DO YOU KNOW SOMEONE THAT'S ALWAYS BEGGING FOR SOMETHING?

[Dee-Dee Sheridan]

A cigarette, money, kool-aid, a joint, etc.

[ July 15, 2004, 06:23 PM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]

[And]

"ALWAYS" No one's ALWAYS asking someone for something are they? [img]graemlins/rofl.gif[/img]

[KIMHAFFORD_HOUSEHEAD]

Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
A cigarette, money, kool-aid, a joint, etc.

The list is sooooo long that I just say I don't know where to begin.

[Dee-Dee Sheridan]

Originally posted by KIMHAFFORD_HOUSEHEAD:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
A cigarette, money, kool-aid, a joint, etc.

The list is sooooo long that I just say I don't know where to begin. </font>[/QUOTE]upstairs neighbor has borrowed bread, toiletpaper, money (& won't pay it back either), soap, shampoo..ect. I told her that I was going to start borrowing from her. Well, I asked to borrow some sugar...this is the honest truth, that hefer sent back about 2 tablespoons of sugar! I told her I won't lend her nothing else.

[ July 15, 2004, 06:19 PM: Message edited by: Dee-Dee Sheridan ]

[Detroitbootybass]

All the ladies are always begging me for some good lovin' - it gets kinda old after a while.

:D

[SENSE MGMT]

me. You got a square on you?

[shante b]

i know one person like that, the rest were cut......out of my life. not only does he beg, he always thinks the world owes him something.

[DJ Keith Porter]

Originally posted by Detroitbootybass:
All the ladies are always begging me for some good lovin' - it gets kinda old after a while.

:D

You have a hard job huh! [img]icon_rofl.gif[/img]

[imported_Gman]

Yes your moma with her beggin ass [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img]

This is not like you to set yourself up like that [img]graemlins/biglaugha.gif[/img]

[TonyB]

Originally posted by Gman:
Yes your moma with her beggin ass [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img]

This is not like you to set yourself up like that [img]graemlins/biglaugha.gif[/img]

[img]icon_rofl.gif[/img] my azz off at G-Man!!!

What's up G!!!

[likewater]

wow how did you know!!! [img]hail.gif[/img]

it happened to me 2 days ago..A women that I've been knowing for 23yrs, a back in the day person.. she only was around me and my husband because at the time we use to sell weed and coke, but when I stopped using cocain and selling weed she stopped coming over..when I left Newark to work in New York I stopped hanging out with her because she was always broke..not sayin I had it like that but I was the one always holding..
the only thing she would have would be a couple of bags of weed and a 24oz of Bud Ice..
So this is the conversation I got from her on Tuesday..

I was sitting at my desk, the phone rang I said my normal greeting and this is what I here..
"Hi, how you doing?"
Me: I'm fine, how's it going with you..
Begger: I'm just chillin..
Me: so what's up..
Begger: Hey you got something for me?
Me: my face is looking like this right at that moment [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img] , what did you just say...
Begger: I said do you have any money..
Me: No, I have enough for me..
Begger: Oh I thought you could lend me some money..
Now my thought is still on the part where she said "Do I have anything for her" I was so [img]mad1.gif[/img] I had to call her back and ask her if I borrowed any money for her for her to ask me if I had any money for her [img]graemlins/stupid.gif[/img] she said "Oh no I just wanted to see if you had any money I can borrow that's all.. Me and her have not seen or did a girlfriend thing since the garage closed. and she thinks that since I bought a house I have fuckin Money.. if I did it aint for her.. [img]graemlins/slap.gif[/img]
that's when I hung up the phone and said WTF was she thinking about [img]AR15firing.gif[/img]

[ July 16, 2004, 09:48 AM: Message edited by: likewater ]

[Mack-Williams]

I am gonna keep it real, My kids. They begg 24/7.

[TonyB]

Originally posted by Mack-Williams:
I am gonna keep it real, My kids. They begg 24/7.

