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    Persistence & determination (a major 5 yr milestone for me)

    5 years ago wifey & I took out a 2nd mortgage on our primary residence & took the proceeds from the sale of my old townhouse to come up with $100k to put down on a $350k investment (our store). The original plan/idea was for us to be completely removed from corporate america and set out on our own to forge our own path.

    In those 5 years we've:

  2. Welcomed 2 boys to the family

  3. Moved once (about to be twice)

  4. Had knock down, drag out fights over how to run the store and finances

  5. Woken up almost every morning checking our bank account to see what checks bounced the night before

  6. Gotten our financial intuition so in tune that we know how many days each vendor takes to deposit their checks so we can float other checks in the meantime

  7. Worked 18-19-20 hours a day

  8. Been served a potential eviction notice for rent being late when the economy took a nose dive

  9. Taken one vacation in 5 years, and only have 1 whole day off together as a family every 2 weeks

  10. had me go back into the traditional workforce for financial & health care reasons

  11. Tried to share pertinent info for others interested in doing the same


  12. and that's just the tip of the iceberg. It has certainly been the most difficult, trying & rewarding 5 years of my entire life.

    HOWEVER....

    I wouldn't change a thing. Life is good, we've survived this long, I know my wife is willing to ride and be right there by my side pushing me when I need to be pushed and holding me up when I need to be held up and now, here it is Aug. 2012 &

    The last payment for the loan we took out to buy the store has cleared the bank!!!!

    For 5 years we've been killing ourselves, busting our asses looking forward to this day, struggling financially and living off no budget, pinching peices of pennies together and putting our entire beings into the journey looking at this day as the light at the end of the tunnel & we've finally made it. We just freed up ~$5k a month that we've been living without for the past 5 years. It's like a fucking boulder filled with lead padded with iron & covered in steel being lifted off our shoulders.

    When we bought the store, this picture below was on the wall of the store. The previous owners had put it up there when they bought the store 30 years ago & it was still there when we bought it. Whenever I was exhausted I looked at this picture, straightened my spine and kept it moving towards our goals.

    Hopefully it will help inspire someone else to do the same when they need it most.




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    nice, I remember when it was a dream, thanks for sharing so much along the way

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    Props!
    As for the charges against me, I am unconcerned. I am beyond their timid lying morality, and so I am beyond caring.

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    Congrats
    I'm currently trying to get my own dream in gear
    Better late than never

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    Respect! I have no idea how you did all that while balancing the demands of your growing family. It's a very inspirational story.

    Now, I'm half expecting you to say you're planning on opening another store with that extra ~5k a month!

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Buddy Love Show View Post
    Props!
    You know what's funny...

    When we FIRST bought the store, one day on here you & I were talking about the store & I posted up that we were already breaking even..

    That's because I'd figured out how much we needed to make each day to pay our bills, and we were making more than that on a day to day basis so I'm thinking we're sitting fat. We need to make $1500 a day to pay the bills and we're making $1800, we're GOLDEN son! GOLDEN!

    little did I know that :

    1. that's not breaking even, not when you're sitting on a $250k note for another 5 years
    2. almost all of our overly-rosy assumptions would be busted wide open the first time a cooler died and cost us $1200 to fix
    3. the economy would take a nose dive

    I look back on that moment frequently with embarrassment at how naive I was at that moment and how you probably read that, having already been in business multiple times and knowing the deal, and probably laughed.

    We went into this deal thinking we'd be making money every week, not sinking more of our own money into it over time... but here we are and we're finally starting to see some payoff for all these years.

    Truth be told, probably one of the biggest payoffs is that it's completely changed how our entire family views spending money. Our burn rate is a fraction of what it was 5 years ago.

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    Quote Originally Posted by D J 1 3 8 View Post
    Congrats
    I'm currently trying to get my own dream in gear
    Better late than never

    If there's anything you think I might have some insight on, lemme know. I'll tell you everything I know & even make up some stuff I don't.


    Good luck!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ruse View Post
    Respect! I have no idea how you did all that while balancing the demands of your growing family. It's a very inspirational story.

    Now, I'm half expecting you to say you're planning on opening another store with that extra ~5k a month!
    We've been half-heartedly looking for another location for ~6 months now.




    We're kicking around ideas for something down closer to the waterfront in Old Town, or maybe in Reston Town Center. Nothing definite yet though. We're in the process of having a new single family home built and trying to get moved in, then once that's settled down we'll probably get real serious about the 2nd store around the time tax returns come in. One of the things we've learned is that if we can find the right location, we can get it up and running for a LOT less than we paid for the first one so it won't be as much of an initial struggle.

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    Given that prime Old Town location, future ROI should be off the hook! Especially if they decide to develop the Waterfront + the pending MGM
    Casino across the river full of tourists taking the ferry to King St. $$$!
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    It's been a blast sharing this endeavor with you, man!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr.I View Post
    Given that prime Old Town location, future ROI should be off the hook! Especially if they decide to develop the Waterfront + the pending MGM
    Casino across the river full of tourists taking the ferry to King St. $$$!
    IMO, the waterfront redevelopment will eventually happen. The older generation in town bitch and fight about anything/everything but it will eventually happen. Most of their arguments boil down to "we don't want change". It's just a matter of scale and timeline. I'm guessing another 5-6 years before it's in full swing.

    I don't know how much the casino would help. In my experience gamblers gamble, they don't do much else. Its the same hustle they use for lottery "it'll bring more people in your store to buy other things" but the reality is that most lottery players buy lottery and very little else. The more hardcore the gambler, the less other stuff they buy. You'll have someone drop $30 on some Pick 3's and complain for 5 minutes about a .49 cent banana being too expensive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Daniel, Grand Duke of Stony Island View Post
    It's been a blast sharing this endeavor with you, man!
    Thanks.

    You as well.

    I'm waiting on one of those pies, dammit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DeesKo View Post
    You'll have someone drop $30 on some Pick 3's and complain for 5 minutes about a .49 cent banana being too expensive.

    Slave to the Rhythm

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    Quote Originally Posted by DaveR View Post
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    I'm not sure if I should thank you for allowing me to take vacations vicariously through you, or shoot you with a crossbow for rubbing in what it's like to take vacations.

    One day I'll grow up and be like you & take 6 months off every year. Of course, I'll be 70 by then, but still....

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    Quote Originally Posted by DeesKo View Post


    & take 6 months off every year.
    and be able to afford to do it.. That's MY Goal!
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    Quote Originally Posted by DeesKo View Post
    Thanks.

    You as well.

    I'm waiting on one of those pies, dammit.

    Peace
    Clay and other materials just arrived for one of these:



    My own mobile design, of course.

    Here's how my days go: golf in the morning, writing in the afternoon, pizza in the evening, comedy at night. You'd think I wasn't as old as I am. hahahaha!

    Open another store, dawg!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Daniel, Grand Duke of Stony Island View Post
    Clay and other materials just arrived for one of these:



    My own mobile design, of course.

    Here's how my days go: golf in the morning, writing in the afternoon, pizza in the evening, comedy at night. You'd think I wasn't as old as I am. hahahaha!

    Open another store, dawg!




    DAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMMMN!

    That's dope.

    As for the schedule, hey, that's what keeps you young right? The minute you stop gravity takes hold.

    hahaha!
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    Great job, lollipop man. Proud to 'know' you

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    Congrats, Deesko!

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    you've been a big inspiration, man. congrats!

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    DeesKo, congratulations to you and your family; wishing you even more success in the future!

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    respect

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