topic I will say this so that no one gets the wrong idea about me, but itís important for anyone who want to get to know me to understand, that I have a tremendous amount of love and respect for my people, my ancestors and my history, that is why I have a difficult time with interracial relationship. I always have and at the age of 32 year 2003 I still do. Even more now than before because itís like itís becoming an epidemic. I do believe that love has no color, but itís almost like brothers are intentionally seeking the love and companionship of women other than Black women. And Iím going to be truthful, IT HURTS. Not only does it hurt us emotionally but psychologically. When I examine the state of our communities and our families, I feel like how dare you, abandon us. What is wrong? What is going on? What are we doing or not doing? This is something I think is serious. There are far too many beautiful, hard working, loving and caring single Black women, and the sad part is that many are not marrying or pro-creating. Before I continue to rant what are some of your thoughts and feelings.