Gotta luv 'em though!!! They're doin' their job!

[likewater]

Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
A cigarette, money, kool-aid, a joint, etc.

Hi DeeDee, I was thinking about you yesterday.. Long time no here, Happy Friday to you!! [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img]

[Dee-Dee Sheridan]

Originally posted by likewater:
wow how did you know!!! [img]hail.gif[/img]

it happened to me 2 days ago..A women that I've been knowing for 23yrs, a back in the day person.. she only was around me and my husband because at the time we use to sell weed and coke, but when I stopped using cocain and selling weed she stopped coming over..when I left Newark to work in New York I stopped hanging out with her because she was always broke..not sayin I had it like that but I was the one always holding..
the only thing she would have would be a couple of bags of weed and a 24oz of Bud Ice..
So this is the conversation I got from her on Tuesday..

I was sitting at my desk, the phone rang I said my normal greeting and this is what I here..
"Hi, how you doing?"
Me: I'm fine, how's it going with you..
Begger: I'm just chillin..
Me: so what's up..
Begger: Hey you got something for me?
Me: my face is looking like this right at that moment [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img] , what did you just say...
Begger: I said do you have any money..
Me: No, I have enough for me..
Begger: Oh I thought you could lend me some money..
Now my thought is still on the part where she said "Do I have anything for her" I was so [img]mad1.gif[/img] I had to call her back and ask her if I borrowed any money for her for her to ask me if I had any money for her [img]graemlins/stupid.gif[/img] she said "Oh no I just wanted to see if you had any money I can borrow that's all.. Me and her have not seen or did a girlfriend thing since the garage closed. and she thinks that since I bought a house I have fuckin Money.. if I did it aint for her.. [img]graemlins/slap.gif[/img]
that's when I hung up the phone and said WTF was she thinking about [img]AR15firing.gif[/img]

HAHAHAHA Grown ass Muh Fvckas with jobs beggin'

Gurl I was at a lingerie party last Saturday night. This chick that nobody really knows comes up to one of my good friends and say's " Can I get some of your Remy Martin" Mind you this was her personal drink it was a half pint(BYOB). So my friend looked at her and said "this is a byob party where's yours muh fuka" (in a playing manner but, she was really serious) My friend pours her a shot and told her to be gone. Do you know that this hefer came back 30 minutes later and asked if she could get a squig of her beer? I looked at my friend like what the fvck is wrong with this mooching ass hefer. GO TO THE STORE AND GET CHO OWN!!!

[likewater]

Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by likewater:
wow how did you know!!! [img]hail.gif[/img]

it happened to me 2 days ago..A women that I've been knowing for 23yrs, a back in the day person.. she only was around me and my husband because at the time we use to sell weed and coke, but when I stopped using cocain and selling weed she stopped coming over..when I left Newark to work in New York I stopped hanging out with her because she was always broke..not sayin I had it like that but I was the one always holding..
the only thing she would have would be a couple of bags of weed and a 24oz of Bud Ice..
So this is the conversation I got from her on Tuesday..

I was sitting at my desk, the phone rang I said my normal greeting and this is what I here..
"Hi, how you doing?"
Me: I'm fine, how's it going with you..
Begger: I'm just chillin..
Me: so what's up..
Begger: Hey you got something for me?
Me: my face is looking like this right at that moment [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img] , what did you just say...
Begger: I said do you have any money..
Me: No, I have enough for me..
Begger: Oh I thought you could lend me some money..
Now my thought is still on the part where she said "Do I have anything for her" I was so [img]mad1.gif[/img] I had to call her back and ask her if I borrowed any money for her for her to ask me if I had any money for her [img]graemlins/stupid.gif[/img] she said "Oh no I just wanted to see if you had any money I can borrow that's all.. Me and her have not seen or did a girlfriend thing since the garage closed. and she thinks that since I bought a house I have fuckin Money.. if I did it aint for her.. [img]graemlins/slap.gif[/img]
that's when I hung up the phone and said WTF was she thinking about [img]AR15firing.gif[/img]

