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Gman
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After some consideration in this matter I have decided that Marbethemechanic will not be invited back to rejoin this message board. The main issue is one of making physical threats against others (The most recent being against Adam Cruz). After reviewing some legal issues which indicates that I "may" be involved in the event something bad happens it is not really worth taking that chance for someone I don't even know. Also since this message board is still running on a computer located on a University network there are certains rules that I "must" abide by. I will be moving the message board to my private ISP at a later date but just have not found the time recently to do this.

Peace -Gerard

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quote:
Originally posted by Gman:
After some consideration in this matter I have decided that Marbethemechanic will not be invited back to rejoin this message board. The main issue is one of making physical threats against others (The most recent being against Adam Cruz). After reviewing some legal issues which indicates that I "may" be involved in the event something bad happens it is not really worth taking that chance for someone I don't even know. Also since this message board is still running on a computer located on a University network there are certains rules that I "must" abide by. I will be moving the message board to my private ISP at a later date but just have not found the time recently to do this.

Peace -Gerard


That's a shame because sometimes he makes valid points. It's just the way he goes about it that is problematic. Nevertheless, I completely understand your position and, if it means anything, I support you on this.

Maybe the reason you haven't had time to move to a private ISP is because you have to spend so much time refereeing these petty arguments and doling out punsihments to grown people who sometimes act like little children.

I wish I were more computer savvy and had more time myself. I would offer to help you out. But at this point I know just about enough about computers to crash them.

I hope others will support you and not go ballistic over this. It's not censorship, it's self defense of you, the University, this board and what you're offering us here.

MarkBe, if you read this, please don't be angry. Gman is just trying to do the right thing by everyone. Perhaps a private email of understanding and discussion is in order here.

Good luck G-

[ February 17, 2002: Message edited by: Wild I ]

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he may have made good points, but it's one thing to have a man that beats you while in the midst saying that he loves you as opposed to another man who'll not only say it, but show it...

gman, you've been a class act since day one...i'm honored to be a member of this extremely informative and repectable message board...

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quote:
Originally posted by Rick:
extremely informative and repectable message board...

and people should contribute to keep it that way. EVERYONE.

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Like my dad used to say, whilst your under my roof you'll go by my rules.
GMan, it's your House and I am thankfull for the roof.

MarkB if your out in Cyberland, mail me.

I never had a chance to tell you that you bear a passing resemblance to the guy out of the film Running Scared. Only a passing resemblance mind.

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Well it was bound to happen. I hope one day he can adjust his responses as I have done.

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A few points to consider.

G, I respect your decision. Implicit in your statement was the possibility of Mark's return once the board is moved to another ISP. I hope that is a possibility. Mark was a valuable contributor to this page. Lets not forget that his "outrage" in this matter was about integrity.
Lets also not forget this was a familiar pattern of Mark's caustic comments creating a reaction leading to him allowing himself to be goaded into threats. I wonder if any thought were given to disinviting any of the parties that were regular participants in this dance. There are parties that are regular participants in the disruption of this board.
Finally, i hope that these events will encourage all of us to continue the dialogue, especially if we disagree, but to do so respectfully. FOr my part, i look forward to criticism and dissenting views, that is the only way to learn, peace, mark


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For the good of all please refrain from making any references to Nestor or UndergroundNYC.com on this message board from this point on. Your cooperation will be greatly appreciated.

Peace and thanks

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DJ Timmy Richardson
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Not trying to defend MArk but I dont remember him threatening Adam.

TOT

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Whose house?
G's House!

I fully support your decision, as it was based on legal issues as well as physical threats (which SOOOOO have no place in our community, let alone on our message boards).

Anyone who takes issue with your decision should think twice because I'm sure they wouldn't be volunteering to pay your legal fees were something to actually come of the threats.

I agree, though, that MBTM's "realness" will be missed ...

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Gman
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Nestor has agreed not to post here anymore. Any references or inferences to him or his website will be deleted by me.

-G

[ February 17, 2002: Message edited by: Gman ]

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Yo G, your leadership here has been superb, I know it has not been easy, peace, mark
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quote:
Originally posted by DJ Timmy Richardson:
Not trying to defend MArk but I dont remember him threatening Adam.

TOT


I don't remember much about the exact wordings, but wasn't he saying at one point that he'd pay Adam a visit at his gig and (place physical threat here)... I'm not sure, that's all I can remember.

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Regardless of everything he said against me, I'm sad that it turned out like this and that mark is not being asked to re-join this board.

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G what happend to my post about this issue??I wrote it about 30mins agao,now I forgot what I wrote...

