Angry ass women...who's ta blame??

[Ms Tina]

richierich ...quitters never win....!! D Low this does not apply 2 U. You definately should quit while you are ahead!

[DLow]

Originally posted by Ms Tina:
richierich ...quitters never win....!! D Low this does not apply 2 U. You definately should quit while you are ahead!

I'm out of this one. I'll bounce with this thought; women have conformed for a reason; men.

[ July 20, 2004, 03:05 PM: Message edited by: DLow ]

[KBig]

[img]graemlins/rofl5.gif[/img] @ DLow LOL

[JMJ]

Originally posted by KBig:
I determine my status JMJ... LOL

as long as I think it that's all that matters

You thought that about me... 3 weeks ago... ;)


*evil chuckle* [img]graemlins/biglaugha.gif[/img]

Then I met you.......JMJ

[KBig]

LOL LOL

JMJ

But only for a minute! LOL LOL * Hollern* [img]graemlins/bolt.gif[/img]


[img]graemlins/biglaugha.gif[/img]

[richierich]

I hear you Ms. Tina it's just that I don't feel like I have anything to prove..especially to someone that already has it in their head how ALL men are...That shit is just lame and tired..The misguided generalizations I have read on this thread are so far off til I'm convinced that some just really don't have a clue..And are just projecting their own misguided assumptions based on their own negative experiences/heartbreak onto others.....I know me and what I like and dislike and have absolutely no negative issues with women..But all the shit I am reading leads me to believe that some have serious negative issues with men....

[ July 20, 2004, 03:11 PM: Message edited by: richierich ]

[TAC]

Love the Black woman!!! May be then they will be less angry. I gotta run...

Peace
TAC

[JMJ]

Originally posted by KBig:
LOL LOL

JMJ

But only for a minute! LOL LOL * Hollern* [img]graemlins/bolt.gif[/img]


[img]graemlins/biglaugha.gif[/img]

That was enough.......JMJ

[Tiger*]

Originally posted by Ms Tina:
Timing is sooo important. Sometimes it's just not the right time to talk about certain things. We need to learn how to respect the other person's feelings.

A person needs to be able to respect the need for silence. I think men are better than women at knowing when to shut up and let it go... [img]graemlins/respekt.gif[/img]

[JMJ]

Originally posted by TigerEyes:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ms Tina:
Timing is sooo important. Sometimes it's just not the right time to talk about certain things. We need to learn how to respect the other person's feelings.

A person needs to be able to respect the need for silence. I think men are better than women at knowing when to shut up and let it go... [img]graemlins/respekt.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Not really.......JMJ

[Ms Tina]

richierich just remember all women are not angry!! Trust!! [img]graemlins/remybussi.gif[/img]

[Ms Tina]

Tigereyes - I feel you!!

[Tiger*]

Originally posted by JMJ:
Face it: We're all fucked up and dysfunctional......JMJ

[img]graemlins/lol.gif[/img] So true!

[richierich]

Originally posted by Ms Tina:
richierich just remember all women are not angry!! Trust!! [img]graemlins/remybussi.gif[/img]

Oh believe me I know...most of the ones that I know are just fine....

[MYOR]

Originally posted by kara:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by kara:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ms Tina:
JMJ you took the words right outta my mouth. Communication is all messed up. I a very big on talking. Actions speak louder than words?? Not necessarily. Words are very powerful, that's why you gotta talk. People may not always remember what you did, but you bets believe they ain't forgettin what you said. So c'mon ladies and gentlemen let's talk about it!

fuck that (no disrespect meant), but i think women make it more complicated yapping so much ... </font>[/QUOTE]How so kara??? How is knowing exactly where you stand a bad thing?? </font>[/QUOTE]its along the lines of david.s post today about using words to describe things which vocabulary doesn't quite capture. some things, don't have to be said, or if said .. take on the meaning of whatever words / images come up ... many things in relationships/encounters are of the most primitive nature ... other communication methods are better suited ...

other times, not having to label/describe/prescribe can let things be more real , IMO

and then other times, its just unfair of the one person to expect the other to deal w/things so word oriented, just because they are


better to use words and mean them, then just to discuss only to sate some insecurity </font>[/QUOTE]I seem to have a different idea when it comes to communication...

[JoDe Presser aka Marlon Billups]

Originally posted by KBig:
What is most hilarious is when Men reach the over 35 mark ... and reality sets in LOL

and here comes Male pattern baldness, Mr. Knees hurt when it rains ... makes a guest appearance,
prostate cancer exams become a reality... can't pull'em like I use to reality checks are more frequent... back aint as scrong as it used to be ... cant last as long in the boudoir..and then yall wanna come running to the women that you strung along for 7 -10years...
asnd she is hitting her prime!!!
I call it the Im alone and Im not a hunk anymore reality....

LOL [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img]

* Electric Company song* Sing it wif me girls!!!

FFFFFF ... Un = FUN
Connnn.... Cussion= Concussion

LOL [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img]

Although I find this funny as hell, but, and I mean but, there are some women who have reach that mark too and cannot get into that position anymore....

her: let's just do it missionary tonight baby!!!
me: Naw, hold on I'll go get the ben-gay!!!
[img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img]

[fred da warrior]

The communication problem in (most) relationships....Women expect things to be SAID, men expect things to be UNDERSTOOD

[KBig]

Communication is one thing... but str8 misrepresentation and lying is sumthin else...