HAHAHAHA Grown ass Muh Fvckas with jobs beggin'

Gurl I was at a lingerie party last Saturday night. This chick that nobody really knows comes up to one of my good friends and say's " Can I get some of your Remy Martin" Mind you this was her personal drink it was a half pint(BYOB). So my friend looked at her and said "this is a byob party where's yours muh fuka" (in a playing manner but, she was really serious) My friend pours her a shot and told her to be gone. Do you know that this hefer came back 30 minutes later and asked if she could get a squig of her beer? I looked at my friend like what the fvck is wrong with this mooching ass hefer. GO TO THE STORE AND GET CHO OWN!!! </font>[/QUOTE]That's a Damn shame.. cheap ass bitch! and I don't like using that word but comeon..
the funny thing is with the women I know. she has no kids, no car and she still lives with her mother.. (46yrs)old, their mother told her and her brother that if they if they ever move out she don't know what she would do with herself.. so those Grown ASS fuckers are still there..livin in the same rooms that had as kids.. I don't have a problem with that I have a problem with them not having nothing while living there.. they should be rolling in cash and have motor transport.. IT'S A DAYUUM SHAME!! [img]mad1.gif[/img]

[MYOR]

Yeah Me.. with Cigarettes.. After a few times they would see and just give me a cig, even when I didn't want one. [img]graemlins/rofl5.gif[/img] Which kinda sucks when you are trying to stop.. People would just come up hey whats up.. Lets smoke a cig.. :D

[ July 16, 2004, 10:49 AM: Message edited by: MYOR ]

[SENSE MGMT]

Actually I am kinda like that for real. I dunno...all of us at the store...whom are people I grew up with all treat everything as community. Our food, our cigarettes, our music, our blank CDs to burn the music is all communal and that's how we treat life. We all bum from each other on a day to day basis. I guess we kinda only feel that comfortable with each other with the exception for me...I kinda tend to treat life in general like that and I'm sure it might urk some people.

It comes from me being the guy always buying everyone drinks back in the day. When things were dandy I was ballin, people had no problem giving me whatever I would ask for cus I was always taking everyone out to dinner, buying drinks, etc so that was the least they could do. I notice those same people don't anymore cus I'm a broke joke. Same thing with my partner Tony...he used to actually constantly fly in friends from out of state at the height of our rave days, noone's throwing him a bone nowadays.

Which leads me to a deeper question. You notice how when someone does something i.e. favors for you, they say "it's no thing" or they claim they're doing a favor.

It's very interesting that most people do these favors looking to hang it over your head. People keep these mental score cards I've noticed. I've done it to some degree subconcously and sometimes when I catch myself...I'm like interesting.

Best example is buying drinks. Some people buy drinks for the next person and expect that person to by the next round. It's cool if you treat it casually and state "I'll get this round, you get the next" But otherwise don't offer unless you genuinely wanna buy that person a drink and not seek the next one to balance it out. Ya know doing something without expectations of return or gain. "i'm buyin this guy a drink cus he's a good friend and I have an extra $x amount that I won't miss." is how it should be...referencing some stupid shit an ex girlfriend of mine did.

Hoep I turned a light hearted post into a deeper one that provoked thought.

[SENSE MGMT]

Originally posted by Dee-Dee Sheridan:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by likewater:
wow how did you know!!! [img]hail.gif[/img]

it happened to me 2 days ago..A women that I've been knowing for 23yrs, a back in the day person.. she only was around me and my husband because at the time we use to sell weed and coke, but when I stopped using cocain and selling weed she stopped coming over..when I left Newark to work in New York I stopped hanging out with her because she was always broke..not sayin I had it like that but I was the one always holding..
the only thing she would have would be a couple of bags of weed and a 24oz of Bud Ice..
So this is the conversation I got from her on Tuesday..