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quote:
Originally posted by Gene:
.......phantom message board........ ..


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"WoW"....
i havent been on in a month or so, what the hell is going on here?!!
Personal drama?
People need to wake up, and just remember were all in this as one!
Peace out..
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MarkBeTheMechanic on the left with daughter in tow.


I think there are some people taking this thing way too seriously. MarkBe is being taken way too seriously. Honestly ask yourselves. Would an intelligent, erudite, forward thinking FAMILY man with a beautiful daughter on his back & in his heart jeopardize his life & his family for some that are willing to go to great lengths to silence him, even putting GMAN in a corner with legal wrangling just to see to it that his voice is not heard, maybe even lose sleep because he/they must have some kind of final word/action/repressive measure. I think there are some people who are seriously obsessed with the fact that they are not comfortable within themselves, that they have to project their lack of self. Regardless of who is right or wrong, it’s this need to exert power the only way they know how, with all the resources available to them, and using or abusing these resources in an unintelligent belligerent manner just for one man, just for one man’s opinion, just for one man who spoke his mind and wasn’t afraid to ruffle some feathers, wake up the sleeping giant within to face the demons that exist where few people dare to reach. Nobody put a gun to anyone’s head and said you must retort or you’re not a man, your manhood has been temporarily revoked. As a matter of fact, peaceful resolution through either complete silence or countering violent with non violent responses is very effective, since this medium of music is not so life threatening.

Maybe I’m being naïve in all of this but there have been many that have come to MarkBe’s defense, people that I have come to greatly respect because of their honesty, intellect, depth & breadth of knowledge, wisdom, common sense & realness. I highly doubt these people have any hidden agendas. MarkBe invited people down to his gig & he gets disrespected for being a businessman & a responsible parent that is obviously thinking about preparing his offspring for an uncertain future, made very real and in your face as of 9/11. The man is a serious intellect with a twist, the MarkBE twist as only MarkBE knows how & there are some that can’t deal with this. Get over it. Nobody cares about you anyway, certainly not MarkBe, and although I’m not speaking for him, would highly doubt that he’s losing sleep over this.

What is really disturbing is this desire for power, control & ultimate control by silencing ones right to express themselves, especially within the current climate of uncertainty, where basic civil liberties are being threatened & eroded minute by minute. This is a very real reaction to the times. People like ______are acting like dictators. This type of behavior is mimicking the ruling class’s. Think for one minute!!!!! All it takes is everyday people like you & me to approve of this shit & sooner or later down the line, public opinion polls will sway in the favor of the sissies because now we gotta be scared of people’s opinions. MarkBe said it best. “Think, it ain’t illegal yet”. The precedent being set here is a dangerous one & over what, some bullshit macho ego thing? Over some critique that was not addressed properly from the get because of inexperience in dealing with certain “character” traits which, SEEM difficult. If one is prepared to use force, verbal force that is, they better be trained in the art of knowledge of self. MartkBE is one confident & aware individual that seems to have his corner of the world in check. That to me is his only crime.

[ February 17, 2002: Message edited by: Cosmic_Twin ]


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quote:
Originally posted by Gman:
For the good of all please refrain from making any references to Nestor or UndergroundNYC.com on this message board from this point on. Your cooperation will be greatly appreciated.

Peace and thanks

-Gerard


I'm fine with that.

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Wild i
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Cosmic, I see your point and agree with them on some level, but consider the world we live in. None of us can control any of the other of us. These are just words and sometimes they get heated and usually we all calm down and come to our senses. However, we never know who may not calm down about any particular issue. IF, just IF something jumps off as a result of a discussion on this board, trust me, some legal eagle (apologies to our lawyers) would find a way to make Gman culpable. (remember Jerry Springer and Jenny Jones).

We cannot know from reading these posts just how hot someone's blood is boiling. I think a wise man protects himself and his investment (be it time, money, whatever). Also, maybe those who still have privleges will monitor our rhetoric so as to explain rather than inflame.

Once again, just opinions.

[ February 18, 2002: Message edited by: Wild I ]

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quote:
Originally posted by Wild I:
Cosmic, I see your point and agree with them on some level, but consider the world we live in. None of us can control any of the other of us. These are just words and sometimes they get heated and usually we all calm down and come to our senses. However, we never know who may not calm down about any particular issue. IF, just IF something jumps off as a result of a discussion on this board, trust me, some legal eagle (apologies to our lawyers) would find a way to make Gman culpable. (remember Jerry Springer).