Communication can be improved ...

[Mack-Williams]

Originally posted by TigerEyes:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ms Tina:
Timing is sooo important. Sometimes it's just not the right time to talk about certain things. We need to learn how to respect the other person's feelings.

A person needs to be able to respect the need for silence. I think men are better than women at knowing when to shut up and let it go... [img]graemlins/respekt.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Word.

[MYOR]

Originally posted by fred:
The communication problem in (most) relationships....Women expect things to be SAID, men expect things to be UNDERSTOOD

And their lies the problem.... ;)

[Tiger*]

Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TigerEyes:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ms Tina:
Timing is sooo important. Sometimes it's just not the right time to talk about certain things. We need to learn how to respect the other person's feelings.

A person needs to be able to respect the need for silence. I think men are better than women at knowing when to shut up and let it go... [img]graemlins/respekt.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Not really.......JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]It's been my experience with men. I used to make the mistake that a man letting a subject drop was just shallow and meant that he could give a shit about what I was saying. So being a stereotypical women would talk more...(men call this nagging)My intention was not to be a nag but to be heard.. so I am learning to just let some things go.. prioritize... men just seem to be able to do this better... or is it that they really don't give a shit?
The truth is men and women communicate differently.
Women have a tendancy to look at each other to show interest when talking.. Men can sit side by side and have a deep conversation while watching t.v....

[JMJ]

Originally posted by TigerEyes:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TigerEyes:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ms Tina:
Timing is sooo important. Sometimes it's just not the right time to talk about certain things. We need to learn how to respect the other person's feelings.

A person needs to be able to respect the need for silence. I think men are better than women at knowing when to shut up and let it go... [img]graemlins/respekt.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Not really.......JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]It's been my experience with men. I used to make the mistake that a man letting a subject drop was just shallow and meant that he could give a shit about what I was saying. So being a stereotypical women would talk more...(men call this nagging)My intention was not to be a nag but to be heard.. so I am learning to just let some things go.. prioritize... men just seem to be able to do this better... or is it that they really don't give a shit?
The truth is men and women communicate differently.
Women have a tendancy to look at each other to show interest when talking.. Men can sit side by side and have a deep conversation while watching t.v.... </font>[/QUOTE]I wouldn't say that we don't give a shit. We're just all different in how we handle things. If I don't really give a shit I'll back down. But if I do give a shit?? Buckle up.......JMJ ;)

[Tiger*]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by fred:
The communication problem in (most) relationships....Women expect things to be SAID, men expect things to be UNDERSTOOD

And their lies the problem.... ;) </font>[/QUOTE][img]graemlins/grinyes.gif[/img]

[Tiger*]

Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TigerEyes:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by JMJ:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by TigerEyes:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ms Tina:
Timing is sooo important. Sometimes it's just not the right time to talk about certain things. We need to learn how to respect the other person's feelings.

A person needs to be able to respect the need for silence. I think men are better than women at knowing when to shut up and let it go... [img]graemlins/respekt.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Not really.......JMJ </font>[/QUOTE]It's been my experience with men. I used to make the mistake that a man letting a subject drop was just shallow and meant that he could give a shit about what I was saying. So being a stereotypical women would talk more...(men call this nagging)My intention was not to be a nag but to be heard.. so I am learning to just let some things go.. prioritize... men just seem to be able to do this better... or is it that they really don't give a shit?
The truth is men and women communicate differently.
Women have a tendancy to look at each other to show interest when talking.. Men can sit side by side and have a deep conversation while watching t.v.... </font>[/QUOTE]I wouldn't say that we don't give a shit. We're just all different in how we handle things. If I don't really give a shit I'll back down. But if I do give a shit?? Buckle up.......JMJ ;) </font>[/QUOTE] [img]graemlins/respekt.gif[/img]
yep! my "you better buckle up" attitude gets me in trouble sometimes. :D

[kara]

Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by kara:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by MYOR:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by kara:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Ms Tina:
JMJ you took the words right outta my mouth. Communication is all messed up. I a very big on talking. Actions speak louder than words?? Not necessarily. Words are very powerful, that's why you gotta talk. People may not always remember what you did, but you bets believe they ain't forgettin what you said. So c'mon ladies and gentlemen let's talk about it!

fuck that (no disrespect meant), but i think women make it more complicated yapping so much ... </font>[/QUOTE]How so kara??? How is knowing exactly where you stand a bad thing?? </font>[/QUOTE]its along the lines of david.s post today about using words to describe things which vocabulary doesn't quite capture. some things, don't have to be said, or if said .. take on the meaning of whatever words / images come up ... many things in relationships/encounters are of the most primitive nature ... other communication methods are better suited ...

other times, not having to label/describe/prescribe can let things be more real , IMO

and then other times, its just unfair of the one person to expect the other to deal w/things so word oriented, just because they are


better to use words and mean them, then just to discuss only to sate some insecurity </font>[/QUOTE]I seem to have a different idea when it comes to communication... </font>[/QUOTE]i'm sure i could gain from understanding what u mean by communication ... my fear of intimacy and distrust of men MIGHT cloud my outlooks [img]icon_rofl.gif[/img] [img]graemlins/all_coholic.gif[/img]