I was sitting at my desk, the phone rang I said my normal greeting and this is what I here..
"Hi, how you doing?"
Me: I'm fine, how's it going with you..
Begger: I'm just chillin..
Me: so what's up..
Begger: Hey you got something for me?
Me: my face is looking like this right at that moment [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img] , what did you just say...
Begger: I said do you have any money..
Me: No, I have enough for me..
Begger: Oh I thought you could lend me some money..
Now my thought is still on the part where she said "Do I have anything for her" I was so [img]mad1.gif[/img] I had to call her back and ask her if I borrowed any money for her for her to ask me if I had any money for her [img]graemlins/stupid.gif[/img] she said "Oh no I just wanted to see if you had any money I can borrow that's all.. Me and her have not seen or did a girlfriend thing since the garage closed. and she thinks that since I bought a house I have fuckin Money.. if I did it aint for her.. [img]graemlins/slap.gif[/img]
that's when I hung up the phone and said WTF was she thinking about [img]AR15firing.gif[/img]

HAHAHAHA Grown ass Muh Fvckas with jobs beggin'

Gurl I was at a lingerie party last Saturday night. This chick that nobody really knows comes up to one of my good friends and say's " Can I get some of your Remy Martin" Mind you this was her personal drink it was a half pint(BYOB). So my friend looked at her and said "this is a byob party where's yours muh fuka" (in a playing manner but, she was really serious) My friend pours her a shot and told her to be gone. Do you know that this hefer came back 30 minutes later and asked if she could get a squig of her beer? I looked at my friend like what the fvck is wrong with this mooching ass hefer. GO TO THE STORE AND GET CHO OWN!!! </font>[/QUOTE]Now that's some Ghetto as shit!!!

[Dee-Dee Sheridan]

Originally posted by Gman:
Yes your moma with her beggin ass [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img]

This is not like you to set yourself up like that [img]graemlins/biglaugha.gif[/img]

I knew you or jamie would slip in a yo momma joke. [img]graemlins/spanka.gif[/img]

[shante b]

likewater that is beyond ghetto...it's funny ppl's perceptions...

hahah you made me think i have an aunt like that that i had to train not to beg from me. i was unemployeed for about a year and during month number 7 ( none of my family called to see if i was okay or anything)my aunt who is 55 with a good good job, called and the first thing out of her mouth was "do you have any coins, sobbing, i need about 500.00, im sure you have it." i was like hi how are you? and last time i checked im unemployeed with rent to pay.

i couldn't believe it. she even did it to my father when he was unemployeed and her own sister, i had to cuss her out repsectfully during that time cause i was helping my dad til he got a job. i let her know that dad is getting money from me and he doesn't have any to spare, he's UNEMPLOYEED. i think she thought the check from unemployment is 2400.00 a month or something...LOL [img]graemlins/acclaim.gif[/img]

[ July 16, 2004, 01:24 PM: Message edited by: houseflower ]

[likewater]

Originally posted by houseflower:
likewater that is beyond ghetto...it's funny ppl's perceptions...

hahah you made me think i have an aunt like that that i had to train not to beg from me. i was unemployeed for about 7 months unemployeed about a year ago and non of my family called to see if i was okay or anything. needed money. my aunt who is 55 with a good good job, called and the first thing out of her mouth was "do you have any coins, sobbing, i need about 500.00, im sure you have it." i was like hi how are you? and last time i checked im unemployeed with rent to pay.

i couldn't believe it. she even did it to my father when he was unemployeed and her own sister, i had to cuss her out repsectfully during that time cause i was helping my dad til he got a job. i let her know that dad is getting money from me and he doesn't have any to spare, he's UNEMPLOYEED. i think she thought the check from unemployment is 2400.00 a month or something...LOL [img]graemlins/acclaim.gif[/img]

Cheapass People, how dare her ask you that.
The women that I was talkin about got Paid last friday and asking me for money on tuesday..you ask me I think she is smokin those coolies again or she didn't have money to buy weed..WTF!!, but I forgot to tell you.. she called me at home that night to ask me again, but I told her I had company and can't talk.. [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img]

[ July 16, 2004, 12:23 PM: Message edited by: likewater ]

[BHouse]

I was so broke once, I was with a date and didn't have a condom. I had to call my guy to travel 30min in his car to bring a box of three. [img]graemlins/mecry.gif[/img] I got talked about for awhile after that, but it was worth it.

