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Thread: SILENT TREATMENT OR A GOOD CURSING OUT

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    WHICH IS WORSE?

    [ January 13, 2004, 01:14 PM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]
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    I think you need a good cursing out.

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    I will take the cussing out. I can't stand being ignored.

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    I always wondered what happened to a good ole fashioned shunning. Silent treatment is worse.
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    I love giving someone the silent treatment, then rolling my eyes as I turn and look at them....but still give them the silent treatment! Love it!!!! [img]graemlins/grinyes.gif[/img]
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    Silent treatment

    The cussie in a cuss out can find an avenue in the cussor's rant to make it allll better

    The cussie is made to think about what they did w/ the silent treatment

    IMO

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    I am used to getting cussed out.silent treatment always works better.It's ben a long ass time since I cussed someone out.I just ignore them now.

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    I prefer to get cussed out and embarrased a little.

    At least then you know where they stand and you can let them know how you feel as well. When they yell, at least you know they care, otherwise they wouldn't bother!
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    Silence has always worked out, to my benefit...but theres always pleasure in some good old cursing out! [img]graemlins/cussing.gif[/img]
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    Some say it's better for your health to say what's on your mind but cussing someone out can make you seem crazy & too attached.

    I do both. I'll cuss you out then give you the silent treatment. it works too [img]icon_rofl.gif[/img]
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    Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
    Some say it's better for your health to say what's on your mind but cussing someone out can make you seem crazy & too attached.

    I do both. I'll cuss you out then give you the silent treatment. it works too [img]icon_rofl.gif[/img]
    That's my grandmother to a t!!!Boy I'm glad I'm not on her shit list anymore.To get cussed out bad and then to have her not speaking was a bitch...

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    But seriously you should talk out your problems instead of just giving the silent treatment. A person won't no what's bothering you if you don't the say ANYTHING.

    On the other hand if your in the wrong, what would make you feel worse?

    [ January 13, 2004, 01:33 PM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]
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    good cursing out.. one thing I can not stand is keeping something that bothers me in.. You will know... for sure... Then maybe a little of the silent treatment

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    Please give me the "Silent Treatment"... .cause I don't want to hear all that shit no way..be blowin' my high and shit.

    [ January 13, 2004, 01:54 PM: Message edited by: richierich ]

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    Commication is always better than the lack of communication. Curse and scream at least I know what's wrong with you and then we can work it out from there.

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    Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
    But seriously you should talk out your problems instead of just giving the silent treatment. A person won't no what's bothering you if you don't the say ANYTHING.

    On the other hand if your in the wrong, what would make you feel worse?
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    I give the silent treatment too much. Sometimes cats need to know when they have fucked up. I am starting to learn how to cuss people out mildly enough to get my point without me having to go to jail. [img]graemlins/cool_shades.gif[/img]
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    You express feelings with a cussin' and tactic w/ silent treatment.

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    I've had the silent treatment. Problem is i've not known what the problem is.

    It does make listening to music and watching tv easier though [img]smile.gif[/img]

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    Sometimes I think you should just chill & cool off before saying anything. You may say something that you'll truly regret and cause serious problems between the two of you.

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    Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
    Sometimes I think you should just chill & cool off before saying anything. You may say something that you'll truly regret and cause serious problems between the two of you.
    Something I've learned the really hard way.
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    Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
    WHICH IS WORSE?
    Curse at me and you will GET THE SILENT TREATMENT. I'm too old to be cursin' and fussin' with anyone. Talk to me like you've got some sense, and then we can deal with your issue.

    I rather like the silent treatment. That means that I can enjoy the rest of my day without interruption from you! :D

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    Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
    Sometimes I think you should just chill & cool off before saying anything. You may say something that you'll truly regret and cause serious problems between the two of you.
    Because once I say it, I cannot take it back.

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    Personally, I prefer to fight... Lets get the shit over wit... [img]graemlins/slap.gif[/img]
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    Originally posted by Hello Kitty:
    Silence has always worked out, to my benefit...but theres always pleasure in some good old cursing out! [img]graemlins/cussing.gif[/img]
    Hahahahaha...So true with you Ms. Kitty, so true....U are the Silent Treatment Queen.
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