We cannot know from reading these posts just how hot someone's blood is boiling. I think a wise man protects himself and his investment (be it time, money, whatever). Also, maybe those who still have privleges will monitor our rhetoric so as to explain rather than inflame.

Once again, just opinions.


But you can't suspend logic. Cosmic raises the essential question: Is it worth it? The answer: No way.

As for the legal issues, if there is any liability, it has already attached. Mind you, I don't have all the facts or the law, but my gut feeling is there is none. THe outrageous thing, however, is that G is even considering such an issue. It is clear that this was brought to his attention, what is not clear is whether it was a threat, implied or explicit. That is, to me, outrageous, peace, mark

Having said that, at the end of the day, it is about respect for what G has provided for us, free of charge.


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"Having said that, at the end of the day, it is about respect for what G has provided for us, free of charge."

did anyone say "pay pal"?

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I am sad to hear this. I also felt like the dispute between MarkBe and Adam Cruz had escalated to the point where it was no longer anonymous fun and interest. I kept having thoughts of the Sally Jesse Raphael guest who wound up killing another because he felt his manhood was threatened. It gets very scary when people know where each other lives, works, etc.. I certainly did not agree with everything MarkBe had to say but I respected him for saying it. Few people have the wit and humor that he has and he was one of the rare people that made me truly laugh. I don't think this is censorship it is simply Gman covering his own ass which he should rightfully do. I would have like to have seen those two have a battle mix-off or something like that rather than people being expelled. Gman, I respect your decision and think it was the right one considering the circumstances. MarkBe, keep rockin' it!
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quote:
Originally posted by Cosmic_Twin:

I think there are some people taking this thing way too seriously. MarkBe is being taken way too seriously. Honestly ask yourselves. Would an intelligent, erudite, forward thinking FAMILY man with a beautiful daughter on his back & in his heart jeopardize his life & his family for some that are willing to go to great lengths to silence him, even putting GMAN in a corner with legal wrangling just to see to it that his voice is not heard, maybe even lose sleep because he/they must have some kind of final word/action/repressive measure. I think there are some people who are seriously obsessed with the fact that they are not comfortable within themselves, that they have to project their lack of self. Regardless of who is right or wrong, it’s this need to exert power the only way they know how, with all the resources available to them, and using or abusing these resources in an unintelligent belligerent manner just for one man, just for one man’s opinion, just for one man who spoke his mind and wasn’t afraid to ruffle some feathers, wake up the sleeping giant within to face the demons that exist where few people dare to reach. Nobody put a gun to anyone’s head and said you must retort or you’re not a man, your manhood has been temporarily revoked. As a matter of fact, peaceful resolution through either complete silence or countering violent with non violent responses is very effective, since this medium of music is not so life threatening.

Maybe I’m being naïve in all of this but there have been many that have come to MarkBe’s defense, people that I have come to greatly respect because of their honesty, intellect, depth & breadth of knowledge, wisdom, common sense & realness. I highly doubt these people have any hidden agendas. MarkBe invited people down to his gig & he gets disrespected for being a businessman & a responsible parent that is obviously thinking about preparing his offspring for an uncertain future, made very real and in your face as of 9/11. The man is a serious intellect with a twist, the MarkBE twist as only MarkBE knows how & there are some that can’t deal with this. Get over it. Nobody cares about you anyway, certainly not MarkBe, and although I’m not speaking for him, would highly doubt that he’s losing sleep over this.

What is really disturbing is this desire for power, control & ultimate control by silencing ones right to express themselves, especially within the current climate of uncertainty, where basic civil liberties are being threatened & eroded minute by minute. This is a very real reaction to the times. People like ______are acting like dictators. This type of behavior is mimicking the ruling class’s. Think for one minute!!!!! All it takes is everyday people like you & me to approve of this shit & sooner or later down the line, public opinion polls will sway in the favor of the sissies because now we gotta be scared of people’s opinions. MarkBe said it best. “Think, it ain’t illegal yet”. The precedent being set here is a dangerous one & over what, some bullshit macho ego thing? Over some critique that was not addressed properly from the get because of inexperience in dealing with certain “character” traits which, SEEM difficult. If one is prepared to use force, verbal force that is, they better be trained in the art of knowledge of self. MartkBE is one confident & aware individual that seems to have his corner of the world in check. That to me is his only crime.

[ February 17, 2002: Message edited by: Cosmic_Twin ]


What he said.....This is the one of the best thought out responses I've seen written here....

Down with the politically correct.....when they can't get their way, they threaten legal action.

....liL Ray

[ February 18, 2002: Message edited by: liL Ray ]

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