[shante b]

Originally posted by likewater:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by houseflower:
likewater that is beyond ghetto...it's funny ppl's perceptions...

hahah you made me think i have an aunt like that that i had to train not to beg from me. i was unemployeed for about 7 months unemployeed about a year ago and non of my family called to see if i was okay or anything. needed money. my aunt who is 55 with a good good job, called and the first thing out of her mouth was "do you have any coins, sobbing, i need about 500.00, im sure you have it." i was like hi how are you? and last time i checked im unemployeed with rent to pay.

i couldn't believe it. she even did it to my father when he was unemployeed and her own sister, i had to cuss her out repsectfully during that time cause i was helping my dad til he got a job. i let her know that dad is getting money from me and he doesn't have any to spare, he's UNEMPLOYEED. i think she thought the check from unemployment is 2400.00 a month or something...LOL [img]graemlins/acclaim.gif[/img]

Cheapass People, how dare her ask you that.
The women that I was talkin about got Paid last friday and asking me for money on tuesday..you ask me I think she is smokin those coolies again or she didn't have money to buy weed..WTF!!, but I forgot to tell you.. she called me at home that night to ask me again, but I told her I had company and can't talk.. [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Laughs. now that is some gall. No she didn't call again to ask for money...hmmmmm. I guess too ppl know that u r responsible so they figure oh likewater, or this person saves, or does this.....i know they have 1G laying around for me to have....(see i said have not borrow)

[likewater]

Originally posted by houseflower:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by likewater:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by houseflower:
likewater that is beyond ghetto...it's funny ppl's perceptions...

hahah you made me think i have an aunt like that that i had to train not to beg from me. i was unemployeed for about 7 months unemployeed about a year ago and non of my family called to see if i was okay or anything. needed money. my aunt who is 55 with a good good job, called and the first thing out of her mouth was "do you have any coins, sobbing, i need about 500.00, im sure you have it." i was like hi how are you? and last time i checked im unemployeed with rent to pay.

i couldn't believe it. she even did it to my father when he was unemployeed and her own sister, i had to cuss her out repsectfully during that time cause i was helping my dad til he got a job. i let her know that dad is getting money from me and he doesn't have any to spare, he's UNEMPLOYEED. i think she thought the check from unemployment is 2400.00 a month or something...LOL [img]graemlins/acclaim.gif[/img]

Cheapass People, how dare her ask you that.
The women that I was talkin about got Paid last friday and asking me for money on tuesday..you ask me I think she is smokin those coolies again or she didn't have money to buy weed..WTF!!, but I forgot to tell you.. she called me at home that night to ask me again, but I told her I had company and can't talk.. [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]Laughs. now that is some gall. No she didn't call again to ask for money...hmmmmm. I guess too ppl know that u r responsible so they figure oh likewater, or this person saves, or does this.....i know they have 1G laying around for me to have....(see i said have not borrow) </font>[/QUOTE]she was so fuckup she thought that when I called her house back to ask her did I borrow from her.. she called me back so fast that..she thought I changed my mind and was calling to give her the money.. but she was so when I said it again NO!! but to call me at home with a happy voice to ask me if I was HIGH and what was I doing.. " Hi Bev what you doing.. did you smoke yet" I said what? what did you just ask me.. I said are you High.. I said yeah why?.. oh no reason I was just callin.. well I'm not going to keep you bye.. [img]graemlins/cussing.gif[/img]
the fuckin I want to get HIGH so bad cheapassbitch... [img]graemlins/jpshakehead.gif[/img]

[ July 16, 2004, 02:15 PM: Message edited by: likewater ]