Neighbors are "supposed" to look out for one another and the block they live on. AgentDoubleA, just approach your neighbor, tell her your concerns and try to come to a happy conclusion for all. Hey, maybe you could chaperon one of the teen parties and show them how it's done.
Every day folks are telling me to be careful on the streets because they know I will express my opinion. When I see folks throw trash on my block, I say, "PICK IT UP...you don't live around here and we want a clean block." They look at me, stop to contemplate and then go back to pick up the trash they dropped.
When folks have parties and it's 2am and I hear lots of noise, I politely ask them to lower the volume. If they ignore me, I put my clothes on, walk out the house and approach them with a certain look on my face. Of course someone will have something to say and I walk up to them and they STFU. I thank them for their cooperation and say, "Continue to have a great time." Not another peep from them disturbing the neighbors.
When I see young males walking down the street with their pants hanging and spewing foul language, I approach them and start a conversation. By the time I'm finished, their pants are up, they are smiling and thanking me. Some even come back for more conversations and oftentimes I give lend them books or music from my collections. Seventy-five percent return the materials.
Let's be real: Scare people live in filthy, blighted and crime infested neighborhoods. However, it only takes one brave person to STAND UP and speak his/her mind. Yes, folks will be taken aback and/or curse you out or try to get violent, but
my experiences tell me 95% will be cooperative.
I know the solutions are hard, but
SOMEONE HAS TO STAND UP TO PROTECT THE CHILDREN AND ELDERS!
I HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO FEAR and if it's my time to leave this Earth...then so be it!

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